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tRoOE:
LOL what a man do a woman can do it better

funny as heck!
haven't laughed so hard in a long time. **flicking away tears of mirth**

but seriously getting physical has never solved any problems. After fighting and wrestling a couple still has to get together, talk and come to a compromise over everything.

hopefully nigerian men and women (apparently women have started raping women!) will learn that house maids and adopted kids and relatives are off limits.

i guess its a case of been there, done that. there's dough to be made. let the students do the clubbing. its their time!!!

prince_onx:
You'll sound less Ignorant if you use that golden word "SOME"

instead of your Nigerian men bla! bla!! bla!!!

relax. my intent wasnt to generalize! quick to attack here! hard day?

i beg you please dont revive this thread. blood was almost shed here!

what are you? 16?
Incase you werent informed, when you decide to post on nairaland your opinion is subject to scrutiny.I must add that it  irks me when people think they are giving advice and don't know what the heck they are talking about. i'm done. Rant away!!!!!!!

tRoOE:
This is what happens when women wait still their late twenties and early thirty before thinking about settling down or planning to have a baby.


We women have to pay close attention to our body and health, maybe if she has seen her gynecologist early, they would have been able to help her and who knows what she has done in the past , i won't be surprise if she has been around the whole block

where does one even start to enlighten you? I'll just save saliva. this is an ignorant post.

please singles dont come and spoil our thread. which ones?  ;d

you really reap what you sow.
between the nerds and the popular jingos lie a vast untapped stata of correct guys. that's where 'spoilt' often went fishing. those guys are good looking, successful and a maybe just a teeny wee bit nerdy. They are perfect boyfriend/husband material. come without all the annoying drama too.

I have a strategy that works for me when picking guys. it has never failed me or let me down.I tend to avoid the loud, empty barrels as they have nothing to offer. The braggarts and ego inflated ones were also a no go area. The name droppers and brand name lovers got on my last nerves. **sigh** Thank Goodness my dating days are over.
When my single friends come crying with man trouble , i dont even know where to start advicing. their picks were bad from the get go.

hopefully nigerian men will learn that house maids and adopted kids and relatives are off limits. consensual my crusty feet.

The best advice i ever got from my obgyn was "leave your vagina the hell alone" .
she said often times women overwash that area because they've been told its 'dirty and smelly'. They wash , wash, scrub, scrub and even put fingers in to bring out imaginary dirt. all that throws your body out of balance and causes more problems for you. Soap has no business in that region. use only water. Take 2 bathes a day, change your undies often .silky underthings may get your man's blood boiling but its not good for you in the long run. stick to cotton panties if you can help it. you should be fine.
Also she said to lay off the anti-yeast creams for a bit and let your body find its balance. its called over treatment!

lol @ amalinze the cat.
seriously i didnt hear about benue women taking to the streets to protest this culture.

nwando:
turn here,shoulder,turn there "abunna"

nwando i dont believe you said that!
good grief. im blushing!

You'd be suprised that the wives may want the culture to stay!

The whole marriage thing for me has been a learning experience. It has taught me patience, self control and what have you. I've rediscovered myself and have had to grow up in a hurry. Anyway I am not in your conventional marriage.

4Him:
Marriage is like a prison cell with no windows. The jailor (sorry priest) locks u in and throws away the key.

if marriage is a prison, i dont ever want to be free!

oceanic

marriage is like a roller coaster. It has highs and lows. Nothing prepares anyone for the reality check.

when a man has any doubts whatsoever about you then its best you go find someone who is crazy about you. no need dragging him to the alter digging in his heels and screaming.

You gave general tips. Thought you were giving us your own experience.
Did you get picked?

®~^Sly^~®:
poster


i beg comot for my face. . .na yeye sisters full una church.
that lips we be like say u kiss the back of pot na him them dey die for. . .

see as the thing be like pormo

yeye . . . . . . . .

lips look like he scrubbed it against a charcoal blackboard.

what sort of thread is this?

no brainer.

A real father is like a candle that burns itself out to give light.
Denying himself everything so that the family does not lack.
being an umbrella protecting his women and children, showing his sons by example what a real man is like.

@ op
why the one week time frame? Do you have a pagaent or something coming up?
most of the get-fat-quick methods will clog your poor heart!
Why do you need more blubber? Are you relocating to alaska?