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onlyson16:
no i av nt. What do u mean by flushing. Where the water is comming from. Bro u need to hear the sound of this water.and it has strong odour.

check that word

onlyson16:
but i make use of condom. Am thinking if its not juju. This girl wore one kind chain in her waiste. Am just scare

Have you heard of the word "squirt".
Although it could be just flushing

emmnprince:
I have been thinking on how to balance the equation & you have balanced it for me!

I am glad

frozen70:
So he eats the same meals and the same reactions every day

You can find out more from him

That advice is what a timid person would take.

Why not tell her honestly that you notice you have running stomach when you eat her food. And after the confession you can reduce pressure by giving a suggestion as to the cause e.g maggi or you having a sensitive stomach.

From henceforth you can decide to accept or reject food.

holytribe:
If she slap you twice nko?

one thunder slap that brings stars is just enough. When in public girls dont back out. But a good slap leave a good memory

Oldoinyolengai:
Is there any man who is not into either of the following?

Drinking,

Gambling,

Womanizing,

Smoking.

I

Moikiitos:
Just prepare your belongings and tell her straight that she needs improve her cooking that she don't how. It will hurt but at least you're sincere. This action might send you packing right away or not. This action will I'll and she thank you for it some day for the courage you showed in telling her :/!

such an ill way of behavior. You are in no such position to do so, she is not your daughter nor your wife. Moreso you could be wrong in as much as you intend to tell her the truth.

It is better to simply tell her you notice you keep having running stomach anytime you eat her food. That is what we call honesty.
Afterward you could suggest maybe it is the maggi you uses.

Exceptional cases is if she confide in you and ask you for your honest opinion.

frozen70:
You don't really need to refuse her food

Just get tetracycline and flagyl on hand, once you eat you taje your drugs

so you keep taking flagyl everyday, what sort of advise is this

Sermwell:
I have cause to visit Lagos in order to secure the bail of a younger one who got into trouble. My cousin who stays in Lagos insisted I stay with him. He has a wife and 3 kids.

The problem now is that I don't think his wife knows how to cook!! I have had running stomach eating her food since 4 days ago. I tried to turn down her food last night but it didn't go well as she pleaded with me to eat which I did. I had stomach upset through out the night. I just can't imagine eating her food again till I leave.

Please how do I refuse her food without sounding offensive??

What sort of question is this?
Simply tell her
"Madam My stomach is full and I don't want to eat, Thank you".

Etinosa1234:

Php comes to mind

Donvic4u:
My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..

I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console

And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring

What should I do please.

Forget about the cry.
Rebuke people when necessary.
But that said rebuke comes in different modes, if she is the dialog type then use the right approach, if she is the one you have to shout then do some shouting. If it is the one that prefer you to ignore them then do.

What is important is that you don't take advantage of people or act violently to them.

On a lite note I think you should help your girl to grow on how to respond to critics. Else people would hack her emotions.

greatiyk4u:
This question is for both married and singles

How do you feel when you see your ex living larger than you especially when you were the one that dumped him/her?

Just met one yesterday living a miserable live with the husband and she has been sending some text messages of remorse and regrets

Share your experience

A gold digger will get intimidated when their partner start living large because they just missed a gold mine.

If you left because of money then you your torment just began

GIdiata:
bro all these daughters of Jezebel eh! Person gats take precautions

you better learn how the game works. You can't hide from the truth forever. Someday you will face it. Good ones are everywhere. But nothing good comes easy. Only the wise ones would know what is good.

cjwalter:
For me i don't see the reason for govt to cancel the show because it has already started and some people and some company's has invested money on it. I'm not a fan of BBnaija but some people are and is not by force to watch it there are other channels and program to watch on dstv.my concern is that govt should tax them and make something from the show and invest it bck to the society.

invest which thing?

achierosion:
Same old story, show us where u are burying those victims, at least their shallow graves like what Brazil, Italy, USA and other sane serious country deed not just 11 or 12 death with no sign.



Good morning Nigeria people.

Don't be deceived, Nigeria has little or no good data record of the actual number of infected people. Neither do Nigeria have the capacity to test it citizens or compile death related to corona virus efficiently.

honourable1769:
Get all these for just 2k

There is a line that say make 100k easily in that list!
And here you are begging someone to buy for 2k

F

One dummy

I prefer to watch her actions. Real men are not moved by mere words

jamalnation:
even if he had slapped her am certain it would produce the same reaction @bolded. i will never be in support of a man beating a woman but some action can provoke extreem reaction was she excepting the guy to fold his hand and just look at her like that.

A small handling isn’t gonna kill the girl. Although it is not easy to know when to stop especially when anger sets in. But last last If I don’t touch her the warning I will give her ehn.
I hate it when women try to act uncivil and expect me to behave civil.
No one has the right to harm anyone especially when such person has not harm anyone.

jamalnation:
that's the society we live in quick to judge not finding out what really happened if not for your intervation probably they would have been arrested

All said and done there is a bend to this issue o.
When ever in life when one find himself in a condition that is hard to narrate or people will not give you a chance, act wisely.

The guy in narration should have poured drinks on her and physically handle her in a way that don’t cause much injuries(Two solid slaps is enough).
But I see some guys tearing ladies clothes and punching ladies in the mouth and pushing them on the ground.
This attitude always leads to sympathy from onlookers.
So anytime we want to scratch our eye make we scratch am with sense.
Me I don’t support not defending ourselves o but let us do it with sense.

Alexgman1:
Am in a relationship with the only child & daughter of a traditionalist(herbalist). We are no more attracted to each other & she knows it. We are both fed up of the 3years old relationship. How do i break-up with her without hurting her or incurring the wrath of her dad?

bread and Zobo story

Meanwhile where are vanity preachers when we needed them the most

NockMedia:
Just make sure say you nor faint her with the slap oo!

haahhahaa

NockMedia:
Bro, nobody is disputing the fact that you are the MAN. An Alpha at that. You don't need to prove to her or yourself that you are the ODOGWU.

I understand you. Not all time sha. Only thing is that I hate when ladies get the wrong impression and want to take advantage of my civility.

NockMedia:
I hear you, bro

Naso o no time. As much as I play the nice card. I hate when people misinterpret it.

NockMedia:
LOL two wrongs don't make a right.

Very true at some point someone has to leave else one can harm one. As a guy I always leave first. But if a girl slaps me once I will return just one equal slaps before I back out.

NockMedia:
Walkaway from any and every potential confrontation with a lady.

No, when a ladies try to take advantage of you; protect yourself. One or two slaps is a good reset.
Although many people can’t control themselves so Yes they could take your advice.

NockMedia:
C'mon man, it doesn't work that way. We both know that ladies are the weaker sex. You're not only at a risk of severely hurting her but you also stand the chance of getting locked up. Regardless of whoever started the drama.

Deal with a lady same way she deals with you.

traware:
If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death

extremist.
Why not beat her in equal?

NockMedia:
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

No woman should raise her hand on a man also. The only difference here is that I will deal with a lady equally as she deals with me. No love found, No love lost.

careytommy37:
..
Then you should be running away from such people. Creating your own threads to teach people against their dangers not congregating in their midst.
What you are doing is like those 'Christians' that go to ashawo threads to preach.

so the Op is a redpill? And your uncle is Seun abi?
#DeathToRedPills
#spillTheRedPill

Arry110:
If you don’t like Bbn don’t open BBN threads, the hypocrisy is too much!,Foreign movies and phones even corrupt kids more, if you don’t like it avoid the threads, don’t watch it and stfu!, all this criticism stems from hypocrisy and jealousy, if you were given the opportunity won’t you go?, it’s pointless but it gives youth the platform to be rich and famous, you see them owning businesses after the show, owning clothing lines and the rest - creating employment and building naira stop refusing to see the bright side too. it’s gives those sound engineers, event planners and videographers job opportunities and money, make person progress no Dey pain una, na una wey go still use one eye Dey watch am even sabi all their names

why are you barking With all this epistle would anyone pay you a dime?