Mcslize: There are virgins no doubt but they are not up to 20%.
In today's world, you will see small girls of 15 and 16 years who have boyfriends of the same age bracket and have sex with their boyfriends.
Except few who have disciplined parents. Even at that, they feel caged and when they get to school they have that feeling of wanting to try out things and explore.
This can be confirmed by those who are still in school if there is no atom of truth in this post. Go higher institutions and see what's going on there. And who are deflowering these girls. It is still guys. That's why I said, looking for a virgin is not a sure ticket that such a person will be a good wife.
It is all about what you and the lady involved. Virginity doesn't guarantee fruitful marriage. And more girls are being deflowrwd every day. So who are they leaving those for?
Any guy that has ever deflowered a lady should not make it a do or die affair that he must marry a virgin.
Majority of men married their wives non virgins and they are still living well.
Feminist have this same ideology that good men are like 15-20℅ in the world.... I am sure neither your nor them have such formal evidence to back it up. Many people have sex on daily basis but shockingly many don't. Even some of my close friends think I have sex with about 80% of my ladies Friends which is about 20% the truth. The most decent of my friends are many times mistaken for the bad ones and the ones with the highest sex drive. I just feel people enjoys the thought rather than reality.
Mcslize: CaveAdullam in this era of boyfriend and girlfriend, it is hard to find virgins.
Any girl that pass through higher institution hardly get out a virgin.
In 100 levels, guys have started hunting for freshers. Some that enter as virgins get deflowered even before that semester ends.
That's why when you go to most higher instutions hostels, you will see boys and girls cuddling in open places, hugging and kissing.
It is not hard to find virgins, many girls are wayward so also many girls are principled.... You also are falling for the ideologies this so called redpill are spreading.... We have more bad girls I think. Many good and principled ones abound, there is no none method to locate them though. Learn the spirit of discernment(social intelligence) and the free from fear of been used(redpill) and aslo avoid been a dummy(SIMPS).
CaveAdullam: The Red Pill is not the "perfect truth," only God is. But you know what, the redpill has never failed to deliver. When I was on the other side of the fence, i labelled ubunja and the redpill mad until the scales started falling.
Reading the Rational Male will not automatically change you except you choose to and you are ready for the die hard truth no matter what. Neil Strauss might be an outlier, but if he lacks redpill awareness, Katy or sarah might f*** him up any day or time just as charles's wife.
As a man ready for marriage, strictly consider virgins only, in the age bracket of 18-22, 23 at most. In that category, getting a virgin woman will be less a herculean task compared to higher ages. A man must enjoy the youth and ageing o his beloved wife because the burden of marriage is upon him.
Don't marry, don't marry, don't marry, repentant hoes, because you are already on the loosing side of marriage and kids are your only comforts and joy.
There are virgins. Find and you will see. Men don't settle for less. Go for the best.
Virginity might not guarantee a long lasting marriage but did you checked statistics before spilling such nonsense?
OK simps, start wailing.
Everyone is theif, say the politicians
Every men are scum, says the feminist.
Every woman is a potential lesbian says a lesbian.
angelfallz: Download and read,The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity by Rollo Tomassi You'd truly understand what ubanja said about a woman being 2 different things to 2 different men. I also understand what you mean by genuine women.
shockingly I have read it. I fully understand what women being a mirror means. But here is the thing, not all of them are actually like that. And not all remains like that. Some would never be like that (extreme feminist who vows on male eradication). Redpillers put all in same basket
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bukatyne: Even time I read red pill, I laugh because it is not sustainable.
It is in stages: the Alpha Bleep of today is the Beta Bucks in the next ten years.
In the Alpha Bleep years, the guy might have lost the woman who truly loves and believes in him. At that stage, all he has are his visions and how to achieve them. He laughs at the Beta Buck until he realizes 20 years later, he has done same thing:
Hustled hard do he will get a wife that will 'respect' him aka Beta Bucks
Everything in this life has principles: any deviation most likely ends in tears.
I am glad someone else understands the complexity. Well said
Tallesty1: I think you and the guy you quoted are missing the OP's point.
This isn't about treating hoes as hoes and ladies as ladies. It isn't about not being nice to women because a certain lady somewhere said so.
It's something every male can relate to.
You've this lady you like, you're nice to her and you've done your best to make her understand that you love but she won't date you. She'd rather keep you as a friend so she can always get advice from you when her azzhole boyfriend fvcks her up.
And you are always there to give her a shoulder to cry on. If you no longer experience this, it means you no longer roll with ladies that are in this category. It means you date those that have passed through this phase but fact is, the phase exists.
In secondary school, the intelligent nice guy has the most female friends, but only the rough guys get the opportunity to press their breasts(sex was uncommon during our time)
What the poster is saying may not apply to all women but a lot of them are like that.
Read "The truth" by Neil strauss. He talked about how being a rough guy who gets every girl latter ends up been the guy who never settles for any girl. The tales of every player. The OP above is painting a picture of typical life style of ladies who are game players. But we have 7 billion people in the world. There are many ladies who aren't anything like that but the redpiller has this saying... "Every woman is hoe" and also goes "they just need the right man to bring it out". A view of a typical pímp man and women manipulator.
I have played a lot of games and at the end of the day I realized it just nothing but an extreme view. Yes it has some truth but it is also a facade for a a cult of people against women.
Mcslize: You are right. There are still some few good girls out there. That was why I said in one of my previous posts that we can't continue like this into marriage.
If we carry this mindset of maltreating a woman into marriage, we won't have a blissful marriage. There will always be quarrel and that will affect the kids one will have.
A situation where a man is being an ass hole and maltreating the wife will definitely affect the kids such men will have with their partners.
They will still end up being products of a broken home because the man chose to be an ass hole and not being able to control his home order than applying games and tactics on the wife.
People like that might end up divorcing in the end if the man is not able to be a responsible husband and father to his own family. That's why every man should apply wisdom when it comes to applying the redpill. If a man who truly wants to have a family of his own take the redpill too extreme, it can break his home and not enjoy a blissful marriage life.
As a guy, in as much as I don't take nonsense from the oppisite sex, I won't want to be an ass hole type of father or husband in the future to my partner. I should be able to earn the respect of my partner without applying tactics and games.
Having the knowledge of the redpill is good but aspiring husbands shouldn't take that into marriage as it has the possibility of shattering a marriage if not applied with wisdom to prevent one from having a broken marriage in the future.
well said. IMO I even advise most guys not to join the redpill bus. You may never know when you have gotten to your bustop. People should read social intelligence books. I recommend Neil strauss. He wrote "The game" which talk about being a game player. He wrote "The truth", the aftermath of a player life and the dead end of such road and how to keep important people you.
If we have people like this how come we don't see good makeup of fictional faces in our nollywood.
What worrys me most is that we see alot of talent scattered around everywhere but when it comes to time they would be needed, they are nowhere to be found.
Mcslize: I have taken time to watch the video and thanks for sharing.
Of course, no man will like to settle down with a damaged goods lady. That's why one needs to ask questions when choosing a life partner. Asking her about her past is very important. How many guys she has dated in the past and her sexual lifestyle. That will be able to help one make an informed decision.
But one thing is that every girl out there has her bad sides. Some may be homely but cannot run a home. Some know how to run a home but have anger issues. Others can run a home and support a man but are not good at managing resources. In essence, no man is perfect. One can never see a 100% perfect partner in this life unless the person will take clay and mould the partner he or she wants to settle down with.
That is why at one point or the other , we will make compromises on some stuffs just to accommodate a partner into our lives.
As far as a lady is not into runs in her past life, like those that do runs, I won't outrightly condemned those that have dated 3 to 5 persons in the past as damaged goods. I can't say same for those that are intentionally into runs.
I can term those as completely damaged goods. Most of those type of girls do those stuffs due to the bad influence of friends and broken homes. They start staying with friends that are into such stuffs and before they realize it, they are into the street doing runs online. There are so many of them. Of course, I won't go for such type of girls.
But for those that merely dated like 2 to 4 guys at some point in their lives, I can't actually term such as damaged goods as far as they never at some points took hoeing about as a full time job.
If one is lucky to see a virgin to settle down with which you and I know hardly exist, such a person will be a bit lucky than those who married non virgins if only her character is perfect.
But in all these, the so called women I can categorically termed damaged goods are those that are into runs. For marriage, such are a no go area.
But for others who merely dated one guy at a time in the past and still homely can be excluded from that list and are still perfect to be chosen as life partners. This is my lil input.
Besides, thanks for sharing the video.
I didn't even bother to watch the silly video. Don't give them any long epistles. They are nothing but a group of cult youth who has wants to pry over women. The end of their journey if they ever get there is to become a love-vendor. A person who control women's and pry over them. There are genuine women in the world who are not hoes but redpiller fill in most mind youth that they are all same. They create an atmosphere of women as potential enemy when in reality it is nothing but a mirage. I advise all youth to learn social intelligence and avoid lady and guys who play relationship games. Entering the business of paying back women is the philosophy of the so called masculine occult society. Real men are not SIMPS, AFC nor are they redpillers. Real men are normal people who wants mutual respect.
Ensure you take the above serious when you're looking for a woman for a long term relationship. Don't compromise on it, E GET WHY.
Cc: stanliwise Mcslize
I dont need any fucking redpill to spot women who don't play games. A game player can sniff another player from a mile away. But when next you meet genuine people don't play the smart guy on them.
Ladipamela: I've been pondering over this question for sometime now and I decided to ask.
Cheating is fast spreading in our society today. Both genders are found wanting in this. Most people want a perfect relationship not having it in mind that nobody is perfect and we all have our flaws and imperfections.
Most people cheat because of lack of effective communication and attention.
Am sure there are more reasons out there so I need your contributions here because knowing a problem is part of the strategies of solving it.
Your opinions are highly welcomed.
People based on many factor 1. misinformation and peer pressure 2. curiosity and exuberance. 3. Because it is an addiction. 4, Covetousness ( inability to be satisfied with what you have). 5. We are humans
Mcslize: That's exactly the point. Every man will one day want to have a family of his own and when that time comes knocking, one can't actually put up his player's mode with the one he wants to settle down with.
90% of girls out there have dated at least 3 to 5 guys and more. And if we continue to be play boys, it simply means we don't want to settle down at all and have our own kids.
And among all those ladies, men still pick some deserving ones as wives to fulfil nature call.
That doesn't mean the man won't command respect from the one he wants to settle down with.
Every one time player shouldn't be a novice on how to handle his wife to earn her respect.
In essence, there is stage where a man will get to, he will just have to drop the player mode, settle down and still earn his wife respect.
Highly seconded. But some followers of a redpillers thinks it should last forever. well said.
Mcslize: Of course, there is the hoe phase in every lady. That's why if you look very well, ladies between the age of 18 to 24yrs always live in fantasy.
They hardly have a realistic view of what they want in life. They want to get all the attentions so much that it makes them think irrationally.
They don't have clear cut of what life entails in general that's why they waste away their youthful age jumping from one dick to another.
Now, we hardly have virgins. If we should hold all of them accountable for how they hoed around during their youthful age, all men won't want to settle down.
But procreation must continue. At a time, you just have to fulfill nature call by settling down with the one that is not completely damaged.
As it is now, virgins are rare to find. You will hardly come across virgin girls these days.
And as a guy, you will not continue to toy around with all those girls so u must still in one day want to settle down except for those that just want to be baby Fathers.
And when that time comes to settle down, you won't actually put up your player's mode with the girl u want to have as a partner.
That's why lots of guy still get married today. If you are between the age of 30 to 40 as a guy, a time will come when u will want to have your own family and when the time comes, you will not because that a lot of ladies hoed around at their primes not to settle down and fulfil the one very nature mandate of procreation.
For those that will want to have a family of their own will still marry irrespective of the fact that so many girls hoed around in their youthful age. That doesn't mean, you will be a simp. You merely just have to fulfil nature call.
Same idea I now believe. After being the play guy and playing all the girls I think are not as smart as I am, I later discovered I would need to pick a wife someday. Now my new philosophy is that if I find someone who wants to be genuine with what they want then I too will come out genuine too. There will always be an end to playing relationship games someday.
ubunja: good luck in life. See you on the flip side.
Same for you too, I know you are the author of the so-called red-pills on nairaland. As much as your opinion seem effective against some set of women. It is very dangerous when used against genuine people in ones life. I rest my case.
ubunja: guess you don't know a woman can be two different things to two different men. A woman is a mirror. She becomes what you expect women to be. Keep up please
The Red Pill is eternal. Death to simps.
Not true, a hoe is a hoe, it doesn't matter how she treats me. By hoe I mean someone who play mind games. Try as a red-pill taker to know when a lady is not in for games and when she is for games. Playing games on genuine people could be a regret of a lifetime. I have been there before and I regretted it so much.
etrange: Until you learn to treat people individually based on their personalities and not collectively based on their gender, you might just keep running in circles. If you meet your girl somewhere in the world and decide not to treat her nicely because some girl on social media who is "one of them" has said so, you'll have yourself to hold responsible for whatever turn your relationship takes.
You are celebrating this post cause it is from one of them but the numerous posts from many of them that say you should treat them nicely are forgotten. Fact is, you only picked this cause it appeals to your already structured line of thought.
If you're not nice, you're not. If you're nice, you won't think about it before being nice to your lover. If your being nice sends her away, thank your stars and look for someone receptive of your nice nature. And if you're not nice, someone who likes un-nice guys will gladly take you. Just don't claim you're doing it for the ladies, you are who you are.
Strange as it sounds you made alot sense. I know many wouldn't try to understand what you mean especially the guys that has declare their pills red. or the ones who has been dealt with mercilessly by hoes and gold-diggers. Their line of thought has entered a defensive mode and they decide to hate women with all their might.
Red pills are for ladies who play games. There are ladies who don't play games and are genuine, but red-pill advise the boys to throw all of them into same basket thereby creating an occult of men who will regenerate the same event that led to the creation of our so called women protestant "The feminist". Red pills will not solve man-women problems, instead it will only lead to mutation of new kind of women resistant and strange feministic behaviors from women.
As for me I am out of this general opinion of people. "Style" From "The game" remains my mentor till date. I like his philosophy because he among all other PUA encourage people to treat hoes as hoes. and ladies as ladies. same with David Angelo. I don't think it is nice to place all gender into same basket and treat them in a particular manner all in the name of not been called a "SIMP". Doing this is nothing but turning the table around and becoming the male-versions of the hoes and gold diggers you complained about. You treat both the genuine and nicest people with bad omen and attitudes, play games with ordinary people, Bleep hoes and typical ladies.
At the end of the day you find it difficult to build trust and you later enter a mode of distrust for all women. Same women you will later pick a wife from, And until you are 50 you will keep changing women one after the other because they will all leave at a certain point due to your insecurities and constant unfaithfulness.
YelloweWest: But if a girl slaps a guy and he beats her up, hitting her multiple times its fair game abi?
No it's not. I am a big proponent to "ending violence against women and girl child". But as much as that I don't advise women to go into violent challenge with men. It is such a poor choice to make, a decision you will later regret.
Goodybagyo1: Him just see you chyke you,you no gree Come poison you? How manage? How can you eat somebody's hard earned money and think you'll just go free. For IB wen I know
were you under duress when spending the hard earn money?
gypsey: yea! you know me too well, don't you? the difference between you and I is i don't wait for ignorant people to lecture me, i find out for myself through experiences and if you have never had any experiences then just move along and let me carry on with my lifestyle, i don't remember asking you for help. again, why it would bother you i don't get.
gypsey: my point was even my doctor smokes weed so could anyone.
Well.. i don't drink paracetamol or cough medicine even when i am sick.. yes! thank you! i will smoke all i want
in your own intelligent mind you still believe that " a sentence like "protecting your ego" makes sense? i wonder what the connection with me smoking weed and protecting my ego is then again even morrons believes they are intelligent, no qualms, i am unintelligent if you say so
I have kids and i don't smoke near my kids, my parents do not smoke or drink but that didn't stop me smoking weed so forget the smoking near my kids suggestions. do you drink beer? if you do , do you drink near your kids? is drinking beer good for you?
what some of you so call "intelligent" people never bothers to do is researches, if you have done researches you would find that the problem isn't smoking marijuana it is the ABUSE of it, i sniff cocaine occassionally that does make me an abuser of cocaine, you would also find that alcohol does more damages than weed when abused just like sugar, wine, paracetamol, cough medicine, pain killers, champaigne or beer.
For your information i might know more about drugs than you do, i have experienced they whole lots from cocaine, heroin, cracks, speeds, meths you name it.
So i don't need lecturing, thank you!
I started to even pity you when you said you don't smoke in front of your kids and also your parent don't also. It shows you were a product of peer pressure. I hope you live up to expectation for those people.
YelloweWest: Next time if a guy slaps you, go straight for his balls.
Its fair game!
Don't o, he might punch shit outta you and redesign your face o. If a guy slap you and e too pain you. Get him arrested. Legal system are very swift to defend women in modern society. I advise male escort you to make the report because policemen can be ridiculous . Also grabbing a guy ball because of slap is not a fair game IMO
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