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0rion:
Hahaha

Attracted to an olosho. If she's attracted to the op she wouldn't come up with that idea of becoming a part time prostitute.

The op should just p1mp her

yea that is the idea but this time Op is attracted to the wrong person. Attraction works not based on your selection but because you just happen to like someone you are not suppose to. Op should dump her I agree but he needs the psychological Power for that.

0rion:
FREE HER.


BUT YOU TOO CAN STILL BE FRIENDS OR FUCKBUDDIES

SO WHEN SHE GO DO OLOSHO MAKE MONEY YOU CAN BOTH SPEND THE MONEY AND RECOVER SOME OF YOUR MONEY BACK

Easier said than done. Anyone can do this to any random girl but not someone that your are attracted to.

faithful12911:
Runs means ashawo work

Crownedrookie = bunnae = homo!!

You don’t understand the person is been sarcastic

Ashawosboifrien:
I am deeply pained, I use to make a lot of money before the lockdown. Infact there was a day I and my babe spent 40k inside the club. I did not save much. During the lockdown she was arrested. I and her had to pay through our nose. I lost most of my clients. We all agreed that she should move out of her accommodation to a new place which cost a lot of money. Today she asked to see me and told me she wants to start runs till December to solve family problems and get money to rent a shop (she is very skilled in hair making). She said after then she will stop. She said is not breaking up with me and will still have my time. But I can leave if I want. I could not say a word, just begging her to give me a chance to make more money. I work and I give her something every month. But I have the believe that when dating you should invest in your self. So I have a project for the future which she is aware but can't wait. The problem is I can't stop hallucinate about other men pounding her. How do I move on.

Get a new girl and thank me later.

Entanglement

IF you think you don’t care about the video please gather here

joviegghead:

What a joke!
I kinda like the guy tho. He not the kind of regular/orthodox preacher. He's more. An entertainer!

Life shouldn't be taken too seriously. God should def have his place(for dem religious fanatics) . So should fun. Even jesus attended feast/parties and social gathering and had fun .

I expect some people to start their holier-than-thou criticism of the guy now.

To me he his practicing another religion and not anything close to what was described in the holy book.

Coldfeets:
Look at this young man!

You are still hoping abi praying for a better platform that someone else probably has to create for you abi?

Someone seeing you condemning me earlier might think you are the Elon Musk of our time!

Meanwhile...

In reality, You are probably just a struggling young man probably hoping on government to pay you Npower allawee.

It's really a Pity.

My better platform is anywhere in the world that I will flourish.

You think by calling Npower you can make a point? I don’t play does simple mind games.

Someday I will be side by side with the likes of Amazon, Facebook and Google coders with the pace I am going.

I don’t need to tell you about my self but all I know is time to come I will have to leave Africa society. It may never give me the platform to grow to my best. So when I was saying good platform I basically wasn’t referring to Nigeria.

darkolo:
you're moving to your doom u say you're moving forward. Brother When you read the books of revelation then you'd know what I mean

oga easy na. Na every advancement be doom? Haba I tire for una o

Bomboiy:
Which of the goat are you talking about? Ewu awusa or isiewu? Because he is definitely not the greatest of all time.



A penalty and tap in merchant can never be the GOAT.

you can wail all you want but Ronaldo will keep doing wonders

Coldfeets:
Who cares?

Abeg who glory epp?

The worst part be say with all the shaming wey you dey shame since, still you sef never invent any meaningful thing.

In fact oga, you are the true definition of a shameless man.

I am not in the medical line and in my own line I dey do as body fit reach, I pray for a better platform someday.
But I won’t stoop so low to talk this kind of una talk, people dey do better una Dey yarn off point

mytime24:

nice observation don’t mind Op

Coldfeets:
I support you.

After all na dem create am.

So make dem also find a cure.

Our own na to just dey watch dem destroying themselves.

Wen una go get sense for this country. Countries all over the world in the news day in day out with update on research.
Naija hand nor dey anyone yet some ignorant people like una go still dey yan kpatakpata. I Dey shame for us I swear.

Almost all the so-called vaccines you use today are they not the one producing them. Like you said our own na to fold hand dey look until them go shock the world bring cure and claim the glory.

Sunofgod:
Good for them....let them experiment on their kids.....and we will monitor the side effects!

see this clueless Blackman. All you know is to use the cure when it is available. When are we gonna lead the world as Africans??

☠️

desiredhome:
When they tell you prayers/faith without work is dead some of you prayer warriors will be arguing nonsense.........
Onne and Eleme road are dead trap in Rivers State, with all the trailer in Nigeria on a very bad road and people are dying everyday on that road .....same Niger Delta region that the criminals are embarrasssing themselves on world television.......

keep praying while the people looting will continue to looting.....

Sensible comment

GudluckIBB:
People should stop showing off on Social Media

how is the show off got anything to do with her accident ?

@Olamila
For the fact you are afraid to loose her then you will eventually loose her.

heendrix:
Omg bro where are u based?

am a lag guy

Heathrow44:
Well that she said the truth is a ploy to get pity and sympathy from u and in d process u lose control and get emotional and leave ur sense of judgement for pity! If she was really forth coming with d truth she wouldav said it to u long before u both started getting serious, she has seen ur weakness and made sure that u loved her to a fault b4 bringing out her olosho past! Mr. Man do urslf a favour and dump that girl and get urslf a good woman u like that isn't married, save urslf all d drama of single mothers, this girl is trying to press ur mumu button and she's trying to play smart but she has fish brains and u should tell her and show her that, u re too young to get into a Ist marriage with this nuisance, ur kids deserve to grow up in their own homes without having to fight with step sons and daughters, save ur kids drama, don't let love kill u and turn u into a shadow of urslf! This woman don't love u, she's using u to take care of herself and kids monetarily! Av u ever asked urslf y the two men that she had this kids with y they are not taking care of her?? Or y she hasnt gone to dem? Mr. Man Ubunja has talked about this many times of how women use men to meet their financial needs when they need sex they go 4 d bad boys, she was promiscious during her young age given her best self to those two men and all of a sudden wants to sell her rotten body to u, she should stay on her own after all there re many self made independent single mothers like her all over d world, her's isnt any different! Don't fall 4 this cheap scam done by Nigerian girls and their counterparts in Europe and north America, she's trying to scam u and make u feel pity for her, if u want t knw how she really feels abt u, tell her u aren't marrying her again, watch her closely and u will see all of a sudden she would continue her olosho business and get another guy to marry her and this tym she wont make d mistake of telling the man she's a single mom! Don't fall for that lie that she's a good woman that's y she told u the truth, that's what she hoped to achieve by telling u d truth, to see her as pure and mean well for u whereas she's just a cold blooded psychological manipulator, she's psychologically manipulating u and this time with Sex and Self pity and sympathy, ! Don't fall in love with her caring or any nonsense she's doing, she has done it b4 with those other men, so she's already a pro in those areas, u can't compete with single moms that has tasted dicks all over cos they've been there, they've done that, she should take care of the kids she born, after all nobody forced her to open her legs and not to use condom if she wasn't ready to be a mom!

well said but there is the slight bending on the angle of not having anything to do with single mother. One angle is that she didn’t go on the abortion spree and she did a responsible thing of having the child. So what is the bias here? That she should have aborted too? It is not our headache?

There is a lot of gray areas about single mother but if I would advise any man venturing there, I would advise he go with a single mother who is independent, meaning before his arrival the independent mother is doing so fine by herself and her wanting to fall in love is not a ploy to find someone to overtake her responsibility.

At the end of the day nobody holy pass.

For this specific case though Op should jump and pass if there is nothing the said lady can offer him. Because I feel the lady wan use emotional tactics on him.

lastclaire4:
I agree with some of the things you wrote but "why did she wait for marriage proposal" that is a part of her life that brings regret. You dont expect to tell everyone of some things until you have gained their trust. Some people will act like you will always have their back but when the chips are down the story changes. It is not that easy to say things. Have you ever met any girl that will tell you she aborted just like that? But these are same girls getting married every week and that part is between them and God.

I don’t mean she go telling people about herself but it should happen when before the go into a romantic relationship. The two children are her children, it should be among the first things the man should know before relationship kicks in.
The necessity of two men could come later like when the said guy wanna know more. The tactics this lady is sort of using is to make the guy fall into love then tell him so that he can blindly overlook it.

GIdiata:
I was actually waiting to see something sensible as this.
God bless you Man. thanks for telling the Idiots that commented before you that she didn't do him a favour.

NIGERIANS are so used to bad things, drunk in EVIL that when someone does the right thing, he/she gets accolade for doing the right thing.

she's that good and she had to wait till marriage proposal to tell him d truth. hear her; are u sure u will marry me? knowing fully well she isn't very clean, she decided to make him swear allegiance before revealing the truth. holding him to ransom emotionally. she's just looking for pity Expecting to be considered out of pity.
at least she told you d truth na

women and emotional black mail abi trying to hold someone to ransom emotionally and at the end they will always blame men. just like a woman demanding for favour when d guy is almost closed to penetrating during sex and if he says yes and doesn't fulfill it, she will cry d guy used her.

boys like me Sha, thank God no serious relationship only friends with benefits and flirting

Lol at the bolded, why are you been thankful for not having a serious relationship?

flyingpig:
e no know say the idiot OP na bored troll. E dey claim say e be medical student look at all her threads discussing sexuality wetting she don open concerning health

Na her headache be dat!. nairaland and lies are like 5 & 6. Anyone should believe what they read at their own peril.

Pjay09:
Hi imade,u r a gal of ur own class,open minded nd free spirited.its actually a gud tin buh dnt let it get into ur head.keep exploring new horizon buh be careful who u r dealing wit cos sum guys r chameleon. Stay safe nd smooth sailings.

You are a disappointment to manhood. see the way you focus dey advise a male troll camouflaging as a male. mtchewww

Successfullion1:
Iniesta and XAVI

You tried sending me a mail

Ariza:
Lol... Alright then.

Good night

Ariza:
Lol would that mean anything to me? Lol

certainly not! But for record sake.

Ariza:
What I don't/won't do I don't expect from others. Moreover the way it was asked was annoying.

Hmmm I would want to say "rare gem" but until reality sets in, I could be hasty.

Ariza:
So lady no fit make you talk plenty? ;DThat's discrimination! Ladies lives matters too!

hehehe Yes it matters. By the way the topic was matter for men . Most girl should have been on the opposite side which shockingly you are not

Ariza:
Lol... Okay maybe when huge money is involved. BTW I'm a lady nah husband I go get no be wife.

Na wa o. You be lady come dey make me talk plenty haba!

Raymeskey:
Nice one
But the opposite of the bolded is my secret, it has helped me a lot. How?
When in a place a pretty lady comes in or I met her, I would pretend as if no one is there, I wouldn't start a conversation but deep down me I like her and I will like us to talking but I wouldn't show it. Others maybe trying to get her attention I wouldn't. After some time or about going I will initiate a conversation by now she is out of plan and I caught her unaware she isn't expecting it. If I ask for contact it comes immediately.

Note ladies hate being ignored especially when they wear their best cloth and make up. Do this at first then later approach her she will be uncomfortable and answer all your request. But you maself go dey package well o

Bro you are very right. Prolly I didn’t type it very well.
What I mean is when you approach a girl don’t act like you are not up for relationship and you are up for something else. E.g some guys comes like they want to be a friend or by so the fall into the friendzone.
It is better to come like you wanna know her without being aggressive or any PDA whatsoever, you have to show some attitude that you are on for romantic vibes.
Reason is most girls know that you like dem from day 1 but what most guy do is
1: They pretend like they didn’t come for the cookie.

OR

2. They act aggressive and too predictably by showing weird signal like smiling too much or being so anxious and even requesting for number
.
A perfect style is to approach her in a situation that seem normal and get her attention in a way of not anything related to relationship and so. Show value and leave an Impression and at the end of the day you could have her number or end up having a rapport.

RIP