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WeedSeller:
I specifically dropped what the word entails in this context afterward in brackets.

The summary of him acting " mad " isn't case of grammar and the primary meaning of what it entails in actual situation.

In summary. Being mad in this situation doesn't v to be hardcore or forceful, It's about getting the phone back as against maturity advices being given to be applied.

It depends if he bought the phone for her just for her to bend to his appeal then fine. If not I see no reason why collecting the phone is any need. If it is something you can give out why all of a sudden you now need it. It just prove your ulterior motive. Different strokes sha

Mannyemmy:
The client paid me 250k. Site already has up to 15 subscribed users and the minimum subscription plan is #500 and maximum is #3000

speak to any lawyer friend you know for advice.

Enugupikin:
Please collect your phone OP...there is nothing like immaturity here..she's a scammer

You labeled the girl op describe as a scammer not the girl in reality. OP could just be an AFC. So look before you leap

WeedSeller:
To hell with "maturity" being emphasized by some monikers above.

Maturity doesn't really count in this case. At some point in every man's life, you have to put maturity in confinement and act like a mad man. (mad man in the context of not accepting shits)

Be wise. Advices are the easiest to give on a faceless forum most esp from people who would definitely do worse and won't even bother to seek public approval before collecting back.

This is what practically happens when men allow love to becloud their brain too fast.
You and Emotional trauma would definitely be 5/6 for months everytime you remember you don fall mugu. Girl legit use you catch Cruise.






Whatever decision you take at the end kindly make sure it doesn't portend any physical harm.

There is no gain in acting mad over your own mistake. When he was buying the phone for her! Was he under duress? So why not take responsibility and accept your own fault. You act mad when someone try to suppress you not when you foolish take a wrong action. If he wants his phone let him just ask the girl plainly and get it. Nothing like acting mad is necessary here

You can go ahead, you lost your property, but if you can take the headache of the slow Nigeria process then good. Also how much worth is the files and data you lost?

meobizy:
There are many things more loyal to a man than a woman ever will turn out. A hundred-kilogram barbell will never lie to you about its weight. A green bottle of alcoholic beverage is your friend through thick and thin. Your palms never run out of stamina to please you, and although a dog can get tricked — most will give up their life to physically defend you from harm.

But None of them is a woman and they can never be!

DenreleDave:
Ever since I land for here, I have always known one lady here.. She respect herself, she doesn't insult.. She get class, she get sense.. Very productive unlike some others. ( sis Dande55 abi sis paxie and one evening newspaper called mama millenniumlady I greet una ooo )


The most prettiest girl on Nairaland is Makydebbie

Not just in beauty but she get sense... Unlike some of our sisters called Onyi22 amatarasha and some other ones that only constitute nuisance here....


Makydebbie. God bless your new age.

Happy birthday Makydebbie .. Some guys are frustrated, leave them... They have been like that since they were born jealousy and hatred is their surname


U r so adorable.....

Coman see gbagbos going left and right

The most dumb thread I have ever read in my life.

All sort of medical scammer running to this thread like!

etoluw:
You must be mindful of the fact that this site has never worked.

It is a different issue if it was operational and due to some updating/editing etc a bug was discovered.

Debugging codes u didn't write yourself is not easy unless there is proper commenting/documentation.

The codes were not written by aliens. The simple thing I need to understand is what and what the site is doing. Refactoring of codes are mostly not done by the original coder. There is nothing hard in reading codes. It could take a week but it is doable.

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InfinityFabric:
Demolition, destruction, annihilation. U simply cruised away with this.

I tell you. OP is nothing but a secondary ss2 student. Babe dey even dey masturbate and him put hand for cheek carry pop corn and watch blue film while been naked for up to 10mins. And came to Nairaland to lie to us that he later had sex. SMH

etoluw:
Most serious programmers will to start afresh than to start debugging code you did not write yourself[sub]

Most serious programmers will prefer to start afresh than to debug code they did not write themselves.

I enjoy refactoring people code. That’s one of the thing I love doing as a coder.

And what you said is very wrong. Only quack start afresh. Serious programmers refactor and keep building.

Texti65:
Bro..
Like you said invite her over and collect your phone, use force if possible.

She's already seeing you like "maga ".


Guys, don't show love to Nigerian girls, they are evil and heartless.
Treat them like thrash and they. will love you more
I'm taking from experience.

Stop this mentality. Because you met the bad eggs doesn’t justify to advise people to act same. You should have learnt better from your experience, next time treat anyone whether girl or boy with same amount of seriousness they treat you like.

wizzyrich:
I want to know, is the Nigerian "Allah" different from that of UAE and other developed Islamic countries ?

They are same, Religion are put in check by the Goverment of a society. If not it can consume the society with false ideology and discipline most especially by extremist preachers and fanatics. Syria, Afghanistan, Iran and more and war torn area by Islamic sects and groups

goodysb:
Hello Everyone, I met this girl about a month ago (same day her phone got missing) and we started talking etc... She usually calls me every morning, afternoon and night(and I would call her back too) using her senior sister's phone... I would get her anything she wants, treated her well.... We would talk and I noticed how she was behaving and thought she'd be straight with me, so I told her I would get her the phone by month end... Not that I couldn't get her the phone the next day but I just purposely delayed it(3 weeks) and when month end came I added extra week to see how she reacts and then I got her the phone but since I got her the phone she just changed and stopped doing all she used to do, I noticed and played along to see where she's heading to... It's more than a week since I got her the phone and I noticed she hasn't changed... I thought about giving her a second chance and then she did something that annoyed me... I sent a very angry voice note and some messages but she didn't reply for about a day and I thought of it and noticed she was playing a game, so I said I would play along too... So I acted dumb and called her to apologize that I said what I said out of anger(To me I really mean it) and explained to her that I listened to the notes and didn't find it interesting (I never did), so what I am doing now is I want to get what I gave her back because noticed a very big change and again because she might be telling her friends that I don chop this guy(which I don't like hearing), so after our argument, I already predicted that she'd want to ask me for something after two days and truly she asked me this morning for money to buy slippers of 4k... I didn't want to show any signs that I am aware of what she's doing.. so I told her.. let's be looking sha (which means I will get it)... So I planned to play along and take her out of our environment to somewhere that's calm, so I would then collect the phone back from her and give her her sim card.

P.s. I predicted it might play out like this but wanted to test her to see... Could have gotten her an iPhone.


I would really appreciate you guys input �

The worst thing anyone can do is to give people gift because you are in a relationship with them and not because they worth it, and if things goes sour you then want your gift back.

First thing first, you gave her the phone as a gift, let it be, the most immature thing you can do is for you to collect it back.

She owes you nothing for buying her a phone and don’t expect she behaves like the way you wanted.

Next time don’t act angry if she misbehaves, it only shows your immaturity and high level of frustration. If a girl finds out their actions frustrates you then you are done for. Act angry only when she is trying to play with your intelligence or don’t keep to what she promised or when she does something physical to you. Other games of silent and not answering calls shouldn’t make you act angry even if you are truely angry. If e too pain just simply state it to her in a calm tone once and leave it.

She asked you for something and the worst reply you gave her in this context is that let’s see. I call it timid. Simply tell her you don’t have the money or you can‘t get it now and don’t promise her any date. Giving a girl is your decision and purely your decision don’t let anyone push you.

Now she has the guts to ask you for phones and slippers, mirror same energy and guts and ask her exactly what you want, if you want a relationship, be bold and brazen. Ask her! If she don’t want to agree to your terms then fine you too act lackadaisical to her own terms too.

Stop feeling low and ashamed your are been played, if she is telling her friends what you think then let it be. Once bitten twice shy.

From now stop putting her only in your basket, be open minded and seek any other female available.

Please give her just the same attention she gives you. If she start showing 40% readiness, then you too 40%. Just ensure you sometimes take the lead in doing thing and wait for her to reciprocate before another one.

Please please leave the phone for her. Next time she does something obviously wrong, I mean obviously wrong which doesn’t warrant a physical reaction just jejely call her and tell her without any show of anger in your face. Then forget it. Only in cases where issues are severe you should act angrily. E.g she cheat on you or lie to you or steal from you or implicate you. Aside this moment don’t act angrily in front of a girl it gives her a sense of Unnecessary importance And shows your frustration.

Next time don’t ever give people something in-expectation that they would behave nicely, the best moment to give someone a gift is when you realized they need it, either because you noticed it or they inform you about it. At all cost avoid giving people things that are not necessary especially when it come to a girl that thinks you admire her. And your giving should be based on your own agreement not out of persuasion.

Girl are complicated

Abbeyme:
And how do we plan to make leaders that cannot solve half of the problems in JAMB and want that person to solve a third of the problems of Nigeria

You see why our graduates are half-ready from the source??

please far from that don’t blame people with bad performance yet. The educational system is in a bad shape.

lanocfoods:
You are so right I also noticed same since I use the weekly plan too. What I know do is sub midnight with airtel since it is the same 500mb for 50 naira. All these telecom coy are bunch of criminals

next time switch off your phone and turn it on when night browsing time reach

GeoAfrikana:
I'm so angry right now. As you can see, I'm creating this post in the middle of the night.

There are many negative things people say about MTN. Sincerely, I've always given them an open mind but tonight I discovered something very terrible about them

Summary:
When you subscribe for night data, MTN doesn't only deduct from your night data balance, they also deduct from your main balance.

Explanation
For long I've been using the MTN pulse plan. I buy 1.5gig weekly. But because I usually need to download tutorials from YouTube I support my data with their 500mb midnight plan.

I've always noticed that my 1.5gig doesn't last long. Within five days (sometimes three days) my data would have finished.

I spend a lot of time online but there's no way my daily usage can reach 400mb. Most of my time online is on WhatsApp, searching google for information and staying up to data with industry gists on Twitter.

This night I subscribed to the MTN night plan, then used their app to check my balance before browsing. If you use the mtn night data regularly then you know there's no way to check your balance with USSD.

Luckily for me, the MTN app shows the night balance. So I was able to monitor both my main data balance and the midnight balance.

Guess what I found?
MTN was deducting from both accounts simultaneously.
No wonder, this is the snake that has been stealing eggs from my poultry.
I was so angry that I wanted to remove the SIM but I decided to collect evidence before removing their SIM.

Below are two screenshots. I took the first before downloading a video from YouTube. The video is 48mb.

Then I took the second screenshot after the download had completed.

As you can see, MTN didn't even touch my night data again. They deducted virtually everything from my main balance.

This is so painful. I feel cheated.

Next time when time for Night browsing Reach. Switch of your phone and turn it on again. Or put it on plane mode and switch back.
You can switch off data off and then on again. Sometimes the system doesn’t make the switch except there is a break in connection then the system updates it’s record. It happens even on Glo

Vulcanheph:
What you guys don't realise is that MTN is very trickish and deceptive, so you have to use your head when dealin with them......best thing to do is use another network for your main monthly Subscription and use them only for night plan, since i discovered that this is what they do, I don't do night sub when i already have an existing sub, so i just sub with my 9mobile and browse during the day , then i Switch over to night sub on MTN and use it at night.

tricky not trickish. No pun intended

EngtTemmy:
Alright, i get your point.

But i will prefer one to use learn css and JavaScript well. Bootstrap doesn't really sharpen your skills. I am a fullstack person, I have come to dislike it.

no qualms.
Me personally I don’t like a lot of tools and library flying around. But wetin man go wey no time no dey. Bootstrap has one the large documentation and a very large community. It is hard to ignore many times.
Anyway I am a backend dev so I barely use bootstrap at all.

Ayekotoo:
None of them went to school outside the Southwest.

Tribalistic argument has started, dont you guy have anything else to talk about?

EngtTemmy:
He is right, the browser have to download all the jQuery and css files making browsing speed to reduce

dont let me laugh, how large is css and jquery files compare to media files in website.A better argument would be performance of script while working and as far as I know Bootstrap have been very well optimise to have little performance issue

Chuzoetoh:
Stanliwise, or Stanlifool.

A wiseman knows which to pick

Chukwudaalu:
It is not necessary. know your CSS grids and media queries very well. Bootstrap often reduces the loading speed of webpages. I personally don't use it.
However, bootstrap makes your Web development project faster especially if you are a full stack developer.

please what are you saying Bootstrap reduce speed?
Hmmmm

FeliciaOja:
You are right to an extent.
Some of these alien beings that Visited had other agendas aside from collecting resources.
Some but not all just a sizable group of alien that hijacked this opportunity to enslave and cause havoc on mankind. These aliens were reffered to as demons while the good aliens where reffered to as angels.
These 2 groups constantly fight for control of human beings. This is true as chief priest started contacting bad aliens for favour instead of the good aliens.
The bad aliens gave these evil set of chief priest magic to kill,haunt or spiritually attack someone.
Not all are evil, their physical appearance is not of this world that's what makes them look scary.
An octopus looks scary too does that make it a demon??

Just because it makes sense doesn’t mean it is true. Other religions have their own explanations for this same phenomenon. By the way where are your proof?

Psalmy2cute:
you dont get my point.. it's not about guarding.. most girls behaving like boys lure other girls into lesbianism.. its only a matter of whether they're caught or not.. a girl might just be fucking your gf or your wife.. and you're watching out for other men

A cheater is a cheater Abeg... I would never watch out for anyone over my wife. It is a good point to advice people to stay away from bad company tho, I agree with that point.

nuban07:
If she is bisexual and it was known to her co lesbian, then why did she killed her

not necessarily true. Some gays are bi without their gay partner knowing

Tolzy11:
Hello Nairalanders am confused here cause I don't know which database language I should go for so am here asking from the pro which is the best to learn between SQL and MySQL.

SQL is a language.

MySQL is a software that implements SQL language, we also have other software that implement sql too

Psalmy2cute:
I once told my babe I dont wanna see her with any girl forming tomboy..

see this one, na guarding knight you wan be all your life abi?