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callmeRichie:
Did I just read "if I get turned on, I must force my way to have it with her" Have you been raping her Please clarify bro this is not clear, is it what I'm thinking

what does it sounds like

Zeal0000007:
A woman that stays with her man, the man fends and take care of her including her needs, I have no business (relationship) outside except her. one should feel sex shouldn't be what should be deprived of such a man no matter the number of times but here, my gal feels we have too much of sex.

whenever I turn and look at her I get turn on especially when she's asleep or undressing, we fight most times because of sex. I want to engage her next month after 5years together and it will be her birthday intending to settle down 2022 that's next two years, that's what I have on my mind.

Pals do we say on the sex aspect that I have high sexual libido ? considering that she's the only one in my life and she's always available and if I get turned on I must force my way to have it with her, I mean body no be firewood like they say. Knowing that some guys despite serious commitment with their gal they still keep side chicks that will carry their some of their sexual needs as they believe. I'm I over labouring her with my sexual needs since she's d only one in my life.

secondly since intending to propose to her next month on her birthday and settling down next two years is it too long for someone to stay proposed to cos I didn't want her staying longer anymore, Atleast make she wear ring. why I wait for things to get better for proper marriage next two years.

Pals please who got experience on this should share with me. she's just 22. I'm 29, mature minds only

Better save the remaining of your life battery and live someone daughter alone and Goan make money and do things right. This your mago mago way of life is not a thing o. Before you know now. Baby junior will drop and things will get complicated. I don talk my own o

Binikingdowm:
good to know, because this movies and film series (Cisco in flash and Rio in money heists).


They always potray them as a great programmer that can hack anything at all. I thought knowing some programming Language can make you a hacker, guess I was wrong

Programming to a large extent gives you an extensive knowledge of how computer works. But not a solid knowledge how to bypass the computer, you have a good chance if you can program though.

Just like saying people who picks locks are lock makers It could be true but in most cases it is not. Lock picking and making are quite a different act even though they have some overlap

TheGodlessGod:
I'm a novice and I've been wondering which programming language to learn, I've decided to learn how to create phones or computer application (Android os).

I need help with the type of programming languages to learn and the steps to follow, I also needs help on the apps to download in order to be learn how to create applications.

Thanks in advance.

Get laptop
Get a quality pdf book
Start learning python
Or Java

Binikingdowm:
I've always been curious about programming, hacking and Internet stuffs, it yet me wondering if an average programmer can hack a system or bypass a security?.

Hacking is an act of its own, just because you’re programmer doesn’t mean you will know how to hack l although you stand a chance though

Kingscee:
Lovely

urge will still come back like it or not. It is like singing and praying when there is terrible hunger war in your stomach. Except manner falls, you would go and find food after the prayer.

skimena:
I can't support masturbation or rape. Never. When u're Hot and you are not married. Just Read your Bible. pray sing praise and worship to God. you won't even last 3 minutes before d urge will disappear.

How did you place masturbation and rape in same basket? Anyway it’s just your opinion.

Young03:
[b]During the first lock down, she told me she will stop coming to my place until the corona virus ends. Because of that I stopped calling her on phone since mid March. 4 days ago she sent me a message on facebook that I should buy a phone for her, I told her OK.

Today she told me that she was coming to see me. I asked her to meet me in a hotel. When she came, after accusing me of not calling her on phone for the past 3 months, she said I should quickly get her a phone cos she's now using a small torchlight phone.

She now transferred 90% of her problems to me. She said she has been treating malaria.

She once told me she is treating pile.
This evening she told me, she has INFECTIONS, that a white pulse is discharging from her breasts. I weak cos that's the same breast that I sucked with joyback in February .

Only she pile and infection. I don't know where she got them from. I need to go for a test asap.
This is the second girl in the last one month that have come to tell me that they are treating STDs. [/b]

If you know what is good for yourself. You better start living a responsible life and as a young man. Learn good skill and get job experience. Then find a good partner and live life. Jagajaga live get as e be o. That girl you just describe na red alert o. Anyway it is some people destiny to be a maga

Danielfx:
No doubt i had doubt if her love was genuine. I have asked myself just how to get the truth out of her head. She came with tales of love, always making me feel like a king. Yes, she told me she thinks about me every seconds and how scared she becomes thinking of loosing me.

This relationship started barely a month ago. We started as friends and eventually she became my girl. She was intrigued with tales of my ex and how hopelessly i drowned in love with my ex, how my ex gave me the shove of my life and how i wanted someone to change my obsession. Then she came, she acted well but the connection just wasn't there but i had to play along and for the first time in my life, i felt what responsibility is, all her expenses became mine and she barely said no to anything i thrilled her to (do you want ice cream ? Yes... Do you want apple ? Yes..).

I became worried because she was a liability, always taking and never giving. She couldn't advise me in the simplest of assumed situations and making love to her doesn't excite me that much because i barely feel the thrust during sex... She lacked bedmathics and financial management. So, obviously she offered nothing.

So i called my friend and confidante to advise me about her, Afterall i was becoming unhappy each passing day with her. He told me to test her, "simply refrain from giving her a dime for now...."

I went to her place and after our usual boring moments i left without giving her money(I usually give her money). I arrived home and settled down to reminisce about the day, just then i realised she didn't call me. Oh no, she always put the call first so what could have been wrong. I texted her, thanking her for the moment we spent talking that evening and finally she called. We spoke for few minutes and bamn, she told me she wants to get busy with her chores, okay. The minute went bye, an hour, 24 hours, a day and few hours and still no call...

Why should i put the call Afterall, i offered her what most guys wouldn't and the only and one thing she had to do is call me to atleast say "Danielfx i miss you...."

Well, i learnt a funny lesson. The whores ain't loyal....

I simply saw nothing too wrong here except that she lied to you about loving you. You both were in a contract where you are the money machine and in turn you buy her attention. Your friends advise is top notch.
I always advise guy to stop giving girls money just because they are dating. You only give people money when it is necessary and on few cases as a surprise.
You also have a blame on the relationship too as you were trying to buy her attention, lesson to learn, when looking out for someone that loves you, keep everything away except yourself and if the person still accept you then maybe the people truely love you.
Spend for people that show loyalty and trust towards you in other words, this people can do exact same thing if they were in your shoes.

doggedfighter:
Why should one be ashamed of depictions of body parts.
The dick is a body part as much as your nose.

You're taking us to another direction. Is it appropriate we publicize those part?, wether it is part of our body of not.

techstack:
What of Spring Framework?

I use asp.net core.
As a core Microsoft guy, I have even deployed an app to production with the new Blazor.

I will be writing about my experience with Blazor and Azure soon

I just completed my intensive study of Java language and no experience yet. I basically have not used any java framework. as for PHP I have use a couple. Laravel, code igniter, Yii.
Asp.NET is a cool language though, although most things I know about it is that many of goverment projects like JAMB, NYSC and some other are built using Asp, don't know why.

Flakky26:
I need someone based in Abuja that can develop a simple web portal for project report feedback on a low budget . the portal must have these features -

1. where many people working on different project can sign in and enter project reports update
2. log in user can upload project pictures
3. project supervisors can view report updates and drop comments
4. log in users can only have access to projects assign to them to give report updates.
5. log in users working on the same project can get to see each other updates reports and pictures.
6. project updates reports and pictures uploaded can be printed out on a spread sheet
7. Project supervisors receives email alert as soon as user submit a report update on a project
8, users working on the same project can communicate by chatting.
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wwwtortoise:
Greetings Sir !

Please recommend a user-friendly online platform where I can learn Python for free.

I used codecademy but the free version is limited to only the intro and basics.

PS: I am presently doing my NYSC and eagerly want to learn programming.

Regards.

There are many good python pdf littered online and all you have to do is study them. A simple google search would do.

Coder2Client:
All those who you have mentioned are computer scientists, I'm aware of that. Programming is a fractional part of computer science, yes, I'm pretty sure of that. But if I ask you to answer my question, would you be truthful to yourself by saying nothing but the absolute truth? Why did you study CSC? To become a good programmer or a computer scientist?
Remember, you cannot be a good programmer without the knowledge algorithm. And to become a good computer scientist you have to dedicate your life in the field just like those you've mentioned.

The professors are teaching students to be industry ready, which although you have your own part to play. And to be industry ready is considered being a good software engineer /developer which is considered to be the face of computer science. Even, most industries are not too much into CSC degree which yourself is aware of rather your problem solving skills which is embedded in DSA.

Nigeria is a joke when it comes to computing. We currently have liquidated most of the job of a typical computing scientist to just coding and building softwares.

The job of a computing science in an industry is basically related to data manipulation. Be it web related, analysis, analytic, transfer, security etc. so many time you don’t necessarily have to be a solid programmer, many times it a team work and good coder should be in your team. You bring the ideas and the coder put it into a computer. Advance cyber techniques and data analytics is basically more of an idea and implementation.
Every CSC student Should understand programming language to a considerable extent but being a bad ass programmer is no where close to being useful when data manipulation comes into play like Big(O) notation and advance data manipulation techniques. It is more of the thinking strategy. I hope you understand this.

techstack:
Yes, there are many frameworks out that. new ones try to fix issues in the existing ones

Choose the one that works for you

I am JAVA and PHP coder. I don’t like frameworks. I basically use laravel when needed.

Coder2Client:
If CSC is all about computing data and creating algorithms, storing data, transfering data then self taught programmers can do a lot better in that area just like gates and mark did. Csc is just the foundation, the system won't teach you to be good at it.

Gates and mark are not qualified to be called a computer scientist. If you speak of Alan Turing, Tim Berners-Lee, E. Djikstra, James Gosling, then you are talking, you basically lack the knowledge of who computer scientist are. You just mentioned mark and Gate who are great and notable computer programmers but you didn’t understand that they been a programmer is not anything close to CSC. The people I mentioned above developed some of the in-depth knowledge of how your present computer thinks. And the oga of computing science Alan Turing is the father of computing scientist and am sure I can code more than him and he can’t stand mark nor gate when it comes to coding but they are nothing close to him in computing science.

All I am doing is to twist your brain that programming is just a small part of computing science.

NorthPrince:
I installed it but don't understand it
And as for that pic,shey an ur bro. be that ni

I don’t think you’re serious with your questions

Simisola3:
Hey. I am new to this forum and I'm getting used to this new way of receiving e-mail. I was trying to make a friend request to another user and there was a message that was sent back to my Outlook inbox saying my account isn't connected and that I need to reply to that message, so I did. Nothing happened yet.

Is there something I'm missing?

That is how Nairaland works. If someone tries to contact your. And You don’t have the person on you contact list. Your mail server will need you to reply the person so that you both can be connected.

iqiq:
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Coder2Client:
I know you've been told that know those languages will help you in the tech world. But I tell you, don't make mistakes of learning all of them rather focus on one language, I will recommend industry focus language "Java". Be good at it, and solve problems when it comes to Java, join algorithm classes, join Java groups, learn clean code keep learning.

seconded, very accurate advise. Op listen to this.

TheGodlessGod:
I want to learn programming language and I also don't want it to affect my school studies.

I don't know the duration it will take to learn most of it(Java, c, c++ etc).

Is it better to learn it myself or go to cyber cafe guru to teach me??

Cyber guru or Cyber cafe guru?
Most of you think someone working in a cyber cafe has a good knowledge of computing, this false ideology will make you not see how important computing works. Cyber cafe personnel just have knowledge of paper work and office software with some knowledge of basic trouble shooting and browsers tricks. Unlike a cyber guru who has an extensive knowledge of computing and can manipulate a computer to achieve an aim.

Now to the question, learning a language could in reality take you about 2 yrs+ to master very well so that you can become functional and create good apps. It’s really a long journey. The most difficult part is learning the basic very well and having the right mindset of a programmer. My advise is that you should start it little and keep doing it with little time you have. If your interest develop so high for it and your intuition is very akin to it then you can go learn with a tech institution or go to a programming college or udemy.

Tolzy11:
Which is the best Forum Script to make use of among the four ? PhpBB, MyBB, SMF, or WordPress with their pros and cons.

PhpBB is the best for me. But there are more better script than all this free forum script. Most of them are paid though

Coder2Client:
CS major is just like Jack of all trades master of none. As a CS grad, I was just reading to pass my exams. Tell me, how do you expect CS major to be expert in Java, c++, pascal, vb, algorithm, python Fortran, cobol, networking etc and still claim to be productive when he/she has not successfully implemented any of these core languages in a production?

After my school, I had to start all over by myself. This time, it was Java and I can tell you that I am very proud of doing so. I learn so much by myself.


So, self taught programmers are goal oriented and not like the school conventional way of programming.

you are just speaking dust. I bet you didn’t study CSC from the way you speak. And what has CSC got to do with being an expert in a language. Infact most of my Lecturers are not close to how good I was in programming back in school but they were great computing Scientist than I was at then. CSC is beyond coding. CSC is all about computing data and creating algorithms, storing data, transfering data. It basically has not much to do with computer it self. Computer is a by-product of CSC and the language of communicating with such machine is also a product of CSC. So programming language is not anything close to CSC.

ARCHEMEDESME:
I've noticed a certain trend ; a lot of self taught developers seem to look down on a cs degree after learning just an aspect of computer science.

For example someone who decides to learn backend web development ( which is a subset of cs)by taking an udemy course thinks he has learnt more than a serious minded cs student . They go about saying stuff like :" I didn't study computer science but I can know more than a cs major" but they seem to forget that computer science goes beyond developing websites. To me it's a waste of time of time studying cs just because you want to be a web developer , correct me if I'm wrong but I think that's what boot camps are meant for .

But that doesn't change the fact that some CS majors know nothing , I've come across some CS majors that can't code but that doesn't make a cs degree worthless.
But do you think such people are right ?

The bold is a disrespect to CSC. web dev backend is a sub-sub-sub-sub of CS.

Who ever looked down on going to school to study CS because he or she has learnt a part of CS is just mistaken. Going to school to study CSC gives one the theoretical background of what CSC is all about. BTW I don’t blame them Computing scientist in Nigeria don’t do any serious computing at all. So we may not know the difference between a CSC graduate and just an ordinary coder. Except in theoretical aspect.

NorthPrince:
So, I decided to learn python and now am through with the basics and I will.like to move onto python-djanho aspect, but the issue is now that I am yet to get a laptop and and I am now looking for a way to download Django on my phone.
I need your help on downloadimg Django on my phone.
If there is no way:pls suggest another programming language for me to learn

what is the attached picture got to do with your post? .

I suggest you check the app termux

Cool

ibkonekt:
Away with you, SIMP

and you replied AFC of Life

techstack:
Someone introduced Nestjs framework to me about two years ago but I haven't got anything to do with it then, I was deeply involved in dotNet and Expressjs projects. or I don't know how awesome it will turn out to be.

Early this before COVID 19 lockdown, a friend reached out to me about a payment reporting app. I was to head the development team of the project.

They were choosing Expressjs or FastifyJs, when I stepped in I decided to use Nestjs. And since then it has been a jolly ride. its a framework for building efficient, scalable Node applications

If you are a fan of OOP, Nodejs framework will be Nestjs

Perfect for Angular/Typescript developers.

dotNet developers will find it very easy to work with. with ORM like typeORM, just like Entity framework

NestJS is modular — this means that you create modules.

NestJS’s constructor based dependency injection can help with ordering initialization in the background.

Its created by Kamil Myśliwiec, you can read more about him.

Share your experience if you have used it before.

cc Seun

There are now frameworks here and there and everywhere.

squash47:
My ambition is to be a front end developer.

Then front end.
Your path as a front end dev is clear. Start creating front end work and start learning front end frameworks. The part of intelligence you speak is quite weird to me. For now pick a good book on any front end framework and learn.

squash47:
Thanks boss. I have built some projects like..

1.Calculator..

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2. Modal Login .
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3. Digital Clock.
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4.using button to switch off and on a bulb.
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5. Using Math.Random() to change background color.

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my next step is animation. But I'm sad cos i don't know how to conceive a project idea in my mind.
And also how to get the patience and intelligence of a programmer.

Let start from here!

What is your bearing. Front end or back end?

squash47:
Please, if you are JavaScript expert, I need your help in the following areas.
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1. Teach me how to think like a programmer.
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I have read so many articles but I'm yet to start thinking like a programmer.
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I want to develop the kind of mindset that programmers have...
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and how I can be able to create ideas in my mind and turn them to projects.
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2. what are the basic things I need to learn in JavaScript before I can be a complete beginner. ..
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3. Please tell me few things about the for in and for of loops.
I'm getting confused.

Put yourself on track by pick one small project and build everything completely. You just need the basic like variables, functions, arrays, loop. That’s all, your true experience comes from using them to make something. You can start by building a small calendar app that can schedule events. Don’t aim for perfection