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ukaface:
it only got noticed when y'all started overhyping the matter.
And it's nothing to be termed disgraceful. Lot of you guys have gotten same treatment only that it wasn't on national TV.

The only glaring reaction was vee's and I didn't immediately connect it to ozo's curved kiss until the video started getting over hyped.
600 years for all of una...

Same thing on my mind o. Something wey Dey happen everyday for area. Even some boys can sell their mother rapper to buy birthday gift for a girl. Because na TV na everybody dey catch cruise especially those teenager shouting “simp”

jericco1:
Read book?
The books I have read in this life, I'm not sure you and your posterity will ever come close to reading half of it

Abeg quench jare!
Your two post I have read so far is nothing to write home about.
A man who read, speaks from shoulders of giants.
How many great men shout ”Alpha males”. Those are for teenagers building self esteem around women
Bleep off kid

tee59:
I don't know why some guys/ men will not allow their girlfriends / wives use gifts given to them by opposite sex especially undies or phone. A colleague of mine complained how her man refuse to allow her use the phone a guy bought for her, knowing fully well her phone wasn't good and has been given her problem for long. Also, my guy refused to allow me wear some undies bought for me by a friend, though, with a pure heart. There's nothing between us. I just don't get it. Why guys?

This is strong o.
U get mind aswear
Guy Friend giving you undies, How did he know your size?
Moreso the least your guy did was to stop you from wearing it instead of doing a break up through a text message

This story get as e be

Ok na
I wanted to say “Welldone ma!”
But something in my head is telling me not to

SalafRider:
I saw my guy wearing boxer from his to junction ooo I asked him. Guy why u wear boxer reach this place na and he said "E be like say u no know how much dem de sell Banana boxer abi" lol

omo banana boxer na fashionister boxer be dat o. Anyway for myself I don’t wear anything less that my knee out.

StagethemTVee:
After all the life lectures Ebuka and Neo just gave this Ozo boy,he still tried to kiss Nengi.

He has a lot to learn

Drizzy5001:
That Nengi no dey ordinary she's diabolic.. She just dey control ozo with remote.. Kai.. Ozo too mumu

Omo nothing like control. Ozo was doing all the wrong things in the wrongest possible way he can with all his might.

jericco1:
Keep quiet

instead of you to read book, you dey here shout Alpha male.
For real life you go worst pass Ozo. Lion online

jericco1:
Ozo is goat
All these ladies saying that they want a man like Ozo in their life are saying trash!
What happened to being an alpha male?
I hope Ozo learns from this.

what is this nonsense alpha male all of una dey yarn?

DrayZee:
I wouldn’t call him a manipulator. He told her exactly what he wants and his actions are very clear.

She’s the one manipulating herself.

That is what the say. Exactly what they say. Someone who don’t manipulate will respect your relationship boundary and don’t drag you in.
This behavior is common with playboy circle na, I don’t think you were one

TerryMcGinis:
why all these vagina people and their decomposed brains sef? Dem swear for una, y the affinity to stupidity and sheer uselessness? Which kind useless advice be this? Okay, so what if the old bf focks her well? Does that guarantee a lid on her desire to be a LovePeddler? From experience i deduced y'all are confused bashibazouks. No matter how good d sex, u'd still cheat. Una no just balance. Such useless creatures frm a stupid generation. If u no get talk, carry yr decomposed, fish smelling cunt go siddon, as if bleeping her "old bf" would quench the build up within the animal. Idiot.

Jezzz why are you this angry?? Na wa o

Kosixo20:
I have an issue that's really bothering me. It's bothering me so much that it's what's keeping me awake at this time of the night. I had to create a new account to post this because I want to keep my identity hidden since some Nairalanders already know my other account.

I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I've been friends with for a while. We are both university undergraduates. We've been dating for almost 7 months. I'm still a virgin. The reason I agreed to date my boyfriend is because I enjoy his company and I wanted to preserve our friendship. It's kinda complicated. I'm not ready for sex and he understands.

Few months ago, I met another guy who is also an undergraduate. He's very interesting and very good looking. I'm very sexually attracted to him. He told me he likes me, but hasn't asked me out. Whenever we are together, he is fond of flirting with me, telling me how sexy I look, touching me, and grabbing my ass. The last time we were together he even squeezed my breasts. I told him that he should stop because I'm sensitive to his touch, which is actually the case. I already told him that I can't date him because he doesn't look like the type to stick to one girl for a long time. My statement didn't even faze him and he responded that he doesn't do relationships because he gets bored easily.

He always tells me how he'll like to have sex with me and the things he'll do to me. He doesn't even seem bothered that I have a boyfriend and never brings it up. He has invited me over to his place once and I declined because I don't know if I'll be able to control myself being alone in his apartment and I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend.

The problem is sometimes this guy just ghosts me for days and sometimes he doesn't even reply my texts, then out of nowhere he'll return and act all flirty and touchy. Our friendship is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. I'm becoming more attracted to this new guy and I'm not comfortable.

I'm thinking of blocking his number and ceasing communication with him. Is this the right step to take? I'm confused and I don't know what to do.

You just met a manipulator

rottencorpse:
You didn't deserve to die that way. You'll always be in my heart, Michael. Keep on resting.

Rest on
Legend

Palema007:
Here's the thing Stan, I don't force my opinion on people, I hardly try to convince people to see things my way, I'm very lazy at that especially when it involves typing. I'm a type of person who would give soft warnings twice or thrice then leave you to learn the hard way. Your reception of my ideas or opinion determines how much I let out. That's just me.

You insisted Men rule or enjoy the world more, I've tried to convince you otherwise with two posts and try to point out dangers of such erroneous mindset but you want to maintain your opinion, I can not but allow you do that. And no! I'm not a feminist, how can I be one when I have once been accused of being an internalized misogynist on this same forum . Make una dey brand me gently for this forum nah . I'm just one who fits the description of an eagle on a hill, observing things and stating them as it is. You will be surprised if tables turned and I write in support of Women tomorrow.

If you insist all is Well with Men and they don't suffer in anyway, well all I can say is okay. I wont argue. But when I have a male child, I will train him differently.

All is well with men doesn’t mean they don’t suffer in anyway. It just mean nothing the women are cooking will eventually become anything worthwhile.
Women can become anything but not the lead. Men are generally arrogant by nature to allow such. Women are more socially built to work with men as a second in command. Since women knows how to take the soft sit and act in a way not to cause crisis.


Anyway have a good day

Liposure:
from what i can deduce in your post. it means men own the world, women make the world go round

It is a bit of twist and turns. The path and the answers are never exactly clear. But men are a little more arrogant to see women take the world and control their resources.
Women on the other hand think things through but would have to keep staying at the back and men take the lead.

This would mean that men will always remain on the throne and enjoy the control and the feeling. Women will always enjoy the knowledge and the little details of how things work.
But this at the end of the day is for the general working of the human race.
Almost nothing is gonna change sooner.

ahahnow:
watching my dad grow old. It hurts my heart. Does anyone else feel this way too? I am so afraid, so weak, so helpless. How does everyone else cope? I am stuck in my feelings alone.

It is natural, the thought of one life, one chance and time ticking continuously is tiring.
Don’t let the fear escalate though just let us inspire you.

lefulefu:
oooh he"s one of the BBN contestant...i see
what u clear described is a man who is a wimp

Although most guys are laughing at him. I see it as just a way to catch cruise. Some said he is a Beta male.
But he is lacking in on aspect of his life which is social awareness. While he is doing good in other aspect.
Many laughing at him at not anywhere close to him in other area.
Especially the useless cult called Redpill.

They are ready to laugh at someone who is a loser to women than to laugh at someone who has poor career choice.

Palema007:
Alright then, if you say so.

Whichever way, it's a Win win for the wise woman. That, I wouldn't let out. Not here at least. Let Man continue in his faux dominance /supremacy like I said earlier, it's a win win for the wise woman.

You speak like the Redpill somewhat but in a different way. More like a soft feminist.

lefulefu:
who is this ozo u guys are talking about
saw a thread about ozo just now

he is one of the BBN housemate. He lost his respect to everyone as he let his ego trampled on the floor by someone who actually is not in anyway close to him when it comes to physical attractiveness and charm.
He has good quality except that he don’t understand what boundary and self respect mean especially for someone he thinks he loves.
It was a disaster. He looked like what we did while in junior secondary school. So childish and irritating. Yuck
A grown man who lack social awareness and value.

Palema007:
Lol... Now here's the riddle most people don't get. Men enjoy their prime in their own perspective but suffer in old while women "endure" their prime but enjoy in old age.Let me explain: what do men enjoy in their youthful years? Superiority, Dominance and Authority, while all these come with their benefits, they come with responsibilities.Responsibility to Serve, protect, provide, guide, dictate etc which comes with great sacrifices but what do Men enjoy in return? Freedom to have more Women at a go, freedom to live freely.etc. Do these gains come close to sacrifices made? Well You answer as a guy, you are in best position to do that.Believe me when i say the sacrifice a woman has to pay for her glorious future isn't as painful as what Men endure in future. Watch it: Men live for the moment, Women don't, why? Because while a Man is busy enjoying his prime, the woman is busy looking out for her future (her kids).Shes busy imprinting her love in her kid's heart. You wonder why Men in west could sign into law rules that affect them? Because the women of past sowed in them, they grew up with sympathy for their Mothers and change rules for them. Women are enjoying the seeds their foremothers sowed in Men. All these women had to do is endure some constraints while building their future. Believe Me, i wouldn't say Men enjoy anything but if you insist i would say those Men are Esau of our time.They will pay if they don't watch out.

However if you insist further, i can only allow you have your opinion but really i don't see the enjoyment in going to wars, loosing my life, working all my youth only to be fed with stipends when im old, being crucified without being heard, called the dangerous one etc.

If with what you said up there is largely true then I don’t think those women has really succeeded. Most guy end up loving their Mum but I don’t think such love is transferred to other ladies out there. If they were so successful in manipulating the male child to make things work then everywhere will have good laws for women but sadly it ain’t so. Men are more charge with park mentality and so he will likely act like his park(Guy friends) rather than independent mindset or what ever anyone women says.

The world were women will work for their own money is something I subscribe. The burden of bearing hot brunt all in the name of being called a man is total trash and works so in the wild jungle. Not in this hectic society were everywhere is crowded with over population.

Anyway different sides, you somewhat still believe there is a gender war the men should be wary off just like the redpill. But for me I don’t see any war anytime soon. Male supremacy will kiss a good bye later on though. But as for women take over, it will be chasing after bare winds.
Even feminist females knows this. At the end of the day it is a mans world. Although not for so long. A time will come were people will stop taking gender seriously and just concentrate on other things.

lefulefu:
the man probably saw the sign when he was dating her.u know some men are weaklings and cos of their desperation they dont mind when treated with contempt by their partner.A partner flaunting his or her ex at ur face does not respect u .Anyway its for men who cant crap and swallow it with pride.Maybe he was the one that begged her to marry him and she did it out of pity or out of frustration cos the ones she fancied didnt take an interest in her.

ozo comes to mind

lefulefu:
the ex is overseas according to op
nigeria"s economy is currently biting so the obvious intent is to dump her husband and go join her ex
its not a new thing
even married women with kids her dumped their husbands and kids in the past for an ex
the more compansionate ones would send for their kids when they have settled well with the ex if the ex is understanding but if not they will just dump the kids with the husband.Its like she never liked her husband and just married him maybe cos there was no one to marry.when a woman marries or date u just because u the only one avalaible for her then she treats such a man like crap.

Yeah you have a point.
But some people can sha want to be treated like crap, I can’t fathom how I sit and watch a lady spill those rubbish.
I will either just stand up and leave. Or I will add more pepper in the discussion to make her angry so that she will vomit all she has inside her stomach. Atleast this one na my speciality.
Some people get mind sha

Palema007:
Loll... Thats the weakness that comes with all movements : Vulnerability to Extremists and Radical practitioners. When people of questionable characters and views of life decide sees a camouflage they use it optimally. Same goes with feminism, the movement itself isn't bad, the people behind it are.

To some extent it is, personally i believe life isn't really fair to the male gender at times. There are some situations i see Men go through and i wonder why? If Women see the need for feminism, why shouldn't Men need redpills to be liberated? i believe in fairness. If any man feels he isn't getting enough of life and needs liberation let him get it. However it shouldn't be at detriment of another, same goes for a woman who feels the same.

Well i dont really follow theory or align with Tags/Movement, i see them as cages. I believe in fairness, treat every one the way you want to be treate. Live and let live

I like your independent mindset.
But as part you say life is unfair to men I bluntly disagree.
Men has this world to enjoy more that women. Talk of business, money, prestige, freedom and all.
Men has a lot them, it is not long women started to crave for liberation. In places like many Islamic countries, Asia and many part of Africa, women dare not behave anyhow, unless she will be smoked.
I am sure for every timid guy there are about 5 OG who play the game well. Women has better social power naturally than men though.
But Men has the world even till now, and it might not go anywhere any sooner.

Liposure:
an alphamale is a man who has the final say. He is alfa and omega

Then that should be God. No man has any power as such.
Don’t tell me the redpill pls

How did you call his parent out? Is he not young and successful and educated? What else will the parent do?

Ozo has social problems and don’t known how to act to win respect of a lady he is attracted to.
He didn’t learn social skill and parent cannot teach you per se.
some are naturally gifted, some need to learn the hard way.

Ozo is learning the hard way, things will get clearly to him and when he watch the show again he will feel ashame later o

So leave the parent out of it

Sirfemisky:
I don't really blame ozo.
His parents failed to allow him to mingle with his peer when he was a child.
I know ozo went through a lot of emotional trauma.
I really feel pity for him!!!

Shut the Bleep up bro

Palema007:
Redpill is knowing your worth as a Man, not being controlled by emotions, living above woman's manipulations and her body. Redpill is about gaining control, self realization and improvement.

I will advice you make search on other platforms to know more about it. Here you will only get blackpill and pussy inspired redpills

Hahahahaha as if you know.
They are not even hot headed here.
If you come to Reddit as of 2010. The redpill community was in thousands and even videos were posted. But it was shut down because of it extreme theory. So redpill isn’t good and was never good. I don’t know where you heard that from.

Matrix was a movie about evil vs good. The world was destroying and human risk being eradicated completely, at that moment it is either red or blue pills. No purple pill was available. Just like during the war moment.

Now here in our real world, war only happen when you meet the wrong people in a social settings. To live smart. Take the Purple pill(some Blue pill + some red pill + personal wisdom). Or just act wisely without any weird theory and you will be fine

QuillanHardy:
Please can someone give me a short summary of what this Red Pill stuff is all about...
I have been hearing it for sometime now and I don't understand what it is/means

Male supremacy theory. With some myopic generalizations about women. Be watchful

DontCough:
Kindly use google, thank you.

As expected, empty brains

DontCough:
The Simp even tried kissing the Nengi gal upon his eviction...lady stylishly declined.

Shout out to the Alpha Males out there.

What is the meaning of Alpha male?