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Xoly:
[color=#000000] Being fat is not a good idea,
yes that's true, but Op, you should mind what you share on the internet because some of those "fat girls" are already having low self-esteem — and I don't think it's a nice idea to make someone feel more bad about herself all in the name of posting how you feel on the internet
Instead of calling them 'fat', call them 'chubby', and that will make them feel more better [/color]

There is nothing so wrong with amassing fat especially when it is not so much for health and does not make you look out of shape.

Some people just have a lot of fat gland and would be fat. Op should just hug tree jare. Didn’t any fat girl tie him down

I disagree with a lot up there and for the first one..... I say no.

1. When you meet a person you are attracted to, you have to make as much romantic moves as possible. Although not in a creepy way that makes you look like an addict and not in a moronic way by sending money, buying flowers, washing pant and drinking sniper
Romantic moves don’t have to be sex but you should never pretend like a monk except your occupation is being a monk and monk don’t marry. Some ladies think you are not so capable of making them feel good when you don’t act romantic. So I advise you do a lot physical/psychological activities to increase romantic vibes and if she is interested she will comply.

2. some people see it as a tradition, well it matter if the girl care of whether you are virgin, so I guess that decision is based on the two people getting married. Moreso I advise genuine virgin men who wants a virgin not to ask girl about virginity directly, it is heap of lies you will receive. There are more ways to skin a cat. Be wise

3. I agree

4. Some men feel in power when they marry a woman that fears them. They feel if they are Dominant then they are in control. So if you are very insecure as a man then it is your business. As much as the dominance do not turn to domestic assault(which will eventually) then no problem.

5. Please marry someone that looks attractive to your taste. Someone that has the ability to increase you libido level when you are around. Although it should never be the only criteria to chose a partner but it can never be understated

6. Agree absolutely, hoping your responsibility will be taken care off by rich family of your wife will only earn you disrespect on the long run. Meanwhile to marry a girl from a rich family ensure you understand how to play some games and deal with those set of girl many of them have a lot of entitlement mentality

IneedSugarMumy1:
You're not in position to determine that sir

from the story details he didn’t even emphasize on it like the way all this bloggers did.

fariqueen:
please am new here,and am looking for any easy way to make money by staying at home,school have resume and by on Monday I will be having an exam,I need to update my handout before next Monday please help me out with an idea of what to do to make the money before on Monday please.

You have to find quick jobs to make money. Like party waiter or work as a BA for product activation or get a part time job. Money don’t fall from the sky.

If you want real financial power then learn a valuable skill that would sell you out and people will be happy to pay if you get their work done.

James4bright:
I'm not even proud of treating them like that but those were the girls who loved me profusely. I remember not being bothered about calling them but they were the ones calling.

But the ones I was nice to, were trying to use my head. Maybe your gf is using your head to but you don't know.

Maybe if you know me better then you may have not typed this.
BTW I don’t follow that boyfriend/girlfriend tag.

tesppidd:
What is left over.?

90 percent of girls that are marrying for the first time have already been fuccked by numerous boyfriends and sugar daddies.

Those ones no be left overs?

Abi because dem no wear wedding gown and go church go dance?

I don laugh tire.
Na true you yan o. This generation is something else when it comes to sex

alaribe1992:
I've come to realize that girls prefer simpletons to the so-called alpha male. I'm talking out of experience, ever since I read the red pill bla bla bla by Ubunja and co, I stopped getting pu**y like before. These girls sees me as arrogant.
F*ck Red pill! I'm going back to my simpleton lifestyle. Wetin I gain after being an alpha male and not getting some nice dripping wet coochie.

No one like a simple person in the actual sense of daily living. They can so naive and annoying in a way they don’t realize cos they just don’t want to see sad reality of things.

But that being said, Being too exposed is not better either, it can give cause overwhelming anxiety and create a false illusion of reality of how thing could turn out.

There just need to be balance of some sought

James4bright:
The dude is hilarious. But I don't think you'd get laid by being a simp.

All the girls that ever loved me profusely, I treated them like shit. Lol, no jokes.

I'm not proud of my actions but they were obsessed with me anyway.

The one I really liked and was simping over used my ass, never really thought a girl could press my mumu button, but she did anyway.

Stay strong alphas, don't quit.

let me put it this way, one day you will wake up and realize that somehow and someway they just magically learn how to do their things without giving a Bleep about you and they would just move on and you will think they would later comeback , but surprisingly they would never come back.
This is not a made up story, if you know you know.

No one is saying you should be kind but this manipulation has a marginal return.

oyolohi:
I'm curious.

Sometime ago, we enjoyed 0.0k free browsing using some suspicious VPN apps. Unfortunately, they no longer work.

However, the fact that such things worked got me thinking...

How exactly does a VPN trick work?

I'm not exactly new to computer programming, and I'm wondering if I could use one of my many domain hosts (e.g. Namecheap) or a premium VPN app like Nord VPN to establish one of such connections (for personal use?)

Thanks!

Browsing is cheap and network security is stronger right now. Anyway you need to understand headers manipulation to cheat a network.

If for example MTN allow you to do a cheap bundle only for YouTube. You can convert this bundle to browser for other things. All you need is the right headers injection to send the perfect request to make MTN believe you are sending a YouTube like query. And then it would serve you the required data.

Morray:
thank you very much boss. Funny enough she came to my place yesterday. Apologized for her deeds and all was good. She said she couldn't believe I could ghost her for three days . That she was expecting me to call. Capped everything off with the bed exercise . Thanks for your contribution boss

you're welcome

Morray:
My girl has been trying to gain control over me by ghosting in our relationship for few days which I didn't allow. She loves me so dearly according to her but few months ago, we had a Lil squabble that resulted in us not communicating for 3/4 days. She apologized afterwards and we were cool. She's been so good of recent and it hasn't stopped me from professing how much I love her. Now she's gone mute and it's three days. Reason for the recent quarrel: I called her and she was pretending as though she was talking to her ex knowing fully well it was me. I turned the table and pretended I was talking to my ex. Telling her how I picture her in my thoughts when I'm with my current girlfriend. It angered her and we've been mute with each other for three days now. I really wanna know what to do in this regard. How best should I handle this issue. I would never call to apologize cos she started it. Knowing her too well, I reckon she'd apologize in few days. Fellow comrades. please what do I do when she calls. I ain't wanna make it easy for her

Stanliwise et al

Two of you like to playing Romeo and Juliet. sincerely there is nothing to worry about, Quarrel is a good thing and learn to give people space to recover. From your story you said you use to profess love and she later went mute why please?
If ladies start using mute to get your attention then the best way to fight it if you don't like it, is to pretend like you don't know they are angry, like common!! make what the fu*k is such senile attitude??.

She was pretending to call her ex to make you feel jealous, as for me that is a disrespectful way to make me feel jealous. If I noticed such behavior then I would be the first to ghost her. What you did by mirroring her actions was nice in way though, even if I personally would never go that route. But since you feel "dog eat dog" is how you like to response to negative behavior then it is fine.

Right now don't do anything, give space and let you two miss each other and when you are done. Act normal as if nothing happens and like you have move over the shenanigans. if she still act weird, then stop fueling the situation by giving her too much attention. continue this behavior until she is ready to speak about it and when she does, listen to everything she says and make clarifications. Make acknowledgement if necessary and warn her of the ex of a thing and what it mean to you. Then off mic!

The important thing here to grab is you must find ways of giving her the impression that you cannot be exploited by emotional manipulation and anytime she pulls such string, she will step of live wire. This means anytime she tries any emotional exploitation. you should act stoned cold and emotionless. If she wants the want the relationship to work then she need to start behaving maturely and discuss thing. RELATIONSHIP IS ABOUT AGREEMENT BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE TO STICK WITH EACH OTHER AND ACHIEVE A GOAL. IT IS NOT A DO OR DIE AFFAIR.

Things you shouldn't do.
1. Don't make weird promises.
2. Don't buy into her ultimatum and wishes if you don't agree with them.
3. Avoid long argument
4. Avoid showing of anger and frustration.
5. Please never ever be the one to ask for a "lets talk" in this situation, if you have anything to say then wait until she is ready.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now i haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply inlove with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.
Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.
How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

10 years later you will know better why moving on is a good idea

lacruz12:
This is what happens when you give your all and expect your partner to do same. You were the drive behind the relationship and she was just a passenger hoping to alight when due, you gladly pick her up whenever she loses interest regardless of her sins.

You gotta move on bro, she doesn't deserve your love one bit. You know quite well you are never gonna be 'perfect' even if she comes back to you, so kill the feelings and see the light in your new girl.

Stop stalking her, start steering your life in the right direction. There's more to life than meets the eye, you are wasting precious time. Invest your energy and time into improving yourself. What's wrong with you is just inferiority complex.... Thinking you ain't gonna find another like her. My guy na lie

Build your self esteem and confidence, think about the lies and cheating and tell yourself you don't deserve a filth like her. No better revenge than being successful, give her reasons to see she lost a gem

Love this

Fxabdul:
The reason why I wan buy her the phone be say the babe don too enter my family and friends, if not I no be mumu.


And I know we gon end with viginal people, but we pray for the best among them.

All the best man

On Independence Day Hian.
Meanwhile why do you want to buy her iPhone 11 Pro?
Because she is your girlfriend?

Let us learn to take responsibility for our actions, if you had giving her that phone then you need to get your value in the right places. Because how people do favor for a stranger out of just “attraction”, “boyfriend”, “girlfriend” tags is baffling. SMH

More so how did people easily get heartbreak baffles me. You give someone so much with basically nothing on stake, with the simple idea of “if I do more they would like me more” and when they fail you then you feel hurt.

At the end of the day you will still marry one of those “vaginal people” and one day even give birth to a “vaginal” human.

Learn from this and amend your social values, what does not kill you make you stronger.

mightyhazel:
That was irresponsible and unsportsmanly of adesanya.. he should apologise ASAP

Yea true

Ooni:
If I were him I'd return the SUV to innoson and exchange it with Caris, add the balance to the money I won and put it to more meaningful use. SUV is above his financial status now.

But trust our people, he I'll spend the money on women. This one he is always seen partying or talking about women, I fear for the money and those who voted for him.

Our people look at money and see owambe while okoro people look at money and see capital.

Oga save this talk in your pocket jare

mimimiles93:
There would be rituals but not common.

Maybe you should read history. Good day

mimimiles93:
What does the ritualist wants to use the money gotten from rituals for if not to spend on Nigerian hoes

So if there was no ladies then there will be no money rituals? You need to get your thinking pattern right. Greed has only been the cause of this violent act of get rich quick scheme and rituals. Soon enough you will blame airport, car dealers and five star hotel for other crimes too.

Hotzone:
Girls like cars, money and other good things that money can buy....and the matured ones are interested in building family but those that love money than their lives lose it....our women must stand stand against evil and stop promoting illegal hustle because girls are easy target

RIP

So women are somewhat responsible for this act?
Arrragh how did I share country with your likes?

mimimiles93:
Blame our African ladies. The day African ladies start loving men for who they are and not for how fat their pockets are, most crimes would be reduced

Are you crazy? So in a sense now Nigeria ladies caused them to harvest someone organ. Better rent sense. I wish you say this where one member of the family are. Nonsense and Ingredients

JOACHINpedro:
Ah ah.
Nobody is forcing anybody na besides there are lots of fishes in the ocean.


You're kidding right?

Answer the question. Can you keep the marriage bed clean?

Dharmmie21:
I need an advice,

There is this guy we went to same UNI together, it's been 5 years after school now and I came across him and he told me all stories about LOVE he wants us to date , This happens to be my second visit to his place and to my surprise he saved my name on his phone as "Dammy Ikeja" this is someone that have called me by different love names when we chat

Did he truly love me?

When has true love been by words??
You need to get your own definition of true love right.
Love is built on actions

Timiblanko:
. After that lovely mother has corrected you sir I expected you to check yourself at least let it go.... you disappointed me today sir.... Has a mentor to a lot of people here.. .

I don’t understand how you even picked him as a mentor to begin with. He is very dogmatic for my liking.

hstar:
bless you
We plenty for this matter
I just shouted and rebuked but didn't do anything for the fear of my unborn children not to do the same thing to me,

God bless you guy.
Sometimes one just need to display a little bit of madness to settle some matters and at the end of the day, u just tender ur apology to normalize everything.

And behold, the nonsense would stop

When freedom is not given then you have to take it somehow except it will never be yours.

Righteousness89:
The Father is Absolutely Right to Discipline his Son.

The son is a 26-year-old. You need to understand when to use the right approach for things. It is misplace priority for a man to think of a Cane as form of discipline for a 26 years old son. Then he has failed somewhat as a father.

Acidosis:
If any of my cousins come to live with me, I would never allow him or her stay out as late as 10 or 11pm to watch any match. Period.

They can do such in their parents home, not mine. Your home, your principle.

Yes but there is a limit to what you want people to do. You can only state the rule and the consequences. But you can’t always control people.

Greatfullheart:
Mehn similar thing with me oh. @24 i get spanked and beaten and i dont dare go out of the house not to even talk going to see a friend, my school are afraid to come and visit me at home cause my ex soldier father and my mother are strict they think all the people in my area are spoilt. I went to higher institution(auchi poly) in 2016 oh boy dem wan kill me wit carryover. Now am a dropout and my parent vowed neva 2 waist their money sendin me 2 school that i should go and learn work, am the last born of 8, 7 of my siblings who are graduate.

The pressure of your 7 sibling will remain a constant pressure for you. Meanwhile you need to figure out your own way. The future is bright for those that believe in it.

light099:
Seems your dad is a perpetual ass whooper and since you're not yet making him feel proud to be a father, by travelling down home in a sleek car, perhaps on some weekends and dropping fat envelope in his hands, the only other way he feels like a father is by whooping your ass.

[s]Like people say, age is just a number, your parents start to regard you as an adult, the moment you're able to survive on your own and they can live off on you.
If you're 50 years old still living under your parents and also living off them, then you're still a kid to them anytime any day, and your sorry ass can be whooped real bad, if situation warrants it. You don't amount to shiit to them, and they can fvck you up big time, if you trespass.
Since, you're yet to clock the criteria of an adult, the only choice left is to continue enjoying the ass whooping, while you work hard in order to gather enough escape velocity to break away from all the gravity of joblessness, grounding your ass in your parents' house[/s].

The father has a misplaced priority, flogging a 26yrs old because he has not made you proud is total stupidity more complication to what is already complicated.
Moreso such actions reduce the esteem of the young lad to how thing should get done.

situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....

How did you react?
You just need to discuss it!
He is your father, there is just enough he can do about the truth.

JOACHINpedro:
Pls o, I would love to marry a virgin.

Would a virgin love to marry you?
Can you remain faithful to a virgin after marriage?

LeiderJa:
Bro. I know I'm not in your shoes but the thing to do will be to go cold turkey on her. No texts, calls or anything. Women are manipulative cos most people see them as excellent creatures who can do no harm. That's why they can tell a bf about vows of celibacy while another guy throttles them like a Formula 1 race car.

When she calls, tell her that the relationship is looking uncertain because of her actions. If she asks, tell her "you know what you did and I gotta go. Call me when you're ready to confess". This line of action will put her mind in turmoil. You should keep stringing her and then make up with her before her birthday. Make plans with her and be sure y'all go out together and dump her on the outing ground.


Make sure you dump that girl on her birthday. She will never forgive you but it's a small price to for revenge.

Nice one but you don’t always have to burn bridges with people. You could just tell them what you want and if it is a No, then you go your way. Maturity is also romantic too