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Zzor:
advice from the well of redpill ,manipulative advice,i don't take such advice,i don't want to be caught unawares.No locking of phones,period.

God forbid I am not a redpill.
I am purple pill.
Don’t intrude anyone privacy, if you do, it is not their fault if you see something they don’t want you to see.
If you say No then have a good day.

drealcivilceno:
They might, they might not cos they are girls... At least I will teach them to the best of my ability and also tell them this: Only person that can love wholeheartedly in this life is God, every other person wants something. So choose your cards wisely.

oga good men are out there. Stop this only God preaching. Will God marry her?
“Everyone wants something” is a sign of pill drugs affecting you. You haven’t even taken much by then you will be afraid to marry, let’s see how things go.

Raalsalghul:
You really don't know that, stop assuming.

I have a good odd.
It is a match of Bayern Munich vs Chelsea.
We know the result already. No stress
No be Naija we dey again?

Zzor:
your response to the message is very important here,so lets read them together.Why are you men so security conscious about your phones.It can never work with my type,no locking of phones,period

It is not just men but everyone. The world is a corrupt world, many people are into one thing or another.
On Saturday at the club, a lot of men flocking into the club were married men, it is like that every-time. More so ladies sometimes has what to hide but I feel married men cheat more in Africa than married women.
Although not so when unmarried, but that is one reason why people don’t like their phone to get touched.
Here is an advice, if you’re with your guy, don’t ever disturb him to check his phone, if you need to see something then go ahead and do it when he is not watching. And when you see it keep it yourself.
He didn’t send you to see it. And don’t complain also, just Make your calculations.
That is the bitter reality that I think works.

Raalsalghul:
Makes absolute sense, marriage will tie you down.

yet you will soon marry, so stop the sermon

Zzor:
why will you lock phone if there's nothing to hide

If one has nothing to hide he has nothing to fear but but but but but....
There are scenarios I don’t want my partner to see somethings in my phone because she would misinterpret them e.g if my boss is approaching me at work and sending me sweet messages on WhatsApp. While I am trying to deal with it and have vowed not to break, my partner seeing such message would not understand.
I hope you understand

supportnija:
Depend on what you want in life, do you want to be a mobile application developer, webdeveloper, or desktop application? My advice for you is to learn PHP first, before that you must understand html, CSS possibly JavaScript, Op you cannot learn on your own and become perfect look for someone to put you through. Python is very vasatile , with Python you can develop desktop application, web application and mobile application and equally be good at data science that is why you can't learn on own, just visit w3school site and have all tutorials you want. God bless Nigeria.

You only get paid when you solve problems
Only hobbyist code for fun and learn everything.

22yrs:
A very broad example. It's so rare not to see people playing some sort of games. Very rare.

Yeah but don’t fret, stay vigilant.

22yrs:
True, there's power play everywhere, even in my family, and extended. It's been a lotta deceit and treachery.

outsmarting people in social settings is not an easy skill, so don’t stick with any rule. I encourage people to learn solid social skill to improve social health.
Although the reverse seem to be the case, the moment a person notice he is more socially aware and intelligent than his/her neighbor, the next thing is to play social games since he/she knows he will emerge winner.
A coworker intimidating another timid worker, the confident boys intimidate the low self esteem student, 419 outsmart JJC, The quick finger snatch the phone of the slow passerby. Internet fraudster outsmart his client, A pretty girl manipulate men to pay her bills, A handsome guy manipulate naive ladies with vein promises

Power play everywhere. But sometimes it is avoidable but the gains would never allow people to take their eyes off power play and social manipulations

Dpsychologist:
How to win and influence people is a very good book on that.

Also 48laws of power is necessary.

48 Laws of power are for power play, the knowledge are necessary Incase you are in a place where leadership means deceit and treachery.

22yrs:
Yes at 22, I figured out feeling or claiming to be smart can really put you into serious problems among people.

People dislike other people who try to act or feel smart, they purposely try to test their level of smartness by causing lots of unnecessary dramas and barriers.

How true over there? These days i rather pretend to be a dummy while i outsmart people.

Depends on the context.
Always play the card that best represents your person.
In some cases it is good to play smart and look smart, in some cases it is not.
The crux of it is that you ensure you achieve your aim in the social setting in the easiest way.
And sometimes easiest way means you might step on toes! But who cares

chatinent:
Thanks for your input.

She fetches water, cooks and sometimes cleans the house too. I omitted this part because I deem it to be just gesture.

I like to believe you are lying. Like WTF!

When Power play enter the minds of men, common principles and logic are thrown out of the window.

michkosi:
Enter bet9ja shop ASAP.....

LOL
Op hold this guy if your ticket cut o

gaius01:
Sir with all due respect, marrying such lady is not a problem if only She can come to Nigeria to marry and stay, but you going up there that implies you will be short to some right as a man. This lady is OK financial and educationally and marrying her you can't control anything about her. Beside she woñt have the moral an average Nigeria girls .

Now you like the average Nigeria girl

Trumptweet:
Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.

she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.

What do you mean by good?
Like morally? You have to know that yourself.
Right now be concerned who she is and how she would help your career.
Everything don’t have to end in marriage

Trumptweet:
Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.

she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.

What do you mean by good?

Escabado:
With the way our girls eyes dey red and the way girls see guys as maga . Can you dash a girl 10k for free without demanding fvk . How much can You dash a girl for free

If the girl have big breast and big yarch.can you give her 10k without fvk

Let's discuss

God forbid. Why will I dash any one money? Do I pluck it??
I only help people in need or I do business.

RamessesIV:
Would he try such In a church or mosque he had the audacity to do such cause our society and it's value for traditional institutions

Stop the comparison. No church and mosque here jare. Did any say he shouldn’t be punished?
Why are you always in the world of competition all the time?? Did any say they should free him?? Abeg go front jor!!

mogboyelade:
We need more people like him in this country.

we have a lot of them and that is why the country is in shambles because of some female won’t work, some males are scamming.

RamessesIV:
This is totally wrong,we have no respect for tradtional institutions in this country

He wouldn't have tried such with a church or mosque

Who is we??
Did you read the where post said a man and a woman?
Except you sef join them

kingemaker:
Good morning my NL people.

I usually don't do this but I've been forced to create this thread because my friend (a lady) needs my advice on the subject.

She met this cool dude about two years ago, they started dating after 2 months or thereabouts and everything has been fine with them.

Dude has a good career and she's also doing very well for herself. A couple of days back, she ran into some of his documents and realized that she is 5 years older than him she confirmed this via a photocopy of his international passport, WAEC certificate and Jamb documents; his DOB was consistent in all.

I advised her to confront him, at least to hear his own part of the story (because I'm aware so many Nigerians tend to reduce their "official" ages). But she insisted that that wasn't the case because she remembered when her boyfriend's elder brother in the US once celebrated his birthday with a cake with "**** at 29" inscription. She saw the photos on IG late last year and she was confused but decided to shrug it off thinking it could be a mistake.

As of this moment, she feels the dude must be hiding some other things from her, she's so broken right now.

I'll be expecting your input guys.

I don't mind if you help push this to the promised land.

Thanks

Na football age the guy dey use o

butterfly777:
Bros,
I believe you are misinterpreting the red-pill gospel.

The redpillers are teaching men to understand the true nature of women, and help themselves and their relationships through the knowledge.

But some people misunderstand their message, and think they are women haters and male egoists, which I don't see in their teachings.

Meanwhile, like every sensible person, I don't support everything taught as red-pill, but I learn A LOT from it. Every man needs those teachings. Just take the ones that do not violate Godliness and humanity.

Stop this stupid lies all you drug drinker tell all the time.
Redpill is about male supremacy. If you think it is a lie. Anytime a guy comes out on how he bleeps his neighbor yesterday, all of you celebrate.
Is that how a healthy group functions??
Must you use your social skill to go fucking women around and calling learners in the game a “simp”?
You only need the purple pill, get expose and act responsibly is the theme. Redpill is the exact opposite, get expose and Bleep women because they are all hoes

lefulefu:
well i dont see how simphood is related to what the man just said but again to be honest
he just posted those words in order to get high likes from the women in the facebook group and hopefully get laid
na scope
all what he posted..not one comes from his heart
he just said those words cos im know na wetin many women go wan hear
hopefully he might get two or more piece of asses in dat group

You na OG bro. Some guys don’t know when men are playing to get the juice.
They think it is everytime Shakara work. Some times you can set a snare for people. And when they get close you show your true color.
It is call “sweet words”

Currentlygrown:
now let me take this time to address some pressing issues since I’m well aware a lot of persons would be seeing this.
Nigerians are the most stupid, gullible, greedy, selfish and materialistic lots.
I weep for the stupidity of Nigerians.
Somewhere out there, there’s hundreds — if not millions of individuals clamoring for one old corrupt idiot to become President of this country in 2023. We’ve not even finished talking about the hardships and terror the current idiot in Aso Rock is putting this country through.
Since the inception of this wayward conception called Nigeria, greedy and selfish bastards have been in the helms of power and nobody cares.
Everybody just wants to benefit their own.
Benefit people!!
Nobody cares for the next generation. Suffer and untold hardship that’s all we’ve been going through. And now this thief has finished stealing for himself and his family members, they want to put another old stupid fool to control the wealth of this nation.
I weep for you Nigerians. I cry for myself every single day because there’s just very few reasonable folks like me in this country.
Folks who if it’s left for them, old unrepentant corrupt men would never see the daylight to control the purse of this stupid affair you call Nigeria.
I pity all of you. Wait until this country becomes Iraq or Somalia. Then you would realize that we all had our chances to make things right.
And for you greedy government official that would fortuitously read this post. I want you to note that NOTHING lasts forever. Nothing.
one day they’d come for your house, and the houses you built for your children, they’d knock and push and shove and pull until whatever barriers you have kept against them caves. And then you would watch as your so-called empires fade. one day.

I STAN with you bro!

Kriss216:
Kidnappers should be targeting only Polithiefcians.

politicians are sending them. It is not a random something.

iLegendd:
OP, I know the stage you're in. It's stage 4 called Bad Boy. This is the stage after Mr. Nice Guy reads about being an alpha male through some redpill/pua dating tips.

He jumps from a nice guy to a heartless bad boy. Just like Ozo of BBNaija will do. After he leaves the house and reads a book on dating and realizes all the mistakes he made that made Nengi to take his love of granted, he's going to hurt women just as you're doing. Ozo is going be the most heartless heartbreaker after the show.

Being a bad boy in the dating world is good, but being a revengeful one is unhealthy because your actions may come back to haunt you.

After this your revengeful bad boy stage, I know you'll grow into a good-bad guy soon, then finally to a changed man — just as it's described in the pyramid below.

Life is a stage, so I can see you're in stage 4. One day, you'll get to stage 9 (leadership).

Zoom the picture to see clearly.

Don't tell me you are one of the red-pill guys, but you are describing my stage of live. The bad boy who lie and manipulate ladies to a mature young man, Now I see those manipulations as unhealthy and it was only based on revenge of fear and past experiences. I wish a lot of bad guys and Ubunja red-pill shouter understand what you described here. Someday hopefully.
Respect!

rottencorpse:
There's this girl at my workplace who is falling head over heels in love with me, but I'm the kind of guy that doesn't stay with a girl for more than 2 weeks. Nigerian ladies were made to be used and dumped. I'm going to lead her on and then shatter her. I'll make sure she doesn't return from where I'll leave her. I've done it to 2 girls so far, but I'll make sure hers will be the worst of them all.

And one day she may be same person that could hold a key to one big achievement in the future later, by then she would have been a feminist. Think think bro. Better to leave people in the best possible way you can.

PortHarcourt2:
It is not true. UNN is the worst university in Nigeria. Even most Polytechnics are better than the shithole called UNN

How many have you been to?
Most public school are shit

PortHarcourt2:
UNN is the worst university in Nigeria. What a shambolic shithole university. Enugupikin come and carry your shithole university where only Nsukka illiterates are attending school

Please seek information before you speak, it is like this in most Federal university

SabaliPatience:
Girls are not faithful.
When searching for a wife, pray to God and He'll give you the perfect one, can't believe this girl has been deceiving me all these while claiming she's faithful.
So I hacked into her Facebook account, read her inbox and found out she has been cheating.
Guys no matter how financially stable you are, even if you provide all her necessities if she wants to cheat on you She'll still cheat.
I made sure I provided all her needs but guess what? it still ended in tears
Never you trust your girl unless you have her social media passwords without her knowledge.
Her chats are the one I've censored with red while the guy is the one censored with black

Here is the real question.
Why did you trust her at first?

phr33man:
Take it or you leave it. Nothing like having a woman in your life. Just pray you get a good one. No doubt many of these ladies are wh*res these days but I bet there are still a good number of decent ones. Are we better of as guys? No body only pass for either gender o. A real successful man not just money needs a woma(wife in particular) . We just have to pray to have a good wife who might probably have made mistakes too earlier in life.

Thank God sane people like you exist. If they can think they are Good men and they exist then why can’t there be a good woman also. A lot of people are manipulative and dangerous. Because of this thing a lot of people are afraid of falling victim.
Due to this thought, many guys like to believe every girls are LovePeddler so that they wouldn’t be played.