₦airaland Forum

RedPhoenix:
Hallelujah


Why a man makes himself an irritant bewilder me

He is not really so informed. I don’t know if he don’t have social circle that teach how to act around women to hold his self respect

ademidedavid:
Probably, because I know he might not want to disclose everything to me

If I am in this man shoe currently, I would become more vigilant to understand what the whole context of her ex and past is all about and what does it mean now, this way you know how to act. Because if this is surprising to him then it means he hasn’t understand his wife well enough, he hasn’t dig deep into the mind and perception of his wife. Is she just communicating a background message? Is something cooking somewhere he don’t know? Is the wife trying to test him of what he can do by throwing the bait for him to bite?

I actually don’t understand how people are partners and they can’t smell and perceive slight signals even after living for so many year. Infact It is one skill everyone should learn.

ademidedavid:
Exactly, remimg her husband of who disflowered her......I know men hate to remember such but she told him effortlessly......he shock me oooo

People could show disrespect based on many factor. Maybe she knows something about the man that no one knows.
Or the man don’t understand how value system works so he tolerates shit

ademidedavid:
I will make it brief as possible, a fellow friend who is also a nairalander approached me with this question.

He said his wife whom they are in good terms has been talking recently about her ex who disflowered her but now outside the country and she has also been showing much interest in travelling out recently. On a friendly conversation, she told him that she is not ashamed of her past and also reminded the husband that he didn't marry her as a virgin.

Please is there an ulterior motive to this?

You have the right to speak but that one doesn’t mean you speak carelessly.
What sought of misyarn is that?
No show of respect for her husband and moreso added salt to injury by digging out an old hatchet.

If the man knows what’s up let him start getting ready to make some hard decisions.

Nonsense and ingredient

Sain:
U are needed for what?
maybe we can come to your rescue if u give us full details.

“we” must be a very kindhearted person o. Wow

benzene00:
I'm tired of shouting simp on nairaland

Why not do something better with your life

baralatie:
Na the we dey beg Baba God 2_4_7 nau

Abi o. Make person no go bite pass Wetin e fit chew

baralatie:
wetin the woman wan do?

the thing wey devil plan be say make she get problem for her marrtal home.ehen! plus husband,brother and iyawo give devil chance.(the thing Don scatter)

inorder to save iyawo nah!
na to send am back to Villa for some time till this mata turn to history of kunta kunte(people Don forget).from there she go find her level

This life sha no balance at all.

baralatie:
as in ehn!

no be small fight!

by the time them bail the case comot station(claiming the families will settle the matter)the woman just pack comot the house straight to village.

It is a dangerous society. Shey like dis now we go talk say the woman do the right thing?

argent412:
I just they they whyn her sha

Bet she knows

baralatie:
I know you were been Savage.

the thing is there are some homes that are experiencing this particular kind of problem.
that is a situation where the brother of a woman's husband was sleeping in the room of the husband with the wife.the husband went for a job and the brother stated bonking the wife.the wife got fed up and went to station and said the brother was literarily raping her in the house.
imagine the hell that was unleashed in the husband family compound.the family now spin the story that the wife is to be blamed.

Hmmm omo that one strong o. Chai

baralatie:
husband and wife have joined and has become one body.
the decision to house is for the husband to decide but the choice to have another person to sleep on the bed with the wife requires the consent of the wife before even getting into the bed


two, that the man is now touching the wife on that bed.hian!


three,if sex should eventually happen.should it be called concenting sex between three adults or wife harassment to conceive or rape

Hian Abeg na play I dey o. I understand what OP Is stating clearly. Just being savage.
Meanwhile don’t trust people narration exactly how they say it. So a soft side advise should be given

argent412:
lolz. but na Australian babe she be na. I don confirm am through her post.

Hian... ok o if Na so carry go. But I hope say that compliment na harmless oh?

argent412:
which one be lie again. you no check her profile pics

what is fine in that eye. Omo na normal eye jare. Perhaps be like say na stolen picture. You just enter Nairaland sha

drake99:
in nairaland, almost all the guys screams money money money, more money and more... is what you need to get the girls

there's this plumber in the compound, this guy is just average in looks and very broke, compound people are tired of separating fights for women fighting over him

the one that happened this morning pushed me to open this thread, one spent the night with him and the other one came this morning to eject the first one, they had serious confrontations which led to a fight

the guy in question pushed 2 of them outside and closed his door, and there's a rumor that bringing different women to the house Is the reason his uncle he was staying with ejected him

mind you, this girls are not prostitutes, and they are the ones doing the spending on him, as we hear one of them saying after all she did for him

since almost all the guys here believe you need money to have girls running after you, what about the broke guys getting them girls

because almost each of every one of you know a certain broke guy that gets the girls

Getting girls was never an issue and if anyone has said that the person must be in a male boarding school or a male prison to spit that shit.
Get real money

edward1106:
Are you guys still on the same planet as I am? Are you for real asking that question?
Oh Lawd! It's enough bullshit inconveniencing someone. A normal person would sleep on the chair or floor given one room, otherwise find your way.

Omo there is nothing abnormal about sleeping on the bed. Op just want to oppress omolomo

baralatie:
is he the one that bought the bed abi is the woman on the bed his wife or does he have a say on who should sleep on the bed.

Husband wey buy bed nor complain, na you come dey complain. Aside touching her which is a taboo in most places. He may have nothing in his mind.
And if he does, the consent of the OP is needed to fire on.

baralatie:
if the guy also on the floor ,is it bad?

it is bad o. Leave the small innocent boy to sleep on the bed peacefully

argent412:
I love your eyes missyford, they are cute.

why you lie na?

Preciousgirl:
My husband's brother has been with some time and he calls me our wife. I so detest that name because I am older than him.

Now he dumps his dirty clothes for me to wash. He sleeps on the same bed I sleep on with my husband. I woke up this morning when my husband was already off bed to see this guys arm is resting in my back.

My husband doesn't see anything wrong it. Please, is this brother in law's attitude normal? I am feeling uncomfortable, please.

What should I do?

Where do you want him to sleep? On the floor?

etsuidris:
Him come look like Bobrisky

Chai
Una wicked o .

flyingpig:
Ordinary 27 years old terrorizing the family and I am sure it is the man who is her main victim.

Witches and wizards brought from the village to enjoy good life in USA will turn on their husband and family just to gain divorce and access to millions like other baby mamas in America do. Stupid learner I hope you rot in American jail and greet hushpuppy for us.

Big lesson to Nigerian men bringing women over to America. Keep her ass and pretentious heart back in Nigeria and wire funds to her. Bring her over and break your own heart. If you must marry in America, marry the America born and bred. At least you've seen the worst of those ones. No talk say I no stop you from bringing a woman from Nigerian village.

What is the myopic reasoning among people this days. The news said a Nigeria women. It didn’t say a research about most Nigerian women. So why the mass generalizations? Moreover you now trying to condemn Africa in a way.

Dabyes:
During this lockdown, due to my greediness, I was looking for ways to make money even though I didn't need it. I haste to make quick money, I fell into the hands of scammers who said I could get double the amount I invested. I didn't have any money of my own so I decided to use my mum's money. I had easy access her account because she used my number to open the account. I invested N45,000 but since then I haven't heard anything from them. I want to pay off the money on my own before she finds out even if it means I have to borrow but even if I have people to lend me the money, I can't provide a good reason for needing that kind of money. And they would surely tell my mum about it if I should tell them the truth. So far, I have been able to pay off N14,500 remaining N30,500. She is going to check the account next week and I can't raise the money before then. Please can anybody lend me the money or show me how I can get that money in 1 week? I don't want her to find out about it at all because she won't ever trust me with her money again and I don't want that to happen. I'm open to any criticism provided that you profer a solution.

You can’t except you borrow from a friend.
Meanwhile what you did is very bad, break of trust is much more deadly sin when done to a family. You are on a hot coal boy.
Prepare to loss your mom trust.
Meanwhile prepare to take responsibility that would be the least best thing you can do in this situation that would be commendable, although it it has it price.

Account2Many:
not claim, they certainly are

What you know or what you heard/read?

Scarrr:
Why u con dey show us ur face, well during mine I wasn't emotionally attached to anyone..sampled some pussy tho ...tip; always go for the ones getting less attention from guys.

and the craziest part is that those Simps flooding that one girl(usually the most beautiful) no dey get the phussy laslas ,na fried zone den go dey for 600years

Alpha males that go and Bleep girls with no attention.

paulolee:
Yes they is always space because the metaphysical do exist and pls if you dnt believe in magic or witchcraft do not mean dt it doesn't exist..

it could also mean it doesn’t exist

Shanklee:
i don check google tire. please let me know if you have any idea

Oga check YouTube na

I can not come and kill myself o. I will help her call the police.

Super story.
Alpha male on Nairaland reading PDF and asking lame questions.
Mtchew

Join the Nairaland cult group “Redpill”. They claim they are professional in manipulating women.

GOFRONT:
"In Africa, Married MEN Cheat MORE Than the married Women".........No be me talk am o......Na @Stanliwise talk am oh..

Dem dey hide talk that one. Goto club and carry out research if you doubt me.