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Veetee:
Please house

I will be very brief about this, I recently moved in to lagos, but as lagos is I had accommodation issues .
My elder brother who is married offered to help my renting a 3 bedroom apartment. But he told me that he will be making use of one of the rooms, which obviously i had no choice than to agree.

After settling in, I noticed he brings random girls to the house to sleep with, infact there are times he sleeps with 4 different girls.
He doesnt even use protection. The wife had before now complained to me, I didnt understand how bad the situation is until I saw things for myself. There is no week he doesnt bring in girls , the only time he slows down is when he is short of money.

I am fed up and scared of this attitude. he has a regular side chic, who is still tired of his cheating habit and has left him several times, but he keeps begging her to come back. I wonder how a man has such strength for sex.

I am planning on telling his wife what the situation is, although she is aware. I want to advise her to run for her life before it gets too late
he might infect her , but some friends has advised me against such moves, as it could destroy the marriage.

please what do you think i should do in this situation.

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yarimo:
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Alexbio:
A good day to all nairalanders reading this piece below:
Pls, read this diligently and input your best comments. Thanks.
Four months ago I entered into relationship with a single mother of one ( a girl precisely), in my neighborhood, we are both mature. Its all began when the lady fell in love after observing my kind of person which she later told me about that, to cap it all she said at some point that she never knew that what she has been looking for over the years was right under nose, that she has remained wasting long ago without no good man like me in her life. Although, we have been in the same neighborhood for a while now and knew her boyfriend before they both broke apart because the guy cheated on her with her (single mother) girlfriend and 3years thereabouts she said she hasn't dated any guy again. At first I was never interested because after I broke up with my last girlfriend I promised to channel all my focus on my career pursuit squarely for the time being to allow myself for healing of heartbreak and self development. This lady (single mother) actually engrossed me and four days of coming together she will invite me over to her apartment and cook nice foods for me, treat me with hospitality and in addition told me she has been lonely and that she need me to erase the loneliness, that I'm her answered prayer; sometimes I would smiles and even tell her I have friends (guys) who are looking for relationship that I should I introduce her to one of them I trust won't maltreat her in response she would repeatedly say no. At some point I gave her benefit of doubt and I began to give her a chance in my life, so the relationship life began proper she would come to my apartment and I would go to hers and most times we play together as lovers but no sex. To be sincere and to cut the long story short, this lady meet at least 60% on a scale of 100% the type of life partner I ever envisaged. The relationship took a higher level that she was so free with me that she wouldn't wear pants while on her wrapper with me in her apartment sometimes in her bra alone and so.
However, here is where my concern stemmed from, on our first sex though after romancing her to the point that she was wet and I said no sex she refused angrily and said someone else is giving me sex that is the reason for my refusal. So to calm her, I had sex with her but surprisingly she covered her breasts with a wrapper while she was resisting my hands from touching them while having sex with her and on our second sex the same scenario played out. And in my reaction to that, I asked her why and she has remained silent with flimsy excuse that "have you paid my bride price" up till this moment. Her love for me has been increasing even after the sex.
Right now, I'm afraid and at the same time getting disgusted and curious about her habit during sex!
Is it that she is actually faking love with me or not wanting me to explore her body for now or she is up to something I wouldn't pray to be devilry?

I appreciate your kind advices here. God bless you.

Dremca:
I have been struggling with landing jobs on upwork and fortunately for me, I applied to one last night and the client replied back and we did interview and was given a quick test task to do which I did and sent to him, only to plug my laptop to charge so I could hop on the zoom call to finalise with the client, NEPA took light and not quite long, my laptop went off and neither do I have a smartphone I could have used for the call. I just checked back this morning after the so called NEPA brought back light and saw that the client has hired someone else, I really feel pained that after struggling to land a job and this particular one came but lost it because of NEPA. I will never forget this day and I am waiting for who will come and tell me to be a patriotic Nigeria. This country is a mess. Any country that can give 24/7 power supply is far better than Nigeria even if is Sudan. I feel pained!

Fujiyama:
^^^
The dynamic is different for males. Your dad got involved because you are female.

victorVIC1:
I have a male kid that is about 3 years old and I recently observed that a particular kid in the compound that is 2 months older than him always attempt to bully him at sight.

The few times this have happened in my presence, I restrained my son from retaliating cos the boy in question is autistic. Though my wife also informed me, there was a day my son fought back and the boy stopped his bullying attempt for a while afterwards.

This morning my son was about to leave for school. Immediately he came out of the apartment, the boy ran towards him and hit him. Once more, I stopped my son from hitting him back but this time his mum (my neighbour) experienced the scenario and only made a remark to the boy to stop looking for trouble. I felt she made the remark just to create an impression that she was concerned.

I've been feeling so uneasy about this since morning and this is obviously a bullying case and I'm subtly training my kid to tolerate it. Hence, I've concluded that the next time such will happen, I will ask my boy to fight back.

Just to have your opinion on this matter, is fighting back the best approach in this situation putting into consideration the health condition of the bully ?

Boliboli760:
More like FREEBIRTH AFTER 3 TRAUMATIC EMERGENCY CESAREANS(FA3TEC).


Through out pregnancy, no sweep , no cervical check.
During labour; No cervical dilation check, no baby monitor. And my body did its thing.

I went into this with a lot of research and informed decision knowing fully well I was healthy and baby was healthy. My iron level was amazing, nutrition level was amazing and mentally I was prepared. The only thing I never prepared for was giving birth at home without midwives present. Or having a very short labour even though I drank a lot of raspberry leaf tea, drank blended pineapple with core, ate dates ,drank ewedu juice as least once a week towards the end and bath with herbal soap(from nigeria elewe omo) to help soften my body for birth. Alot of meditation and positive Hypnobirthing videos too.

Straybullet:
One lady has been hyperventilating on Facebook.

Her grouse is that men above 35 shouldn't date girls 19 or below.

Should we tell her?

Maybe we should.

I wl never advise any man seeking a marriage that would bear children to marry any lady older than 25. And quite honestly the younger the better, barring child abuse age.

My opinion.

Reason: I'm an MBBS and in my line of work I see numerous ladies... and... I've done an informal survey: If I scan 10 ladies 26 and above at least 5 to 6 of them would have fibroids.

This is the hard truth that needs to be told. Raw sex plus emergency contraceptives like postinor is creating a whole new subset of early uterine fibroid sufferers .

I swear it.

So what are you doing with that demographic only to start disturbing people for prayers

If children are not on your mind then, this may not apply to you. Otherwise, it's the new reality upon us, many more of our younger ladies are suffering from this ailment than our parents generation had.


So the Facebook lady shouldn't blame men. Many of us only marry for reproduction purposes and the dynamic now has absolutely changed.


Thank you.

Pengician:
After spending 3 years Abroad, you came home to meet this, what would you do?

Be honest.

ahnie:
I was somewhere gisting with a lil friend,when this scenery caught my attention.
I had to capture it on camera.
The red neck lizard was really trying hard to be noticed by the female lizard.

I believed the two female lizards are best of friends gossiping away,when this red neck lizard came and tried wooing one of them,and he was outrightly snubbed .

Simply put,every man needs the presence of a woman in their life to make it colourful.

Alabamah:
Away from health & Care worker jobs...
Did you know that UK QTS team have started sending mails to applicants..

TRCN have also started doing their jobs for Teachers interested in teaching in UK.

Only science degree holder is applicable for now. They have really gone far in WhatsApp group... However, it's so unfortunate no one is updating about the teacher's Route.

iInjureHerYansh:
I disvirgined this girl about nine months ago and till now we still stuck in the "I'm not in a mood or its paining" circle. There is no type of pre-intimacy I don't do on her still her mood remains the same. I don't even romance women much before they wet but this one even when she's wet like a river Penetration hurts her.
Worst part is she will improve at some point then decline back to the level of a Virgin that mere fingering hurts her. I'm beginning to give up on the whole thing. I know some people will say I should give her more time but nine months is enough for any human being to adapt to anything / situation, plus this girl is stubborn and has a sharp mouth. I don't see myself being with her in few weeks time if this persists.
Regardless, I'd like to know how men that have come across rigid women handled their situation

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timesuploaded:
everywhere in Nigeria one million dollar is chicken change. That's just money to buy a 100 by 200 land along a tarred road. In warri self the money fit no even buy nothing along major tarred road

timesuploaded:
Traveling abroad especially America has been a disaster for so many Nigerians. In 3 months it becomes clear that Nigeria is a trillion times better than America and Canada. In over 40yrs of this great mistake I have never seen a Nigerian who made it in America or Canada. Even those who sold their houses and retired back to Nigeria after 40yrs of working abroad can't retire back with $1million which is chicken change in present day Nigeria. This is one nightmare the new generation must avoid

ojeysky:
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ChizzyBuna:
Both of us were alone in my house, we were watching movie when nepa took the light.
Since it was dark I turn on my phone Torchlight then grab her romantically and started smooching her.

She allowed me squeeze and touch her boobs, she even allowed me to suck her nipples. But immediately I put my hand on her pants, she remove my hands.
I try again she remove my hands.

Why will a girl allow you to touch her breast and suck her nipples but won't allow you touch her pussy? What could be the reason??

Edit:
After talking with her tonight, she finally opened up to me why she behave like that she said she just dosent like being touched down there. she wants to have sex with me but she hates fingering and thats why she don't like guys to touch her down there.

Kemizie:
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ask4bk:
It can connect to 128 devices. So anyone can connect if you give them the password.

The radius for coverage from the router may not cover your entire house if very big due to wall obstructions. On open field it can go as far as 185m2, but the further you go the less connection you get, even if the less connection will still give u fast Internet.

In my house I use WiFi extenders and that's the best way to share it.
You get a WiFi extender to connect to the starlink router wireless and it'll extend to wider distance that the router may not reach. You can even still extend the extender again with another extender depending on how far you want to reach.

ask4bk:
I don't have good network in my village. I can communicate now cos of Internet.

Pls ask any question here

ask4bk:
Before now, we don't have Internet at all. We have only mtn 2g that comes with only 1 bar.
It's so rural and remote with no road for hours that network providers decided they can never come in there for the villagers.

Here i am now... Thanks to starlink, I now browse on very good speed.

I am using the RV service (recreational) which means I can use it anywhere in Nigeria and in future, anywhere in Africa without changing service address like those using fixed residential service.
RV costs $53 while normal residential costs $43 in Nigeria.
RV can pause their payment but residential can never stop starlink from charging them whether they use it on not except they cancel their service totally or empty their bank balance.

Disadvantage with RV is that you get slower speeds compared to residential fixed people. You see I'm getting 60mbps while residential people get over 150mbps.

But I don't care. Even 10mbps is enough to stream Netflix on full HD. It's more than I need.

Lastly, I see many comparing starlink to their 5g or fibre in cities. Let it be made clear that STARLINK IS NOT FOR CITIES BUT FOR REMOTE AND RURAL AREAS
Starlink didn't do their service to compete with providers in cities. Even their site clearly says its for remote and rural areas.
But as per se, in Nigeria even our city internet providers are epileptic, that's why many are using it in Lagos and Abuja which shows that our networks are bad.

Men, thank you so much Elon musk for giving us this rare opportunity.

I can't believe I'm in a rural place, 4 hours from nearest civilisation, and I'm having high speed Internet. 😍

Praktikals:
Peter Obi was at the palace of the Emir of Ilorin but was forced to remove his shoes. We all know that the same treatment cannot be given to Atiku or The Jagaban.

Praktikals:
This is Jagaban rocking his designer shoes in the same palace few days back

chccho:
Nigerians and cancerous mindset!!!!!

DonOG:
Good morning guys, an incident happened over the weekend which I would love to share with you guys so you can help judge the case because some of my friends are insisting I handled it wrongly.

A couple of my military friends, a navy officer and a soldier came into town last week and proposed to take my girlfriend out so we proceeded to her to pick her up from school. On our way we stopped by a fueling station to get fuel so I gave them a location to go wait for me while I take a bike to pick her up since the queue was a bit much. On our way out of school we came across two guys on the walk way, they exchanged glances and asked each other "what", one of the guys happened to be her coursemate that she already told me about sometime ago.

According to her, the guy used to be an errand boy for a notorious cult guy that used to ask her out during her first year, so the said guy was the one always coming to deliver messages to her. she didn't want to get involved with cultists so she would normally leave the guy hanging around without giving him a response to the messages. After the guy asking her out left the school the guy somehow started nursing a grudge against her.

While we stood at the school gate waiting for a bike the guy showed up again, this time with five guys with him and accosted my babe. He demanded to know why she talked to him rudely, before she could say jack he landed a jaw shattering slap on her cheek that nearly sent her sprawling to the ground. I was embarrassed but had to apply wisdom because the area wasn't my territory coupled with the fact that I was obviously out numbered. I held the guy's hand when he proceeded to slap her again and asked him why he would embarrass me by hitting a lady that was with me. Meanwhile my girlfriend was behind my back hurling insults at the guy saying stuff like he had the gut to hit her because he has started moving with cultists and other stuff I don't recall.

While I was trying to placate the situation, I noticed more guys closing in on us and knew I would be in danger if I didn't leave the place. I somehow managed to get a bike and took her away. My military friends were furious when they heard what happened insisted we go back to the school. I told them to die the matter because even if they are military guys we were still out numbered and we might get seriously injured before their backup comes.

They insisted on going back to the school, we went and as expected didn't meet any of the guys. They made a report to the school security and promised to come back the next day. On our way back they kept making calls and arranging a squad that would pick up the guy the next day while I kept trying to make them see reasons why it was going to be a bad move.

Firstly they can't possibly apprehend all the cultists in the school so arresting the guy will simply make the girl a moving target for the rest of the members and I wasn't willing to take that risk for someone that has just a couple of months to graduate. We might go and display power in the school and go back home while the girl will be all alone in the school without any form of protection, its not like they are going to assign a personal bodyguard to her. What if matters go south and a life or even lives get lost, it would be embarrassing to hear that it was all because of a girl that will move on to the next guy in a matter of weeks if anything happens to me. I was finally able to convince them and make them stand down.

The following day I brokered a peace meeting between my girlfriend and the guy through the cult guy's cousin that was also her friend though I didn't show up at the location. I even asked her to apologize to the guy for insulting him just to massage his ego so the matter could die down. My girlfriend recorded everything while the guy kept threatening her that she wasn't going to graduate for insulting him because she was with a guy. He went on to say that I was the target of the attack because they thought I would react to the assault on her and maybe fight back. They were even laughing at her that she's dating a coward that couldn't defend her in an attack, I just smiled.

My girlfriend was upset that she had to apologize to someone that hit her, but I told her that sometimes we have to choose our fights wisely. You don't go into a fight with someone that doesn't have anything to lose. Some of my friends feel I am a coward but I still feel I handled it the best way. What do you guys think??.....sorry for the epistle or any errors.

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Tutu82:
His business is with his wife not who she has cheated with.Contacting the guy will only make him feel self important and make the matter worse i fear.

I have Shogun Method incase you need

Breeze111:
Omo yesterday was really sad, catching cruise for the weekend, so yesterday my guy requested one hook up babe like that, so they agree on 5k, mehn wai dis babe finally arrived she come with her child oooh, my guy say over e dead body wai e go knack that girl with her child for room, so after much talks and questioning we found out that the babe was really going through alot, 5k wai they agree, we had to raise small found for her up to 21,700k, then beg her make she try get something reasonably to do and stop this kind life...So now my question to the house, guys if na you, you go still knach that babe like that with her pinkin for inside room...my ear open they listen to children of Eve��

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