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Oboh662:
My wife lost her immeiate elder sister , she left behind 6 children including twins who are 3 months old and a husband , the man is nothing to write home about he had abandoned all 6 children with my inlaws , he doesn't call nor send them money for their upkeep.
My wife is a nursing mother our baby is 5 months her family want us to take over the twins so my wife can nurse them but I refused because I am managing myself to provide for my wife and baby I can't afford to provide for 2 extra babies and my inlaws are not financial buoyant all the responsibility will be on me ,buying pampers and baby formula every week.
My wife is angry and she said I am heartless for refusing to accomodate these orphans.I told my inlaws to report there father to welfare so he can provide for his 6 children they don't want to report him, they said they reported him to God and they are forcing me to take his responsibility when he is alive this is something I can never do.
I don't know what part of I can't afford 3 babies they don't understand , at the moment we haven't renew our rent and I am working hard to get the money to pay the rent and she is giving me attitudes. Do I have a point or I am a bad person for not accepting them?

Inside dis hard economy. You did what U have to do. Although your wife could try to breast feed those babies. If she's lactating heavily and no working she can breastfeed dem alongside hers.....



Have a written down agreement for everything including who foots the bill later......feeding don cost now oh

aieromon:
All this merry go round ontop pictures and price

It's not everytime and everything we should comment on tho...
You expect me to start struggling to send him pictures and prices of something I don't sell?
Rather than give him the direct source?


I can even do middle man and chop commision but I rather gave him direct source



Kaiiii...Nigerians


Una too dey vex somebody

TermuxDarkWeb:
Cc dominique Seun Nlfpmod

When U try using the trade key....


Dey will ask U to open Ur own account...


Deposit 50 dollars or more





Dey will get the fifty dollars and Ur card details
....




Fiaaaaam




All d money in Ur account would *naniyi*


Loss forever

kezienaira:
Yes nah, why not.
Could you show me the pic and name.
Price also..thanks

+234 806 5 31 6307 chat dis number.
Ask him to add U to the WhatsApp group......interact and ask questions in the group before buying.
Thank me later

kezienaira:
What device is that bigman, I mean the 247 power bank

It's one powerbank oh....U want to buy

OriOko88:
Can u cross this chinese highway for 50m naira??

Yinmuuu....

I will spray 2 million naira.... The whole drivers go pack run come out come pack money


I cross safely
....

TheGidRedpiller:
I wholeheartedly accept this feedback.

We are all here to enlightening eachother.
Thank you very much brother.

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

One love brother

TheGidRedpiller:
If you don't process things like this, you will realize that your friend didn't take in those punches because he fvvcked your biittch, but because he couldn't control himself.

Your woman didn't just know you existed, she ALSO KNEW that the other guy was your friend, but she fvvcked him anyway.
Which sin is bigger?

Women are TOO UNIMPORTANT to be worth loosing a good friend over.
Stop giving women the power to destroy the good things of your life.
Always keep them in the last position of your priority list!!

If you walk in your "Girlfriend" riding your friend, end the relationship with her right there, go out and wait for your friend so the both of you can hit the nearest bar!!
In my case, he wasn't my friend, and he turned out to be the best, most ltrustworthy stocks broker I could find even up till today.

Look, women will fvvck anything that is appealing enough, biittches literally drill themselves with cucumbers!!
Stop getting yourself too emotionally attached!!

Learn to put your fellow man in the front line at all times.
Respect your fellow man, no woman is worth throwing punches over, in the same vein, no woman is worth getting a black eye over!!
Help him protect his masculinity.

It doesn't matter what she looks like, or feels like, as long as it's a SHE involved, Don't You Dare Lay A Finger On That Fellow Man!!
That's some insecured bullshiit!!

No, I am not saying you should take your friend's side simply because he is a male, I am just trying to make you understand that, the fact that he fvvcked your girl doesn't necessarily mean he is a bad person.

His importance to you should be based on things of actual worth, not your cheating biittch's vag!na.
If you were in his shoes, you probably would have fallen too!
"Body No Be Firewood", especially in the case of men!!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

I understand your points and I enjoy all your sweet writeups.



But this is one point I totally disagree. I understand if it's a side chick but if it's a main babe
...



Haba please don't advise men to wait for dia friends!



Dammit...

He would covet your girl....your money and Ur business....



Shit that girl if she knows how to Bleep would Bleep him to stupor and give him a poison to dump into your drink!


Dammit bro....dis advise no work

TheGidRedpiller:
Why would you quantify the brotherly love your friend has for you based on a female.

I could love you with everything I have to offer you as your friend, but if your biittch shows up one day and starts touching me in places, there is a good chance that I would not be able to control my shiit.
I know it's wrong in EVERY WAY, I would hate myself with every thrust I make, but I'm sorry, I will c*m satisfactorily.

Understand something today;
In every s€xual relationship, the woman is the person with the self control, not the man.
Women are the legitimate gate-keepers of s€x, nobody is fvvcking nobody if the woman isn't opening up.
Absolutely nothing beats this simple fact!

So basically, if you find out about an intimate relationship between your friend and your girl, first of all, put in note that your girl wasn't r@p€d, or at least not continuously. What kind of a woman enjoys being forcefully penetrated??

Then think about the kind of relationship you have always had with your friend, do you really think he would have initiated it, or at least, done it with with a clear conscience?

Your friend didn't necessarily "Betray" you, he probably hates himself for it.
Your friend didn't fvvck your girl, Your Girl Fvvcked Your Friend!!
Learn to look at the big picture.
Your biittch of a "Girlfriend" cheated on you, not your friend.

UNLESS you have always known your friend to be that kind of a person, then it's a different situation.
And of course, it's your fault for keeping people like that around you.

Still Typing...

A friend that would fvvck your woman would kill you over money!



End the friendship

Jennyclay:
Absolutely right.

Can you allow your sisters or daughters to marry a broke man?

Poor men are like vultures...

Dey are patient....very very patient



When most of the fine girls don do shakara finish..... The few rich men will marry from the so many hot girls.


Na poor men go still carry the remaining girls...



Lol



Are we.nit seeing it happen?


Yinmuuu

Haakeem:
Yes of course.
If he is a good man.
they would surely overcome it together.

Bro why U dey answer na


Look all around you... How many rich men do you see?


How many married poor men do you see


Hehehe

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

Well ,firstly may God not allow me see this situation bkos somebody go die put or collect wound.


See bro,
She blocking that person is non negotiable and what the Bleep haven't U called the person for?


If you buy land and person dey try build foundation ontop the land....will you just report to who you bought the land from and go and sit down


Wouldn't U dig up the foundation



Cut the bastard warning


Put some strict restrictions


Collect the phone



Monitor details


And drop some life-threatening warnings


Or just simply walk the Bleep away

Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?

Please she is manipulating you.


This is probably the main reason she is a single mother in the first place.



For your peace of mind abeg leave her alone.

Linus199:
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10+5*2
10+10
20

adefitim:
We are already friends but she said no to love.

Na wa oh...

Well in 2022 women U don't directly ask some kind of babes out. Why stress yourself



See if I was in your shoes man and she'd worth it. I will blank out other guys from the pics and start doing like boyfriend man!


Morning and night calls....texting

Gifts..

Attention to detail
compliments



I doubt if any girl exists that wouldn't fall for the above if done consistently by a fine boy.... Personally, I just need two days serious communication with babe and she would want to marry me next day....


She's currently seeing you as an *Ashawo!*



Let me explain bro....


You see if she had gone out with you and you bleeped her that very first day, you would tag her a slot. Toh, it's now how she's seeing you.



Few weeks into the friendship you are giving out the only thing she wants from you "commitment"



Now you have thrown all your balls into her court!! (Dammit)


You need strategy to reverse this entire thing man!


If she's not very fine and with big nyash.....I will say quit the chase and cut your loss. She would trace you to your house. Nonetheless,is she's worth it.....


I can drop some further moves to reverse this simple shit you are sliding into

mic360:
Is to think that money would give me happiness. To be sincere, my mentality is so messed up. I placed Money before quality relationships, before friends, and some other stuff.

Yet my soul remains empty, I love being sad and I just can't control it. It is eating me deep, and I know it would affect me in the long run but i just can't help it.

How I wish I had not put money before my Education, Relationships, Friends. Worst is Poor comminunication skill, I can't even mentain a good conversation both online and offline.

Meh, just needed to pour this out as i gat no one to pour out my mind to...Looking forward to reshaping my mentality on everything.

Last last did you get the money?


Share the money or share how you got it and I will allow you become my friend.


Patapata 6months you will pick up on all your aforementioned skills.



Its communication both online and offline
I be adept at them. Deal

snowland:
Like this if you support 10k to 27 people

2058032299
Uba


Make I collect my own abeg

MackIV:
I'm doing great in Nigeria, on a bad day I could earn upto 100k daily. The fear of starting afresh, earning minimum wage for a long time b4 I start making it scares the sh*t out of me.

Please if you can put me out of my misery


2- The fear of my unborn children losing their culture and heritage.


PS: please don't ask what I do

Teach us na


Even 10000 daily don do me

Islandboi:
my brother I have been sex no be today o!

I have never experience this type of pussy before. Maybe its medical condition or something. Who knows!

No wahala bro....have a wonderful time ahead

Islandboi:
This is just too much stress just to have sex. I will just let her be. I have been enduring it all this while but right now I will just let her be. We move!

Hehehe


If you let her be now...


Another one will be awaiting you Infront!



Learning to Bleep the hell out of a woman is part of the duties of a responsible man!

Hello good morning Nairalanders,
How are we all doing?
Merry Christmas to all the Christians out there and compliments of the seasons.

This is 2023!
As it stands the image of Nigeria outside this country is eroding day by day even as we face an increasingly worse economic travails, social insecurity and racing inflation. Nevertheless, I believe we will overcome all these in the no distant future.

Nonetheless, I want us to pause for a moment and think of how we contribute to this worsening image of Nigeria and Nigerians in the world at large. How on earth would a country of 200 million people be known for th atrocities of but a few?


What can we do to redeem this image?



I suggest few good heads here in Niaraland come together and float a six weeks *"positive topics only campaign"*




Let us show the world our beautiful side....

Let us show the world our tourism potentials...


Let us show the world our resilience and strength in daily survival



Let us show the world the bright side of Nigeria!


Cc

Seun
Lalasticlala
Rocktation

Islandboi:
Anytime I want to have sex with my woman her kpekus is always dry no matter the romance. I will tease, lick & suck her bobby , lick her neck, suck her ears and do all kinds of romance for over 30mins before sex

She always get wet no doubt,but once I dive in and start thrusting, her pussy just dries up, making my dick stiff and very difficult to penetrate. I end up having bruises. What can I do pls?

Buy pears baby oil...use it for lubrication.its the cheapest available


While penetrating her always suck on her breast one at a time....



Move from her nipples to her ears and tell her plenty naughty loving tins....she would lubricate immediately


If it works.... Send me 1500 card abeg



I don taya to give free sex advice

Uchenna10:
Ozwor....

Cc mods
Seun
Lalasticlala
Farano
Rocktation


Breaking the rule by insulting.


Thank you

Uchenna10:
Ozwor....

Cc mods
Seun
Lalasticlala


Breaking the rule by insulting.


Thank you

naijablood:
I started observing this pattern since 2018
I was posted away from my then girlfriend to another state for NYSC hence couldn’t engage in serious relationship through out my service … but seriously that year was one of my favorite in terms of financial success.
As a serving corper I was also working freelance for two different companies in Lagos … coupled with other gigs … I was in money
After service met a lady and we kick off a relationship, within 2months of us into the love affair, I lost the two jobs as a freelance was done with service so had to start some money making venture, but was tough , well the relationship lasted four months.
After three months of us breaking up I had a business idea, year 2020, got into it and within two months I made my first million was single for a year
2021 I met a lady and started meeting … and within a space of 6 months, i was back to square one…
Early this year was tough and depressing, and by June, we were already having relationship problem, hence some space between us, but from September I notice some positivity, business took off I started saving up and by November I had to buy a property to compensate myself for a hardworking year ..
Now my problem is I’m disturbed , this lady been asking for us making the relationship official .. but I’m scared loosing it all … I keep getting back to the ground when I’m in relationship… but will I be single for life … I’m just lost

I can relate so lemme advice you.


Firstly; congratulations you are a creative and have an inventive mind. There is a saying *have you seen a married inventor?*. E get why!




Nevertheless, this is what you must do and don't now. You must learn to make your relationship work with your activities or else you will struggle with your relationships for life.



In your next relationship, you need to find a timetable. The reasons for your misfortunes isn't diabolical but rather these girls are sucking life out of your three most important things



Your time
Your small income
Your creativity




Possibly you skip schedules because of the acrobatic sex.....you become tired......and you lack morale following the long weekend sexs....





Create schedules and stick to demmmmmm......



If it's time for work and one toto is blaring Infront of you....look away



If you have cash for a project and one Bobby is tempting U loooook away




You will be able to make these tins work....




Remember there is a reason ancient people do *sexual transmutation*





Whenever a man feels the sudden urge for sex..... If he doesn't masturbate, have sex......he can transmute that power to madt creativity.....





Why do monks stay off women


Why are footballers warned to stay off sex bfor serious matches



Why do people stay off ejaculations bfor big projects and then Bleep like rabbits after the projects? *Transmutation*



Learn to harvest this power rather than making it work for you....




You are positioned to enjoy this power for now...





When you get married....


Hmmmmm

lexylaw40:
BREAKING: Emefiele Gets 72-Hour Ultimatum To Resign Or Be Sacked By Buhari
16 mins ago0 61,274 4 minutes read

The Central Bank of of Nigeria (CBN) Governor, Godwin Emefiele, has been issued a 72-hour ultimatum or be removed by President Muhammadu Buhari through the National Assembly.



The ultimatum was issued on Friday by over 30 civil society organizations following allegations of “terrorism financing and economic crimes” leveled against the CBN governor by Nigeria’s State Security Service.

The state service had sought permission to arrest and detain Emefiele to aid further investigation but was denied by a Federal High Court in Abuja on account of lack of sufficient evidence.

However, the National Youth Council of Nigeria (NYCN), the Citizens Network Against Corruption and Terrorism Financing and over 27 civil society advocacy groups have called on Emefiele to humbly resign or risk being disgraced out of office.

The groups said should the CBN governor fail to step down, they would be forced to demand his sacking by the President Muhammadu Buhari and the National Assembly.

“…if there is still a modicum of honour left in Mr. Emefiele, he should immediately resign and submit himself for security examination. We, therefore, offer the assistance of urging the CBN Governor – Mr. Godwin Emefiele – to immediately tender his resignation.

“And if he fails to do so within 72 hours, both President Muhammadu Buhari and the National Assembly should invoke the relevant laws to remove him,” the group said in a statement jointly signed by their respectives.

It added, “Mr. Emefiele is an economic disaster who has messed up every interventionist programme of the Buhari administration, including the Anchor Borrowers Programme and the credit facilities supposedly extended to Farmers through the Nigeria Incentive-based Risk Sharing System for Agricultural Lending (NIRSAL).

“For clarity, under his poor oversight the former Managing Director of the NIRSAL continued to stay in office over a 2018 allegation of corruption amounting to a princely sum of N5.6 billion. He was only removed from office last month after multiple protests and petitions to that effect.

“It is also under his direction, supervision and control that the worst Forex round tripping regime and scam in the history of Nigeria has been allegedly perpetuated. How then can such a man become an emergency saint and economic messiah simply because there is a credible question of National Security sabotage for him to answer?

“Yes, we must admit that there appear to be a coincidence between the maturity of the DSS investigation into his involvement in terrorism financing and the introduction of his military fashioned cashless policy (which was done without any consultation with critical stakeholders, including experts in the financial sector and the representatives of the Nigerian people).

“However, the DSS has never expressed, directly or indirectly, any disagreement with the legal and legitimate policies of the CBN. It is, therefore, unconscionable for anybody to infer that the DSS in doing its own constitutional duty is hunting Mr. Emefiele because of any policy. This is a mischief taken too far. Nigerians must not be deceived by it.

“Rather, Mr. Emefiele must be known for the economic disaster he has orchestrated. He must answer for the alleged crimes of treasonable proportion for which the DSS seeks his clarification of. It is a shame that a public officer of the standing of the CBN Governor wants everything to be politicized.

“Of course, we warned about this dangerous trend when he became partisan, openly aspiring for the Presidential ticket of the All Progressives Congress (APC), before he was forced to withdraw. Is there any Nigerian who still genuinely believes that Mr. Godwin EMEFIELE is not a partisan politician? And so, should it surprise anybody that Mr. Emefiele knows that he has crimes to answer to, but is simply polluting the public space with his trademark politics, while hiding under the headship of an independent and ordinarily non-partisan institution like the CBN?”

According to the CSOs, the Central Bank of Nigeria needs “a total, systematic and systemic cleansing” to preserve its sanctity as such, “not only should Emefiele resign or be relieved of his duties as CBN Governor, his deputies and current Directors of CBN should be investigated and all those found culpable should be sacked. The whole institution is in a mess.”

They urged President Buhari to critically look into the allegations against and invoke his powers under the law to sack the CBN Governor in case he refuses to immediately resign.

“But importantly, we urge the DSS to be unwavering in carrying out its National Security duties. No amount of blackmail or intimidation must make it backtrack from the truest and deepest professionalism that its duties require. They have our support and that of other patriots. Nigeria must remain safe, no matter whose ox is gored.

“Let us even seize this moment to salute the DSS for remaining focused and firm in the face of this organized campaign to blackmail the Service. More campaigns are coming. But the DSS must remain strong as long as it is working with the security facts at its disposal.

“We demand of the Federal Government to activate international protocols under the INTERPOL and get Mr. Emefiele back to the country to answer to his alleged crimes. For too long has he presented fake front and agenda to the president. This must not be allowed to persist.

“There are salient questions Nigerians are asking Emefiele at this critical juncture to wit:
Are You A Terrorist? If You Are Not, Why Are You On The Run?
Notable Nigerians Have Been Quizzed By THE DSS. Why Are You Hiding From Scrutiny?
Can You Run The Central Bank Of Nigeria From Abroad?
Is Mr. Emefiele too big to be quizzed and detained?”

The statement was signed by Solomon Adodo, President and Convener of the NYCN; Okpanachi Jacob,
Convener, Civil Society Advocacy Groups for Accountability and Probity; and Balarabe Musa, National Coordinator, Citizens Network Against Corruption and Terrorism Financing.

Others are Suleiman Musa,
Executive Secretary, Empowerment for Unemployed Youths Initiative; Igwe Ude-umanta, Director-General, Nigerian Youth Center for Leadership and Entrepreneurship Development, Gbolahan Adeyemi, President, Association of Artisans and Informal Workers, Chukwudi Oluoha, Executive Director, Coalition for Transparency and Accountability; and Friday Onuh, President, Independent Security Monitoring and Assessment Team

Well...


This is deep. People.would.stop at nothing to get what they want.

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