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Muhammad (SAW) didn't have issues with his son-in-law? Are you trying to pick a fight on his behalf? You are just confused as the.

Exc2000:




Angel Jubril only gave Prophet Mohammad SAW instructions to all humanity from Allah and strictly warned Prophet Mohammed SAW that nothing most be added or substracted from Allah's Iinstructions

Now we have tonnes of hadit written by Mohammed's neighbors, Son in law, wives , congregation and almost anybody giving different instructions not sanctioned by Allah or sent by Angel Jubril

One of such unlawfull confusion came from Mohammed SAW's son in law.(a syrian) who created his own teaching and formed Shiites who are even contradicting Holy Quran openly


So who the heck is Abu Hurayha to tell me what to wear even when Allah never mentioned it in the Quran, that was how people forming assistant Mohammed SAW and deputy God started written different self centered laws till they barred women from driving in saudi


If you want to become a true muslim, you must endeavour to download english version of Al Quran, and read Allahs Instructions carefully and deeply thats when you would be free from undue manipulation of the so called hadit writters and fake scholars manipulating Allahs words to suit their dark mind.. Allah is merciful


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OH MY GOD!

Are you kidding me?

The one she wore inside school or outside school?

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwewwwwwwwwwweeeeeeewwwwwwwww

Seriously ewwwwww!

The other side also have culture which may or may not be better than ours. They have their own ways of showing respect for elders. If you have any respect in you, you will respect that.

Olamilekxy:
when his not from other side, i mean our people from east

yoruba people with culture

Have you seen yourself?

seunmohmoh:
Her appearance in this picture is odd. What came to your mind when you see her? A maid.

It is a need to prove control. She is a star get and a woman. She needs to understand her place.

pocohantas:
No woman can be that silly. It is always men acting like their wives are in a competition with everyone in their life. From his family, to his brothers...his mum, his friends...even their family dog. I avoid those boy toys that keep screaming "guy code". Fear them o.

How? Her hair? Her Dress? Her weight?

Stillthebest:
She's the guy's first daughter. I don't think he really takes good care of hee before now.. it shows all over her.

How does she look so unkempt? She is putting on a dress we can hardly see and hair is plaited. Or do you mean her hairstyle? You think African plaits looks dirty and unkempt. Would have preferred if she had adorned weaves or maids or covered that unkempt hair with gele?

seunmohmoh:
The lady spoiled the picture, she should have dressed better. She looks so unkempt.

Nice family sha.

No, we don't.

Do you want to know why? It is because the wife's friend is expected to have enough sense and respect to sit at the back.

Mystiquefia:
Balderdash... Do u see men complaining about who seats where in their wive's cars??

I'm yet to see any thread on that. You women are a problem to us honestly, u make noise about everything. Assuming you and the OP were being rational then your comment and his response should be fair to both genders. He ought to have used "spouses" in his headline and then maybe u'd have been able to use your senses

That is because they don't have your moral code or rather they don't think any moral code should apply to covering their breast to breastfeed their hungry babies.

Women have always breastfed their babies publicly, covering their breast is for modest and religious women.

Ovems:
Women can breastfeed in public but can cover up using a flannel or any other breastfeeding clothes. If they do, people might not even know a child is feeding. I don't know why some women don't cover up.

This is one of the worst things you can do to someone.

The governor is a Christian. The guy who announced this shares same name with John the Baptist.



So can you calm down?

Charleys:


This tax is directed towards Christian's. We all know Oyo is a Muslim state.

The Christian's need to pay for being there.

This is serious. 2 million of taxpayer's money going to waste.

Wealth is relative.

How much is your phone? Some out there cannot fathom it.

600k to some is like what 100k is to others.

GeoAfrikana:
We work hard to earn money, so it's rational for us to spend our money on only products/services that (we believe) will add value to our lives.

Yesterday, I heard of a phone that costs #600k. The first question that came to my mind was:

what will I enjoy from this phone that my Google Pixel won't give?

So I decided to throw this question to the house.

How can you rationally justify spending #600k on a phone?

Thanks.

He said, no Rashidi, don’t make a mistake, I only directed the IG to give you protection so that what happened to Funsho Williams would not happen to you. Don’t go back to office. I asked why. He said because the court was in the hands of Alao-Akala, they didn’t tell Alao-Akala to give the court back to Ladoja. If you want the court back, you have to go back to court. I said that’s alright sir. The following day (Chief Niyi) Akintola (SAN) was on AIT, saying, ‘Can you imagine the President saying this? The President is like an illiterate and this and that.’ The chief of staff called and said why did you have to tell your lawyer what you discussed with Baba? I said Baba told me I should go back to court, I don’t know how to go to court except through my lawyers.

Xisnin:
No, he meant one baba(Adedibu)

I didn't say shit about your mum. You stated that first or is your mum no longer a woman? Carry your BS go joor

FortuneDeGreat:
You feel you've got the leverage to talk rubbish of other people's parents, not my mum otherwise I'll curse you.

Wow! You are on the right path already. I hope it works out for you

Breaststroke:
Lol, thanks.

I met a widower 3 months ago, older than me, already has grown kids but really good looking and he acted interested, asked me to pls call him during his 2nd visit to our office (he left his card and a document for my boss) and didn't have my number.

The only snag is the fact that he is a client. Company rules forbid fraternizing with clients but I am not giving up just yet. That sort of man will not want anymore children and won't stress me about it either - I'm hoping

Are you saying that your mum's god given date was to shut her mouths be act as she is told?

FortuneDeGreat:
Some women have effortlessly accepted their god given fate whereas others have continued to deceive themselves by promoting the ever nonsense feminist agenda thereby struggling to live a life of ease, my lovely mother belong to the former, your likes belong to the latter.

I like your analogy.

It is going to be difficult for you to find a man with a like mind. Good luck to you.

Breaststroke:
I feel you to an extent. If I was given an option between a man and a child to pursue life with, I would take the man over the child because I fancy companionship & intimacy more than being a parent.

I think God knew what He was doing in the Garden of Eden, when he created Eve for Adam. Companionship was foremost on His mind for us, companionship with man was also the major reason he ever created Adam - in my opinion

Children came after the fall, but the way we prioritize them today over and above everything else baffles me. I woke up this morning and felt like curling up in bed with a man, while I read a novel and he fiddles with his phone or tab BUT we are curled up together, kissing & touching in between.......and now I deviate

The western is the same in some homes.

I can take the heat

Wettoid123:
But you know in Africa it doesn't work that way the heat from your husband family alone we frustrate d person,Africa mentality is different from.the western world.

I think it is more about women with children. It is still the norm for women to do everything while also holding down a job.

Chukapage:
This Feminists sef ok Women don't NEED MARRIAGE ITS MEN THAT DEPENDS ON IT TO LIVE . Even na babymamarism sure pass women don't need Marriage na we men need am are you happy now?

Alright

Want a cookie now?oteote author=Bobbyfreshh post=82643148]

Trying to shift the goal post as usual.... My comments still stand most of u guys (not all)are crude, primitive hiding under religious bs[/quote]

You should tell your mum that. Aren't you a wonderful son!

FortuneDeGreat post =82642354:
They can't help but comply totallyto nature's dictates, such is their primary obligation, shut your mouth and act accordingly.

And you are reasonable, how?

patorial:
No not that, but because he merged me with unreasonably humans from certain region .

And you are not

No one is justifying anything, it is just very silly to make an idiotic comment..

Bobbyfreshh:
One funny thing about u guys is that you are crude, shameless and primitive... So you are still trying to justify this bs?

Nobody can humiliate you for not having a husband or children. They do if you let them.

I understand the biological need to have children is very strong in most women but she can definitely love with herself without having a child of their own. She needs to stop wallowing, not everyone has been destined to have children.

Wettoid123:
Nonsense talk! My sister is crying all day because of her childlessness she has been waiting upon the lord still no answer,
We are looking for #500k to give to her now so she can adopt,do u know the agony somebody that is childless passes through the humiliation alone is something else.

I want to have kids but I am more interested in having a partner than children. When people have children, I am genuinely happy for them but not crazy about it. It doesn't evoke my biological need to have children.

That definitely will change after having my kids but before then, I hope not to have kids anytime soon.

Breaststroke:
Yinmu! You can never be happy without a child . I strongly disagree, I am an exception to this rule.

Motherhood is not for everyone, just because we have the equipment for it, doesn't mean we all have the disposition for it.

There's a consistent lack of desire for children I particularly feel. I have zero interest in birthing a child of my own, how do we explain that?

I am actually glad about being child free and staying that way. The researcher echoed my sentiments about kids in this article.

Have you wondered whether it is because she desires to be married or could be because not societal pressure?

genq:


Lmao.

All I see here is an unmarried, childless 35+ year old woman consoling herself.

I'm yet to see a woman past her prime who is single and truly happy. Even the holy book says; "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you."

Let's not get into the financial benefits women gain from marriage. Even to afford a flat on their own they cannot. In this Nigeria, most women cannot sustain themselves without the help of a man: husband, sugardaddy, boyfriend, whatever you wanna call it.

To fix their hair sef, they need a boyfriend - but you'll see them all over nairaland posting trash.

Sidenote: I would love if more women adopt the OP's ideology. If women reject marriage in its entirety, it will save men a GREAT chunk of our hard earned resources!

There were never true marriages at any point in history. What you had were marriages were women kept their mouths shut and acted as told.

yemisolar:
This is strictly the opinion of the writer. And, he is entiltled to it. True marriages these days are not what they should be but there are a lot of people having great times in their marriage. Though the bad ones get more publicity than the good ones but there are a good number of good ones out there.

Anyone can get angry at men, society or even religion but for a woman, having a life companion, -someone you can feel completely at home with, free without any inhibitions or shame, having your back at any point in time. Someone you can look up to as a friend, mentor, a good father to your children and even someone to get vent on - is the happiest thing that can happen to one.

The caveat however is making the right choice.

The truth is that women who know how powerful they are know that they are the ones controlling the home. Not the man. The problem most women have is that they think it's by confrontation. When that doesn't work they start crying foul.

No doubt marriage is a truest test of One's character but if one gets it right it can be heaven on Earth.

I am for finding ways for people to make right choices and making their marriages work rather than discouraging them completely.

Yes, I am married........ 11 years and counting.

Ladoja was alright but he didn't treat pensioners right

He meant both, you should read the article again

DandyWalker:
The caption should be edited. By 'baba' , he meant Baba Adedibu, not Obasanjo. I'm not sure the poster even read the story.