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Mr man, that chicken is for the Asians not
for Oyinbos. Also, there are many Oyinbos that etill not touch the tip of the plate.

IjebuWarrior:
Typical ignorant 9ja don come with their Ignorance! This is the difference btw a white man and a typical African. While you're busy running away from it, an oyinbo gets curious and inquisitive from it.

God forbid? How can God forbids his own creation?

If he is truly a police officer, this country is seriously bleeped. I am pretty sure he came from a fu.cked up home too.

pocohantas:
That person you quoted has a mental disorder. I wonder who trained him to be the fcked up man he is. He was also on the thread where a man impregnated his wife's teenage sister- I can't remember the nonsense he typed. Something like she should make the girl abort and protect her husband's image. That guy is a goat.

Somehow he thinks he is wise.

You cannot help the woman until she is ready to help herself. I doubt her family can help her leave
She has to make that choice herself. I suggest you inform her family so that they will know who to go after if anything happens to their child again.

There should be a couple of organisations that can provide help by way of advice and prosecution when she is ready.

computergeek:
So many contrasting pieces of advice here. This is a wawu case. Mynd44, Lalasticlala, yours handworks are needed.

You are one of those law officers encouraging domestic abuse. What do you say to children who have lost their mothers and women who have deaf from repeated slaps? Let me guess, you tell them that it is a family matter right?

So you are a wife beater advocate and a bully. How many poor civilians have you discharged for running their mouths? You are a disgrace to your uniform!
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fykes:
Worst things than this has happened. Talk is cheap, talk is really cheap.
I speak as a law officer. Marital issues are best dealt with wisdom not emotions.
When u let ur emotions get ahead of ur senses in another man's family affairs, we will all ask u if ur own marriage is perfect?
Name any couple who don't have issues??
That's when u will know that marriage matter no be "let me rush in and be her superman"

Why do you want to discipline another person's children?

It is about time. There are several 'schools' like these across the nation. From the North down to the South West.

How? Iwo road should be widened. It is sad but it has to happen.

Gideoniteprime4:
I AINT A MUSLIM BUT THIS SUCKS

How do you celebrate that your father is dead? How does that work? Why smshould it matter even if he is 1000 years old?

Ciaos:
Tough time ,for 91 year old man.. Hmmmmmm... I beg, this one na celebration of life please!!!!

“the frustrated mother was still crying and praying to the God of OYEDEPO for Help”

Thr first one looks intimidating.

The concept of the second logo looks familiar. I can't place it.

dominique:
The second logo is better, the first one looks like an evil mask. I wonder how Innoson intend to implement such logo on their vehicles

His level of communication must be very Oxford high.

Her family should have prevented that.

Pagans believe that whatsoever dies by water should be buried by according to the rites goddess of the water. It think it is done to prevent more deaths.

dayo229:
My neighbor, a woman was drowned few days ago due to heavy rainfall. Her body was found 3 days later in a near by river across our street.

What surprises me is that when they want bury her, etutu (sacrifice) was performed by osun people (they wore white clothes and in beads). This woman I'm talking about was a Muslim o. She has even gone to Mecca before.

Can anybody here tell me why it is done?

What happens if they don't do the sacrifice and just bury her like that?

Is this peculiar to only Yoruba tribe?

FG has given you assignment

Of course, the same immigration officials that seperated kids from their families.

dominique:
I saw this on CNN. Immigration officials claimed they actually crossed the border on purpose. Even worse for the family, Canada doesn't want them back. Who would have thought even Brits will be trying to illegally enter the US, thought it was only blacks and Hispanics. Is the UK now a shithole country ni?



https://www.washingtonpost.com/immigration/us-officials-say-british-family-illegally-crossed-border-from-canada-on-purpose/2019/10/15/e184cc68-ef7f-11e9-b648-76bcf86eb67e_story.html

I don't think import of shoes and bags are legal

Eaglefine:
Let them open border for other importation.
My friend that trades on shoes and bags from Cotonu is suffering since two months ago. There's no way to bring back her already bought goods. And her money is hanging for just no cause.

It is more like Buhari has issues with women stemming from his issues with his first wife.

Ezewuzie01:
Apparently Buhari doesn't trust his wife Aisha. You could sense it with the way he was peeping into her ballot paper when they were casting their votes in Daura back in February. She may have a history of disrespecting her husband which is why he doesn't trust her.

Are all Northern children Almajiris?


God! I share country with morons.

JonOlive:
By no means will I support crime. Human trafficking is a hineous crime. But this one Hausa people are acting like they care about their abandoned Almajiris is really suprising.

Well, Mamman Daura should have married Buhari then.

J111333:
No, I don't think so. Daura and his family had been there for Buhari long enough before he married Aisha so the conflict is not unexpected.
Also, Aisha seems to me like an insatiable woman who wants to keep everything under her control with little or no regard to Mamman Daura who was there for Buhari through thick and thin moments when he lost his first wife.
Truth be told, Buhari is in a tight corner making a decision on this.
Mamman Daura's daughter is wrong to have released the video if she did but not wrong to have shot it for her own side of the story.

Can I get a quote for setting a stone in an engagement band?

Are you alright? You definitely don't seem 100%.

chalantmike:
Yes his age very much stops him from being labelled as a pedophile.
Two kids ages 12 n 13yrs old, the boy happens to be 13, you can't call him a pedophile.
Aunty, what you are attempting to do is stoning, it is people like you that engage in jungle justice, not that I don't condone it in some cases, but the other day, in same Niger state, a guy was killed cause he stole cube of Maggi.

It is inhumane people like you with a strong sense of right and wrong, potential psychopaths in the making that killed him. No sane humane person would do that.
Empathy is part of being humane, a guy stealing Maggi cubes, should tell you he is desperate n hungry, one look n you'd know that nigga hasn't eaten in days.

You're too caught up in your strong sense of right and wrong, you're not seeing the picture in front of you, all you see is the crime, not the person.

If your sense of right and wrong, is too strong. There is nothing stopping you from being a religious finatic, that is how they are breeded. Your yawning for justice, you should watch it. It's a pity cause you're a woman, I expect this from a man, and yes I am playing the feministic card here, cause women are naturally more level headed, than men in situations like this.

You are calling for blood, Biko he is clueless, him leva kill person yet. What he did is wrong, granted. How do we curtail this and stop this from happening again to anyone cause, there are real victims here ?.

Simple. We need more sex educators, parents themselves need to get sexually educated .
Society itself needs to stop focusing on religion and start focusing on individual mental health, philosophy and realities of life. Religion especially christainity does not provide an answer to solving cases like this except using the rode. Using the rode can not solve this.

Parents also need to be educated on how to protect their children from misguided individuals like this kid and also as a parent monitoring your child to watch out for this tendencies in them, with early detection, you can stir them in the right direction.

Let me ask you if you had a son, around this guy's same age, caught in this situation what would you do?.

Call me let us stone him please.

It doesn't stop her from being silly.

Lamanii22:
Awwwwn congratulations wunmi... She's such a wonderful actress... But wait.. Is there no good hospital in Nigeria ni? na so so US US

What part of my post suggested that the guy should be stoned? Does his age stop him from being a pedophile going by the definition of pedophile? Is he or is he not attracted to younger girls? What age do you think pedophiles realise that they could have sex and be attracted to minors? Have these civilized societies refrained from punishing or labeling pedophiles because they are teenagers?

You have not revealed everything. The boy needs therapy. You need therapy.

chalantmike:
Sorry love, I never did, I am just being human and understanding unlike you. Duo I stole my mom's money to give to a prostitute, at estimate, should be around a 100k before I was caught, like the whole family knew I had been visiting a prostitute at 13 yrs old.
I use to watch a girl I had a massive crush on bath, at night, I would climb over the barricade, just to keep at her bathroom window, I knew when it's her taking her bath, cause she sings.

Now do you think, I would any not this things at this age ?. Hell no. I stopped frequenting brothels at 16yrs. Not that I think it is wrong, but mehn I deserve better.

I am just being more humane than you, you are attempting to stone a kid, let's hope that whatever country you are, you people are not child murderers cause that kid is underaged, he needs help not this stick and stone.

A therapist will diverge into his social life, his self-esteem, cause they're not mutually exclusive from the act he just did, infact they're very intwined. No amount of punishment or condemnation would stop him from turning into a serial rapist or a paedophile, if the real issues here with him is not addressed.

Angry bitter feminist, be humane. Pictures worth a thousand words, look closely at the person you are attempting to stone, he is just a kid. He has not gotten to that level he can assume sole responsibility for his actions, hell if not for the negative vibe everybody is giving off around him, he might not even understand the full gratification of what he has done.

I know because when my family found out I was visiting a brothel at 13yrs, if not for the way everybody was reacting to the revelation, I really didn't get the big deal, other than the fact I stole. I had to find others ways to uneasiness.

This young boy, did he rape the girls with the knowledge of his parents and people around him like the way he eats in front of others?

I don't live in a religious society. I live in a society where despite sex education they have had their fair share of teenagers raping little ones and they still do. In fact, there was one very disheartening story this year. It involved a 16 year old boy and a younger girl. I don't know that civilised society that don't have a history of teenagers defiling minors. It start small, your ‘senators' did not start today.

Paedophile is not about under 18. It is against children who have yet to reach prepubescent. That excludes teenagers, older women and men, which makes those in this category when they abuse prepubescent kids- Paedophiles.

I am glad you mentioned that I am an angry feminist. However, I know I am very much against statutory rape and rape in general against all sexes and all genders.

Now can you tell us about the time your ignorance led you to rape little ones?

chalantmike:
It is not a question of justification, how can anyone justify that?. It's a question of applying alittle understanding before you start throwing stone, such as you are attempting to do here.

Call me when he is 30 something, with enough sexual experience with majored ladies his age, then still go for a girl under 18yrs of age, we can stone him together, but for now, he is literally a kid, equally as remorseful as a criminal, for reacting wrongly to something so naturally, just cause he is under-informed, not guilded rightly. Do you think if he had someone in his life, that says
" guy come, that thing way you dey feel nah normal thing, but you gets cool down, see watin you go do here". Do you thing in will still engage in such, something he can't even boast out about.

Before you start getting angry and feminist thing, that boy has antisocial tendencies, look at him, I can tell cause there is something about the group or herd mentality of guys, that contributes positively to their growth, let me explain, one guy in a group or clique talks about his sex skills, boast about how he did this, or do that, the others in the group are actually learning, picking up from what he is saying, no matter whether it is positive or negative, what he is saying serves as guidance for the rest.

That boy boy does not have that, because this is not something he can boast about, if you tell a group of guys something like this, they might even beat you up.

Na your religious hypocrisy and country na him screw am over. If the society was open, he will receive the right guidance, enough to avoid this.

Again before you start throwing stones, look at who you are stoning, him don chop Belle full or it's just greed. Alittle understanding and empathy goes along way.

He is not attracted to underage yet he is having sex with them and use them to ease tension.

He is barely of age... legally but he is very much of age sexually. Did he mention that he is mentally retarded that he doesn't understand the implications of his actions?

Why should his inexperience and low esteem justify rape of minors?

chalantmike:
[s]Aunty he is not a paedophile, he didn't say he was attracted to underaged girls, he himself is nearly of age. He was just an opportunist , do you know the stress guys have to go through to get laid, he just by cutted that, took the easy route or something.
You can't call him a paedophile, cause he himself is bearly of age. When talking about this age thing, factor in life experience, that nigga is clear under experienced and there is a huge, infact I can bet my life on it that he is suffering from low self-esteem, not very confident about himself or his sexuality.

Underaged girls will not ask you how big your thing is, or wether you are fine or cute as a guy. That there is his dilemma.

What to talk about paedophiles, those senators and 60 something that have 4 wives yet still marry a under 18yr old. That's a paedophile. [/s]

If she has social anxiety, her issues is medical. It is not something that she can wish away or whatever motivational talks you think would get her to go out.

baby124:
By the way, I am not someone that goes to party everyday. In fact hubby is more social. But I don’t joke when it comes to family and mutual friends function. I show up, decked up and come out of my shell.

She can make the effort if she wants to, there are no extremes in life. If something is important to who you love as long as it does not compromise your health and safety, you will try to make them happy. Any extremist is a no-no in any situation. Run from extremists, they will destroy you.

How can someone be reluctant to meet your family and friends before marriage, is she mad? It’s even for her own good to see if she can belong to such a family or even marry you.

How will she feel if you refuse to meet her family members at all? If you act like her you won’t even meet them for introduction and you will never attend her family functions. Women can’t take that you know? Please and please flee from this woman. This one will not want to see anybody in your house. Trust me.

Do you even know what you are talking about? In countries where masturbation is not a taboo, don't they have paedophiles?

Slawormir:
This what you expect when masturbation is seen as a taboo in a nation filled with hypocrites


Bunch of fake ass pretending niggarzz and bitches every where in the Country

It is likely the other way round. We gave had experience of negligent doctors. This has happened to my brother before. Refusal to admit a kid with meningitis at a children's hospital left him cross eyed. The story did not end there.

DonTattaglia:
Many shallow minded people just come here and rush to conclusion without logical reasoning. That doctor could have been d only doctor on duty in the entire hospital at that moment and perhaps may have had more serious cases to attend to, so he had to prioritize on who needed more urgent medical attention first..

Are yiu trying yo justify the doctor's decision to delay treatment?

Amarabae:
We need to hear from the both parties before concluding.
Some Patients relatives love to misbehave attimes ,it can really be annoying.
All the same, all the best to the sick child

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You may not have thought of her as such but you treat her as such in front of others. I don't think it started with marriage..

Well, kudos to you for working on yourself.

oracle009:
I woke up to lots of ravenous mentions from WOMEN...hehehe... Well, I'm never the type that will consider anyone less on the basisbof gender... I deal with women as boss, subordinates and as friends. However, living in a marriage I believe is different from that. And am I working on changing? Definitely, I am! Do you think it pleasures me to do that? No!

Have you wondered that this is easy for you to do because you considered your wife less to you? I mean it is not be triggered when you are with friends or bosses?

oracle009:
Wow... you know, I have this tendency also. Mine is that whenever there is an outsider around (even my wife's friend), I want everywhere to be well arranged and all things done prompt and perfectly. Unconsciously, I shout at her and she always voice her displeasure. Infact, I used to have a friend visiting and staying for 4days or so...and she said that "whenever David is around, you misbehave"... Trust me, David had nothing to do with what wàs happening. It's innate to me and it's triggered by my wife's actions or inactions. Now, we are on a visit to her parent's place...and I'm acting up again...