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Are you alright? You definitely don't seem 100%.

chalantmike:
Yes his age very much stops him from being labelled as a pedophile.
Two kids ages 12 n 13yrs old, the boy happens to be 13, you can't call him a pedophile.
Aunty, what you are attempting to do is stoning, it is people like you that engage in jungle justice, not that I don't condone it in some cases, but the other day, in same Niger state, a guy was killed cause he stole cube of Maggi.

It is inhumane people like you with a strong sense of right and wrong, potential psychopaths in the making that killed him. No sane humane person would do that.
Empathy is part of being humane, a guy stealing Maggi cubes, should tell you he is desperate n hungry, one look n you'd know that nigga hasn't eaten in days.

You're too caught up in your strong sense of right and wrong, you're not seeing the picture in front of you, all you see is the crime, not the person.

If your sense of right and wrong, is too strong. There is nothing stopping you from being a religious finatic, that is how they are breeded. Your yawning for justice, you should watch it. It's a pity cause you're a woman, I expect this from a man, and yes I am playing the feministic card here, cause women are naturally more level headed, than men in situations like this.

You are calling for blood, Biko he is clueless, him leva kill person yet. What he did is wrong, granted. How do we curtail this and stop this from happening again to anyone cause, there are real victims here ?.

Simple. We need more sex educators, parents themselves need to get sexually educated .
Society itself needs to stop focusing on religion and start focusing on individual mental health, philosophy and realities of life. Religion especially christainity does not provide an answer to solving cases like this except using the rode. Using the rode can not solve this.

Parents also need to be educated on how to protect their children from misguided individuals like this kid and also as a parent monitoring your child to watch out for this tendencies in them, with early detection, you can stir them in the right direction.

Let me ask you if you had a son, around this guy's same age, caught in this situation what would you do?.

Call me let us stone him please.

It doesn't stop her from being silly.

Lamanii22:
Awwwwn congratulations wunmi... She's such a wonderful actress... But wait.. Is there no good hospital in Nigeria ni? na so so US US

What part of my post suggested that the guy should be stoned? Does his age stop him from being a pedophile going by the definition of pedophile? Is he or is he not attracted to younger girls? What age do you think pedophiles realise that they could have sex and be attracted to minors? Have these civilized societies refrained from punishing or labeling pedophiles because they are teenagers?

You have not revealed everything. The boy needs therapy. You need therapy.

chalantmike:
Sorry love, I never did, I am just being human and understanding unlike you. Duo I stole my mom's money to give to a prostitute, at estimate, should be around a 100k before I was caught, like the whole family knew I had been visiting a prostitute at 13 yrs old.
I use to watch a girl I had a massive crush on bath, at night, I would climb over the barricade, just to keep at her bathroom window, I knew when it's her taking her bath, cause she sings.

Now do you think, I would any not this things at this age ?. Hell no. I stopped frequenting brothels at 16yrs. Not that I think it is wrong, but mehn I deserve better.

I am just being more humane than you, you are attempting to stone a kid, let's hope that whatever country you are, you people are not child murderers cause that kid is underaged, he needs help not this stick and stone.

A therapist will diverge into his social life, his self-esteem, cause they're not mutually exclusive from the act he just did, infact they're very intwined. No amount of punishment or condemnation would stop him from turning into a serial rapist or a paedophile, if the real issues here with him is not addressed.

Angry bitter feminist, be humane. Pictures worth a thousand words, look closely at the person you are attempting to stone, he is just a kid. He has not gotten to that level he can assume sole responsibility for his actions, hell if not for the negative vibe everybody is giving off around him, he might not even understand the full gratification of what he has done.

I know because when my family found out I was visiting a brothel at 13yrs, if not for the way everybody was reacting to the revelation, I really didn't get the big deal, other than the fact I stole. I had to find others ways to uneasiness.

This young boy, did he rape the girls with the knowledge of his parents and people around him like the way he eats in front of others?

I don't live in a religious society. I live in a society where despite sex education they have had their fair share of teenagers raping little ones and they still do. In fact, there was one very disheartening story this year. It involved a 16 year old boy and a younger girl. I don't know that civilised society that don't have a history of teenagers defiling minors. It start small, your ‘senators' did not start today.

Paedophile is not about under 18. It is against children who have yet to reach prepubescent. That excludes teenagers, older women and men, which makes those in this category when they abuse prepubescent kids- Paedophiles.

I am glad you mentioned that I am an angry feminist. However, I know I am very much against statutory rape and rape in general against all sexes and all genders.

Now can you tell us about the time your ignorance led you to rape little ones?

chalantmike:
It is not a question of justification, how can anyone justify that?. It's a question of applying alittle understanding before you start throwing stone, such as you are attempting to do here.

Call me when he is 30 something, with enough sexual experience with majored ladies his age, then still go for a girl under 18yrs of age, we can stone him together, but for now, he is literally a kid, equally as remorseful as a criminal, for reacting wrongly to something so naturally, just cause he is under-informed, not guilded rightly. Do you think if he had someone in his life, that says
" guy come, that thing way you dey feel nah normal thing, but you gets cool down, see watin you go do here". Do you thing in will still engage in such, something he can't even boast out about.

Before you start getting angry and feminist thing, that boy has antisocial tendencies, look at him, I can tell cause there is something about the group or herd mentality of guys, that contributes positively to their growth, let me explain, one guy in a group or clique talks about his sex skills, boast about how he did this, or do that, the others in the group are actually learning, picking up from what he is saying, no matter whether it is positive or negative, what he is saying serves as guidance for the rest.

That boy boy does not have that, because this is not something he can boast about, if you tell a group of guys something like this, they might even beat you up.

Na your religious hypocrisy and country na him screw am over. If the society was open, he will receive the right guidance, enough to avoid this.

Again before you start throwing stones, look at who you are stoning, him don chop Belle full or it's just greed. Alittle understanding and empathy goes along way.

He is not attracted to underage yet he is having sex with them and use them to ease tension.

He is barely of age... legally but he is very much of age sexually. Did he mention that he is mentally retarded that he doesn't understand the implications of his actions?

Why should his inexperience and low esteem justify rape of minors?

chalantmike:
[s]Aunty he is not a paedophile, he didn't say he was attracted to underaged girls, he himself is nearly of age. He was just an opportunist , do you know the stress guys have to go through to get laid, he just by cutted that, took the easy route or something.
You can't call him a paedophile, cause he himself is bearly of age. When talking about this age thing, factor in life experience, that nigga is clear under experienced and there is a huge, infact I can bet my life on it that he is suffering from low self-esteem, not very confident about himself or his sexuality.

Underaged girls will not ask you how big your thing is, or wether you are fine or cute as a guy. That there is his dilemma.

What to talk about paedophiles, those senators and 60 something that have 4 wives yet still marry a under 18yr old. That's a paedophile. [/s]

If she has social anxiety, her issues is medical. It is not something that she can wish away or whatever motivational talks you think would get her to go out.

baby124:
By the way, I am not someone that goes to party everyday. In fact hubby is more social. But I don’t joke when it comes to family and mutual friends function. I show up, decked up and come out of my shell.

She can make the effort if she wants to, there are no extremes in life. If something is important to who you love as long as it does not compromise your health and safety, you will try to make them happy. Any extremist is a no-no in any situation. Run from extremists, they will destroy you.

How can someone be reluctant to meet your family and friends before marriage, is she mad? It’s even for her own good to see if she can belong to such a family or even marry you.

How will she feel if you refuse to meet her family members at all? If you act like her you won’t even meet them for introduction and you will never attend her family functions. Women can’t take that you know? Please and please flee from this woman. This one will not want to see anybody in your house. Trust me.

Do you even know what you are talking about? In countries where masturbation is not a taboo, don't they have paedophiles?

Slawormir:
This what you expect when masturbation is seen as a taboo in a nation filled with hypocrites


Bunch of fake ass pretending niggarzz and bitches every where in the Country

It is likely the other way round. We gave had experience of negligent doctors. This has happened to my brother before. Refusal to admit a kid with meningitis at a children's hospital left him cross eyed. The story did not end there.

DonTattaglia:
Many shallow minded people just come here and rush to conclusion without logical reasoning. That doctor could have been d only doctor on duty in the entire hospital at that moment and perhaps may have had more serious cases to attend to, so he had to prioritize on who needed more urgent medical attention first..

Are yiu trying yo justify the doctor's decision to delay treatment?

Amarabae:
We need to hear from the both parties before concluding.
Some Patients relatives love to misbehave attimes ,it can really be annoying.
All the same, all the best to the sick child

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You may not have thought of her as such but you treat her as such in front of others. I don't think it started with marriage..

Well, kudos to you for working on yourself.

oracle009:
I woke up to lots of ravenous mentions from WOMEN...hehehe... Well, I'm never the type that will consider anyone less on the basisbof gender... I deal with women as boss, subordinates and as friends. However, living in a marriage I believe is different from that. And am I working on changing? Definitely, I am! Do you think it pleasures me to do that? No!

Have you wondered that this is easy for you to do because you considered your wife less to you? I mean it is not be triggered when you are with friends or bosses?

oracle009:
Wow... you know, I have this tendency also. Mine is that whenever there is an outsider around (even my wife's friend), I want everywhere to be well arranged and all things done prompt and perfectly. Unconsciously, I shout at her and she always voice her displeasure. Infact, I used to have a friend visiting and staying for 4days or so...and she said that "whenever David is around, you misbehave"... Trust me, David had nothing to do with what wàs happening. It's innate to me and it's triggered by my wife's actions or inactions. Now, we are on a visit to her parent's place...and I'm acting up again...

How was his mum 102 and he is 68.

How did that happen?

As long as they are ready.

That isi exactly what she does. Now everyone is talking about a silly opinion from a psychotic old lady.

lighternote:
So we'll now start discussing Kiki's character instead of addressing the serial rapists and paedophiles firmly rooted in our institutions. This Kemi is surely an evil agent from the pit of hell. Should anything happen to Kiki, the world must bring her irresponsible ass to the book.

You read and understand. It was also up to her not just the BBC. She didn't mind exposing her face. It is not for you to say what should and what should not have happened. For all I care, you don't know jack about Investigative journalism. We have had videos about those who commit more or equally serious crimes with more money and connections than these losers and heaven did not fall because they showed their faces.

Keep your opinion to yourself. If at all, you are doing well putting ideas into their pervertic heads.

We know who Kemi. Isn't one the reasons she was reported from Canada? She is very well known to pretend to help and the same time destroy everything?

ppreye:
Aunty read and understand. BBC shouldnt have revealed her identity.. The video evidence was enough. Learn to view the bigger picture

Does that sound serious?

Xclusiveme:
Are u serious?? I'm guessing u don't use android

That is a lot of data

It is Buhari's government

Your wisdom is to understand time and seasons to foster corrupt practices

Have a blessed day too

lollybizzu:
You're right.

But remember: it is wisdom to understand time and seasons.

Have a blessed ahead.

You are not in support yet you wanted him to have given the lecturer a bottle of wine. The HOD already collects a salary for his work. Appreciation is not forced darling. It should not have prevented the man from doing what he is paid to do. I am sure somewhere it is against ethics to collect anything for doing his job.

lollybizzu:
Thank you

Mind you, I'm never in support of the man did and I'll never do such in my life.
I derive joy in helping people.

I tell my mum thank you after every meal.

Learn to show appreciation it does not remove anything from you dear; it will only help you.

It is his choice to give him a bottle of wine. The HOD was merely asked to do his job. The university and the government are already paying for his service. You are exactly part of the problem. Corruption enabler!

lollybizzu:
Yea the guy is right at the entitlement stand of the HOD.

But we also need to learn appreciate!

A bottle of wine after the first payment would have cleared all these.

Did you even go back to tell him simple thank you? This alone could have gone a long way.

Just my opinion.

Wow! How insightful

APOSTLECHUMA:
Must apostle suleiman display his blindness to end time escatological prophetic bible events to the whole world by asking christians to pray against trump's impeachment? Trump came for one purpose prophetically talking and he has achieved it by recognising jerusalem as israel's capital & subsequently moving their embassy there. All with spiritual eyes know that this is the foundatn of the armageddon war & his impeachment is vital to move humanity closer to day of judgmnt as united nations & the muslim world cant act against israel due to his unpredictability. Once he is out, united nations wil recognise palestine as a state wit east jerusalm as capital & israel wil blow up al aqsa mosque, sparkn off a global war on religion that wl take the 3rd part of humanity. DONT PRAY AGAINST GOD'S WILL APOSTL SULEIMAN.

Smart but you obviously know what I mean

pcguru1:
That's the plan, not to find an AS person .

He may never find someone like her.

pcguru1:
Not to sound cold but way it's cheaper for you to find an AA woman than the amount of money you will blow. You will always find another woman bro

A mate that is teachable and willing to learn... is she a girl or a woman?

Put yourself in your future child's position, will you pray for a father that selfishly endanger your life because of love for your mother? Most importantly, have you spoken to a doctor? there may be one way or two to prevent a sickle cell child if you AND your wife have the finance, emotional strength and the conscience to go through it all?

Is that what the documentary was about? I think you are trying too hard to support sexual predators like you are one.

LORDKing001:
I do agree with what you said above. If the same girl is punished for her actions ... She'll still go out there and say otherwise. Haven't you read or seen were female students blackmail their lecturers just to attract pity and later punish d lecturer just because he's a man.
There are two side of a coin...

What silly point? Something must be fundamentally wrong with you.

High school girls in the UK wear bum skirts and leggings to school. Male teachers do not go around victimising these impressionable girls.

These lecturers are in position of power, that is they can decline and punish erring female students. There is no justification for a lecturer to sexually harass a female student. None whatsoever!!!

LORDKing001:
Some hypocrites will not accept this point rather they'll fire back.

Same point I was trying to prove yesterday

The point of the documentary is to expose lecturers who sexually harass female students. Under their ethics, every lecturer knows that frolic king with students is strictly forbidden. They are adults, they can decline the offer of sex for grade if it comes from the students. It doesn't undermine the lecturer's power position, they can even write these students up.

There is no but about this. Can you even imagine yourself?

achikolo:
evil lecturers

but some girls are the one offering them their body and seducing them

you'll see a pure dunce but at the end of the semester her CGPA will be much better than you that hustled day and night and you'll be wondering how come

that's how it is
pathetic