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With this mindset, you should be comfortable spending all your money on lottery hoping one day you will be set for life.

Elliot2:
U don't know this life. Someone I know too well was in Op husband's shoe. As far back as 2008 he had been serving politicians but got nothing. I saw how the wife nagged the man to death considering that she was the one footing the bills in the house. Just recently he got an appointment in Bayelsa State. Nigga has more money than all his mates now. Now the wife is humbled. If I were him I would get a second wife.
P.s. The wife is my blood relation.

How many Mike Bamiloyes does he know?

I wonder their people family dynamics. The kind of mothers they must have to come up with such silly insensitive opinions.

pocohantas:
One would think Mike Bamiloye is his father or uncle. There are people that will forever struggle and it is worse in Nigeria where life expentancy is low and insecurity would still kill you in your prime.

Fix the net yourself, do it for your children. Find a source of income and forget about your husband.

When you finally find something to do, dont turn your children against him. They don't deserve that conflict, you gave them that choice of a father not the other way round.

So many of them... I don't blame them. The idiots that got lucky have something yo say about women who did not believe in their dreams. They always fail to mention the percentage of their friends that will forever struggle.

pocohantas:
Don't mind them. Always giving convenient examples. Messi and Ronaldo were definitely not the only kids who could tap soccer in their village. Where the rest them?

Fix the now, while we wait on the POTENTIAL.

Potential head of the house and you are so shortsighted

I don't need to fact check my first statement. Your delusion will not let you see road. It is sad you cannot also read and understand, did I ask him to become a teacher or a carpenter?

Why don't you check out if this married women were airing their opinions or answering deluded humanoid with penis for brain matter?

luminouz:
Your first statement is unverified,so I will put it under 'potentiality'

Your second statement? I agree the man should do more, be more driven,at least for his kids sakes. He is a man after all.

Your third paragraph is funny. You suggested such without knowing his skill sets?

I get all your points but its funny that the single ladies here are on fire about this issue. Check out the married women and their responses. Most times, they are more patient.

I know plenty more who are still struggling. It is much worse when their party is not in control. Lucky wives? . It is more painful where their party is in power but their main politicians decide to railroad some factions.

I made mention of finding something to do.

Mutemenot:
It's not true, I know more than 20 of them who are currently in good position, enjoying their years of struggling... the only problem here is on how to Carter for the immediate need of the family...

For every Mike Bamiloye, there is a million Mike Bamiloye that are still fools at 40.

How does what 'could be' preclude this man from resolving his NOW? Could be is a gamble. Till then, he has RESPONSIBILITIES.

He can work as a teacher and carpenter and still be very much involved in politics.

luminouz:
So because your dad is handy round the house as a fixer made OP's husband useless? Or because he is broke?

You don't get it,do you?
You women are always in the NOW,never what could be,always no capacity to visualise any future potential. Mike Bamiloye was worse off than OP's guy, yet she stuck with him, now,who doesn't know Mount Zion Ministries.

Well, I didn't see you use ur husband as an example, so I guess you're single. Marry first and wait 3 years....then you will understand better

More than most politicians who started that way are still boy boy at 50.

Tell me, is it boy boy that will feed his children? Does boy boy forbid him from having a job to cater for his family?

Mutemenot:
Most politicians started that way, it's always boy boy at the beginning. Don't give up Okay, just manage him however he is, believe me he will hammer like a yahoo guy someday ....
dont allow the situation cause wahala ok

Awolowo was not an idiot.

Nezero:
Sorry, please endure and continue to be tactful. You are a great woman.


Every problem has an expiry date. This too shall pass.


You can please close the window back and ask him when he is going to fix the window because of creeping things.



Many great women endured and tolerated their husbands through difficult times, lije Mama HID Awolowo.



God will reward your patience

How did you know that many of the inmates?

MrBrownJay1:
again, let us all be realistic.... many of these people are either drug addicts or mad people. this is a MENTAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL illness, which needs proper professional and medical care to remotely be cured. do you actually think that any of the animals running these torture centers have any medical/psychological background? just beating someone and chaining them for years isnt solving the issue at hand.

sadly, we all have to be realistic (once again) about this issue and understand that the majority are sent to these centers because they are a SHAME to their families... and they only bring these people there to get rid of the SHAME, not to solve the problem at hand. thats the hypocrisy of this issue. how many family members actually went to the police station to report these evil places?! NONE!!!

That place was raided about 10 years ago. Why did they let the man go?

The movie is not Oscar worthy

Yes, his mum is from there. His dad is Yoruba. He must have been an absentee father.

Passionate888:
I remember watching his interview with Charley Boy on tv (zoom time), he said he is from Gwari or Gbagi

No, it shows the kind if selfish shortsighted being you are

JonDon12:
If he is part Yoruba, that makes it worse, so now you have 2 Afonjas him and Aguda selling out the SWest to the North

IBB is not Hausa and he is definitely part Yoruba.

JonDon12:
And of course he got a Yoruba man Akinola Aguda to do it for him. Only an Afonja will take state capital out of his own land and give it to Hausa man. Born Backstabbers.

There is nothing wrong with curing of fish. He may not like the process but it doesn't stop it from being tasty and healthy.

Norwegians eat stockfish. It is not as common but they do eat it. That also applies to some other countries in Europe.

naijadrivablog:
Hmm. I am blessed to know a former Deputy Director of NAQS and he told me how he went to Tromsø to see how stock fish are cured and after that trip, he doesn't eat stock fish again.


The Norwegians that produce this stock fish (okporoko) don't eat it. It is for export only.

Just take the issue of rice from Thailand (5-10yrs stored rice sold to us) as a related case.

Scotland will be proud

Your wife can and your daughter could. Your daughter could simply refused to be identified by that name.

Beosten:
Thanks, bro. I know no one can challenge me by giving her the name. The name will earn her respect as people will be surprised that the name is often given to men with great ancestral history. From literal interpretation, Aluko is a bird with the color that symbolizes beauty in Yoruba land.

What they did should not have ended with them in handcuffs in any clime. That is the head and tail of what Tboss was saying.

Davido can go after them but it wasn't a police business

Goldencheese:
Do you know what personality branding is about? People spend millions to grow their brand. How can you encourage sane people to sit, concoct lies against an innocent person and then employ social media to brand that person with fake news? And this was happening at a very important time in that young man's life. See, if you don't want heat, stay out of the kitchen.

I know the law. If Davido had taken it up, they would go to jail for slander or defamation of character because it was malicious to his reputation and brand.

Quit this mollycoddling...this is the real world. If you commit a crime, apologies won't save your skin.

The ones they have been finding in Ogun state nko o

Kennyswagz2:
stop talking nonsense.. YORUBAS will never kidnap little chidren for baby factory.. morever, we don't do baby factory

When some Christian Igbos girls were found in the North, it was not because of conversion. 'They went with man'.

The children found in the South were kidnapped because of greed. Their parents did not send then away or gave them out. Their children were stolen from them.

Awoo88:
I still fine this difficult to believe. That any Christian will kidnapper someone else's child for the sole purpose of conversion. Are you sure these are not the children sent away from home or giving away willingly?? This story get k leg

I have left him.alone

He might gay. A self hating gay who hasnt come to.terms with his own truth

Palehair:
How on earth do some people brains work? How can the whole world be gay? If I were you... I will leave him to wallow in his ignorance

You haven't answered the question. If nature so desired, why is that humans dont go batshit crazy when coitus doesn't result to pregnancy?

A new question, why did nature provide us with preventive medicine against pregnancy?

Does orgasm also mean lack of sexual fulfilment?

FrLukas:
How many women actually have orgasm when they have sex with men? Yet, they get pregnant, don't they?

Even dogs have orgasm and love sex as much as their human counterparts. Same with other animals, monkeys, horses, etc.

The orgasm part is to make sex enjoyable and thereby ensure the propagation of the species.

Orgasm is an accidental in the procreation process. If sex were painful for the male and female of any species then procreation is in danger and that species will soon go into extinction.

Sex is only enjoyable because it is meant to further the race and orgasm is not an end in itself.

The main purpose of sex is to keep the species alive and nothing else.

Eventually, man, being a sentient being and family oriented derived and derives a bond with his partner after sex.

Otherwise, the humping of a bitch by a dog is not different from human sex. The outcome is the same. Reproduction.

You did biology, didn't you? Remember the 8 characteristics of a living thing? MR NIGER D? is orgasm part of it?

It is impossible to have a world full of gays. The world is diverse and it will always remain so.

ABCthings:
You sound like you're blindly defending gay and not as opened as I thought.
Lemme give you a take home,
Drop you phone. Spend the rest of the evening visualising a world full of gays, perhaps you will finally get what I'm saying.
Meanwhile, I have to go for fellowship

You are definitely the surgeon.

Yeah, like your internet access could be restricted if I considered you an ape?

FrLukas:
You must mistake me for the surgeon. I'm not.

Yes, you are aggressive about it. There no need for aggression here. Just simple explanations.

What most people shouting "it's their right to sleep with whomever they want" don't realise is that homosexuals don't have any such rights in Nigeria.

In fact, no human being anywhere in the world has absolute rights because no human being is absolute.

If mood for sex means mood for children, dont you think nature is pretty flawed?

I would expect lovers to have a hormonal reaction like crying in shame or feeling depressed if every sexual encounter doesn't lead to a fertilised egg.

Are you nature personified to know that the end goal of sex is not orgasm?

FrLukas:
I disagree with you.

The end goal of sex is not orgasm.

That animal sexual intercourse most often ends in orgasm is Nature's way of propagating the species.

The main reason for sex is reproduction and anything that negates that is an anomaly. Like anal sex and oral-genital contacts.

It is evil because God and your parents do not like it.

It is not evil like my life is going to be ruined because of homosexuality.

Truthwords:
You are impossible and crazy . I pray God opens your eyes to see the evil of homosexuality soonest

You did the transformation surgery for me, remember?

I am not aggressive about it. I find it strange why some are obsessed about the Instruments of whom another man is having sex with.

FrLukas:
Just wondering why you were being so aggressive with your support for the disordered act.

Yes. What about it?

FrLukas:
Are you a lesbian? Transgender, perhaps?

1. How is it a threat to the future of your children? Is it the reason you have bad roads? Poor education? Lack of jobs? Fraud? Money rituals?

2. It will be the same it has always been. We have bad ones and good ones. It is life.

3) Why will your brother harass you? Is your brother a mentally deranged gay man? I know gay people don't harass others. If your brother must be part of those 0.000000000000001% of the population that go about harassing other people be it man or woman.

4) If LGBT is legalised, nothing changes. You keep on liking girls and vice versa.

ABCthings:
It hasn't yet. but nevertheless it a threat to the future of our Children
He must when his actions are toxic to others. It has the potential to rapidly complicate our society.
In world today a girl cannot sleep it the same room with a boy and feel safe. What will now be the case when we allow gays?
How will our social life be if I can't stay with my bro. without the fear of being harassed?
Again when LBGT is successful, what next will come?
Gay is a disorder that must never be allowed!