₦airaland Forum

soberdrunk:
When the people that are meant to take care of us start fainting, there is a big problem......

Make sure you have something to take care of yourself with. Go learn something before entering the marriage. This is just my own little advice to you as a married woman.

J.E.S.U.S! J.E.S.U.S!! J.E.S.U.S!!!! Lord have mercy!!!!!

Banmeallday:
Oh I’m so sorry. Do you need a tampoon or tissue paper? Don’t you know that when you make such remarks on matters you dont know much about, some ADULTS are going to respond and they just might disagree with you.

But dont let that bother you ehh....

Can a lion and Zebra stay in the same cage? What of a frog and a fly?

Let me stop there for now before you do something unnecessary

(Don’t you know that when you make such remarks on matters you dont know much about, some ADULTS are going to respond and they just might disagree with you.)
I am not posting for you to agree or disagree with me, if someone post something you don't agree with, you can easily ignore instead of quoting the person. This is my own opinion about the state of the nation and I am entitled to it. You can express yours without quoting me, thanks.

Banmeallday:
Were Hausa not moving around freely before, since the war sef.....yet they were slaughtering the hell out of people and having their police militants extort billions of Naira daily till date.

I didnt know you suddenly had brothers in the North except those Igbo who dont hear word all because you have been given a POSSIBLE VP role like Okadigbo was given and Ekwueme and Ukiwe occupied for a short while before being booted out...

You people have suddenly become poets just like that..

Maybe its better to be a poet than a shythole member so congrats

Sorry I don't reply mentions that tends towards tribal and sentimental fracas. I am a honest Nigerian and moreover who told you I am from the east.... The reality is glaring that both the east and north have this feeling of they dont like us and we dont like them especially since baba assumed power. So please stay off my mention cos i am not interested in all these ethnic fight you people engaged in this forum. I am for a peaceful and unify Nigeria.

I believe in this combination of Atiku and Peter Obi since this will help mend faces with our northern brothers and serve as a unifying factor between the two ethnic group. Baba has sowed seed of hatred amongst these two tribe but with Peter obi and Atiku's joint ticket, the Hausa's can now move around freely in the east without been seen as an enemy, hence all hands must be on deck to unify our great country. I think i will soon be atikuated (lol, as PDP supporters would say)for the sake of peace and unity which Atiku/peter obi joint ticket portrays.

vanbonattel:
Is the daughter married? Just asking
I'd like to have a VP as inlaw.

oleeeeeee; just joking though.

PUSSYBOY2:
So meaning the South West vote will go to Buhari

But there are still PDP members in the south still

Good one from PDP, at least give the southeast some sense of belongings, they have tried and should be inculcated into the system. I love PDP for it sense of unity of purpose...

Rip bro. May God Almighty forgive her sins and welcome her into his kingdom amen! Take heart.

KanwuliaExtra:
You must be dreaming!
Anyone that disagrees with AMALA AND EWEDU politics is IPOB?
Tribalistic BUFFOON!

Thank you jareeeee for that corresponding response.

OldBeer:
Fake news.

Where are the votes from the East?

Ambode is currently winning in Ifesinachi, Obianuju, Chiamaka, Omambala, and 10 other wards by my calculations.

Please respect yourself and add them there.

You people should just let the igbos be pleaseeee and face your Lagos election habaaa!!!!! Enough of this Igbo's this Igbo's that, iPod this iPod that, you guys should just let the innocent tribe be biko..... E come be like say una dey envy the Igbo's sef.... Please let the Igbo's be, no Igbo man is contesting neither are they supporting anybody...

ClassicQueen:
Thanks for your honest advice ma. My mum in law have been with me since I delivered and when she was leaving, I told her she was welcome anytime she wish to visit again. Same with the others too they can only visit and go I don't want unnecessary issues in my home in the name of doing good.

Yeahhh, you have done well. Just be nice to all. Take care and may the good lord grant you a blissful home amen

Troubledmind:
I have always been sick all my life, if it isn't excruciating joint pains its one infection or another, I'm always anemic, i was always treated in a special way, my innocent mind never knew that this is way bigger than me and it'll make life harder for me, everything a normal person would consider little is a big deal in my case, my immune system is so weak that common cold is an infection to me, people sneeze around me its three months of influenza, i can't do exercises, wake up early and go out like everyone else, chilly weather is my nightmare even if i am wearing the whole jackets i have, i was so tiny and sickly, i didn't understand why i was so different until jss2 when an angry teacher who was flogging everyone in my class for noisemaking made a remark I'd never forget in my life, when he reached me he said "Everyone are making noise you're making noise too, you're a sickler, if i flog you, you'll die"
The statement hit me like a thousand dagger, that was the first time i heard the word sickler, everyone in my class looked at me with pity afterwards, i waited till break time and i ran away from school, when i got home i googled what a sickler is, everything i read was a description of me, my whole world shattered, i cried and cried that day, it dawned on me why i was too tiny for my age, why i can't run around like other kids, why people always looked at me with pity and awe, why i was always sick, when my mum got home and found me crying she knew something is wrong.
I told her what my teacher said, she consoled me with lies but i was a brilliant kid, i could tell she was lying, i already knew everything, the next day she came to my school and gave the teacher a piece of her mind, and threatened to change me to a private school, but my dad refused since i already have friends in my school, i grew up hating myself but i couldn't resent my parents even though its partly thier fault, if not for the fact that they could afford my expensive medical bills what would've happened to me? For that i am grateful.
After the incident i had other incidents where people called me a sickler and I'll always cry my heart out but shortly after i got into a university i developed thick skin, i stopped letting it get to me, i use to try as much as possible to hide the fact that i am a sickler until i embraced it, immediately i embraced it, words stopped getting to me, i became outspoken and less timid, my self esteem grew so big that i can stand up to anyone without fear of being called a sickler, i became cooler and i made friends, i remember the first time a girl said yes to me, i was so happy that day, i was so popular and brilliant in school, my ailment made sure of that.
I'm a graduate today, and i am 26, i don't work, no i can't afford to get sick going to work everyday, but i earn a living buying crypto, doing freelancing, doing buying and selling and alot of other online jobs, i am comfortable and happy, though i still get crisis every now and then, That'll be my burden for eternity, its not as frequent as before, i make sure i eat good food, take lots of water, stay away from stress, cold weather, high altitude, smoking and drinking, i might never find a wife and its fine by me, i wouldn't want anyone else to experience half of what i experienced anyways, i hope there's still more years ahead of me, there's alot I'm yet to achieve.
The reason for my little story is not to get pity from people, its to advise intending couples to get thier genotype tested, if theres a possibility of getting a sickler just quit your relationship, no matter how much you love him or her please, that innocent child doesn't deserve to suffer because of your selfishness, i have forgiven myself and my parents because i might die any day, but the life of a sickler is not a life anyone should experience, have a rethink before you make a mistake you'll regret for the rest of your life.

Paul. A warrior and a fighter.

Huhhhhh! Honestly, I pray and wish God in heaven would change your genotype for real to As or AA. You are a strong guy and the good lord will continue to protect and preserve you amen!

To be honest here my sister, aside all these excuses you have given heh, as for me and with experience gathered so far, I wouldnt want any husband/ any of my own siblings or even relation to live with me for whatever reasons, since you can never be good enough in their eyes and unnecessary family misunderstanding will stand building up from there. They can visit and go but not to live or stay with me. Follow your heart please and enjoy your home. Accept the ones your spirit welcomed and try to discourage those ones your spirit are troubled over letting into your home. This is my own honest opinion.

OgaInnocent:
Nawao...they did not have agreement with state govt. They understand their agreement with fed govt. They are now simply appealing to the state. Haba! Be nice for once.

Don't mind them. As if it is a crime to beg for a job.

The real Nigerian mama! Love you despite all....

Sadgirl1281:
That’s the pain I’m on here sharing. The way it is seen even from my own side(parents) is I pushed him, that’s violence so no matter what he said or did or when he even pushed me back, all that is by the way... Everyone around me is all on me to have to make him come back home because he is my husband, I pushed him and wouldn’t want a broken marriage, blah blah etc

He came once to visit for us to talk physically and he said he felt better now us talking but he won’t just easily come home after just one talk that I have to prove to him and show him and make him want to come back. So meeting somewhere else wouldn’t really be an option, it has to be more like him coming to the house again to talk and all or if all things maybe return.

I am sorry to say this but reading this particular piece , I must say that your husband is being childish honestly... Two makes home and not one. Sure you must have offended him but knowing what marriage is, it is bound to happen hence, it now behoves on you two to fight to make your home stable. It isn't just you alone, him too must show commitment towards making a peaceful home. Thank goodness you have apologised to him. Marriage works when both partners accept, believe and work towards its success. Your husband must come back home and stop playing this childish game. He is the head of the home and should take charge.
And as for you madam, let this be the last time you will ever talk back or push your husband again no matter what. When he is provoked, give him the silence treatment if you can't respond calmly ... I am married and going to a decade now, so i am just giving you the formular I oftenly use. May God make your home a peaceful one amen!

collinsVP:
You are simply a disgusting scammer.

All your medical bills, from where are they being paid from?

Account to us first before robbing your imaginery poverty on our faces.

Chaiiiiiii..... Our politicians must have taken most Nigerians for a fool ooooooo, hmmmmm I reserved my major comments. It is well in Jesus name amen! Somedaybthe lord will send moses to us

jayfolarin:
Who exactly are you to talk on behalf of most Nigerians? Can you even authoritatively speak on behalf of your friends and family needless shay hundreds of millions of Nigerians??

He said most not all!!! So its possible you, your family, folks and friends are exempted!!! So take a chill pill

Hmmmmm!!! I greet you all mothers in the name of God Almighty. This thread has really made me realise how foolish I and some of my friends have been in terms of choosing the sex of our babies and getting upset when we do not get our desired baby sex forgetting that there are some women who are just praying for a confirmation to be pregnant after so many years of trying... I pray God forgives us.
I pray for all mothers here believing God for a miracle of the fruit of the womb, may he answer you all in Jesus name amen. Never give up on God, cos he won't give up on you all. God bless you all amen

[quote author=Nogodye post=70669180]Healthy president with corrupt mind and soul.We've have healthy presidents in the past years, what have we gain from them? absolutely nothing...If you call PMB unhealthy president i will still choose him over all the old rogue circulating around power. [/

ChiefOloye:
They are the same set of criminals, as far as national politics is concerned, Jonathan is politically irrelevant, I don't know his current value in the South East and South South though, but he's a forgotten man in the South West and the entire Northern Nigeria.

There is no way a one time president can be forgotten.... No way my friend!!!!!

deliveryboy:
just as the man buying a new car for the woman is not cast in stone, so is she buying hers isn't. Women should stop this "my husband stopped me from working" excuse for their inate laziness. My point is the average Nigerian man is already overburdened with responsibilities, there's no need making it mandatory for the man to start the struggle to buy everything in twos just to please his wife, after all if he dies in the process the said woman moves into another man's bed just so fast.

It isn't cast in steel for all men to buy a car for their wives. The man is definitely referring to those men that can afford to buy and not all. If a man stops his wife from working then he should be responsible for her welfare.you don't keep me at home all in the name of taking care of the children and he goes about in a new ride while I go with the old ricketing car. We have seen men who bought new cars for their wives, so it isn't a big deal to buy a new car for ones wife if the man can afford it, after all they are meant to take care of each other.

deliveryboy:
Is there anything wrong if the wife buys a car for herself/family? People need to stop making women appear like some dead weight who can't help themselves. Also, saying these kinds of things puts unnecessary burden on the man who tries to shoulder too many responsibilities thereby dying in the process of trying to impress his wife, his pastor and her family. The gap in life expectancy between men and women is already wide and such notions would only make it wider.

What if the man stops her from working, where will she get the money to buy her own car from?? The man didn't force his opinion on any one rather just state what he believes in. For a woman who can afford to buy a car, why not Nothing stops her from buying it but what of those women that can not and their husbands can? A man who loves his wife will be happy seeing her in a new car rather than an old car while he rides the new one. I believe the man is referring to men that can afford to buy not all men because all fingers are not equal.This is my own view and not cast in steel for anyone to buy into it.

lonelydora:
The truth is, your blessing comes the way you treat your wife. Treat her well, you get more blessing.

"He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth Favour from the Lord". Treat her badly, you won't get that Favour.

Exactly the point the man is making but of course, people misunderstood his main message in the whole speech.

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Yinxies:


I tire ooo

Vaginal delivery is simply the best if there is no need for CS and that is how God designed it to be. Vaginal delivery anytime any day! God bless all mothers!

armyofone:
One was kinda like
My husband, oko mi to fine, olowo ori mi, Ife mi, my man to make inu mi dun yen yen yen and so on and so forth
Mehn!!

, well every mallam to his own kettle. But for me, I prefer one keep his or her family life private.

Pidginwhisper:
See as dem put that leg on top pillow wey person go still put head. Chai!! This country sha.

abeg I no wan laugh this afternoon but you just made me laugh now with these your comments

To be honest with you without debasing others opinion, why not think of something else instead of being a conductor Can't you teach as a graduate? Honestly, I do advice you against being a conductor because it's the worst job a graduate would embark on and how do you think your love ones will feel seeing you a conductor after all the stress of going to the university and 2:1 for that matter. Please think great and big I beg of you. For you to graduate with 2:1 shows you are bright, hence you can Do something better other than being a conductor. This is my honest opinion, I will neva advice my love ones or friends to be a conductor as a graduate, you can be a driver but not a conductor. May God surprise you with a good job soonest amen!

emerged01:
Amen! Thank you sister. Well,I do go home on weekends.

Ok, I've once worked at idowu Taylor in V/I, even while leaving home by 5:am from onipanu, I still get scared at times, how much more 3:50am, lol, I can't even dare it. Take care of your self, the lord is your strength!