Greenbirth:
I think time has come when there should be political assassination. The politicians who killed just to achieve their selfish aims. If they know that he too can be killed without enjoying the blood sit. They will be definitely careful. There should be political assassination in nigeria.

What exactly are you saying?

There is a reason for this news. It is to calm nerves that are frayed.

Some things aren't supposed to happen. This is an example of those things.

This is not a cheap achievement.

She is an exemplary figure. A model to fashion one's career drive after.

Weird

DOMINGOPAPI:
A great product of Unilorin. Better by Far. RIP Prof

.Meanwhile
am a Lawyer and I am 32. From a struggling home. I had a modest growing up and I worked hard to make a 3rd Class Degree at a Federal University, I didn't go to Law school afterward but eventually got called to Bar years after.

My uncle that promised me a placement died Months before I got called to the Nigeria Bar.

Prior to that I have an ACCA Certificate in International Financial Reporting. I have done all I can to get a job but I have been unlucky with that too.

Last year I managed raise over 400,000 to travel to Europe and I was duped.

I worked with few Lawyers here in a sleepy state capital in the South West of the Country and I am living terribly ,maybe worse than a lot of school leavers. All I have to myself is a small office space, my certificates and my strong but failing heart.

I am tired, depressed, frustrated and suicidal. I don't know how to continue living. I am fed up and fast going down the drain.

I need Prayers, Job, encouragement advice and any support and assistance whatsoever.

I am at a very dark position in my life and I am weary and presently secluded from people.

Please Help.

Check my signature for contact. I am also on WhatsApp

Stay strong. Don't take any rash step.

Some comments here only show how insensitive we can be at times.

Sirjamo:
This bloggers always think that we are all Cobham Asuquo!!

This is a poor comparison. What Cobhams can see many with open eyes can't see.

Sirjamo:
This bloggers always think that we are all Cobham Asuquo!!

This is a poor comparison.

Too early to conclude on this.

Things change and we know this.

Government is not about talks like this.

Fantastic thought process.

VAR veered away from seeing the breaking of a rule.

Life evolves. Times change.

No traffic then on that road but today, the gridlock grinds.

This is just the definition of humanity!

By Anani Sunday

During my courtship days with my wife, we had some frank moments. They were moments of truth (MOT). They were times we had some serious discussions pertaining to our future together. As Mute Efe (Author of Get Naked Before You Get Naked) puts it, they were times we got naked before we got naked. They were moments of hard truths. She would ask questions upon questions and it was my responsibility to answer her convincingly. She needed assurance that certain things will never happen. She needed to know my conviction on in-law relationship, family finance, care for our aged parents, housemaid, etc., and what I will do if certain things happen. Whenever we ended such tough discussions, we didn't have the strength to say we loved each other. Those weren't times to profess love; they were times to reflect. We ended those long telephone calls as if we just began a fight. The MOT is a game changer.

Well, we didn't just end a fight. We only cleared some debris we could have met today as impediments. When you're in a relationship, it is good to have good times. Nobody may stop you from going to the cinemas or eating out. No one may stop you from waking each other in the morning with romantic telephone calls, exchanging gifts and even telling the world you're engaged. But if you don't tell each other the truths that will serve as your reality checks, you will marry only to spend your first two or more years wondering if you just took in a stranger as a spouse.

The moment of truth during your courtship is a life-saving time. It is the period you live in the future today. You discuss pertinent matters that will affect you. During such times, you will know the kind of man or woman you're about to marry. There are some questions you will ask that will make your RELATION SHIP hit the iceberg like the Titanic, or make it withstand the fierce storm ahead. You need your boat to be rocked now instead of later.

There are certain things to watch out for about the MOT. I will mention just three. Firstly, if both of you don't tell each other the simple truths that stare at you in the eyes about your relationship, then both of you are not serious. You have no business being together. Secondly, if you demand that you discuss important matters about your future but he always dodges the MOT, then he may not be ready yet. If he says the future will take care of itself, you need to remember that marriage does not survive on faith alone. It requires finance and faithfulness. You need to talk about them. Lastly, if he submits to the MOT but his body language is the opposite of what he says, you may just be close to stepping into the Lagos lagoon without a good boat. I am sorry but you may drown.

In conclusion, three things will save you from bitter future heartbreak and stories that touch the heart and muscles. The first is that you tell yourself the truth. The second is that he tells himself the truth. The third is that you tell each other the truth. If these three are missing, you are on your own.

Pardon the length of my reply. It's a piece I wrote yesterday. If you eventually decide to marry her and she agrees too, then you may find my reply below very helpful.



How to Build Your Relationship with Moments of Truth

By Anani Sunday

During my courtship days with my wife, we had some frank moments. They were moments of truth (MOT). They were times we had some serious discussions pertaining to our future together. As Mute Efe (Author of Get Naked Before You Get Naked) puts it, they were times we got naked before we got naked. They were moments of hard truths. She would ask questions upon questions and it was my responsibility to answer her convincingly. She needed assurance that certain things will never happen. She needed to know my conviction on in-law relationship, family finance, care for our aged parents, housemaid, etc., and what I will do if certain things happen. Whenever we ended such tough discussions, we didn't have the strength to say we loved each other. Those weren't times to profess love; they were times to reflect. We ended those long telephone calls as if we just began a fight. The MOT is a game changer.

Well, we didn't just end a fight. We only cleared some debris we could have met today as impediments. When you're in a relationship, it is good to have good times. Nobody may stop you from going to the cinemas or eating out. No one may stop you from waking each other in the morning with romantic telephone calls, exchanging gifts and even telling the world you're engaged. But if you don't tell each other the truths that will serve as your reality checks, you will marry only to spend your first two or more years wondering if you just took in a stranger as a spouse.

The moment of truth during your courtship is a life-saving time. It is the period you live in the future today. You discuss pertinent matters that will affect you. During such times, you will know the kind of man or woman you're about to marry. There are some questions you will ask that will make your RELATION SHIP hit the iceberg like the Titanic, or make it withstand the fierce storm ahead. You need your boat to be rocked now instead of later.

There are certain things to watch out for about the MOT. I will mention just three. Firstly, if both of you don't tell each other the simple truths that stare at you in the eyes about your relationship, then both of you are not serious. You have no business being together. Secondly, if you demand that you discuss important matters about your future but he always dodges the MOT, then he may not be ready yet. If he says the future will take care of itself, you need to remember that marriage does not survive on faith alone. It requires finance and faithfulness. You need to talk about them. Lastly, if he submits to the MOT but his body language is the opposite of what he says, you may just be close to stepping into the Lagos lagoon without a good boat. I am sorry but you may drown.

In conclusion, three things will save you from bitter future heartbreak and stories that touch the heart and muscles. The first is that you tell yourself the truth. The second is that he tells himself the truth. The third is that you tell each other the truth. If these three are missing, you are on your own.

Some good strides there.

That Ishawo road is an eyesore!

Kudos to the investigative journalist from the Punch for unravelling this academic theft. I followed this account.

Development-suspending package!

Honour yourself and you will he honoured!
Dishonour yourself and you will he dishonoured!

Valuable!

Personal interest impeding national interest.

Fantastic things happen!

Should we now say the policeman turned a maga as they say?

Seconded!

Colourful career.

Here is self-acceptance, self-love and a never dying spirit. You win daily!

Scammed!