₦airaland Forum

Dennisochampa:
It's funny how civilians like us actually know what to do more than our trained police officers..
I knew most of these things watching movies....
Is it that they know what to do but are not able to do it because of scarce resources or they don't know what to do at all??

Lol. Again it’s the same thing I was wondering and I’m hoping it not due to lack of knowledge. Who knows what kind of useless outdated technology they’re using. Cos she was still in that same Abuja which is not a remote area or a bush. Abeg

Dennisochampa:
What could have gone wrong?

The police should gather evidence from her phone records to know who she called last or who called her..

Also get records of her Google maps timeline to know where last she was seen...

This will give them a clue as to what happened to her...

May her soul rest in peace and may God forgive her imperfections.... Amen

It’s what I’m wondering,.. do our police usually check phone “pings” for last known whereabouts like other places?

Marjani…such a lovely name. Good night sis 😭

femi4:
It's about working in your field. Square peg inside squre hole. Nothing beats working in your field

Well, that’s what the person is trying to explain to you, If they can see an OND holder who will start as an apprentice for like $4 and is up to date, they are not going to waste themselves on a full-blown graduate, or even worse, an immigrant with a completely different contextual knowledge.

taking another job nothing to feel bad about..it can be but for a while, it’s normally men who get so emotional about these things…didnt one of them stamp his own wife to death out of frustration yesterday…

Coming from Africa expecting to hit the ground as an engineer in these countries filled with 100 year old buildings and bridges is an act of folly.

It’s not as if they want to see us in their care home or children’s home or whatever.just that their people are not interested in it!

PHIPEX:
People easily compare income in UK vs Nigeria without comparing expenses. What's the essence of earning so high when your expenditure is also so high and at the end of the day you have almost no savings?

The West from.time to time throw banana to Africans, attract our professionals to come and do their menial jobs. Once they get what they want they close the door. 10 years after, they open another window and the cycle continues. Modern day slavery

Also known as “neo-colonialism”. Too bad!

Almunjid:
But you're not baffled by men marrying only one wife and having 3 side chickes or Babymamas? This is hypocrisy. If you're in the governor's shoes, would u rather keep the second wife as ur side chick or Babymama and then pretend to be practising monogamy?

You are not serious. As if those guys don’t sleep with everything under the sun even with their 3 wives.

You’re not serious!

Lol! After marrying somebody’s husband.

Instead of quietly flying to America to enjoy a nice life you’re scrapping for titles without any shame, mtcheeeeeeeeeew

jara:
If you do not cut your grass or keep the house up, your Black neighbors will visit you.

Lol. Is it why you people do that? My sister had some warnings about changing her door cos according the neighbours it was looking too “old” 😆

Arabaincubus:
Nigeria happened to this family.

A civil engineer working as a counter boy in Tesco? Nigerians should begin to be aggressive to their misrulers.

Civil engineers, lawyers, teachers…anybody except medical staff

Will probably have to do something like that. At least until they’re able to do some minor training to brush themselves up to foreign requirements.

Not that he’s a good example but James Ibori went through something similar, he is a statistician by education but had to take a job in a store….this dude who killed his wife just took everything too personal!

kay29000:
True...like me. I schooled in Lagos all through. It's NYSC that took me to Anambra. Anambra was a great experience though.

Then I can say you’re even one of the adventurous ones…cos most of the time as soon as camp is done, you people must find your way back to Lagos, even if they post you to government house Una nor want 😆

Fullfledged:
The major reason for this is proximity to where one is living. People usually choose schools close to where they are staying. I am not saying everyone but most people.
We all know a lot of people stay in Lagos because of their status over the years compared to other states so normally, the schools there or around it will get a lot of attention

Most people brought up in Lagos can’t cope outside of Lagos. They feel that the rest of the country is a different world…they would rather stay there All their lives and then japa, than spend time in another state.

Mindlog:
I guess the man is in better place now in prison, the wife dead and buried by now, the 3 children shared to 3 different children residential homes in different parts of the UK till they clock 16 before being moved to semi-independent living.

It’s really extraordinary how much people are bending over backwards to justify somebody quite literally bludgeoning his wife to death.

hopexter:
He married her, men don’t just harm or hurt their other half no matter their temper. Why did didn’t he kill her in Nigeria if that was the case? In western world, your temper does not make you forget the strict law. He must have been pushed to the wall within just two years of going to Uk that he had to choose going to prison if it comes to worst.

Nothing like that…didn’t you see he couldn’t find work as an engineer and had to take a job in a store. The humiliation and frustration alone…

I blame lack of exposure..cos Nigeria is quite unique in terms of engineer engagement. many western countries engineering graduates struggle to find work and have to relocate to Dubai or somewhere. Talk less of an immigrant from an aspirational background.

Too much disappointment plus stress…mixed with jealousy cos those care workers can earn quite a lot… I wish he’d have prepared his mind for the kind of demeaning work he’d have to do over there instead of pouring his frustrations on the lady..

What’s the meaning of “Ayogu” … I hope something positive.

She seems restless.

One drawback of being wealthy or famous…it will be difficult to know whether people genuinely relate with you or not.

Hmm she go dey alright

Trials and tribulations of the Mushroom Church.

But come, dropping a car and expecting everything to clear up within a few months…is it not a remixed version of money rituals??

sonssyo:
It's not eBay,rather corn flour mixed with other stuffs,my sister in law in Abuja helped me to source it,it's nice,but I ate the food with a friend

Ok, I was wondering about the colour. Is it healthier than eba? Northerners usually have healthy grains and swallows but due to lack of info, people don’t seem to use them.

mukthar2000:
Op u still they cook this kind of delicious soup in this time of hardship economy?



Don't forget to send my own plate of soup make I take am manage this Eba.

Lol! See the Eba of warriors! Please don’t finish it 😆

I cant really abide draw soups but I like your neat-looking environment

Kobojunkie:
Aren't you the same one who reasoned earlier that a curse may have been involved? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Didn't you read well at all?

Are you still looking for my attention ? 😂 even after I bid you farewell several hours ago, wawu.

maybe you yourself are even cursed!

abdsamad:
Nigeria united!

Details missing, emotions heightened.

Demand explanations fest.

Where did this happen?
Who was the witness?
Where there other witnesses?

What was the circumstance of the labour?
What was the cause of death?

Noooo! We just say it was god and it was sad, and we move on.

Until proven otherwise, someone made a mistake in the care of this patient. Either the woman and her husband or the doctors and the hospital.

That’s how one of my cousins just died over nothing. Heavily pregnant with sickle
Cell…one minute she was here, the next she was gone…until today nobody knows what the hell happened.

Somebody who was supposed to be seriously monitored and possibly induced,,,so many uncles, aunties and quacks got involved but today she and the baby are no more.

Kobojunkie:
1. It does not matter whether they believe in secretly believe in curses or not, what matters is that science almost always comes to the rescue at the end of the day. So a good healthcare system is powerful enough to handle most of those nonsensical ideas you carry there too.

2. Arggh! You forgot that I mentioned the deplorable healthcare system in Nigeria first. The fact that the majority of religious folks do avoid CS is not to be downplayed at all, even though it was not my intention to present it as the definite reason for the death in this case.

Hahaha 🤣 You said you brought up Nigeria vs other countries because I mentioned evil and curses. And now that evil And curses in the context of foreigners is mentioned, you say it doesn’t matter 😆 Good night o

Kobojunkie:
It is exactly this evil lurking everywhere mentality that led me to remind you that the problem of barrenness is not experienced only by Nigerians. It has been mostly tackled mostly everywhere in the developed world. However, when it comes to Nigeria where the problems go pretty much untouched, you lot are quick to remember evil and curses but never the fact that you have done almost nothing to solve the problem itself.

2. The only evil lurking everywhere is that caused by human beings. In this case, the deplorable healthcare system in Nigeria to date, the choice made against CS which could have at least saved the baby's life, and you folks thinking it is OK to invoke juju and your gods in this when this issue has or mentions absolutely none of that.

You are just going around in circles…unless you can prove that people in other countries don’t believe in curses (they do) then your argument is meaningless.

There’s no info stating that the couple refused CS but you mention it as if it’s fact, yet still you want to dictate to other people what and what they should mention…abeg shift

Kobojunkie:
There is no such thing as unseen evil lurking somewhere looking to kill her. Barrenness is not unique to Nigeria or Nigerians. It happens to women everywhere, and in many developed countries where the healthcare systems are developed, there are many solutions already available to counter the problem.

Why don't you one day sit calmly down and reason why none of these ideas you people in these dark places cling to can be observed in the civilized world outside of your mental and your mind? There is a reason why and the minute you hit it, you will be all too wiling to set yourselves free of these mental shackles abeg!

Your submission is mainly superfluous since I never said that fertility issues were peculiar to Nigeria or that Nigeria doesn’t need better healthcare.

Yes! There is evil lurking in many places, I’m sorry to have to inform you. If you like, ignore it in the name of being more “enlightened” or whatever, na you sabi.

It’s more a sign of “mental shackles” to ignore these things than to acknowledge them.

Kobojunkie:
And you comfortably assume that this particular woman did not observe all those pagan rituals you have listed and more only to end up dead at the end of the day? You religious folks are just chuck full of .... **shudder**

I don’t know what she did or didn’t do oo, I only agreed with that guy that there are often some unseen evils to be overcome in situations like this.

14 years of barrenness…ha! Absolutely NO curse too big for people to render on the person. The original infertility may even give way to another intractable one, due to evil utterances.

kingthreat:
It's like there was a curse for she not to have children.
That when it seemed the curse was about to be broken, her life was taken.
People, life is more spiritual than physical.
It is reasons like this people go to spiritually-minded churches like MFM, CAC, Zion ministries, etc.
Please if you are reading this, take your spirituality more seriously.
I am not saying you come to church. Even if you have to go to Babalawo or native doctor, just be spiritually minded.

I think I agree with you. Who knows the kind of evil comment both families may have been passing, hmm. In that kind of situation the woman should just hide herself somewhere until the baby is like 3 months.

VULCAN:
Everybody has seen her face.

So you are touting medicine after death

And Nigerians have a lot of problems. In six months nobody will remember her face unless you see her walk past you in uniform.

Please! This girl is like 14 and already trending for being turned like a pot of stew. With the school principal is using her to do damage control to save his oyibo school.

In some years when she needs employers to see her LinkedIn profile, all they will come across is *slaps*

Very bad

This is ridiculous…why are they interviewing a minor on national news about being physically assaulted??

They can’t blur her face, they can’t give her a pseudonym, obscure her voice nothing?

Is it how she will enter university and later the workplace?! As the fragile soul who was once Bullied. Are those her parents standing behind her while she makes bullying history on national news?

Banana republic logic

Love800:
How did they contact the anal and throat cancer?

By the type of sexual act that you mentioned before…human papilloma virus can cause cancer in some people if it stays in the mouth/anus for a long time…

Most people contract the virus and nothing happens but some others…hmm.

4tomandchi:
She’s the product of a family this is the reflection of what she has grown up to become a family filled with abuse and violence can only be responsible for raising this type of behavior

Gbam. Both she and the bullied girl need counselling!

We ought to remember that this is a child… now that she has been reprimanded she needs to be rehabilitated into Normal social behaviours.

Some children bully due to psychopathic tendencies but most are simply meting out what is being done to them at home.

By the way if you are in the habit of SLAPPING kids to pieces then you shouldn’t be commenting on the case! Such people are their kids first bullies in life.

I wonder if she ever regrets crossing paths with him in school that fateful day…

Some people you meet in mundane circumstances are set to change the course of your life irrevocably, yet you have no way of knowing it.

Life is but a series of rooms..

TotoIsGud4boy:
Smart guy … she doesn’t regret shi.. there’s us are way too informed to see through hypocritical statements like that… just like Chris brown name is always mentioned for Domestic Abuse, Rihanna will forever remain hypocritical whenever she talks about “regrets”.

she’s female. Anyways to each his own.

Why would she troway her money…didn’t Jesus say Go and sin no more.

Reflecting on past errors doesnt mean you should be irrational or consumed by guilt.

Though I do agree that she doesn’t suffer any inability to manage fame, in fact she’s one of the more mentally clear ones.

upon all the partying, drugs and WEED wen she smoke…she still never craze