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Abeg those of you saying my English is bad, I explained why I asked this question on the other thread. This one is a double post. Fault from my BB network last night. I will prefer we post our responses on the other thread. Thank you

kpolli: It means he can take bullshi.t from her n his family only. .

What about the "good girl" part? He tells people I am a good girl. please I want more opinions from you guys on that

A-ZeD:
I'm slim, tall, ugly and broke will you give me a chance?

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@OP, Really? Oya, You can come and try your strategy on me.

fubbyy: Example.....
A.... (John) loves you, always tell you that he does,send you sweet txt messages,cry for you,stay with you and dreams about you but has nothing (financial)

B......(Peter)doesn't love you,never told you he loves you,no sweet txt message,never dreamt About you but he takes good care of you(financially)

Please who are you benefiting from?

I have been dating a girl for about 4 months now, she truly loves me (according to her) and always show concern.
few weeks ago another girl showed up, from a very wealthy back ground, we became friends and she does everything for me ( financially) currently using her money to work our both nysc posting, our friendship is no longer casual but intimate,I don't know if she love me(I don't care to know)because she never said such or maybe she's not romantic, the one that said she loves me was about spoiling a good life am getting from this new chick, I had no option than to sit her down and let her know what am getting from the new chick and that I will never let her go, she started nagging how she has true feelings for me,how she truly loved me as if am benefiting something special from her own feelings, the funny aspect of it is that she concluded by saying she will never love me again.. LOL.. I opened this thread because I see people rejoicing that som1 love them, how can you be a beneficiary of something som1 feels in his/her heart for you not what you are feeling yourself, my question is... do you benefit anything when som1 truly loves you or when you truly love som1?

Wow! why are men these days now gold diggers? I hear stuffs like this all the time these days. Why? Ladies please beware. There are so many of them on the prawl these days. so many of them looking for women with money all in the disguise of wanting "an independent woman" be very careful!

Spirit of Okija: Thats french for 'biitch!! you are 2minutes away from a beatdown if you dont stop the bullshit'..

Ok sir. I will not do it anymore.

Mynd_44: Why don't you just ask him?

cos I'm not sure he will be sincere. Like I said, guys usually say one thing and mean another. I know you guys might be able to decode these stuffs cos you understand yourselves, that's why I'm asking you. Please what does this "she's a good girl" mean?

If I met such a guy, and I am sure of his intentions, except if he is unbearably short, fat, and ugly, I will definitely give him a chance.

why are you guys shaking your heads naw? Iv explained why I am asking these questions. Just want to hear from the guys since you understand yourselves better.

Let's not credit or judge GEJ or any of them yet until and unless the culprits (ALL THE CULPRITS) are actually brought to book. Until they are made to refund the loot, sacked, and prosecuted. Shikena!

Tinkybabe: :Dlol @post, poster and comments excluding mine...but seriously poster,do you really mean all these questions or you just bored and trying have fun on nairaland ,cause if these questions are true.I smh for you

Lol! Its not my fault naw! You know how guys can say one thing and mean another! Just don't want to get excited over nothing!

Killz.:
[color=#000030] Seriously, how old are you? How can you not know what that means? [/color]

Abeg its not my fault o! You know how you guys can be! I'm just asking to get other opinion from guys since you guys understand yourselves better

Mynd_44: I don't toast online. Plus that your BF sounds like a regular boxer

Lol! If I say I don't take crap from people it does not necessarily mean that I beat them to a stupor when they give me crap. It just means that I will stop them right in their tracks and possibly delete them from my contacts list.

This same guy tells people when he introduces me to them that I am a "good girl" what could it mean?

Mynd_44: Whenyou mean take her out do you mean the Assassin type of "take her out" or what?

Lol! Why your mind dey run helter skelter? Abi you wan take style toast me?

J12: It means that he thinks you're sexy.

Lol!

Mynd_44: Well he was telling you that if not that he likes you? Hell will have been let loosed. I will advice you don't do that again

Yes sir. He's not my boyfriend though. Just a friend so that statement kinda surprised me

Mynd_44: See as she dey rearrange. Ta

Rearrange what?

Mynd_44: He means if it was someone else apart
from his immediate family that did what
you did, the person will be lying in an
hospital bed breathing with an oxygen
mask.
By the way did you pass your O'level
English?

What I "did" to him is no where near something that would warrant me lying in a hospital bed o! Btw, Na wa for your question o!

Lol! Its not like I'm carried away by it of course! Lol! I'm just asking...... You know how you guys are, so difficult to understand!

If a guy angrily tells a girl that she's the only one apart from his family that he can take bullshi.t from, what is he trying to tell her pls?

If during an argument,
a guy tells a girl that she's the only one apart from his family that he can take bullshit from,
what is he trying to tell her please?

bennyraz: just apply

Apply for where? Biko, I no wan lost!

Some companies actually encourage dating and marriage among staff, like mine. They are always organizing parties and fun activities for people to "get to know themselves better" as they say. As long as it does not interfere with your job

is it for one person or for three people or for many people? Do you run a dating agancy?

bisiaet: Now here we are where are those silly folks who always tribalised every issue on Nairaland? Where are their greasy silly face? Those who belief whenever anything happened and it happened in West,South or North part of Nigeria then they'll bombard this site with name calling and tribal nonsense now thank God it happened now in my own state where my parent came from, so what is the story now I guess they have hidden their silly head but let a Yoruba, or Edo, or Nigerdelta name mention for any wrongoing by now this thread would be in its 10th page.
I'm only saying this to tell them all that crime is not limited to a region or a tribe every region and tribe has their own problem. No region is a saint region or tribe that are sait tribe. I know what I've just said will anger them seriously because truth is their worst enermy.


I sincerely sorry for the slained pastor its so sad indeed and I dont know when this kidnapping madness would cease for God sake may God have mercy. The governor is busy talking up and down and all sorts of craps whereby kidnappers and ritualist has gone spiral uncontrolled in the state.

Thank you so much! God bless you and all those who say the truth. This is what I have been preaching in my 'please Nigerians!' thread. I hope those Biafran wannabes can see that kidnapping is just one of the many things that will still follow them into their cherished Biafran country. Are the kidnappers not Igbos? Are the kidnapped not Igbos? Yet instead of working on themselves they blame the ordinary Aboki selling suya by the roadside for all their problems! Na wa o!

PointB: Is that not what you and other advocates of one Nigeria at all cost want - peace of the graveyard! Unless perhaps, your derive some sadistic pleasures watching Nigeria butcher your people for no just cause - the real benefits of one nigeria.


I do not agree with this statement. Bloody separation is the fear and myopia sold to you by the Northern elites, who have enslaved your mind, and impaired your ability to think out the box. What you should be championing is "Referendum". Don't you want to be free?



I remember! But do you remember how your oil became theirs? Don't you want it back fairly?



No I get it! You are scared sh!t of IBB. You want one Nigeria because your are afraid! Well - God has not given us the spirit of fear! Free your mind of fear, so that you can think rationally! IBB is just one sad and worried old gay! Think of him that way, and you will see there is nothing to worry about!



Please you can say - 'you are doomed', but you dont represent 'me or we'. The right path is as I have reminded you - "Referendum!" Find out what Awka Ibom people want, and help the achieve it!




Now you are talking, and using your sense. Peaceful desolation of Nigeria is what we Igbo want! Nigeria is not a fair country, and we are tired of sacrificing our children to appease Nigeria. You can choose to stay if you want, Igbo will not ask you or anybody to join her against your wish!



I take God beg you too, dont tell Igbos how to live their lives! We know what is good for us!



For right to life for the unborn; to unshackle Igbo from retrogressive Nigeria, to liberate my Igboland, and ensure unborn Biafrans will have a chance to aspire to highest possible achievement in life - I will gladly lay my life and die in a blaze of glory! Unlike Nigeria, Biafra is worth every drop of a true Igboman blood!




If Biafrans loots Biafrans, and use the loot to develop Biafran, how is that a loss! Besides, such talks are nothing but conjectures! Biafra will not be heaven, but if I fight for it, I will also look after it. Unlike Nigeria, where 'our son', 'our brother', 'our man' can loot with impunity!




I have already told you what my blood is worth. It is very precious, I can my blood shed in a gamble for Biafra, but NEVER, EVER, for a sh1thole like Nigeria!



Soon you will learn, that blood is thicker than water!

for your mind, you don reply me ba? lol! It is not fear that make me want a one Nigeria, it is love logical reasoning, seeing the bigger picture!
Where do your Igbo governors store up the bulk of their loot? Is it not in foreign countries? Why then will they store it Biafra? You are so funny! If you insist you wanna die for Biafra for your unborn generations (and I wonder who go born this unborn generation if una die for war) pls go ahead and spill all the Igbo blood you want. But leave it at that! And I suggst you take a poll among yourselves, including the ones in dispora to know if it is majority of you that want Biafra by force by force. if it is, fine go ahead! Good luck just remember not to call any other tribe to smypathize with you ok? It's an Igbo affair afterall, right? au reviour!

PointB: So until the last of our great grandchildren are called to the great beyond should we realize it's futile to mix oil and water?
I have been in same country with you sir for over 50 years, I am tired of you killing me, my children, and my unborn for the flimsiest of reason. I am sick and tired of quota system, and federal character. I am sick and tired of the sick country - I want out, NOW!

Keep me in at your own risk; I will NEVER be one with you! I will forever see you as a commercial partner - nothing more, nothing less!

If we stay together without doing anything to make progress it's wahala, if we part ways it will be by a bloody war that you might not even survive (remember those oil wells in the south owned by the northern elites? Do you think they will just give it up like that? Remember IBB said he will fight for Nigeria's unity. Do you think it's because he loves Nigeria? Hell no! Guys! open your eyes! open your minds! Anyhow you look at it, we are doomed unless we make the RIGHT DECISION and follow the RIGHT PATHS. let me also add that if the Igbos want their Biafra so badly, they can then see if they can peacefully carve themselves out of Nigeria. PEACEFULLY. But I take God beg you, if you cant get it peacefully, just back out! Believe me, your preciuos blood is not worth Biafra, a Biafra that you are not even 100% sure of cos the same looting leaders in the Igbo land are the same people who are going to rule Biafra. Your blood is not worth that kind of expensive gamble!
Let me leave you with this last bit of info to calculate

@OP, just hang in right there. if you are a practicing christian, you will also have the assurance of christ Jesus. Hold on to him and his promises.
Also try your best to manange and plan your spending ahead. With a masters degree, I don't see why you cannot get a more comfortable job (what country are you in?) That is where God comes in cos it could actually be spiritual! put in more efforts in your job search.
All things work together for God to they that believe.

Onlytruth: You won't speak the language because YOU ARE NOT FROM AKWA IBOM STATE.
In fact from your response above, I AM SURE YOU ARE YORUBA.
Abeg clear for road.

If only you knew how cowardly you sound! I'm done for now. I know not everybody will buy my message, and I know that deep down somewhere in your heart, you agree with me, but tribal sentiments and pride will not allow you swallow this bitter pill I am giving you. But I pray that people like you will come to see the sweet after-taste at the end. Let me give you more time to digest this. but like I said. All we need is 30 percent of honest Nigerians and we will be just fine. Ciao!

No! I will not speak any other language apart from what we all understand because if I do, this thread is bound to become an ethnic thread. I am focused on the message I came here to preach and I only mentioned my tribe because I wanted to illustrate something. We all educated Nigerians right? So why can't you understand a message without knowing the tribe of the messenger?? Why?? Besides, you did not reply this: Now let me tell you why Nigeria's break-up will be far from peaceful. Like someone said, Northern elites have oil wells in oil-rich states right? Good. Now tell me, do you think they will let go of these oil wells just like that?? Oh! Let me also assure you that southern elites also have dealings and businesses with their northern counterparts. How do they just leave that behind? And those Igbos dreaming of having a country with the south-south, do you think the oil rich states will not use our oil as a reason to want to rule over your Biafra?? And knowing how the proud Igbos are will you accept 2nd place? Hehehehehe! I laugh in Biafra!