₦airaland Forum

SocialJustice:
Lala your attention is needed here.

Most parents these days fail at everything. I have friends who let their kids do whatever they want, I mean whatever. It is crazy. People think the girls above 20 are bad, just wait for the babies to turn into young women.

That said, there are beacons of light in this perpetual darkness-properly trained girls who know their place, abhor feminism and see no reason why they shouldn't be able to manage their homes.

you talk about women knowing their place. Please enlighten us. What is the place of a woman so the rest of us can learn.

viyon02:
Now you know, but too late my dear, you should have kept your body for the man you truly love but money and fame entered your head

It is never too late.

GayPontiff:
Seriously, without siding Trump, if they can do this to him, we must prepare for the worst.
We need to start thinking of other reliable app to replace these ones that think they are the omegas
Their information sensoring is becoming scary, even when it isn't anything close to a threat.

You can't speak against LGBTQ on twitter for instance. Meaning u have no freedom of speech via d app.

Whatsapp is rolling out terms u must agree or can't use their app, it isn't funny anymore.

Trump deserves what he's getting but then it calls for other nations being careful too.
These apps and their owners are playing god.

They are not playing God. There is no association without rules and regulations. Without those, you’ll only have chaos. You can’t talk against the LGBTQ because they are not breaking the law of the land they reside in. If they were in Nigeria and you are using a Nigerian owned platform? You report them to the police.

NwaAmaikpe:




Her spirit of adventure is out of this world, I admire it though I wouldn't want any of my descendants to turn out like her.

What is this world turning into? Imagine a 14-year old having anal sex just to preserve her virginity.

I was 18-years old when I first tried out anal sex and I won't have if not for Labianke who told me I should use the back door because the living room was been painted red.
(I enjoyed it though and have tried it several hundred times after then.)

I don't blame her, I blame our perverted society that has attached a laurel on virginity.
I have personally turned down sex from not less than 8 different ladies just because they were virgins...they said they wanted to give me the honour of welcoming them into the world of carnality.

I told them to look elsewhere; God did not send NwaAmaikpe to this world to suffer and drill holes for other people to enjoy...let other mumu people drill it open for me to enjoy.

My personal experiences with married women has proven that women who were married as virgins have a much higher propensity to cheat mostly out of curiosity.

So I pity ignorant people who think they have priceless gems because they are dating or married to virgins. If only they knew that those gems are nothing but ticking timebombs.

Stop acting like virgins are hoes. Any virgin who is curious after getting married simply means her husband needs to learn to satisfy her. After all, if she had been experienced, he’ll put in the necessary work to satisfy her. For a woman to remain a virgin in these times of promiscuity means she not only has a mind of her own, but has the courage to be herself and stick to her principles.
Stop acting like you’re a stud. Virgins don’t go around looking for who to disvirgin them; at least not in Nigeria.

Blossomfirst:
Before you go tribal bashing him, remember he is doing this to protect his region's interest. North has Miyetti Allah and Hisbah, West has Amotekun, South East has ESN (as Nnamdi Kanu called it)

The dude has proven that when some governors have refused to act, the power truly belongs to the people.

check out my profile and see me travel across Nigeria

He is not in the position to do this no matter how laudable he tries to make his actions speak.

Kingzeez10:
So, should we say laying curses on students is one of the Christian law because you're stating sharia law as if you know about it.

Did you hear him laying curses on the students?

Urekaure:
Rubbish, with all the morality the older generation had, how did they impact Nigeria with it?

They are all hypocrites...

How is this law different from Sharia?

In sharia, if you steal, your hands are cut off. Why do you think you see beggars with stumps? I don’t know what is going on in Covenant School, but neither do you. We are just reading what some uncouth people posted. From the way they address someone much older than them, one can tell they have problems with discipline.

BlueRayDick:
You see, the problem here is that u are focusing on the immediate cause and not the really bothered about the remote cause of Seun's action; Its understandable tho cos he's being seen as a son of a freedom fighter....blah blah...black sheep.

1. I watched the full video and I don't miss the part where he said the guy threatened his life. Trust me, if a stranger who I don't know from Adam comes into my neighbourhood and after misbehaving starts telling me he knows my work place, calls my full name and says he's going to "treat my 4ck".....Honestly I won't sit down there and hope and pray he doesn't carry out his threats; I will make it almost impossible to do it right there.

2. Nigeria is a jungle where people's lives have been threatened in like manner and they ended up going missing or dead like their assailants promised. You mentioned stepping on someone's toe and the person pulling out a gun; well the guy did more than stepping on toes but that guy right there almost stepped on someone's life.

3. I know u probably think he should've called the police, get the guy arrested...blah blah.....like I said, Nigeria is a jungle. The owner of the popular Whitehouse restaurant in yaba was robbed and his Atm + pín was taken away, he reported at the police station in the morning of the next day. Surprisingly the same robbers showed at his residence the second night and shot him dead for daring to go the police station to report them. Till date nothing has been done and no investigation carried out to know how the thieves got that info and came back to kill him. Naija is a jungle.

Okay, but what if we all decide to carry guns? What if the other guy had a gun and threatened Seun too? Nigeria is a sane country. That is why Seun brandishing a gun is shocking. You’re right about the police though. They should be proactive about ensuring people feel safe enough to report to them.

BlueRayDick:
Nigerians just like to be allowed to live lawlessly. Imagine u site an event centre in a residential area, throwing parties with blaring music as early as 9am and blocking the entrance to people's house with Ur cars.If i was Seun, I would be mad too.

Imagine the bouncer even threatened his life in his area and promised to go look for him at the shrine. It is understandable he had to take the threat up almost immediately. No need to wait for the guy to carry out his threat.

Pulling out a gun is not living lawlessly? Imagine if all of us carried guns? You step on my toes and I pull out my gun. You see my gun and you pull out yours. Instead of simply going our separate ways, we end up shooting each other. Or someone is angry with the world, and he goes on a killing spree.

odinson1:
these set of girls are in the Church, because of their clocking age they joined choir and other attending service.

you can find them in other places though.



as a gentle man who knows are to dress well with some good impression, this set of girls are very easy to talk to. and they are very quick to ask what you do for a living, just to examine if to consider you or not to waste further time with you as time is not on their side anymore. they don't pay much attention to your future. they are after now and what you can do for them to remove the shame they are currently facing, they call you their helper. you must be comfortable and ready to settle down in the next 6 months to 1 year from the question they throw at you. they are good in calculation and every bit of time they spent with you they are calculating and if you form a nice guy or gentleman you will never see their pant.



only players sleep and useless them. just tell them lie and packaging. show impression that you want to marry and settle down as soon as possible, if possible promise to marry. go to her house to see her parents. if they still insists marriage before sex, just threatened them they are hiding something from you and you are no longer interested they will be the one throwing their body to you. Bleep them anyhow like never before. get blow.job and even mess their anus join. then dump their ass and onto the next one.

I believe that is their punishment for wasting their Prime years hoeing around, rejecting and friendzoning All the Nice guys who really loved them

I am trying to wrap my head around why you want to “useless” another human being. People are trying to live productive lives and all you care about is counting notches on your bed? You need to forgive whoever hurt you so badly that has made you this monster that tries to humiliate women. Relationships are meant to add value to people’s lives and not demean them.

generationz:


Many men will say Ewwww but they will try to contact the guy because country hard.

For your info, this was the work the one and only Egberi papa one, Timaya was doing before he had his breakthrough in music back in Porthacout.

Many of your the in suit and tie you all look up to working for big companies do this exclusively for their male or female bosses.

The other day on a blog, a wife was complaining about how her husband sleeps with a youth corper in a ministry who sleeps with the oga and has long leg. The husband has been getting juicy contracts from this corper and the wife has been getting good housekeeping money and is confused.


The husband is a side.......

There is hunger and desperation in the land.

Stop promoting rubbish and spreading lies. Prostitution is not the norm. It is the exception especially when it comes to men. How many men give sex for favors or money? Their egos won’t even allow it. The ones that do are no longer men but plain gigolos.

Cumtroller:
Just take a look at Temi Otedola and Mr. Eazi (Oluwatosin Ajibade). She bought him a Range Rover some days ago.

Do same to any Afonja and he will profess undying love for you and plan your wedding in less than 2 weeks after meeting.

Wait for Mr. Right. God will bring him to you.

Afonja Ajoka!!!

Who told you Temi bought the car for Mr. Eazi?

nastyking:
Which handwork is best and advisable to learn for an undergraduate student to be independent while in school.. All opinions, life experience and advice are welcomed.

Wow! I applaud you. Back to your question, you can try quite a number of things such as:
Cooking -eventually open a restaurant.
Baking -open a bakery, cater weddings....
Welding
Painting of houses - learn modern ways of doing this.
Carpentery -produce better Quality furniture Than is available.
Laundry services
House keeping services
Wedding hall decorator
Makeup artist
Hair - weaving, styling, barbing.....
Produce beddings for sale
Duty calls and I need to go.

Cutiekatty:
God bless you, if she is a white woman now there will be no problem, even the family will be pushing him to settle down with her. From my experience marrying my wife was the best decision I ever made, she is almost 5 years older than me, she respect me more than I respect myself, after all these years of being with her I still always look forward to coming back home to meet my queen, with her I have my peace of mind, she a mother. If you lose this woman to marry some of these end time Jezebel na high BP dem go take kill you.

Exactly!!!

GodWrites:
Exactly! OP seems to have this childish, immature mindset. Seems his small stature and baby face also affected his reasoning.

How can one date someone for 4 years, only to wake up and start looking for excuse to dumb the lady?

I mean, was he blind when he first approached her?

Children!

Smh!

Exactly!

Op, age is not the issue here. You’re too immature for her. Please do her a world of good and let her go. She needs to be free to meet a mature and compassionate man who will treat her well and not seek seek approval from Nairaland or others.

NwaAmaikpe:




I have a cousin whose wife birthed all females and he refused to train them through university...and I am sure this is the same reason most of my uncles also did not train their female children.

The things these traditional men see sitting down, some of us who claim to be super enlightened will never see it even on top of an MTN mast.
But now I see some of it and in retrospect; their decision is so wisdom-driven.

Anna Banner won MBGN in 2012, became a babymama in 2015 and finally became a graudate in 2020.
But she's been living lavish since 2012 without a fvcking BSC degree.

The moral of the story should be very clear for women.
God created them with everything they'd need to excel by themselves in this life.
A rightly utilized good kpekus will take you to places light years ahead of where a university degree will take you.

Please emphasis on "rightly-utilized". You can't be sleeping with Kebiru the welder and expect to have breakfast on a yatch or marry and stick to unemployed Nurudeen the ex-corper out of love hoping one day he'd become the GMD of NNPC.
That's waste of good kpekus in the name of love and love does no good to females.

Who degree epp?
Research and experience has taught us that extra degrees only makes ladies too enlightened, less desirable and ends them up as frustrated feminists.

Really? Then you might as well say no one should try to gain knowledge or improve themselves intellectually or even get skills. Everyone should focus on looking great to attract a shallow partner who will appreciate their bodies, but not their minds. Everyone, because there are so many men who do not want to work for a living. They focus on being fine boys so some women and sometimes men can take care of them. They live in grand houses, drive the best cars and always look fantastic.

Fahdiga:
Even after lavishing the money Aboki is still Aboki

That so many people liked your post is a tribute to tribalism.

SmellySperm:
shut tf up bro,stop giving excuses for low IQ and uncouth stupid ladies, she should have at least calm down to hear the guy first instead of the unnecessary rant,that's ill manner

You are castigating a lady for being so ill mannered, yet here you are displaying worse. You’re worse than the lady you’re complaining about. Take out the mountain in your eye before you complain about the mole hill in another’s. She was rude, but your response is totally crass. You’re complaining about the lady not being calm, yet here you are blowing hot air out of your rear end. one lady was offensive, and you have ascribed her character to others. I won’t do the same because I have met and worked with men who watch what they say. They are gentlemen who know how to communicate politely.

XXXXTENTACION:
The past to some extent determines future.


just because something happened in the past does'nt mean that such a thing can't have effects on the future.


if you took out sometime you would realise that certain things people do in the past can have a paramount effects on the future.



that single picture up there might not make much meaning to you but if we took time to interprete that picture in different contexts it might have deeper meanings than we might realise.

Goodness! What deeper meaning are you looking for? How does Fela dancing in a suggestive way affect you? Your choice is to look away or watch, but to ascribe a deeper meaning to this is making a big deal out of nothing. The point the guy you quoted was making is simply that the antics of one’s parents should not define one. Besides. Just enjoy the music if you like it and ignore the artist.

WORDWORLD:
He lashes them because he came to the realisation that, indeed women are the smoothest criminals when it comes to cheating in relationships. Men can never meet up to their craftiness when it comes to cheating while men get blamed for cheating more is because men are not as crafty. MEN ARE VERY EASILY CAUGHT THAN YOU CAN CATCH A CHEATING WOMAN. Why do you ladies like us bad!

I think you need to heal! There’s nothing like one gender being craftier at cheating. Cheating is a personal choice especially when the individual justifies their behavior by claiming the other gender is worse.

felixzo1:
he is not a Nigerian politician, I believe he has his facts before making his statement,corruption did not start in Nigeria today ,politicians have become more aggressive with their stealing.

He Is not a Nigerian politician, but he is human and capable of making a mistake. He needs to correct himself publicly.

Acjohn:
I say Buhari is a failure not because of this tarrif buy what the average man in Nigeria is passing through.

Hike in petrol, gas, transport, food, the falling of the naira, insecurity and most importantly the unprecedented rise in Nigeria local and international debt.
What will Buhari do to justify all of these?
If Nigerians are giving 100k per month by government, it still won't cure the damage these have caused the system.
Hope those that voted him are enjoying what they are seeing

Bad governance has been the bane of society since the Shagari era. However, the governed should take full responsibility for this. An example is expecting the government to give out money to the populace.

chocolatelady:
U deserved a cold bottle of Origin for this. God bless u real good.

Thanks and God bless you. Let’s change the origin to a tall glass of chocolate milk though.

Toke should ignore him. The same Mariam that was said to be super arrogant Is the role model he is holding up to us. Anyway, that is what comes from bringing your private business to Instagram like you’re starved for attention. Buy a new car, post it. Enhance your boobs, post it. If and when I enhance my boobs, even my husband will not know.

All things being equal, you should be doing your NYSC.

I have always loved Adesua Etomi. Always saw her as classy and intelligent. But if these words ascribed to her are true, hmmmmm! She should not play to the gallery o! Since when did we give birth for the government to take care of them? Don’t the children have parents? Mrs. Onochie’s point might simply be that if kids from an obviously poor background are making an effort, no one has an excuse not to wear a mask. They and the elderly are most at risk. And she is right. All those including Adesua spewing righteous anger can buy masks and share to the less privileged.

defcon4:
Nigeria is cursed and the curse goes thus... All those born pre Civil war must die for Nigeria to rise. A generation must die for the blood it has shed.

Why don’t you start by killing your parents! The rest of pre civil war elders will live.

pyxon:
If Nigerian historians could paint Gowon as a war hero and saint, only for him to be exposed to be a pilferer like this, then I wonder how much Nigerian government and historians have twisted the Nigerian civil war story

Just stop the rubbish! The Oyibo man is confusing Gowon for Abacha.

This man should be sued. Is he confusing Godwin with Abacha?

Kestolove:
Banky when are you goin to give dix girl belle? Or wait is banky impotent or HV a low sperm count?

Womb watcher spotted!!! Is it your business?

thebosstrevor1:
Guy stop wasting your time.

The anger you have is the lack of opportunity to loot

Leave him alone! Not everyone has a depraved mind that needs to fill their lives with stuff to feel alive and relevant.