₦airaland Forum

thesolutions:
This is useless analysis.
Timi Dakolo has been raising rape allegations against Fatoyinbo not knowing to the world that he and his wife was nursing the pain of being a victim to such.

Timi's wife has come out clean no minding the shame just because she wants to heal herself yet you are busy insulting them as struggling because you want to defend a saint.

I know of ladies who maintain sexual relationship with married men including men of God but feel cheated when they finally realized that their wisdom in doing so was actually foolishness and then turned to accuse their benefactor of rape providing evidence. What you should first seek out is was their any such relationship between them before we can talk about rape.

Condemning the lady straight away can only prove media trial and attempt to sway the public.

Same thing as condemning the pastor without a shred of evidence.

ladiesreject:
I live not far from Abuja. In fact, I visit Abuja quite often. At one point in time, I stayed there.
But to think I've never heard of this man and his sexcapades until today is surprising.

Of course I've heard of COZA, but Biodun Fatoyinbo? Never heard of him.

So this is the pervert?

But na how old be this man be self? Plus, how did he make his money?
Cos it cannot be through that his church. But if it's through his church, man must be a fraudster.

And how is he a pervert? Is there any proof that the allegations are true? So, if someone goes to your office and accuses you of rape, should your managers believe her without any evidence?

Alimi calling himself Ashiwaju!!!! Shame on you!!! The Bob that I don’t even like sounds so wise here. Someone shouts rape without any proof and people insult the pastor. I know her husband, but exactly who is this Busola that I should take her word as the gospel truth? Does she have a proven record of integrity that I should believe her on this? Am I supposed to believe her because I like her husband? A seventeen year old that could not call for attention. Even the Bible says that a woman being raped should shout out for help.

LaIabobo:
The time she chose to speak up is of no relevance here.

The issue here is the rape accusation, address that and stop passing blame on the woman for not speaking up before now.

Of course the time is relevant!!!! If she reported it immediately after the rape, there’ll be evidence to prove her case. His semen will be evidence. Making an accusation now is her word against his. The fact that she made her accusation does not make it true or a lie. In a court of law, evidence is key and not sentiments please. Imagine a 17 year old young adult being raped multiple times by the same person!!!! Was she held hostage? Was she blindfolded that she could not name him to her parents? I am a woman and when my dad’s friend tried to touch me inappropriately I told on him immediately and he was not welcome in our home.

LaIabobo:
Oga there is nothing like consensual sex with a minor.

Even if she begs for it, it is still a capital crime

Did I say it is not a crime? You obviously don’t understand my point plus oga does not apply to me. I am a Madam.

I'm truly sorry Busola was raped. But at the age of 17, she should have reported it to her parents. If she was to scared to then, she should have reported him after the second time. The question for me is why now and what does she hope to achieve with this expose? To say that at the age of seventeen she was raped multiple times by the same man who was not a stranger is quite incredible. When she says rape, does she mean statutory rape where she gave her consent but as a minor?

Sue you if he dares? This Busola does not know that even if she is telling the truth, she will loose the case cos she has not got a shred of evidence against him. This is nothing but empty noise. She should have made the noise when she was raped.

This kind of vindictive rubbish needs to end in Nigeria. If He has a personal grouse with the former governor, he should not bring that into governance. Let him focus on what he was elected to do. If Okorocha did anything wrong, he should be taken to court. This governor is acting like a tout and not a governor.

EmeahuClifford:
There is no excuse, other counties all over the world men and women works and still run their home. ask your relative outside the country how they do it.

Seriously? They can afford all kinds of labor saving devices in countries where electricity to run these is constant. Most often, one of the parents becomes a stay home parent living on one person’s income which may not be easy to do here. Depends on the income. They get babysitters when they need to go out for a couple of hours. They can not employ nannies cos they are expensive over there. Not because they dont want to. Even the hourly rate of babysitting is expensive which is why they weigh the cost and one parent resigns when they have kids. Nigerians in diaspora often get their mothers to come help with the kids. Kids change everything.

Jayslicky:
That is what you get when you allow another woman do the things a wife should do for her husband, a wife that can't cater for the home but only available for sex is not a wife but a sexual partner.

If they both need to work and they have kids, how on earth do you expect them to cope? Children always change the dynamics of a household. Often times, sacrifices are made because of them. A woman who treasures her privacy or just wants her home to consist of her family gives all that up cos of the kids.

Ochendo1:
67 cars stolen by Rochas familiy and you expect the present government to function well.
If he orders new cars with the states money, you lots will complain of wastefulness and start demanding for what happened with the cars your messiah Rochas bought.
Don't just comment without using your brain.

And exactly where and what is the proof? Anyone can make an accusation. For all we know, the drivers or anyone could have stolen the cars after Okorocha left office. That is if any car was stolen.

LOSKYXANDER:
Evil women everywhere!! God please open my eyes when I'm ready to settle down Amen.....some of them would seem nice at first, that's the deceptive part

Actually, you will attract someone just like you. Someone who blames a whole gender when one of them does something wrong. So, every time a man does something wrong in the news, she’ll lash out at you, and you can equally lash out at her when it is a woman.

Army10:
That's looks like a face me, I face you house.

And?

They keep focusing on the wron things: women consuming more than men, cocaine use on the increase, how many kilos they impounded. They should focus on the sources of the drugs and how to stop them. That way, drug use will reduce.

Officialgarri:
I don't know what y'all think, but as for me, I think she's just being a woman....

I don't have to say more

Exactly how is she just being a woman? She is a lazy empty headed person with no self respect or dignity. There are men that are exactly like her. Just like there are hardworking men and women. Foolishness has nothing to do with gender.

Why is anyone is insulting him of seeking attention? Did he take the pictures or post them online?

thatigboman:
Is the game won by grammar? That Frank's response is very poor. Even if he, Frank, himself sits on the hot seat, he wount win more than N5,000.
And I hate the guy so much because he is a wife beater. The programme 'Who Wants To Be A Millionaire' was yanked off because of how he, Frank, terribly beat and divorced his wife (a lovely lady that was also a TV presenter). So he should go and sit down and cover his face in shame.

How do you know the reason for the program being discontinued had to do with his marital affairs. He actually remarried shortly after his divorce. As per shame, why on earth should he be ashamed the show ended? While beating anyone is horrible, you're not privy to what went on in the marriage. I also read that he beat his wife and as a woman I was livid. But, life has taught me that people can go to lengths beyond comprehension to discredit another person. Plus, there are those that can provoke even an angel. So since neither one of us was there when the alleged beating took place, I'd advice you stop with the hating. It does not add garri to your cup, neither does it reduce his.

Erediauwa:
Still wondering how you guys knew she was a virgin though. Did any of the useless rapist relayed the information to you guys?

We shouldn't give excuse for suicide, whether traumatic or depressive, be it however.

You guys? Did you not read the post?

Poor girl!!! To keep yourself only to be forced to give it up by a monster. May God comfort her family.

Erediauwa:
The question here is, which report should we believe now?

-She never had a boyfriend.

-She was raped

-She was a virgin.

I am really confuse here but suicide should never be an option.

She was a virgin until she was raped. This probably traumatized her and she killed herself.

HARDBUOI:
And that deserves insulting her mum rather than the girl in question.
Wait are u a Yoruba?
Because they are one always found of doing that.

Now there you go making it a tribal issue. He insulted her mother and you insult an entire tribe. Is this not a case of the pot calling a kettle black? No, I’m not Yoruba, but I can see the reason for his anger. She threw stones and expected to be praised for it. Not everyone is tolerant of rubbish you know. You’d probably have called her worse names if you were in his shoes.

HARDBUOI:
this boy is an idiot.

The girl is an idiot!! She insulted his integrity, and claimed he was a low esteem fanzine. She insulted him heavily then turned around to say she did nothing. Attention seeking ....

What gives her the right to take anyone’s picture without their consent? This is one of the downsides of making phones accessible to everyone. Nigerians misusing everything since .....

Okuda:
on what grounds is simi smart? have you heard her deliver a lecture, speak extensively about various vast topics orally, watched her interview before? what exactly formed your decision on calling her smart?

Did you take a survey of her followers? how large they are? how did you also come to the fact that they are intelligent?

because someone drops one of two punchlines on twitter does in no way make them smart. because everybody can voice their thoughts dont make their opinions on issues count.

An intelligent punchline is better than a dumb epistle.

Okuda:
i dont know what makes simi feel like she has an opinion.

Because she is smart and accomplished. She has a large following of people who respect her and listen to her. Her opinion counts to intelligent people.

TroubleMaker47:
Exactly!
I wonder which serious person would be grossed out by bee colony!!!

Someone who is allergic to bees or one who has been stung by one before.

Ashley86400:
If this pic irritates you. . .you have Trypophobia.

I’m not trypophobic, but I found this picture disturbing because it looks like a skin disease.

poksmahn:
I recently started a business about two weeks ago and because of my schedule, i hired someone to manage it for me. Can't be at two places at once. So, I hired a lanky teenager that radiates humility and zeal for the job and since the business started, I have not been hitting the desired target. I was getting frustrated already but i kept consoling myself that maybe the word has not yet gone around about the business.

So yesterday, i decided to spend a whole day at the business and lo and behold, I made a lot of money that day. Obviously, the boy was eating my money. I have no problems with my staff taking money out for lunch but this guy was slashing my money by half. Imagine the greed! And I pay him above minimum wage and told him to take Sundays off. But the guy comes to work on Sundays and works till late. AT first, I was happy with his work ethic but now, i realize that this guy is working for his own half.

And he swore with his life that he's not eating my money. The next course of action is to fire him but how can i prevent this embezzlement from going on with the next guy I hire? The nature of business is a game lounge. I'll be grateful for any advice I can get here.

The game console i go to gives a card that has all the clients point on it. At the door, you pay for the number of points you want. This is recorded electronically on the cards. Different games cost different points. To start a game, one slots in the card, which deducts the points needed. There’s no way the attendants there can cheat because for a game to start, a card is needed. No card, no game. The initial cash translates into points on the card. You can try them out and see. They’re a gaming arcade called Rufus and Bee at the twin waters in Lekki.

Bossjakande:
smiles

Okay o!

kevin25:
U have to read my write up first before trying to blame me did i tell you that am married? I cant take poo if any woman cant abide by my rules den dats the end so get it

I read your right up alright! Did you say abide by your rules? Seriously smh!!! Good luck to you with that attitude.

kevin25:
Imagine if your friends came around and u instruct your wife to go and bring food for U and ur frd then she told you to go and do by urself how wil u feel? My girlfrd wont try dat talkles of wife

Op, the man in question is you and not your friend. Nothing to be ashamed of if you need help. The genesis of your marital problems lies in the word you used above. That is to instruct! Why are you instructing your wife? Respect begets respect. I hope you’re not trying to “subdue” your wife to prove that you’re the one who wears the pants in the family? This has nothing to do with her being financially or academically more stable than you. I think it has to do with your poor self esteem. Why don’t you look at it this way? That you must have a lot going for you to have such a woman marry you. Address her with some respect and she’ll respond with even more love and respect.