₦airaland Forum

Cristalz:
@Sweet T
I agree with you,but does this mean she should drop all the friends she had because she now has a boyfriend?Of course shez gotta draw lines with these other dudes and make 'em clear,but what's wrong in letting a male friend give you a ride home? She mentioned just one occurrence.I'm working with what she posted.

Nope, did not say that. I want guys to admire my girl but she should be wise enough to know where the line is drawn. Besides i don't mind for her to have male friends but not one that calls every night.

@Poster

The number one mistake women makes is when they say " Oh, he will change when we get married".

Cristalz:
@Sweet T
But she said she has assured him that therez no reason for him to be suspicious.You either trust a person or you don't.How do you explain him not liking most of her friends?Not wanting her to have any male friends?That's insecurity.

Words of assurance is one thing, behavior and actions are another. And it's true when they say words are cheap. Most women forget to realize that Behavior builds trust. The only time you take your cards of the table is when it's game time. If there are no games to be played, all cards should be on the table.

@Poster

Yep, the pastor is kinda correct. I mean if you vote for somebody that has never achieved anything in his private life. Never had a known job, never contributed anything meaningful to his society, runs from one political godfather to the other. Then what do you expect when he gets in office ?? And it's unfortunate that 90% of Nigerian Politicians fall in this category. A nation without vision.

debosky:
I agree Sweet T, sometimes we may not be getting the full story - some of this 'closeness' to male friends may really be interfering with the relationship, and also if she isn't very open with him, that may also create room for suspicion.

Yes sir, women can be funny sometimes. You said your in a relationship but yet you do things that arouse suspicion. Just let me know if your tired of the relationship, Don't start playing me as a second fiddle to another dude. it's not a crime. I'll try my best to add glitters to my gold but if that is not enough, then Goodbye and Godbless !! No be long thing.

@Poster

Nope, Do not hate my ex at all. But i seriously pray that she be honest to true love the next time she found him. I pray for her to be happy, and realize when to stop playing silly games and get real.

I feel sorry for short men oo. It's very demeaning when someone wants to describe a man and start by raising his/her hand to measure the level of the man's shortness. And i admit my guilt in this too.

@Poster

After 3 years?? Did she gave you a love portion? Look here Bro'. You've tried your best, grab your sh*t and find you someone else. Trust me, there are bigger, better and tastier fish in the ocean. Good luck.

If he's acting like that after only 2 months of dating, imagine what he will do after 1 year. Another thing is that we are only hearing your side of the and we don't know what the other side is like. Women always say " oh, he's too possesive" or "Oh, he's too jealous". And sometimes they give a guy reasons to be jealous. If your receiving calls every night from other guys, of course i will be suspicious, if your talking to a dude on the phone and suddenly hang up when i walked, you damn right i will be suspicious. I've come to realize that "if it sounds like a duck, walks like duck and looks like a duck. Then it's definitely a DUCK!". Life is too short to be playing a private investigator on your partner. If he/she start acting suspicious, sit he/her down and have a talk to mend things up. If things does not work out, Just grab your dignity and hit the road. End of tory.

beauteous:
me too.nd im sure u knw y i laffed

@welli

I knew your mouth will get you into trouble sooner or later and it's good that all sharp tongues gets banned.

LadyT:
Nothing you can say. Its amazing what time can do. Its hurts so much now but in a few months the pain will lessen.

Spoken like a true veteran. Poster you better listen to this woman, she is talking from experience. Experience has taught her that time heals all her broken heart (which is like every 6 months anyways ). Lady T, pele.

jassie:
@ sweet T

it would be better if all she does is drink! she's more saucy than hot sauce!

@ toyinrayo

u ain't going to get your phucking creepy-crawlie PUSSY licked on nairaland okay, keep trying! retarded fatherfucker!

Hey ! Take it easy, Bro'.

toyinrayo:
check all your post. , either it's about "bleeping her" or "Bleep her". . .
na only sex you know?
haba!
even his_grace makes berra sense than you

Toyin, Do you drink??

toyinrayo:
Same country that makes you come here and start bashing another tribe?
Or the same country that turned your brain into nothing but "Bleep her"?
Dude, it would have been better if that country taught you what common sense is

see all you do is yab me. when did i say "Bleep her" ?? yeye girl.

toyinrayo:
You do it all the what?
First you say truth hurts, now you're lying to yourself for what?

welli:
werin go happen if i do odawise?

There are too many thugs on nairaland. Awon omo oraisa.

toyinrayo:
the way you try women gan should be tiring you , .glad to see you want to make sense now. . .try it more often, Sweet T

I do it all the time but your urge to yab me obscure your objectivity.

savanaha:
You make it seem that cheating is only synonymous to women. Men have done worse than what the poster claimed and are doing worse. Cheating is not singular to women and if say the story is true is the brother not gulity as well? Was he forced into it?

I know this is not an exam but it is always advisable to read a sentence properly and comprehend it b/4 responding. The keyword in my post was some women.

davidt:
Ouch!!!! That should hurt.

It doesn't hurt one bit because she doesn't know what she is talking about. A country that allowed me buy my first house in cash at just 26 years old. Made close to $50K last year and on the verge of breaking that this year. The only freedom the country doesn't offer me is the freedom to run the red light, cut corners, give a policeman N20 to let me go because i;m driving too fast. And i know all that will even be better when Obama and Hillary gets in office.

The way some women think tire me sometimes. You have atleast 2 children for this man and the best you can do is mess with one of his brothers?? na wah oo.

Uche2nna:
Has anyone suggested telling the father?

Are you serious?? You wan to start trouble in the family based on unproven suspicion ??

@Poster

I just read your post and if it is true i suggest you call your Mom and sit her down. She is threading on thin ice. Open up to your Mom and tell her point blank, that you feel that your uncle is getting too close. Ask her when she became a marriage adviser? Let her know your worries and that you do not want her to jeopardize the family's happiness to the uncle. If she refuse to listen, take the matter to another uncle that you know has some senses.

toyinrayo:
Trust me hon, when I start my own truth, na only seun go seperate me and you
when will you grow up?
grown ass man,
I wonder, will you ever use your common sense?
today it's Bleep her, tomorrow it's tribe bashing. . .

bla bla bla. i see pomo is on your side.

toyinrayo:
Seriously




Sweet T, why would you bring our fight here
You're not serious
Just b/c TOH got on your @$$ and I got on your @$$, now ekiti women are unfaithful?
You need serious help before I start bashing you again, and trust me, this time, seun will have to ban me again
oniranu

I was expecting that. Truth could be very bitter at times. pele, Toyin.

stillwater:
Was that necessary?

what are you talking about?? Ain't that the truth?

@Poster

Is your Mom from Ekiti?? Most women from the southern Nigeria are incapable of being faithful. Especially the ones from Ekiti and Ondo states.

toyinrayo:
Yes na. . .let us be stubborn jare. . the world is not meant for meekness
Dnt worry. . .the person I'm after enjoys me stubbornness
Knew that weak men like you like them quiet and meek

He will until he put your jive talking @ss in the closet to keep you quiet. yeye girl.

@Topic

And neither can they dance.

toyinrayo:
Na God go punish your rotten mouth. . oloshi.
Do you ever stop talking sh*t?

truth hurts doesn't it ?? You have just proved my post right. Awon Omo alagidi.

toyinrayo:
yeye boy

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=139367.msg2335067#msg2335067 date=1212606297]Rubbish, that man does not need that woman to win.
If he picks her he might even loose. If he picks her, he shows weakness, especially since she's pressuring him.
She has also pissed off a lot of people, even those who were for her. There was a big rush from her superdelegates to Obama last night and this morning. She offended a lot of people with her speech last night. She is lacks tact and is selfish. If she is on the ticket, she will drag him down, if she doesn't, Bill will.[/quote]Even though that speech she gave last night was bad, It's obvious you have no idea about electoral college. Hillary has emerged as a very strong ex candidate in the swing states. Obama can win a lot of votes but without the electoral college he will just be another Al gore scenario. Hillary can help Obama win the swing states like Pennsylvania, Ohio, W. Virginia, New Hampshire, Florida and even a southern state like Arkansas because she is from there. These swing states has a lot of senior citizens and blue collar workers that massively voted for Hillary. Obama needs someone that can wrestle the senior citizens and retirees votes from John McCain. And Hillary is the only that can do that right now. No Democrats can get elected to the white house without carrying Ohio, Florida or Pennsylvania. There is no way Hillary can be on the ticket and they lose Florida, Ohio and Pennsylvania. No way. As much as she and Bill annoyed me, i think she has a good case to being a VP.

In Yorubaland, parents always advice their children not to marry from Ekiti and Ijebu ( especially Ijebu ode and Ijebu Igbo). They say, Ekiti people are too strong headed and very stubborn and Ijebu people are too much into Juju and gossiping.