The shocking part is that people like this don't die on time they live more than expected �

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

My brother this is woman and money issue they're like 5 and 6
My advice is jxt dey love with eyes try dey comot mind small small to avoid breakfast only bit of dem are loyal wen it's money issue

Znation:
Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?

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It's very simple just sit her down and tell her the way she's giving stuffs is too much she should limit it.

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

Boss na beg I wan beg you so biko say your mind o don't look down on ursef she might feel the same. M talking from experience
Naso I take lose mine too na me know d kind trauma I faced b4 I can finally be able to control myself.
Tell her o

Wawelexy:
Countries to top the list of highest demand....

1. India
2. Nigeria
3. Brazil
4. Italy
5. USA

Then the rest...

So Indians too love knacking despite how they behave holy in movies

ritzyvic1:

Login with a web browser
The mobile app always give issues in verification process

What's the link I need to verify I been wan invest tey tey buh I no see dat verification do

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

I don't think it's necessary since he's lovely and he never behave wrongly mind you if you do nd ur dad sent him out nd you guys met somewhere else what do you think he might do? Better just ignore nd even if you wish your father should know about put it in prayer the Lord will guide you through he might even be the one to have strange feelings that will prompt DNA or anything to find out

Jerryherd:
Herbs are very good... I hope he also knows bitter kola boast knacking ability

Have been hearing this pls how do I make the combo or how is it used ?

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Hmm masturbation is something very hard to overcome buh you can overcome it if you can try this
Say to yourself that you want to stop it
Masturbation is the main cause to shyness you have to overcome the spirit of shyness start with making friend with guys that aren't scared to utter words mind you positive words then you'll see d courage in you after that don't be scared to talk where ladies are even if dey make jest of you laugh with them
Get yourself a girl you'll be free with no matter how shy you're there will surely be a girl you chat freely with bring d topic to her dat you're shy sometimes trust me girls have ways of talking to guys dat it will stick to ur brain trust me she will motivate you dat anytime you want to feel shy you will remember her words it will ginger you
With this you will see changes

shegxy9:
I will make it short guys... I met this damsel February this year and it has been great times since then...

Around may she got admission to University outside the state we are but the main issue is that wen she came back I was telling her about her attitudes when she was in school like most times we hardly talk but she said that I know this is her first semester in school and she apologised that it would not happen again...

But the main issue is this, she said I need to forgive her because she has offended me, she said a guy slept in her room though she swore to me that nothing happened that night...

Pls guys have been having these mixed feelings since yesterday like can she be trusted?? And hope am not in love with upcoming olosho

Pls no insults, only matured responses

Hmm my own candid opinion is that you should not focus on her too much get a girl close by to avoid breakfast.

Me myself am in one currently she don't pick my call again she does whenever she pleases nd later she will tell me she's busy wen I called I will jxt smile tho av talked to her buh her reaction shows everything m confused about

Pierocash:
then he masturbates,or takes hard drugs

He combine both �

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Hmm this is a serious issue that need urgent intervention because only God knows the current situation the innocent girl might be because b4 she could summon the courage to tell her mum it's really hurting her, my own candid advise is to travel to Abuja with the aim of staying for a while so as to witness it yourself without including the wife because if you go there based on what the wife told you something bad might happen probably hating his wife or something else so all you need to do is to go there and be very very vigilant so as to get your fact mind you pls don't involve the wife or the girl it's a private investigation May God be with you and win over this

taiwotimitt:
How possible is this?
How did he manage to gain admission?
Only God knows that school

Hmm maybe he attended all this big sch that helps students to write exam, as it is now he need serious deliverance with little Isoye and then the poster shld try dey watch his steps cos he might be in spiritual confraternity so watch what you do don't looseguard o. Olorun a wa pelu e o ani se agbako o

Hmm am scared of this marriage stuff I have a female friend nd I bring this topic her reply was It's a man responsibility to provide every need of the house including his wiffey toiletries and back it up with His money is our money and her money is her money. I was like really she nailed it directly..

If I have a girlfriend that can't spend but depends on me fully whereas she has her own source of income omo I will jxt look away I hate nonsense

OMOJOHN001:
Our relationship is just three months old, she she has used my pics as her DP both on WhatsApp and FB for the past two months now, Its irritating and I don't even feel any vibe from that shit.

She can't go a week without posting my pics on her status and now too many people already knows that I am dating the babe.

How do I even stop her without making her feel silly. She is loving me too much, Like the love is choking me for real.

why posting all the time with captions like..Forever is the deal. for better for worse, Ayomi I will not leave you even at the point of death.

I am scared I may even break her heart sooner,
please advice me how do I stop her from putting much hope on me. To her she has found her husby but Me I am not even ready for that marriage shit in the next three years.

Smile have encounter this too it's because d relationship is still new trust me very soon she will expect you to do the same if you want to free yourself anytime she post it on her status jxt view it without comment she will voice out one day then you tell her jokingly that it's for children dah you guys aren't children again.. swears she will stop.

Note don't stop showing love o

Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.

Hmm you shld have done this before marriage but as it is now my own candid advise is to tell her once more politely even romantically and you make it serious wen telling her because if you take it harshly I fear what you're assuming might come to pass nd if she doesn't listen na to b careful remain o cos if a woman is strongly attached to someone is seriously hard to break the bond

Please I need an answer to this �

I have a friend who's currently in 200l but he wish to travel abroad but he's somehow confused that here in Nigeria he's in 200l if he travel abroad can he still continue his education at that same 200l or he have to start afresh.

[quote author=kktbm post=101775814]Good dey guys..... I was discussing with a friend of mine. He wants to move out of the country(uk) but his parents are trying to cajole him to stay ( he’s from a well to do family and they are financially capable)

His plan is after nysc he would go for masters and find his way.

He is 21 and currently serving (he’s field is IT)
But the issue is that his parent are trying to fine tune his head to stay (he’s the last born)

Their excuse is that
1) you would do menial jobs there
2) there is nothing there
3) even if you get a good job there, it’s difficult to rise as a black man
4) you will be lonely

Their main bone of contention is that there is nothing there.
Note: his dad and 4 other siblings out of 5 studied in the uk tho.

My friend doesn’t even want to stay atall, most of his friend are in the uk, he doesn’t have friends in Nigeria except a few. He doesn’t like going out because he said his mind is not in Nigeria. If you see him ehn you will know that he’s depressed. All he wants is to move to the uk.

He’s not even a badboy he doesn’t smoke, drink
He’s not a womanizer

(2 of his siblings have been in the UK SINCE early 2000’s and are already citizens)

The dad also isn’t saying he should not go, but after service, he should get a job first probably with Goverment (due to job security because his dad retired with the government) then work 2-3 years before going for his master.

His point his that he wants to go now that the funds and everything is intact. What if something should happen in future nko?

My advice for him his to leave immediately after service after all he has siblings who are in their early 40’s there to put him through and also a lot of family friends there

What would you advice


Hmm I guess he's the only child with his parent for now that's why they don't want him to go so they won't be lonely, as for me o since his mind is not in Nigeria again he should go to avoid had I know issue and try and look for someone to be with his parent like someone in his family around 15years of age to avoid issues or little maid to be with them so they won't be lonely.

MyAmericandream:
https://www.wes.org
WES That was where i converted my HND. They converted it in such a way that i ended up having a distinction LOL. Maybe you should visit the US visa forum often. You will be more enlightened there.

thanks ❤️

Raph82:
Whoever started this ND, HND of a thing will not die a good death. The qualification is a death trap and a destiny killer.

aswear it's too long 5 years and after it, it's still not recognize ha it sucks.. �

MyAmericandream:
Very possible

Really how do I go about it ?

adisababa1234:
What are you studying? I advise if you can afford it come to babcock university for yah direct entry. It is run as a partime program but you'll be mobilized for service.

computer science which level will I be?

sewenbigboi:

Bro go do your hnd e no stop you if you know you want masters and you have the result for it because most universities in Nigeria wants upper credit to be able to apply for masters after ND but I’ll advise you to go for your hnd after your hnd you can travel out and do you masters oversee simple....

Thanks ❤️

Xilsbridalhouse:

Yes on WES and your certificate becomes Better than B.Sc . You can take this information to the bank.

Thanks ❤️

Raph82:
My brother, the truth is no business establishment will request for ur Pgd or Msc for entry level. They only need ur first degree, which is bsc. If u now present hnd cert, they see a bsc applicant who's also applied for the same job as preferred candidate. So adding more certificates such as Pgd and masters to hnd to make it equivalent to bsc is like gathering momentum in the wrong direction. Please don't fall for the trap.

Thanks ❤️

alphabbey1:
accept the HND admission and apply for DE also. When your DE is successful, ditch the HND

Thanks ❤️

sewenbigboi:

I don’t think u understand it
If he wants to study in Canada he should be applying for masters not bachelor degree
It’s should be masters degree
Bachelor degree is like starting from the beginning of a university

hmm, but I read a post here on Nairaland that some organization and company do really ask for Bsc certificate that without the Bsc certificate both PGD and masters will be term useless pls am confused because am still a fresh student currently gain admission for HND before it's too late to know if I shld apply for DE this year.. help a brother

post=101324366:
HND top up degree in Canada universities, allows Higher National Diploma (HND) graduates to ‘top-up’ their education and obtain a bachelors degree from a Canadian university or college.

In Canada, HND certificate holders with related Higher National Diploma (HND) can expect to complete the necessary courses within two to three academic years and be granted a bachelor degree upon achieving satisfactory grades.

For example, if you have an HND in Civil Engineering from Nigeria, most Canadian universities will give you admission into the 2nd or 3rd year bachelors programs in an engineering program.
The decision as to whether you’ll start in the second or third year depends on the number of transfer credits that is accepted from your previous HND degree.

All of us @[color=#006600][/color] Wish you all the very best for the future.

please is it really possible to convert HND certificate to Bsc am totally confused

[quote author=Techsupport post=101245045]
I am no business person, I am a monthly income person. I don't know the average income in Nigeria. My question is this how much money should you have to be considered rich.
or how much monthly income should you make to be considered rich?


being rich is not when you can acquire a private jet or something mansion in water it's when you wish to buy something and you can buy it at ease within short period of time that's when you can say you're rich it's not by salary.

please I need advice
currently am running my HND hoping to go for PGD after it but I come across a post here on Nairaland saying some organization and company still rubbish PGD or Masters without Bsc.. please is there any way of acquiring Bsc after HND or what shld I really get me depressed from attending lectures

morinto:

It won't affect the guy but the girl will just be useless and can never be productive thereby making her a lliability to the hustling guy

boss it affect them in as much they've had intimacy together they're one soul so it will affect them in some aspects that's why some guys don't make it when they're with some girls it's when he gives her some space before he start making it...
it's only God that can help us

Am in love with a girl tho have told her about my feelings but she seems not to take it serious and am totally in love with her as it i can't concentrate I need to ease d feelings off my mind but I find it difficult any solution for me it's killing me slowly �