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MzPecs:
If t'was about going to meet a pastor or something to tell who your life partner would be then we wouldn't be hearing about failed marriages et all.

Why do you need a spiritualist to tell you your future occurrence when you could actually go to God in prayers all by yourself? Cut that thing out!


Pray to God and follow his instructions, he'll surely direct you cos that tiny voice will be there to guide you.

Anniebissy:
acting up

Anniebissy:
,complain all the time,

Anniebissy:
he said am stubborn.

Anniebissy:
with we fighting.he still went to introduce me to his family and came to introduce himself to my family.

ronald4lif:
An outright silly thing to do. You don't need any pastor or seer to tell you any thing about your relationship.

If your discernment and sound judgment can't tell on who to settle down with then you shouldn't be in that relationship in the first place. Don't let those conmen in the pulpit mislead you.

GAZZUZZ:
there are fat fulani people, I will upload pics soon.

Mprex:

YourMain:
Yes that's what courtships are meant for. If he doesn't behave according to how a person deserving of submission should behave then no. Sorry.

YourMain:
Yeah because he's marrying me for no reason. I'm sure he has his reasons why he's chosen to marry me and not Mary down the street. He didn't marry me because I've a vejayjay. So I will not submit to him because he has a penis.

And a woman cannot get a home and a job ? Is that all it takes to make a man ? A home and a job ? Lol.

No. I want him to love and respect me because of the way I carry myself. and how I behave. And my personality.

ponkitibobo:
You cant do it by your effort. First separate from that your lover. Encourage her to b born again too.
Secondly,Pray for the spirit of God(holy spirit) to help you. Gradually you will begin to see improvement.

YourMain:
Lol so the opposite of submission is sitting on the cushion like a mighty cash madam lol okay

YourMain:
No worries. I can love myself.

YourMain:
Much better than having some incompetent guy "love" me

YourMain:
and expect me to do what he wants because he has a penis .

amokeme:
may God help your understanding

sheilak:
This is a fairy tale

YourMain:
Yes. It is an award. Submitting to someone means putting aside your own needs and wants and letting someone else come first.

Oh right. So because you've signed some papers, you stop being whom you are and start being an empty minded shell to follow your husband up and down.

It's very simple. If you want submission from your wife earn it. Prove to her you're a man she can blindly follow and trust without having to fear. Just because you've and x and Y chromosome doesn't make you special. Sorry.

YourMain:
Because it makes no sense!

Ehm? Where have you seen a man dying for his woman? That is not realistic. It's not going to happen.

What is the difference between a man and a woman that means anyone should have to be submissive? It's all about the person.

If he was a man that's respectable and honourable of course she'd be submissive why not ? The problem is you're asking someone to submit to another simply because he's a man. He was born a man. It's something that he couldn't control :/ why does he deserve any type of trophy or award for being a man?

YourMain:
Ehm I think it's different for every woman. But you cannot expect a woman to submit to a man just because she's a woman and he's a man.

amokeme:
if I'm to go by that scripture, the man is to do the washing.. since he is the head to the woman. As Jesus christ the head of the his disciples... I don't know how you understood that verse, but it's not applicable in this context. That exercise is highly spiritual. So let's leave it at that.

EroticAngelina:
This one na holy stupidity.

All these virgin Mary sisters are usually the ones who end up relocating to hell when they die.

if u dont wanna wear trousers, then don't do NYSC

amokeme:
I'm not a feminists

This is actually something I can do for my husband everyday, to pet him. Is the linkage between this and being submissive I dont agree with

Topccy007:
Now animals now observe VALENTINE.

Plants might join 2017

I might need to put my fowls in different cages. No cash to feed chicks abeg.