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EreluRoz:
I don't even have the strength of being a feminist, feminists agrees to 50/50 sharing formulas, they are strong women and me I no get power.

I'm a proud dependent woman

No shame in that.

People cry briefly and then plan your burial.

Who needs rainbow in the sky when we now have rainbow people on earth?

helinues:
How do you mean by double taxation? The tithes they have been receiving, what have they done to it to impact their members?

Churches have thousands of people they pay monthly, Redeem alone have as many people in their payroll as a state government. That is just one of the many things they do the money.

Tithe is 10th of your earning after tax. People who pay tithe have already been taxed.

Pastors who own business or other things they earn from pay tax accordingly.

EreluRoz:
She's right, if we ever have to discuss my earnings then that's where I'll draw the curtains. I have my roles and providing isn't part of it afterall you'll not be part of my nine months journey, you will also not wake up all night to attend to the new born, I won't even let a baby disturb your sleep, I will never ask you to cook and do domestic chores as well. So do your part make I do my part and if there's ever a need to support you financially, I won't be told before I throw in my support.

Feeding a man or financially responsible for my future home isn't part of my prayers. I'll marry an Odogwu who takes charge of things and in total control of his home.

My mother didn't feed my father and I shall never feed any husband.

You're not a feminist so rest.

RenaissanceGuy:
The effort has not been a waste. It brought down $ from nearly ₦2,000 to current ₦1,600. If they hadn't stepped up their game like this, naira would be trading at 3,000 to a dollar by now.

Bro, it's not banning Binance that brought down the dollar rate; the government is doing the same pegging that Buhari did, but they are using Binance to divert attention. Niara is no longer floating, there is now an official rate, reason central bank is intervening in the foreign exchange market.

Negroid001:
If i didn't attach the screenshot. How would you believe me? Didn't mean to be extreme tho. Point I'm trying to make is I don't let women give me conditions that don't favour me.
Uber is cheaper and more convenient, i can't be hopping on buses up and down because i want to go on a date.
Funny thing is i would have still taken her to the eatery after the pool rendezvous. I'm the one calling the shots not her. That's why i asked who's paying, because it's inconvenient for me. I'm not a foodie.

We're good now. You dig?

You are the one calling the shots because it is you who initiated the date that is why you shouldn't have asked who is paying.
You call the shots, you pay the bills.

Eunoiaa:
Lmaoooo. Mumu people.


You know these ediots actually take what they read here offline. Talmabout "take her to swimming pool so you can see her real face."

Real face kor

My first thought was to ignore you but seeing that you reason the way I reasoned several years ago, I decided to educate you.

The world's population is about 7.8 billion or more, that means that we have roughly 3.9 billion women so if you think every single one of these women is looking for bad guys that will ruin their life then you are younger that I imagined.

Now let's start the class already

PureFace1:
It's the woman that will decide what's considerate or not.

This is true to an extent but that doesn't mean you should be an ass. Deep inside of you, you know that he was inconsiderate which is completely unnecessary. We all know what is and what is not considerate so a matured person shows respect and consideration to the other person's comfort and autonomy.

PureFace1:
women hate nice guys like you that are so bother with what they think instead of making your move boldly, whether she is shy or uncomfortable with it she will let you know what she can do and can't do after you initiate and make moves.

This is embarrassingly stereotypical. All women do not want the same thing. While I may admit that there are young ladies that may go for whatever your idea of a bad guy is, there are also others who would never have anything to do with them.

On my own part, I am being human not nice and being nice, assuming I am, doesn't equate to being fearful or passive in dating. Being respectful and considerate doesn't mean I can't make bold moves or express interest. It's about finding a balance between assertiveness and sensitivity to the other person's feelings. You will get there someday.

PureFace1:
Guys like you are just scare of rejection so you play it safe and nice, which man doesn't want to see the body of a beautiful woman he's interested in on the first date and hold her body close and tight ? but you are afraid the woman may reject the idea and hate you so you play it safe and disguise it with being considerate lol.

This is likely the first time I am engaging you here so you don't know shit about me but let's continue with the flow. I don't fear rejection, because it is normal in life. I receive rejection and I reject. In life, you must reject something and if you reject then you must be rejected, it is part of life.

I choose to be considerate because it helps build trust and rapport in a relationship, which can be undermined by disregarding the other person's feelings. I don't date children and a woman can peg you from afar, with your inconsiderate bad guy attitude, that first date may never happen.

At this stage in my life, I am very careful who I mingle with. I have had my share view of naked women, those things no longer move me.

PureFace1:
If the guy was inconsiderate why did you think the woman agreed with his request ?

What a very Nice guy you are lol

So considerate and Nice but most guys like you would always end up in the friendzone, used and taken advantage of.

You keep saying that I fear this and that but evidences point to the fact that it is you who is damn scared.
So the reason you agree to bossing her around and asking her to contribute something for a first date that you initiated is because you don't want to be friendzoned? LMAO

Dude you do realize that sex is so cheap these days? You do not know that you can sleep with a woman without asking her out or even stressing yourself with dates, and no it is not hook up?
Move with adults that know what they want, you will get all the sex if that is so important to you.

Listen, wherever a man is, he can always take care of his need. friend zone is one place you get sex and for free if you know your game but let's not deviate.

You over oversimplify the complex relationship dynamics. You think considerate guys always end up in the friendzone while inconsiderate ones get all the benefits? Dude, relationship is built on mutual respect, communication, and adaptability, not on being domineering or inconsiderate.

PureFace1:
You have to be domineering to generate any real attraction in women anyone that tell you otherwise is deceiving you. Women don't take guys like you seriously, considerate guys like you will be in the friendzone while the inconsiderate one will get all the benefits without any effort, knack her on the first date or first week of dating while you wait for years and months lol

This type of thinking is dangerous, it is unhealthy.

Being domineering or controlling in a relationship is not a healthy or sustainable way to generate attraction. Genuine attraction is based on mutual respect, shared values, and emotional connection, not on exerting power over someone else.

PureFace1:
Why did you think the woman agreed to it if it was inconsiderate ? the funniest thing is that the woman could have rejected the guy if he suggested something more considerate first lol.

Just because she agreed doesn't necessarily mean she finds it considerate or comfortable.

Building a healthy and fulfilling relationship involves mutual respect, communication, and genuine connection, rather than relying on outdated stereotypes or manipulative tactics.

Negroid001:
The easiest way to know if she's into you?
She'll always be willing to part with something.
I'm not running a charity organisation and you can see where i stated i can pay for all, she just has to contribute something. Even if it's our Uber fare.

@emboldened

She should do it willingly.

Yes, she will always be willing to part with something, but not this way. You are forcing her, and that is not okay.

See, we all know what we are doing. If indeed this conversation was real, then I feel you shouldn't have brought it online because it tells more about you than her; in a bad way, of course.

You captioned the story "your conversation with a jobless woman," so you clearly know that she isn't working. People who are working do not have money, let alone those who are not working. So, where did you expect her to get the money from?

Secondly, she was minding her business, and you asked her for a date. It was your idea, so why must she contribute something? You got it all wrong.

She was just being nice, knowing she didn't have money, so she was playing it cool. She didn't like the swimming idea, but she played it cool and suggested what she thought was a better alternative: an eatery. Then you asked what she would contribute.

Stop overdoing yourself. Why must you guys use Uber? All these fine girls wey dey jump bus with broke people like me, have they died?

Next time you don't have enough bill to handle a first date that you initiated, look for a nearby cashew plantation, take her there, and eat the fruits. Recreate Adam and Eve and go home.

It is the "waybill herself to him" for me

Hezzyluv:
Both of you should just gettat....!!

No, it is the guy that should gettat.

Imagine you're in the talking stage with a lady, looking to take things further. Now, his idea for a first date location is a swimming pool.

Yet, he hasn't even considered if she can swim.

Unless they have already started sharing intimate photos, many women wouldn't feel comfortable wearing a swimsuit on a first date. She might be shy or not confident about her body. It takes time to reach a level of comfort with someone before being nearly naked in their presence.

While I understand the guy's desire to take charge, fact is, he's being inconsiderate and domineering.

It's pretty much what wannabe 'red pill' guys tend to do.

Eunoiaa:
Na Fear Women community members dey marry us, so nothing spoil.

Let me give you a practical example of how APC, especially Tinubu messed up the Naira.

The price of 3 mudu of rice under Tinubu government; that is approximately 26 cups of rice, would get you a bag of rice during Jonathan's tenure.


Think about it.

Patented:
sounds like a lie to me. the donor would undergo surgery first and the kidney would be extracted from him before the recipient would undergo surgery. alternatively both would go into surgery together. so this story of her about to go into surgery and he is making calls does not add up. he would either have already had his kidney removed or they would be going under the knife simultaneously.

Normal twitter story bro. They are lies most of time

advanceDNA:
Lol.....

After the whole show...u will now hear their usual statement......"Did I force u"

This must be after you have answered the usual question like "what have you even done for me"

press9jatv:
Abeg is this not jealousy at play here niii. Yeye babe

Sometimes what we mistake for jealousy is actually insecurity in disguise. It's possible she's just jealous or merely being naughty, or perhaps this is just content. But people who exhibit this type of possessive behavior are typically grappling with deep-seated insecurities.

These insecurities often stem from within, from their inner selves. They project their own behavior onto others, as may be the case with this lady; knowing what she does to people's partners, she assumes all girls are like her when it comes to relationships, so she doesn't want anyone near her man because she believes they will sleep with him, just as she sleeps with others.

In marriages, most men who don't want their women to have any interaction with the opposite sex are cheaters.

Igbo people go talk say person wey dey kill with cutlass no dey allow person wey carry cutlass to dey him back.

It is the guy I pity, see as the mumu dey smile; in his mind this is just a normal behavior for a Nigeria girl in love. Idiot.

Anyway, when I saw the title, I immediately envisioned a woman wielding a knife. And after watching the video, the imagery was so vivid that I could almost smell the blood from multiple knife stabs.

Dey there dey smile instead wey you go run for your life.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
She wants a resolute, conservative traditional man
But she is not ready to be a traditional woman! No b JuJu b that?
That's witchcraft.

Witchcraft or Nigeria feminism

Elzazzi:

Omo I really thank God for nairaland sha. This forum don really help by opening men eye with the teachings of the Redpill.

True, but as a man, you don't need Nairaland to become aware of redpill ideology, as some of the teachings here are purely toxic. I've encountered many of them, and I simply shake my head and move on.

Here's my advice to every man:

Love can make one feel weak and vulnerable, but this isn't inherently bad. The problem arises when others exploit that vulnerability. To avoid this, minimize factors that could be used against you. I'm not suggesting you should fear vulnerability; it's a normal part of life. Embrace it, but don't let your emotions override your rationality. By doing so, you can prevent your vulnerability from being exploited.

Don't tolerate toxicity disguised as normal female behavior from anyone. Such behavior isn't normal; it's simply normal to them because they benefit from it.

Love and care for your partner, but ensure it's not a one-sided affair. If you're not receiving the same love and care in return, it's better to leave and move on.

Always remember that you are dispensable and so is she.

Maintain a healthy relationship with your sister, but remember that she's a woman. Your sister will tell things about her that you will never figure out on your own.

Read extensively on masculinity. Start with "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck." This book will teach you to prioritize what truly matters and allocate your energy accordingly. It's a valuable resource for personal growth and happiness. Don't judge it by the cover.

Next, delve into "The Manipulated Man" to understand the dynamics of manipulation and exploitation in relationships. This will shed light on how women wield significant power over men through their instincts and desires.

Finally, explore "The Rational Male - Positive Masculinity" and "The Rational Male - Preventive Medicine."

By engaging with these materials, you'll gain a deeper understanding of redpill ideology without succumbing to toxic masculinity or fostering resentment towards women.

One spoiler, a woman knows right from the day you ask her out whether or not you will see her naked.
If it happens fast, it has nothing to do with your wooing skills, it is what she wanted.
If it tarries but later happens, it has nothing to do with your sweet talks or ability to convince people, it happened when she wants it to and she has her reasons for it.

I don't wanna be in ivory coast right now.

Okay, so we should marry under 20s and use them before they expire? pray tell, what shall we do with them when they turn 30 and expire? Throw them away? Cause last time I checked, expired things are harmful.

See, there are things you don't say about people, words you don't just use regardless of the message you are passing across.

When you are done blaming AI, you will go and queue for a free cup of grain from a country that is at war.

christistruth01:


Seyi Law is Ilaje
Lagos is part of the Ilaje Homeland

GRV got his History Wrong
Lagos was already inhabitanted by indigenous Yoruba Tribes (Awori,Ijebu,Egbas,Ilaje,Egun,) when his Saro Ancestors settled Lagos as their Guests

GRV is a Lagos Indigene
But there are other Yoruba Clans who are recognized by all as the Owners of Lagos

Yoruba Saros have never disrespected them

GRV is the first case

Reader added context got it wrong then

Thank God ooo.


At least my uncle will get some sleep tonight.

But this woman sha knows how to punish someone, best revenge will always be getting better.

Just curious though.

If she propose and he accepts, what next?

Will she now go to his people for marriage list and all, or give him money to marry her?

Abi nah he no go take over there?

Nah set up if nah the later go be the case.

The money is what will guarantee his return

alcuin:
Small yansh dey shake.

We can take the whole Burkina Faso in 2 weeks. This man should know his mate.

You can't do that in one year

This video is from 2017

Nazgul:
Forget all that bragging men make whenever they're boasting about their sexual strength... "I shifted her womb, I dealt with her" etc.

The simple truth is that no man can can match a woman's sexual energy.

You say?

EreluRoz:
He's actually right, don't be deceived.

Just very few men can actually truly satisfy a healthy woman sexually but women are made to pretend about these things. I'm only talking here because it's a faceless forum, outside here me sef will behave like I hate sex.

Nazgul:
An average girl you see can easily handle up to 5 guys in bed.

How many guys can handle 2 girls comfortably without consuming sex enhancing drugs and not narrowly escaping death?

The point I am debating is the @emboldened, which is not accurate.

Women tend to last longer in bed, but that doesn't mean that all women are alike or that all men are alike

Many perform below par because their diet is messed up. We consume carbs and carbs and then drink rubbish soft drinks and energy drinks, so what do you expect? But are we all like that? No, there are men who take their diet seriously. But before I go further on that, let's talk about sex with an average Nigerian.

A little pre-intimacy, or maybe a long one, she sucks you [for those who allow it] until you're close, then you hump for a few minutes, switch styles, hump a couple of minutes, switch styles, and maybe more styles until you nut, and then you lay back to rest, and she will get up and say that you couldn't match her energy.

Pray tell, sir, what exactly did she do with her energy that should make her tired?

Many times when you handle a woman well, she will get up after sex and stagger like a drunk before she regains composure. That she may want more after some time doesn't mean that you didn't floor her and her energy. She may recoup faster, but you will want more too when you rest a bit.

Now, as a guy, after you did all the work as I described above, you may not want to start a second round because the orgasm isn't worth the stress. Then you give up, and she thinks she outlasted you?

How about you switch roles, lay back, let her ride you, do reversed missionary, let her ride you, switch to doggy, just kneel/stand, let her ride; let's see her and her energy. I know some will do all right, but their number will decrease significantly.

Now let me talk about guys who take their diet seriously, those who have normal or low sugar levels in their system. These guys can go two rounds without resting; that is, they nut, slap on another condom, and continue firing without going down.

Only a few women can take them on until they cum a second time; the majority will get tired halfway because these people will hump for like 30 minutes before they can start feeling a thing, and if they stop briefly, maybe to switch styles, then everything goes back to square one. And if they use a condom, then just forget about it.

Any woman who has encountered them will agree with me. If you are one of them, then you know I am speaking the truth.

Whatever energy we have in women, we also have it men.

GloriousGbola:
issuing of laptops, imho, does not work - especially if you are giving them to technically illiterate users

there is the risk of theft
risk that they or someone close to them will use the devices for fraud
the laptops may be sold
the laptops are fragile amd in the hands of the wrong person can get damaged quickly

what soludo should have done is set up ict center in each school with an IT administrator
and busy desktops [monitor and mini pc]. a large number of banks provide some cadre of workers with desktops, so it is already being done

in two years, 75% of these laptops will begone one way or another

50% will be gone within one year sir.

Most of the laptops will be used to watch movies, nothing else. Several of them will be repaired within one year, and many will be damaged beyond repair, especially those given to women with kids at home.

I remember when the government shared laptops teachers in a technical school here. Somehow, I was among those who were to teach the teachers how to operate them. The kind of questions they ask will make you weak.

You will see clearly that only a few have a need for it; the rest would have preferred an Android phone. Not like many even use that one for anything useful aside from calls.

Sharing laptops to teachers is an ill-thought project, another avenue to loot because they usually provide low-grade laptops that lag like those old government buses.

Jovi10:
I'm not trying to change it, I'm only calling out people who claim to be Christian and are happy with what Israel is doing in Gaza. You can't be a true Christian and support such. It's that simple.

A terrorist group attacked Israel and Israel is fishing them out and killing them, this doesn't concern Christians.

Somilat:
That is not responding accordingly, it's responding criminally.

Hamas did no more than USA troops and others in Iraq and Afghanistan. By theat measure it's all legal what they did. It's also legal to resist occupiers.

You've been told this before and it's should be final.

Hamas is a terrorist organization, and they attacked Israel, murdering women and children in their sleep. So you, the OP, and others have no right to tell Israel how to respond.