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curiousNja:
Yes, I would. I tell my best friend everything and i feel comfortable enough to do that because she doesn't judge me. She'll let me know she disagrees but is stillmy best friend anyway.  I'm not perfect, neither is she. If you have to hesitate to tell your friend something like that, then I guess you are not THAt close anyway. Just my thought. Then again, I am naturally a very open person. I share everything about me. Positive, not so positive, negative, like I said, EVERYYTHING.

I am sure you didn't mean EVRYTHING, including sharing bf, with your frnd; if so, my bad - I duff my hat to you

na2:
they call us smally, and so many other names but it feels cool to be so portably

Yes, other references include: mini set, Royko or Maggi Cube, sometimes; smally na pepper or the mighty atom - some of the words of endearment usually reserved for little tigeresses (like you), if you know what I mean Yeah, its all good

@pendo89
my pleasure

@OP, pls add this prefix to your username, STUPID

^^^^Ah ah, bros not all of them don reach oversea o.
Oh I see,abi na secondhand you mean to say?

^^^^Abeg, nothing do her lips, d girl fine even without make up, besides it's not all that difficult to think of a very creative way to put those plump lips into good use

pendo89:
^^ well its great to hear that petite is still marketable moreso in west africa where bigger to them means sexier,healthier,ego and whatever else.
Its like taboo and abomination to be petite cz people think you don't feed well.
ok to all ye men who think petite suffer from malnutrition wake up.

There is nothing sexy or healthy about the celebration of fat/thick women, almost approaching obesity.
Do not be fooled by stereotyping, in fact there are quite a significant number of people, even in West Africa, who find petite or slim women in general quite appealing.
Why else do you think that there are increasingly more young girls killing themselves dieting trying to look like models or that the advertising industry is still using slim beautiful women to sell their products - why not use thick/fat ones if they all that appealing.
Of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there ppl with differing preferences (Phat - addiction ) but statistics don't lie.
Slim is attractive, healthy and beautiful

Ever heard of forbidden fruit?

^^^^Apparently not.
What is quite ironic is that half the time you are chasing them, they'd even be more hell-bent on hoarding the stuff; while in fact hammering is quite obviously so important to them - if not , see how they are answering to the above question - bunch of pretenders, if you'd ask me

@Potato
So how many have fallen for you so far?
If I am not mistaken, from the last count, only one so far - at least that's what you want us to believe .

@ Poster
Glad you saw the humorous side of my remark
Honestly, it seems you are already falling for this married man and you are afraid your resistance would completely crumble if somebody doesn't step up, quickly before its too late. This is basically the reason for my caution, because there is the risk that you may be already too far gone for this man

BTW, if you want up your chances then you should consider uploading your picture so as to draw attention from only the guys that will be genuinely attracted to you. Good-luck

I am sorry, but being a Muslim does not necessarily equate him to being married. The presumption is quite wrong and obviously premature in this case, because there is absolutely no evidence that he is.

However, having said that, I am also inclined to agree with majority of the respondents that the man isn't into you; because if he was he would find the time to respond to your calls and make room to see you - no matter how busy his schedule.

I am additionally suspecting that his lack of enthusiasm may be related to cultural differences - he is probably Asian, perhaps a Pakistani or Arab, and may be concerned that his family/community may not accept the relationship, hence the reluctance for you to meet him at his house - the excuse about his cousin visiting should be the obvious clue.

In either case, pls move on, it is not worth it; although I am also suspecting that you may have been sexually starved for some time as a divorcee and may want to maitain the status-quot for your own selfish reasons.

MRbrownJAY:
@Shy One
no, why do you want to give up on me now? i just got here. . . . . . . i got more in store for you.
we are having a discussion here, and hopefully you can learn a thing or two about men who think like i do (in case someday you have the chance/honor to date someone like me. lol)

@poster
thinking that men should provide for every damsel that they are dating simply because they are MEN is not only foolish but also a scam that many have fallen under. any man should DECIDE if they want to pay for something or not, it should be THEIR choices not a requirement in dating.
of course, hungry begging women like yourself would rather we never use our brains! and simply "drop" the dough, right?! nonsense!!!

today is the rent, tomorrow is school fees, then the next month is other bills etc. you bf is a SMART man who knows that the minute he starts paying for YOUR shiit then you will use him as an atm machine!

any SMART man should NEVER pay and instead should carefully study how his gf is going to sort herself out of this mess (because we all know that you wont always be there or have what she needs).
if begging on her damn knees is the only thing that "gf" has in mind then she should be QUICKLY dropped as we all know what that entails!

You are hard man, but right to the point, I salute you

@Poster
Are you tall, slim, elegant with slightly bow or straight legs, full lips, clear skin, natural hair, tight, Ah,ah,ah too late!!. You are already falling for the married man, I guess I'll have to pass.
Next

^^^^Different strokes for different folks, apparently 9ja has them all.
Personally, given the choice between fat/thick and a petite (smally) girl, it'll just have to be the latter.
My preference is however, for a tall lepa with slightly bow or straight elegant legs (a young Fulani girl with a rhyming username easily comes to mind ).
Just can't understand how some ppl get so excited over all that flab when they can have many more options and possibilities with a flexible lepa

M M M:
sijo01

i will put on my condom
& nyash sijo01 again, after d nyashing i will go back 2 bed

Seconded, a well deserved punishment for such silly thread

Cipriani:
For meatpie, she would follow the stranger to his house. But don't ask what she would do for sharwama.

That girl is so fuck1ng cheap. If I were her fiance, I would have left her with the guy and by the time she comes home, she will find her things waiting for her at the door. She is so rude and lacks manners. Eve if a friend does that to me, I will be so made at her not to talk of fiancee.

True talk, may God bless you.

@Poster, thank you for simplifying everything to the extent that even less techy ppl like myself could understand.

I have been a Nokia person all along until recently when I was literally forced into acquiring an Android as a 2nd phone (HTC Desire HD) and had been struggling to cope with all the jargons and applications that goes with it. Worse still, the phone didn't come with a user manual, so I guess one is some how expected to find his way through diligent experimentation (which I don't have time for, due the nature of my job).

I come across the following terminologies so often associated with androids/iphones: ROOTING and JAILBREAK.
Could you or somebody please explain what they mean and how they work in very simple terms so that anybody (even a beginner) could understand. Thank you.

^^^^The good news is that you may not have been infected, because (as someone rightly said) the infection rate from  a single exposure (though variable with viral load) is still quite low, however, there is a small and very real risk that you might in fact have been infected.

You should go to the nearest big hospital (e.g teaching hosp.) and tell them what has happened, if the incidence took place within the last 48 -72hrs, chances are that they may give you a post-exposure prophylaxis to prevent the onset of infection. This is however usually reserved in cases of genuine exposure not suspected exposure (as in the case with this girl, so you may want to take her along for confirmation - if she would agree), because the side effects of the drugs may out weigh the risk.

In any case you should go for a test in order to establish your baseline status. This may later be useful towards establishing your case should you wish to prosecute in event of deliberate criminal exposure on the part of the girl.

If you should test negative (which I strongly expect at this stage), you would still need to go for a confirmation test after three months (to take care of the possible window period immediately after infection before production of detectable levels of HIV antibodies - which form the basis of the test). In your case, I strongly still suspect you would also test negative, because as already mentioned,the odds are in your favor. Good luck.

2goodbobo:
house, i think most of you are been to hard on the chick.ever heard of the saying ''no romance without finance''.am a guy and i think helping one's chick without her asking is not a crime.it only becomes a crime,when she ask incessantly without consideration.@poster, my advise is you have to device a means of asking him even thou it will be hard for you cos if u dont tell him,he wont know.

Nobody is being hard on her, majority of the respondents who clearly did not support her (including females) cannot all be wrong.

The poster shouldn't be asking the bf ahead of her family/dad, who should be there as her immediate and natural support system (not the other way round); that attitude is quite wrong and shouldn't be encouraged, or haven't you noticed how she had conveniently avoided mentioning about them?

Our girls should be encouraged to be more self respecting and less dependent on men.

BTW, no romance without finance equates to prostitution in my book, pls stop justifying weakness and evil.

Always trust your instincts, if you don't feel comfortable about him, pls find somebody else.
Personally, I feel you are being unduly concerned, boko harem, in PH targeting only you and your family, haba madam

Never heard of her before, but judging from the above picture, I'd say Nice Legs but Shame about the Face

^^^^Don't mind these old time ppl, just because during their time cunnilingus na big word, dem no wan believe say for these days a young man like you im eye already dey open.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=753317.msg9121377#msg9121377 date=1315690676]Touche! Egbe eye le'ye wo to. You shall know them by the type of women/men they attract and "go for".[/quote]

tunnytox:
Ara awon ti won ti fi ori e gba paaro! They've exchange your head for an empty one in Oyingbo Market. Only low lives who have nothing to offer can only 'buy' girls with gifts, blackberry, etc people who are intelligent, skilful and independent will attract same type of women, women who do not expect their boyfriends to play the role of their fathers, women who believe the shouldn't turn their boyfriends to cashcow.

I would like to think you were not referring to me with those words in bold, because I fail to see what would have warranted such response considering that fact my post wasn't even directed at you nor my choice of words in anyway insulting - even if I were to be holding a different opinion, which isn't the case.
Clearly, the level of intolerance and immaturity displayed in your conduct speaks volumes for itself.
I shall for now not descend to your level but advise you accordingly - insults do not necessarily make your point/argument any more clearer or valid. Take note

Having not bothered to even read the posts and various opinions; the topic already speaks for itself; I have to respond that this is blatant discrimination of the xenophobic kind.

If true and the northerners retaliate, does the gov know that there are more southerners in the north than vice-versa, and can he accommodate the many Abians that would be repatriated in the same way?

How intolerant and retrogressive, imagine Nigerians treating other Nigerians as if they are foreigners in their own country
For goodness sake where are we heading to? Soon we'll be setting up borders and demanding for visas and passports before people can travel between states and local govts - within the same country. SMH