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spartan117:
Consider this:

spartan117:
First of all I must state that I don't in anyway support the behavior of your husband, but what I'm interested in is your marital bliss.

Having two strong heads in marriage is a recipe for disaster, from what you wrote it seems your husband has a bruised ego, hence his need to constantly remind you that he is the boss(this is wrong). However the solution to this is not to withdraw or nag him, you need to be the mature one of the two at this point.


If what you really want is for your marriage to blossom then put pride aside and do this:

Firstly you need to get your groove back! Start dressing nice and gain back your beauty. Having a family of six is no excuse, there are people who have gone through worse and still remained beautiful with the little they had. And always wear a smile.

Secondly never argue with him, if he keeps nagging you being unappreciative, just sincerely apologize and remain calm.

When he comes back from work, hug him, kiss him, ask him how was his day. When you wake up in the morning, greet him, call him sweet names like honey,sugar etc.

Always take his side in any argument he has with anyone in public. In private you can respectfully advice him.

When you want to serve him food, go down on your knees and serve him, try to do this not only in private but in front of his friends or visitors nothing else will endear a man to a woman than this.

. ..the list goes on and on, but I trust that you get the gist by now. What I'm simply trying to say in one sentence is Show him love. Love conquers all.

Finally and most importantly, get close to Jesus, he's the only one who can heal a broken home. You need to develop a personal relationship with the holy spirit, if you have this relationship ]every other relationship in your life will be blissful.

I will recommende these two books to you written by Pastor Yonggi Cho and Pastor Benny Hinn. They will help you build a relationship with the holy spirit, and they are available in all Christian bookstores nationwide.
Shalom

Arrewa:
But they're still some places that need to be fixed especially that Lagos line!

The only improvement there is that agboros are no longer much!

You should help us post about lelive too! Let see what's happening there!

ghettokid1:
Google is your friend mir.

ghettokid1:
We ve been scamed by Our Government

ghettokid1:
I sight Calcium there too

jneutron4000:
Let me do you a favour of educating you on the fact that 1. People are watching and 2. There is nothing like human cloning yet, maybe there might be breakthrough in Future but now, no human being has being cloned.
There is was a man called Jamal Khashoggi, he was a Journalist from Saudi and he was a critic of the Saudi kingdom and government, he was neatly assassinated in Turkey at the embassy of the of Suadi Arabia in October 2018. The way and matter he was killed shows that it was something they have planned for so long and his assassination order came from the highest level of government in Saudi Arabia, after they killed this man at the Embassy, the highest they could do was to doubled him with someone else to clean their track, ie they has already looked for a perfect person that has his height, and stature. They killed and pieces his body, they gave his cloth to that replacement to wear and walk out of the Embassy. But you know what the world still get to know about the truth just to let you know the world is watching, the Turkish government already tapped the Saudi Embassy that they were never aware of, Turkish president has the video on how that guy was brutally murdered, Russia got eye there too, a declassified video was released when the doubled body came out of the Embassy, they analysed it and brought out facts and evidence that he was not the one, not the nonsense IPOB is doing by editing Buhari nose, ear, eyes and Osinbajo head etc to push out stupid propaganda. That acts shows that there are top secret agencies all accross this world that there job is just stay awake and monitor things, CIA, MI5,MI6, RT etc. We all know Buhari is highly irresponsible, he was sick and the idiot went to London for almost 3 months, where Nigeria aircraft was hanged for that period of time cost the Country money. Buhari undergoes medical treatment and surgery and he was never cloned. Buhari is in aso rock, and the idiot is old, has no strength to even listen to Nigerians complain talkless of solving it or coming out every now and then to address the country. Likewise when Abba kyari was I'll of corona virus, when his situation was getting critical, they had to send for Chinese doctors to see if they can saved him, Abba was never in Cuba like Nnamdi kanu has fooled you all to believe. Use your brain to process information and not your heart because your emotions will make you believe every junk news and propaganda that comes your way.

jneutron4000:
hahaha another brainwashed idiot spotted.

jneutron4000:
The way many Igbos believed that propaganda, made me realise how gullible they are. And that gave their fake biafra agitation a major setback because world leaders see them as jokers. Trevor Noah even made a joke about it. How can you be so stupid to say the president of the must populous black country in this world is dead and buried in Saudi Arabia. Saudi Arabia has America as ally and CIA is dere, no way such will happen and they will not be informed. Even Russia will blow the whistle if CIA wants to cover it up (RT). If the president of the smallest country in Africa dies and the people wants to cover up such, CIA, Russian spy, UK, EU will know, this people have eyes everywhere and even watch while Stupid Africa leaders are asleep

roseb1:
I thought I was the only one lost. Who molested the girl? Is it the landlords son or a fellow girl who happened to be her age mate? Op please clarify

elchapoo:
I am not understanded here.
Maybe you have to inform the brother of the Uncle of the patience relative so that they will get to talk to the landlord through the elder brothers in law and also bring in the girl that fingered her on her request.
As for the son of the landlord to the parents of the relative to the patients, I don't even know was his own crime was, op I still can't understanding what I just read, I even need someone to explain to me what I just wrote. Maybe it's time to sleep.

Aksnoopy:
I am presently treating a patient who was admitted about 4 days ago, the mother of the girl in question came to visit the patient and decided to bring her along. Even though they were not allowed into the ward they waylaid me on my way out and I thought it was about their relative on the sick bed. I gave her audience and when she told me the reason why she accosted me I took her to my office, heard the whole story and thereafter examined girl and I discovered that she has been seriously abused. I thereafter referred them to mental health for further care and promised to help because she explained that the guy responsible is the son of their landlord where the little girl resides. So are you saying the poor girl is lying or the guy in question is the only person living in that house? You are a fvking bastard and not worthy of dwelling among human. You ilk deserve to die horribly for being so quick to defend evil.

Kuthyphem2017:
Good day, my girlfriend is an auxiliary nurse and I want her upgrade more , so she can work in government hospitals. What can she do be at that stage.

emmaodet:
I know and that is why am enlightening guys to adopt such tactics too.
Impregnate a lady to become your baby mama while you continue doing your pump and dump with other ladies and enjoy your life to the fullest.
Abi what do you think? I don't advice guys to put marriage card on the table because by default, they will be at the losing side.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmmmmmm
100% supported bro especially no.4
Have observed most women don't remarry after divorce or death of hubby etc because they don't want people to be counting husbands on their head(ma ka oko le lori) so that it won't look as if they are the one with fault. They are really really very smart, way smarter than an average man in relationship.
Check out most men, they will quickly rush into another marriage not long after their wife dies or divorce etc.
It's as if men can't do without sex or women for a short period.
Whatever happens to becoming a single daddy. Have bedmates, friends with benefits so that people won't look as if you are the problem when they realize you can't keep a woman for long.

Rozz:
women hardly cheat if they are loved and properly taken care of by their husbands

omonaija123:
From what I heard , money is a big issue, the agency would pay the nurse a quarter of what the agency is being paid by the hospital. Also working conditions , as a international nurse they going to put you in where they need nurses the most which may not be the best places. I also heard that sometimes Avant does not treat their international nurses right so that could also be another issue.

omonaija123:
Until you get to that point , you will not understand.

holocron:
Nonsense. Giving birth is natural to all mammals even without assistance, like the biblical Hebrew women. Abeg let us hear word.

Illuminated993:
See ehh, the man who marries you finds peace. I read all your posts, and I can tell you're a good woman. It's uncommon seeing a Nigerian woman who reasons as logical as you. Keep it up.

excellence44:
Please tell us his fault against the children to warrant such disrespect. If he cheated on the wife does it mean the children should be used against him? If she can't stand a cheating husband it's better to file for divorce claim custody of the children instead of turning the family to world war 3. Mind you, nobody is saying cheating is good. And op, you sure say those pikins na ya own? Those holes ain't loyal.

Ironic:
D'fvq did I just read? Like, you'll send your kids on an errand, your wife will stop them and you won't do anything?

Like, you don't flog your kids?
You fvckin claiming Western pattern of raising kids by being a simp to them all to be tagged a modern dad?
You gotta be a typical African dad asap!

Bruv, the first thing you need to do now is to make them to be scared of you. Very necessary at this point.

Next time you send any of them message and he/she refuses because of your wife, flog the hell out of that one, if your wife tries to misbehave, flog her too with well-deserved uppercut and smackdown. If possible, stop eating her food because she's capable of doing something unexpected with what you eat.

They'll become scared of your recent behavior and adjust. Strict dads keep the best, calm and organized home.

What next? Your wife will try to manipulate them by using your new attitude towards them. Keep being strict towards them and still do your fatherly works towards them.

Trust me, you need to go very hard right now since your soft ways ain't working.

Mothers manipulations towards their kids against their dad can only function when they are tender, when they grow, they MUST know the truth and the mum will be at the loosing end.

If you don't have the mind to do what I've advised--Divorce your wife. You can't keep housing a demon who's quick to use your kids against you because she's closer to them.

Acme45:
thanks, it's real men and women need to get to the foundation of both families and make sure the woman get pregnant to be on the safer side.my younger brothers that got their wives prego before wedding are smiling today. Many hide inside our churches today to cover their evil deeds. Don't trust anyone even if your pastor tells you to, because he won't be there to help you out. Pastor may only knows the outward appearance of the brother or sister, they will only encourage you to be praying till when?

juman:
I saw a case of a person that died of sickness in early morning, when we were burying him in the evening (5-6) there was blood stain like that.

juman:
Blood stain.
It was actually body fluid.
It is not uncommon during muslim burial.
I have seen that before.

It show that the dead body already decomposing.
Human body is fragile. Immediately a person died the body start to decompose.
That is why muslims bury their dead as soon as possible.

fergie006:
We just received the body of Abba Kyari the deceased Chief of Staff the President in Abuja. In strict observation of the protocol put in place for the burial of Coronavirus victims by the @NCDCgov and the Federal Ministry of Health, the funeral prayer and burial will be private.
https://twitter.com/GarShehu/status/1251436188579364864?s=19[/quote]I dey look you one kain.

Just 3 minutes he tweeted this, you don post am already .
The powers that be are really on nairaland. .