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Terrier99:
Na UBA
The are the UGM of banks in Nigeria. Them still dey try run from Police.
You see Access Bank ehn, na Boko Haram of banks them be. Them no dey run.

Hahahahaha

This is what happens when people want to “Japa” from, without understanding what they are Japa-ing (escaping ) to.

When they think nothing can be worse than where they are.

When they have an ignorant and/or idealistic picture of going abroad.

When they don’t realize that in 2021, the entire world is in a state of flux and there is really no easy country to live in, especially as an immigrant.

Not saying don’t migrate, but don’t leave your sense behind in the process.

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

Let Him know that:
1. your slap “wasn’t intentional”
2. You thought He would Hit you back
3. You would like to know His thoughts on 1&2
4. If He plans to hurt you real big, you prefer He slaps you back since you “sometimes wish He would hit you” and you prefer that to the emotional abuse
5. You would like to know His thoughts on number 4
6. Your emotional, physical and mental health (as well as that of your kids) are more important to you than anything else - unless they are not.

Lordbinsmar:
Yo[u are very right Sir.

Though I am not a programmer, but I do high computational engineering projects.

My University computational mechanics research lab has some amazing high computing desktop.

One of the desktop had 64 cores and 256 gig of ram. It's is use mainly for computational fluid dynamics research. This guy can work for weeks without stopping.

I can't imagine any laptop in this world have such computational strenght. I always feel ontop of the world when working on this particular work station.

I heard guys working on computational fluid dynamics at airbus, NASA and Boeing have some crazy work stations. I hope to get to that level some days.

There is cloud technology. With enough cloud storage and processing feed, is there much of a difference, if any, between laptop and desktop?

asalimpo:
Which is berra for programming. Laptop or desktop. Serious programming. Is it advisable to buy a laptop (when you just hobbysizing with d programming thingi). Wats d duration of a laptop under typical usage

Do individuals still use desktops as a better option to laptops?

For a second, I thought the story was about Tinubu.

Do what works for everyone involved. There are processes for firing people, especially when it is based on performance metrics. Make it clear. Make it fair. And do it with empathy.

But if you still want to do what works for you ( like bluntly tell 900 people on a zoom call , on 1st December just before the holidays, that they are fired) then be ready to bear the consequences.

AJohnnasa:
You have nothing to worry about because by the time you go for medicals, it would have been more than 6 hours after consumption, so it won't be detected in your system.

6 hours May apply to blood test. But alcohol can still be detected in urine for up to 12-24 hours. Just like in saliva.

But it may still not be a problem as most of those tests are usually to check your overall health and fitness status.

So you had something to do with Bandits? So you supported perpetuators of banditry?

That’s why you were bandying the idea of amnesty for a band of thieves?

That’s why you were branding them as freedom fighters, rather than as criminals on a bandwagon of kidnapping, rape and murder.

Gumi, Gumi, Gumi…. How many times did I call you?

I was going to attempt answering your question but I got put off when you said “Unfortunately it was a girl”.

Such backward thinking from a human being that cannot create a single human cell.

So you are you saying Men and Women are not equal? Or are you saying a husband and a wife are not equal?

I hope you are aware that different does not automatically mean unequal.

Thank God they know they goofed and are trying to explain. This people think we are in a dictatorship.

Bullying has always been banned, that’s why they don’t do it where school authorities can see.

What we need is for the Ministry of Education to enforce anti-bullying policies and reporting systems in schools. Also tougher sanctions on bullying that could extend to the parents of the bullies.

Silvernus2020:
My brother you are there to teach, just do what you can and go back home safe and sound, don't kill yourself, please, stay safe, when you don't feel like going to the school, just stay at home, even if it's up to a week, Teaching no be SHELL work, no Carry the thing for head.

Peace

Teaching should be done by those who carry it on their head. To be a good teacher is a sacrifice. That’s why it is said that their reward is in heaven.

These are the monsters Sheik Gumi wants us to give amnesty. Like that would make them all return to peaceful normalcy.

benjackugo:
https://igberetvnews.com/1408334/wike-ikpeazu-ortom-fintiri-makinde-meet-real-madrid-president-spain-photos/

To what end?

ShobayoEmma:
looking for cheap public sympathy ahead of her child appearance in court.
Eye for an eye

Did you read what She said at all?

Funkyswagzz:
It does that to most women why? They go into street runs or there charater gets from bad to worse. Does it mean women can fill in that gap left behind.. what is actually the problem?

In those situations where the Women can’t fill the gap, it is often because they where suppressed and disempowered by their egotistic and/or insecure husbands.

Kriss216:
Changed her from a good girl to a public gbola collector. Shameless married woman!

Tone down the harshness, it’s good for your health.

Kingpele:
Good development most service servants are crooks and lazy

It’s “CIVIL Servants”… and AEDC does not fall under that category.

etokhana:
https://dailytrust.com/buhari-fires-aedc-management-over-strike

I thought Distribution was a private sector affair. Am I missing something?

Abdulazeez99:
Reacting to the accusation in an Instagram story on Tuesday, the actress stated that she did not bully anyone, adding that she might have punished the lady’s sister for disobeying the school rules.

One WoMan’s punishment is another WoMan’s bullying.

It has started. I saw/see stuff like this coming up.

It has started. I saw/see stuff like this coming up more and more.,

KillIgbohoN0W:
Check am well, you go see say he has achieved nothing in his personal life.

No house, no business in his name, no kids or family, etc. He fit still dey collect salary like dis sef.

Afonjas like to dey pack rubbish certificates to make themselves feel good because they know they can never go toe-to-toe with an Nwafor in achievements.

No kids, you say? It was His full grown “kid” that posted this.

Meanwhile, what makes you think they are acquiring certificates to go toe to toe with anyone? Some people just love academics.

sotall:


It would have been better for Lewandowski not to talk about any unfairness regarding this Balondior.


When people speak for you, that is the time to keep quiet.

He is obviously pained he didn't win it.

This is an award that is given based on voting.

Why attack the winner?

Why not attack the voters?

He did not talk about unfairness. He did not attack the winner. He did not attack the voters.

Read beyond the headline. It was the author who voted to be unfair by titling the article as an attack on Lewandoski

duullie88:
It is compulsory for the woman to know how to cook outside or within the marriage If the woman doesn't cook, is it the man that will cook.

Yes! I guess. Or didn’t He know before they got married?

Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.

It is not compulsory for Her to know how to cook. But it is compulsory for Her and Family (Husband and kids) to eat. And except She is totally irresponsible, She should be able to sort that out.

Akabuking:
let them release them to us, we want to show them something.

And how will you be different from the beast you are trying to kill?

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/BREAKING-Police-arrests-3-Dowen-School-students-over-Sylvester-Oromonis-death

This is so sad because this could have been avoided. These boys did not need to degenerate to this stage before an intervention. Even the suspected culprits are victims. Broken victims of a broken system.

Meanwhile, they should arrest the House Master and possibly House prefect, while they are at it.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/BREAKING-Police-arrests-3-Dowen-School-students-over-Sylvester-Oromonis-death

This is so sad because this could have been have avoided. Meanwhile, they should arrest the House Master and possibly House prefect, while they are at it.

theForth:
Is it wrong for a married man to cook his own food?

It is NOT WRONG for a married man to cook his own food.

As long as He shares with His family and as long as He also eats His wife’s food when She cooks for Him.