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Have you told your girl that the baby died? What was her reaction??

The only thing I can hold on to , as a basis for suspicion is your girlfriend feeling the need to tell you that She is not possessed.

Then again, it may all just be a coincidence. And except there was contact between your girlfriend and the little baby, She CANT be held guilty by a court of law, as the Law does not recognize 'witchcraft'

kingofchess:
I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help

I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.

There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.

Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.

To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).

Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page.

My stance is that Y.O.U.R O.P.I.N.I.O.N.S A.R.E S.U.B.J.E.C.T.I.V.E !!!

GodWrites:
Your opinion is subjective, and holds no water in this argument. I don't even know your stance, beating around here and there without an anchor.

"I didn't mention you... because you are irrelevant ...but I am replying you and mentioning you, even as I claim you are irrelevant"

Lol. From Kano Hisbah to Nairaland, hypocrites everywhere. #SMH

MejiLoyon:
Did I mention you? You should know why I didn't mention you though I directed my words to you. That's because you're irrelevant. And this is the only time I'll reply you.
I don't speak to dingbats. Your attitude disgusts me. Well you're entitled to your opinion anyway. Anyway you've gotten the message. Bye.
Future is female my yansh

Reducing Her description to merely "Grandmother" in the face of all Her world class achievements, is a very BIG insult!

Armaggedon:
Is a grandmother suppose to be an insult?

You are now comparing unspecial organisms to determine which is more special, in this same meaningless existence you alluded to

Anyway, I am a gardener, among many other things, worms are very special to me.

GodWrites:
Compared to millions of other organisms, worms aren't special. What's your argument?

So the photoshopper of this image did not have the decency or patience to photoshop the animal's body from that of a sheep to that of a dog- as s/he did the face

Kennyking1234:
cryptocurrency is the future

Funny how Emeka is being hailed as the real MVP, Emeka who was so clueless as to what was happening under His own roof, until a random internet stranger brought it to His notice. Real MVP my foot. Mtcheew.

Decallionaire:
https://www.nairaland.com/6409233/man-exposes-lady-cheating-boyfriend

A viral tweet on Wednesday, broke the story of a banker identified as Emeka whose girlfriend, Grace, was having a secret affair with his flatmate, Andrew.
One of the comment to the viral tweet, from @MfrBabaTee stated, "I swear I'm heading to GTBank Marian road like this.... "

In a follow up to the story, Emeka has broken the relationship with his girlfriend Grace and has given a quit notice to his flatmate, Andrew.
See his reaction below in a text he replied to @MfrBabaTee.

What do you make of it?

Erm, China is not in the middle-east.

Dabronze:
Xi Ping At Work Again
I dont know how long will the west will be waging war with the middle-east.

This is such an unfortunate statement coming from the Governor. The South-West, for whatever reason, is one of the regions most accommodating of people from other parts.

Divoc:
https://dailytrust.com/herdsmen-southwest-doesnt-want-to-accommodate-other-tribes-gov-muhammed

Are worms not special? You are still passing a value judgement on like the one's you condemn.

GodWrites:
Are there existential masters?

I don't even know what that is. I've never been a fan of labels.

The fact reminds that you're not special.

To many, you're a worm in this planet.

Gumi is an ignoramus, for comparing agitations for self determination, however misguided, with Boko Haram, which has no tribal, ethnic, state or political affiliation; and no positive ideology or redeemable qualities.

Sheik Gumi is not just an ignoramus, He is a supporter of terrorists, trying very hard to give legitimacy to bandits who have possibly threatened His life and livelihood.

Sheik Gumi is an intolerant religious bigot, who should be arrested for fraternizing with terrorists. But Buhari is tone deaf, Northerners have been intimidated into silence. But something will have to give, because nothing can be built on the shaky foundations that ignorant sheik Gumi and His fellow bandits are trying to establish.

galaxylauncher:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/02/07/those-agitating-biafra-oduduwa-republics-are-miscreants-not-different-boko-haram-%E2%80%94-gumi

Four weeks no be break up naa... And if you are thinking of going to church just to make up, then my answer will be Naaah!

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

Mumu ... lol /

hakym619:
He should be happy that a celebrity bashed his car

I don't understand again oooo, it's like they don't understand simple English.

fernandez1:
Terrorist and u people are calling them bandits

In today's Nigeria, this theory is not far fetched.

Nwodosis:
It may be thier form of protest to thier paymaster to notify him that he is yet to pay them again to stop killing.

You have studied your existentialist masters very well. My main issue with your take is that you have made your point with the same absolutism and one sided rationale for which you criticize the religionists.

GodWrites:
Soul?

That is a religious concoction used to make a man feel special, a sense of being unique and different from other organisms. That's ego!

There is no proof that the soul exists, except some unfounded religious texts written by stone-age men from the middle east.

So far, what distinguishes us from other animals is our consciousness and intelligence. That, however, doesn't mean we are going to transcend reality and become immortal souls.

That's delusional and laughable if you ask me lol.

These fairytales exist due to our fear of death, and the urge to live forever. We don't want to believe that death is the end, hence we invent the afterlife, soul, god, blah blah blah.

Well, this lie opened up a new opportunity for con men paradig themselves as pastors, imans, and so-called spiritual leaders.

At the end of everything, there is NOTHING. We all are trapped in this big cosmic joke where we can only play this meaningless game, or pull out.

But earth is fun, exciting. I can't imagine not being able to devour all kinds of yummy delicacies and candies.

Or being unable to travel, have sex, drive my favorite car, and even love.

This earthly experience is the best there is.

It's fun living here, reason why we don't wanna live hence, console ourselves with delusions just to sleep at night.

But at last, it's only oblivion - nothing!

If you cant see that both ideas are not mutually exclusive, you may need to take a course in critical thinking and logical reasoning.

Veqtor:
Where does this one stand?

Today he's condemning Sunday Igboho for chasing away herdsmen... tomorow he’s blaming govt for herdsmen attacks.

Starzo:
endsars protest started in ughelli after the young guy was shot.
It had been going on for some weeks before it became national

Thank you very much, I was just going to clear Him, that it was in Ughelli Delta State, #EndSARS protests, began; when after the young guy was shot, Ughelli boys declared, "No more SARS for Ughelli" and death on any SARS official they saw in town. That was what triggered the Nation-wide, #EndSARS protests... with all due respect to the rugged Edo people.

Starzo:
endsars protest started in ughelli after the young guy was shot.
It had been going on for some weeks before it became national

Thank you very much, I was just going to clear Him, that it was in Ughelli Delta State, #EndSARS protests, began; when after the young guy was shot, Ughelli boys declared, "No more SARS for Ughelli" and death on any SARS official they saw in town. That was what triggered the Nation-wide, #EndSARS protests... with all due respect to my Edo people.

I will begin to take more seriously, these demands for herdsmen to leave the forests of the South, when we Southerners are committed to becoming vegetarians for , at least, the next one year. I'm down, who's down?

Ludlum:
Edo Youths Give 14-Day Vacation Notice To Fulani Herdsmen Over Killings



http://saharareporters.com/2021/02/04/edo-youths-give-14-day-vacation-notice-fulani-herdsmen-over-killings

This is paints a picture of terrorism that has been allowed to thrive in the North. In the name of religious and ethnic affiliations, murders and terrorists are being given legitimacy because the really is no difference between the terrorists and the terrorized. Something is going to have to give, very soon.

ezenwajosh:
The popular Muslim cleric visited them in bush to discuss an end to banditry



https://punchng.com/gumi-visits-zamfara-bandit-in-forests-appeals-for-peace/?amp=1

While morality is certainly an issue, there are other , possibly more dangerous factors, like low self esteem, pressure to "belong" and "herd instinct" due to a lack of individual sense of purpose.... There is also currently, an increasing search for meaning going on, even if unconsciously, in the minds of many.

My heart definitely goes out to the coming generation. Yet generations through complex situations have come and gone. Life has gone on. Last last, Humanity will be all right, until humanity is no more.

StacyO:
I think we should all try to encourage important things into the society.

Porn as we all know have done enough damage to the minds of the growing teens already. Adding all this won't help anyone.

I'm not disputing anyone's opinion sha but,I think morality should be encouraged the more.






My heart goes out to the next generation to come.

Skyfornia:
Made in naija wedding...the groom would have complimented her with ankara suit...

He complimented Her with color.

I concur, She loved God and was never shamed of it.

Righteousness2:
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Among all the Eulogies you poured out about your Friend and Sister, this is what Stands out.

As Long as she had this, You or anyone else have no course for alarm. You all should be rejoicing because it does not Matter the Number of years you spend on Earth, if you Depart without JESUS, it is a Waste.

I would rather Spend 30, 35 or 40yrs on Earth, Depart and go to Heaven, than live 70 or 100 yrs on Earth and go to Hell.

Condolences to Her Family and Loved ones.

Winterfell2:
I remember her from the bridge leadership foundation. Such a vibrant and eloquent soeaker. Her vibes were super, never knew she was the co-founder of future awards. What a loss. R.I.P Emilia

What a loss, indeed. She was a silent achiever, who was always doing Big things, quietly, from a very young age. She had so much more to give still. But our times are in His hands. RIP Emilia.

I am so sorry for your loss. She was indeed a dear friend to my Wife and I, and we both have all of you (Her staff) in our thoughts and prayers... Take heart. We can only do our part to keep Her memory alive. Be strong. It is well with you all.

Kristina22:
Emilia. My Emilia. Wake up please.

I never for the life of me saw this coming. I never thought I would be penning this down. Emilia, you said this year was for a re-establishment in exponential growth. We were going to do better than we did last year. You had big dreams. Dreams that sometimes scared me. How death must have mocked us! Emilia, you are the must humble person I have come across. I remembered when I joined. You told me not to call you ma. "My name is Emilia," you said. For the founder of an organization, I was taken aback. Took me a while to adjust. You loved God, Emilia. You were never ashamed of God. You also loved AML. It was your baby. Your work ethic always amazed me and spurred me. You stood for women and sought ways to empower women. Little wonder we clicked. You never let me stay in my comfort zone. You assigned tasks that I would otherwise run away from. You wanted me to grow. You wanted everyone to grow. Emilia, you had so much in you. You are one of the most intelligent women I have ever met. Your death fills me with so much pain; so much anger. I am finding it hard to say goodbye. You didn't deserve to bow out this way: this young. Nonetheless, I will continually celebrate you. Today, tomorrow, forever. Rest on, warrior! Rest in peace, Emilia Asim-Ita.

It's not so easy to uproot from your ancestral roots to a strange land

Thomthom:
I don't know what you guys are doing in the North.. That you can't come to South, East or west.. North don cast
.

I just realised that Falana, kinda rhymes with Fulani... #Fulana #Hahaha

I just wonder how people are in relationships with other people , whose private accounts they feel the need to hack. I am really sad for this "trustless" and "overly suspicious generation" for we will always gravitate in the direction of our most predominant thought.

[\quote author=dvkot post=98537567]Mann11 how did u hack her WhatsApp bro i need it abeg[/quote]

You have found what you are looking for, and you are still wondering what to do?

Don't be a fool. Own your own life, or let someone else run it for you.

Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

Ventura1:
If up to the moment you saw the bat, nothing evil has happened to you, worry less.
Every human possess the right to choose whatever works for them, the moment you understand this and begin to respect people for the choice, you begin to have peace.

There are people , then there is your Father. It's easier to have peace if it is a stranger than if it's your trusted friend or family, not to talk of Father.