₦airaland Forum

Esseite:
It's obvious she could not wait to fling the scarf.

Lol! And before you know it, He too may fling the cap.... #NoCap

ogbonti:
you are welcome and merry christmas to you

And also to you. Wishing you a fruitful and fulfilling new year.

ogbonti:
big pikin - ndo, i dey trowey salot

Thank you

boyjo:
E be like say you no sabi women.

"I have money only for the kids" no mean "na my last card be this", for woman ear o.
I dey tell you sy this woman fit no know say that prized 30k na borrow.

They need to work on their communication.
They need to be open.

It is possible they need to work on their communication. When I tell my Wife A, A is what it means, I try not to allow room for miscommunication. Thank God we both understand English and that, it is what it is.

RedPanthar:
That's how you people die before women. Mental and psychological stress. Why won't men die before women. You carry everything to the heart. While the women leave it to God.

I repeat it's not about finances. There are men that hate thier wives around their family or friends or anyone not him and his blood and that's the situationship. I maintain my stance.

First you say 7k should be enough, now you say it's not about finances. Oga/Madam what exactly is your stance, beyond your one sided take on the issue?

Like many have said, I think you have a comprehension (or communication) problem. And you are also very unwilling to take correction.

RedPanthar:
Shut up


I've trained atleast 7. Just shut it and get lost

I am worried for the future of those 7 people, if YOU are truly the one that trained them!

boyjo:
The wife may not be insensitive.
The op didn't tell her things are hard.
He didn't tell her he borrowed the money.
They don't talk openly so the wife feels there is more from where that 30k came from.

You conveniently missed the part where He told His wife, he only had money to buy Christmas stuff for the kids, abi?

Afamed:
Have you also considered the OP financial situation?

Please help us ask Him, ooo.. Because one would think He sent the OP money to do all the things He is saying he should do.

RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.


You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.


YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.

I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.

There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.

Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.


7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.


Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.


Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money




Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.


You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.



There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.


It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful.

May your self righteousness, lack of empathy and quickness to judge not kill you.

Even after He told you His first problem was that His Wife did not inform Him.

Even after He asked how Her brother would feel if the tables were turned

Even after He told you He is cash strapped, you're talking about how 7k should be enough yen yen yen, as if you sent money to Him this morning.

Na wa!

Doraty1:
https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2020/12/24/nigerias-stock-market-closes-for-christmas-with-n2bn-loss/

Chicken change, by standards of the Stock Exchange.

ednut1:
Zero sympathy. Many are destined to be useless

He was just a misguided kid.

ogbonti:
abeg shift joor. so na only men dey enjoy sex but na pain e dey pain women abi? what exactly are nigerian men paying for wey dem no dey pay finish from naija women? or women in america and europe who do things for their men are they not humans like you? you are the one who needs to learn that the hole in between your thighs is not a job or retirement plan - go get a life abeg


typical naija chic feeling so entitled!

if all naija men think like me, and behave like me - you ladies will break your backs to make good money to pamper me very well before you will taste my deek, konji go hold una dye- una go beg wella, mschewwww

Hahaha, small pikin.

CANDYDADDY:
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To be a governor of Central Bank of a country is not a light task, i believe sanusi doesn't even care

He had squandered enough money to last him for many decades than to be fighting over insignificant positions

How do you know he squandered money?

And how can someone "squander" money and it will still last for decades?

Squander means to "waste in a reckless and foolish manner"

ogbonti:
the preek no sweet her too? do unmarried girls not crave sex? i beg carry ya mumu talk comot from here joor

You still have a lot to learn about how differently Women see & experience sex as compared to Men. One day you will.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

This is not a criticism, but please don't criticize a babe for saying you cannot meet Her critical needs. Just admit that there is a critical mismatch between the kind of babe you want and your capacity to handle her ( whether with minimum wage or not). If you cannot handle her, don't take it personal. But if you truly Love Her, then be ready to commit to meeting Her, at least half way.

JesusJesus:
The SIM card you have must have been used by someone previously
Maybe the person is dead. The SIM card was recycled and you purchased it. Simple

This is not true. My Wife experienced the same thing with Etisalat. I suspect they are beginning to link data with BVN details.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

If I could speak with the girl, I will tell Her to stop begging and run, very far away from you, because a lot of marital problems begin and end when someone begins to think they own someone else just because they spent some money on them.

And such relational/marital problems can only be made worse by over suspiciousness, such as a reply to a "Compliments of the season text" How did you even see, the text? Wait , let me guess. You were snooping through Her phone ( maybe because you were the one who bought it)

Marriage is truly not for Children.

oluseyiforjesus:
Thought what brings fight btw two men are: Money, position,n woman
Wich one are they fighting on

Read the article first.

nyiamfrank:
Women are devil's.

Even if, is this the kind of Man-child you want to represent you as a Man.

peacekante:
One of the slay Queens that Threaten to rape Omah Lay has come out to Apologise on behalf of her fellow slay Queens after they received backlash from the general public for their threat on the growing music star.
Watch video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnKP04tbUEg

What is the definition of "slay Queen" again? Because this one dey one kind for my eye.

But is i t not the guilty that run when no one is pursuing.

He should learn that campaigns don't start and end on twitter.

He should learn to engage without insulting and sounding bitter.

thatsleepboy1:
What a moment. she has gotten the attention she needs. money will be involved here.

Poverty mentality tends to think everything is about money.

EzzyCarter:
Lmao. No bruv. I'm a pastor o . As innocent as anything

OK, thanks for the reassurance, even though the antics of many pastors, these days, are not reassuring.

kachi08:
Please pray for yourself and your family members seriously.
That cat crying is an evil cat.

Seriously , now. So good cats don't cry Na was for my people.

Casemiro:
Please there's this black cat that use to disturb, crying at the fence close to my window at night.


It stopped disturbing for some months, but is back now.

what should I do?

the cat is big fa.

if I go out to chase it, it will run away but later return

Which one? The cat created by God? Just hustling for its daily bread? Would it be different if it was a White Cat? Is black no longer beautiful? Or it doesn't apply when it comes to cats?...

I think you should be more worried about your minds ability to read mysterious meanings into every day happenings.

divinemichael:
I ask this question, because of the teachings of certain sects and religious groups, such as Islam who claims Christ was just a prophet, the Jehovah witness who claim Christ is angel michael, and some other groups who try to discredit and deny the divinity and preexistence of Christ.

I presume God's statement (come lets make man in our own image) in the book of "Genesis" was directed to Christ and possibly the holy spirit which is a proof for the doctrine of trinity...

Anyway if there's a contrary probative opinion with cogent evidences, am ready to learn and be corrected.

It can only mean that God is a plural being... And also provides some basis for the concept of God as a Trinity.

Orjioorji:
Jeo Yorubakwe. We have given him to yorubas as we accept FFK from them..

Hahahaha #LWKMD -Laugh Won Kill Me Die

EzzyCarter:
Psychopathic traits. He deserves whatever he gets as punishment...


I know BDSM is sexy and shii, the right combination of pain and pleasure will have send any human on waves of ecstasy...
But then, there's a thin line between "slap/choke me harder!" and a jail term . Make sure you don't overdo it. Safety first!

Just reading your post about "BDSM" being "sexy and shii" makes me wonder if you are not the type who likes skirting the thin lines, who is also the type most likely to cross the line...

I don't know you but I dey 'fear' you, and people like you.

King44:
you said no one!! I disagree, some people need insults to reset their brain but even at that some people won't change.... Recardo is one of them, Buhari is also one of them, Elrufa, Muric etc

I will concede because of that phrase you highlighted " no one"... While i don't promote insulting, i believe we should always leave room for exceptions

King44:
Recardo banks was insensitive thus he deserved that insult from wizkid... In the midst of protest where people were being killed and many are sending condolences, tweeting #endsarz just to ensure sanity in this Godforsaken country you were busy promoting your song and even had to involve someone who was not happy in your stupidity and you were expecting respect... Man you are moving madt

But that Burna own was not meant to happen sha

No one deserves to be insulted, even for their foolishness. Whenever there is insulting, the insulter is the actual fool.

NwekeUG:
Actress Nazo Ekezie has asked Don Jazzy to have a relationship with her, IgbereTV reports.

Nazo shared a photo of the Mavin records boss on Instagram and wrote:



https://www.instagram.com/p/CID9w0AnT9-/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Nice one. Some girls can learn a thing or two from this, because some guys need to be assisted with these things.