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Romance › Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by TheGift: 5:25pm On Apr 19, 2023

Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

1. The fact that there is no such thing as the perfect sex
2. The financial costs
3. The psychological costs of being a grown
man but sneaking around
4. The emotional costs of being entangled with another woman
5. The fact that I am not bothered about my wife having access to my phone
6. So that I can keep the flames of passion Alive in my marriage and enjoy the uniqueness of sex with my wife.
7. Respect for my wife
8. Respect for my marriage
9. Respect for myself
10. As part of my process for developing discipline
11. The knowledge that there are consequences for every action
12. The fact that I have been there done that and know that there is nothing there

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Crime › Re: Lagos Government To Prosecute Uzuokwu Solomon, False Emergency Caller by TheGift: 10:20am On Apr 19, 2023

naptu2:
Lagos Monitoring Team @LMT767

https://twitter.com/LMT767/status/1648564189038870530

https://twitter.com/LagosRescue/status/1648561386694361089

This is the height of joblessness. He should be prosecuted publicly as an Adult that He is and wants to be. So that other children and childish minded like him will learn.

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Phones › Re: 13 Year-old American Boy Dead After Trying Deadly Tiktok “benadryl Challenge” by TheGift: 10:16am On Apr 19, 2023

Benwallt:
Your future son and daughter would have looked up to him if he survived. It's good he goes out early.

What kind of round about reasoning is this?

P.S. my son is not in the future, he is already here and I can tell you that it is my Job to instill in him the right values and show the right examples. It is also my responsibility to teach Him empathy. You should read up on it.,

Phones › Re: 13 Year-old American Boy Dead After Trying Deadly Tiktok “benadryl Challenge” by TheGift: 7:16am On Apr 18, 2023

Benwallt:
Well deserved and justice served

He was just a clueless kid. Not a hardened criminal. Go easy on Him and His fam.

Politics › Re: Subsidy Palliative: FG To Pay N5,000 To 10m Households For 6 Months by TheGift: 11:49pm On Apr 17, 2023

TheRareGem1:
https://dailytrust.com/subsidy-palliative-fg-to-pay-n5000-to-10m-households-for-6-months/

A most pointless, wasteful and meaninglessly unproductive and useless move by a clueless government that borrows money, not to invest Iin capital projects but to do give away. SMH!

Politics › Re: Tinubu Yet To Show Up For Lesser Hajj Five Days To End Of Pilgrimage In Mecca by TheGift: 4:22pm On Apr 17, 2023

Yorubalandlord:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/04/17/tinubu-yet-show-lesser-hajj-five-days-end-pilgrimage-mecca-amid-ailment

Tinubu that is chilling in Europe, where he is going to spend a significant amount of time IF he comes into power. I knew they were likely just using the Hajj to cover our faces back then. Not surprised, Tinubu doesn't behave like a devout Muslim, remember hIs "Muslim prayers during campaigns?

Politics › Re: Fashola Speaks On Tinubu’s Alleged Dual Citizenship (Video) by TheGift: 11:58am On Apr 17, 2023

TemplarLandry:
BRF is so intelligent. I watched the whole thing live!

So why did Tinubu keep this information from us?

BRF is intelligent, but he is not sure about what the Law says on people running for office holding dual citizenship.

Even if the constitution doesn't expressly bar it, the principle of the President of a Nation owing allegiance to another Nation is just sooo wrong.

Politics › Re: Results On INEC Portal Show Peter Obi, Not Tinubu, Won In Rivers - Premium Times by TheGift: 8:42am On Apr 17, 2023

yarimo:
And results also shows TINUBU won in Anambra, abia, ENUGU and plateau state

What is this one saying? Do you think we are joking here?

Politics › Re: Adamawa Governorship: APC, Keyamo Celebrate “illegal” Declaration Of Binani (pic by TheGift: 8:08pm On Apr 16, 2023

Islie:
The supplementary election was held on Saturday and collation was ongoing before an INEC official declared Mrs Binani the winner.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/593618-adamawa-governorship-apc-keyamo-celebrate-illegal-declaration-of-binani.html

He had to let us know he woke up in the US. These people really don't mind rubbing it in our faces.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by TheGift: 11:58am On Apr 16, 2023

Before asking the Woman to Obey the Man, is the Man obeying God? Before asking His Woman to submit to Him, has the Man submitted to God?

If He has submitted to God, then He will focus on the major of loving and cherishing His Wife as Christ loved the Church, by giving up himself and sacrificing for her. Rather than majoring in the minor of whether she comes to His church or not.

As long as they are both going to Bible believing churches, they can come back home to fellowship and share what they learnt from
Their various churches, and there will be peace in the home.

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Politics › Re: Adeyemi, Ocheni, Audu, Ajaka Reject Kogi APC Primary Election Results by TheGift: 8:32pm On Apr 15, 2023

etokhana:
https://thenationonlineng.net/breaking-adeyemi-ocheni-audu-ajaka-reject-kogi-apc-primary-election-results/

You're calling on people who very likely rigged their way into power to come and give you a free and fair election? Continue.

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Family › Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by TheGift: 5:32pm On Apr 15, 2023

Even if you make your mother next of kin, it does not automatically give her inheritance rights, especially when the Man is survived by his lawfully wedded wife and children. They will still be given priority rights in the eyes of the law.

Family › Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by TheGift: 5:29pm On Apr 15, 2023

Your wife of course, except you are married to a Woman that doesn't have sense.

Properties › Re: 7-Floor Collapsed Building In Banana Island Was Unapproved - MPPUD Lagos by TheGift: 5:47pm On Apr 14, 2023

How does a building without approval , in such a high brow area, get to the sixth and 7th floor without approval huh

This kind of thing would never happen in Abuja. Shame on the Lagos urban planning agency and the Lagos government , they are ultimately to blame.

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Family › Re: Does Letting Go Of an Unhealthy Marriage Means You've Failed? by TheGift: 5:10pm On Apr 14, 2023

Dearlove2me:
Have you ever been in a situation where you find it difficult to let go even when the situation is not making you happy?

Have you ever been with a partner with bad behavior and they are not ready to change and you're force to divorce and walk away, but deep down, you wish they could change for good, because you want a better life?

Have you ever been in a situation where you constantly nag your partner out of the house,but still wish they're safe. And want them back safely?

What of living with a partner where love, affection romance and all that are absent because your partner's bad character irritate you?

What did you do?

Could this emotional feeling, be a feeling that keeps people in an unhealthy marriage for the rest of their lives?
Did you walk away or did you stay even when you have no solution?

Does divorce really mean you've failed?

Letting go of something unhealthy means holding on to health. Choosing health over u health can NEVER be failure. Stop letting what people think or say affect you.

Politics › Re: Vigilantes Kill 50 Bandits In Self-Defence In Niger State by TheGift: 12:54pm On Apr 13, 2023

ijustdey:
https://leadership.ng/amid-renewed-attacks-villagers-mobilise-kill-50-bandits-in-self-defence/

They had to put "in self defense" lest the vigilantes who are the victims become treated like the bandits. #Naija

Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Is Threatening To Release My Tape – Yusuf Kareem by TheGift: 12:53am On Apr 13, 2023

ExclusiveBet:
https://www.gistreel.com/he-is-threatening-to-release-my-tape-bobrisky-called-out-by-actor-yusuf-kareem-video/

Someone drugged you and made an explicit video of you, and you are coming to social media to cry wolf, instead of running to court to sue? There MUST be something wrong with you, Mr Yusuf.

Properties › Re: 7-Storey Building Collapses In Banana Island, Workers Trapped by TheGift: 12:49am On Apr 13, 2023

ghettochild:
There's a tall building between marina and cbn bank area...that uncompleted building Is about 20 storeys n still standing strong till date..
What's wrong with millenial engineers??

It's less of millennial engineers and more of a lack of/poor development control allowing for unprofessional-ism and corruption.

You hardly hear about building collapse in Abuja because El-Rufy,( whom I don't particularly like) established a strong culture of development control there.

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Properties › Re: 7-Storey Building Collapses In Banana Island, Workers Trapped by TheGift: 12:46am On Apr 13, 2023

[quote author=chokekachy post=122474192]https://thenationonlineng.net/just-in-eight-storey-building-collapses-in-banana-island/

Video:https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0UPbRLDnfcQMxL2L7HsD7gTpsC8kY44KCXJe1w7oB7mkcQGmQrbGHqBdrYVFV715gl&id=100071648022961&mibextid=Nif5oz

Watch the moment the building collapsed

Seven-Storey Building Collapses In Lagos

A seven-storey building under construction has collapsed in Banana Island, Ikoyi area of Lagos State.

The incident happened on Wednesday around past 3 pm. pic.twitter.com/6Ncr8gX4Pt
— Punch Newspapers (@MobilePunch) April 12, 2023

Sanwo, whose touted experience included heading the Lagos States works and housing ministry, Lagos has seen the most spectacular building collapses and remains the building collapse capital of Nigeria.

Politics › Re: Buhari Deserves Commendation For Diversifying From Oil – Femi Adesina by TheGift: 8:53pm On Apr 11, 2023

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Buhari-deserves-commendation-for-diversifying-from-oil-Femi-Adesina

Yes, Buhari diversified to agriculture, but all the policies and investment ended up being in vain because buhari could not stop farmers in the
Major farming regions from being terrorized , killed and driven from their farms and homes, even down to IDP camps. sad

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Politics › Re: Wike On Melaye: Are We Joking? He Does Not Have What It Takes To Be A Governor by TheGift: 2:12pm On Apr 11, 2023

apache4:
FalseProphet1 if you don't return my money before the end of today, i will let the whole World know how you duped/scammed me

But you have already let the whole world know.

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Politics › Re: Tinubu’s Cabinet: Payback Time For Northern APC Governors by TheGift: 3:50pm On Apr 10, 2023

Islie:
https://www.newtelegraphng.com/tinubus-cabinet-payback-time-for-northern-apc-govs/

No one is talking about what is best for the citizenry, everyone is talking about pay back to individual entities. And payback that is NOT based on competence but on ethnicity.

Who has bewitched this country huh

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Crime › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Attacked My Friend's Father In Ogun (Graphic Photos) by TheGift: 9:30am On Apr 05, 2023

steeltrust:
My friend fathers was attacked in ogun state in his farm last week. The old man was marched with cutlass, it was only God that save his life. The matter was reported to the police and they came all the way from Abuja and said there’s nothing they can do.

Imagine in this tech era Nigeria police said there’s nothing they can do. He’s farm scattered, all his hard work for months destroyed and they still want to kill him just because he told them not allow their cow destroy his cassava farm.

Where re we going in this country. Nigeria is sitting on a time bomb and a lot of people don’t know

Picture attached

So sorry and sad to hear this. I wish Him a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹.

Meanwhile some people said Tinubu picked Shettima so that Boko Haram and other Terrorists and bandits will not disturb His government. Let's see how it goes.

Politics › Re: NCC Denies Leaking Peter Obi's Phone Conversation With Oyedepo by TheGift: 9:29pm On Apr 04, 2023

Ezewuzie01:
Like a thief in the night, he appeared; moving about in black attire like a bereaved person whose loved one has just answered the heavenly call. Behind his comely exterior is a bigoted soul: A stoker of flame whose aim is setting Nigeria afire on the woof of tribal and religious differences. He would pretend to love Nigeria publicly in interviews, and gives false information and statistics; but behind the scenes is a soul who jumped into the fray of the presidential election just to put Nigeria on her knees.

A unifier he should be, who would unite a sundered country across tribes and religions, but Peter Obi turned out to be the behemoth of dicey religious bigotry. He would move from one church to the other, turning pulpits into campaign premises, while telling the Christians to “wake up and take back your country.” Really?

Is the Muslim-Muslim ticket the pretext on which the country would be taken from Christians? Are there not countless numbers of Christian-Christian tickets in the past and currently at state levels? The whole of the Southeast, South-south, and Southwest are currently led by Christians; have the Muslims gathered and cried foul that the Muslims should take back their country? Even in the Muslim-dominated north; are there no Christian governors in Plateau, Benue, and Taraba? Are the Muslims unwise for their tolerance?

https://thenationonlineng.net/peter-obi-a-bullet-well-dodged/

"Are there not a countless number of christian-christian tickets in the past?" No there were no countless numberss
"Currently at the state level?" Yes, but mostly in the Christian dominated south
"The whole of the south-south-, and southwest are currently led by Christians" And so, what? same goes for Muslim dominated areas of the North. we are talking about Nigeria, not a state here, stop comparing oranges with apples

Plateau, Benue, and Taraba are not Muslim-dominated states, stop mixing the entire north with the states the same way you should stop comparing states with Nigeria.

In an ethically diverse, very religious, and very low-trust country like Nigeria, leadership must reflect the concept of "federal character" , a Muslim-Muslim ticket, at this very fragile period in Nigeria, does not do that. Elrufai in Kaduna which has an almost equal number of Christians and Muslims disregarded their long-time practice of having Christian-Muslim tickets, see where it has led the once peaceful state to.

If you don't agree, that our leadership needs more ethno-religously , you can go and argue with your dictionary, particularly the parts that have to do with fairness, equity, justice, and diversity.

Politics › Re: What Tinubu Told Us When He First Heard That Peter Obi Won In Lagos - Oyalowo by TheGift: 5:23pm On Apr 04, 2023

LegendHero:
Jagaban is an astute democrat and he understood the game of democracy and the loss and gain.

I’m pretty sure he pre-empted that judging from the religious war Peter Obi waged in that election.

Sanwoolu got the intel too which was why he spent most of his campaign in the churches to redirect the narratives so as not to affect his governorship election chances.

Jagaban know about losses and winnings so I’m sure he won’t lose sleep about the loss of Lagos.

astute democrat that still uses thugs and his grip on Lagos resources to subjugate people? I laugh in agbero.

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Politics › Re: 2023: Buhari Delivered His Promise On Credible Polls – Lai Mohammed by TheGift: 2:17pm On Apr 04, 2023

ogododo:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/04/04/2023-buhari-delivered-his-promise-on-credible-polls-fg/

Lai Mohammed, are these your final lies?

Crime › Re: Man Assaults And Films A Lady Naked For Rejecting His Marriage Proposal In Kogi by TheGift: 6:20pm On Apr 03, 2023

Newsmic:
Man Assaults And Films A Lady Naked For Rejecting His Marriage Proposal In Kogi (Photo)

https://igberetvnews.com/1442364/man-assaults-films-lady-naked-rejecting-marriage-proposal-kogi-photo/

This is the Mad Man that wants to Marry somebody's daughter. Thank God she was not foolish enough to say "Yes" to His proposal.

Politics › Re: 2023: Obi Introduced Religious, Ethnic Politics In Nigeria – Chimaroke Nnamani by TheGift: 5:40pm On Apr 03, 2023

lexylaw40:
Labour party is a terrorist movement

Hahahahahaha, clown 🤡

Politics › Re: 2023: Obi Introduced Religious, Ethnic Politics In Nigeria – Chimaroke Nnamani by TheGift: 5:39pm On Apr 03, 2023

Ylink4sure:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/2023-peter-obi-introduced-religious-ethnic-politics-in-nigeria-chimaroke-nnamani/amp/

Oga, I thought you had gone back to your Original hustle. Loser!

Romance › Re: Nigerian Bride-To-Be Visits Married Boyfriend For 1 Last Sex Before Her Wedding by TheGift: 5:36pm On Apr 03, 2023

nwekeugochukwu:
Nigerian Bride-To-Be Visits Married Boyfriend For One Last Sex Before Her Wedding

Technology Entrepreneur, Osaretin Victor Asemota, has narrated how a Nigerian bride-to-be visited her married boyfriend for one last sexual. Intercourse before her traditional and white wedding, IGBERETV reports.

Asemota wrote on Twitter;

https://twitter.com/asemota/status/1642066469369380866?t=HWBEx17tyUrYYjSVl47iVw&s=19[/quote]If it was just for cash, then it's probably better. But if the last sex was for the sake of enjoying the last and final sex, one last time for the road, then She is just deceiving Herself.

Crime › Re: Police Hold NDLEA Commander As Married Woman Dies In His Room by TheGift: 5:34pm On Apr 03, 2023

dre11:
https://leadership.ng/police-hold-ndlea-commander-as-married-woman-dies-in-his-room/

What is it with all these force Men and other peoples Wives? I have heard so many stories. And they usually never end well (which is probably why I heard them)

Politics › Re: Leaked Audio: It Is Time To Declare Peter Obi A Terrorist - FFK by TheGift: 10:38pm On Apr 02, 2023

Philgafauto:
Ok, so do you trust the corrupt Nigerian judicial system for justice in this matter?

I can't say I don't trust them, and I can say that I do. I can only say that I trust them less than I used too.

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