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Politics › Re: Peter Obi Breaks Silence On UK Ordeal, Apapa & Lai Mohammed's Statement by TheGift: 10:17pm On May 01, 2023
Saga16:
Okuko.

Why then were you deported?
Na wa ooo, it's either you want to exploit some peoples ignorance or you want to remain in yours.


Otherwise, show me a credible link saying that Peter Obi was deported. I am waiting.
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri Signalled Radio Presenter Not To Entertain David Hundeyin Question by TheGift: 10:59pm On Apr 30, 2023
Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WO9K6I_znf8

How Nigerian Diaspora Commission Boss, Abike Dabiri Signalled Radio Presenter Not To Entertain Questions On Itunu Babalola Who Died In Ivory Coast’s Detention



https://saharareporters.com/2021/11/30/how-nigerian-diaspora-commission-boss-abike-dabiri-signalled-radio-presenter-not
Freedom of Speech only if they are not impeached by the speech.
Politics › Re: No Force Can Stop Your Swearing In, We’ll Support You – Ohanaeze To Tinubu by TheGift: 10:50pm On Apr 30, 2023
Image123:
Lolz, you don't need to say in the post i quoted. Your earlier post is the general mindset of Obi supporters, and just a cursory glance at your other posts confirmed it. Lagos and Abuja are just 1 state and the FCT. We have 36 states and the FCT in the country brother. Of these, Tinubu won 13 of those states and got more than 25 per cent votes across two-third states, being a very close second in most states where he lost. Obviously, same cannot be said of Obi who was 3rd and mainly won in the SEast.
As was said for over a year, Obi was only popular online and that showed in the FCT and Lagos votes where Nigeria has her main online audience base. A very strong indicator of an online candidate with no 'structure'.
The first sentence of your response shows that you are quick to make assumptions and jump to conclusions. And unable to take arguments on their own merits without coloring it with preconceived notions.

And as per yout last sentence. You must be one of the few people in Nigeria who are still using the "online candidate" and "no structure" argument, especially after the strong showing that even defeated BAT in His most on ground and most structured base.

Everything else you said in between has been delegitimized by INECs mishandling of the electoral process.

This is bigger than APC or LP, BAT or Obi, it's about justice , not only being done but being seen to be done. INEC failed Nigerians (not Obidients) in this regard, and nothing good can ever come out of evil acts.
Politics › Re: Tinubu's Inauguration: Witches And Wizards Issue Strong Warning by TheGift: 3:05pm On Apr 30, 2023
Alexiiydon:
to read post now Dey hard you wailer the association is even from south south people you want to rope into your Biafra cannibalism
It is you that is tribalizing the issue. They said "Witches & Wizards" full stop. But people like you must always bring up a tribal angle to everything.
Career › Re: When Is The Right Time To Take A Career Break? by TheGift: 1:44pm On Apr 30, 2023
When I was about to quit my last full-time employment, many years ago, to take the Entrepreneurial plunge; a cousin of mine told me the parable of a monkey, that did not let go of one branch until he held onto another.

I told him about the parable of another monkey, who put his hand into a jar, to take out fruit, but could not bring out his hand, until he unclenched its fist and let go of the fruit.

There is no right or wrong answer, you just need to confirm which of the monkey's you are.
Politics › Re: No Force Can Stop Your Swearing In, We’ll Support You – Ohanaeze To Tinubu by TheGift: 8:54am On Apr 30, 2023
Image123:
And Obi your local champion is nationalistic right? Keep playing.
First of all I never said anything about Obi, but if you want to go there, Obi had a more Nationalistic spread than any other candidate. With Lagos & Abuja as very strong indicators.
Health › Re: Erectile Dysfunction by TheGift: 2:39pm On Apr 29, 2023
hashtagged:
And how do you know that retired olosho
She is giving advise that is useful to a lot of Men, and this is your response? This is why some people never learn.
Health › Re: Erectile Dysfunction by TheGift: 2:37pm On Apr 29, 2023
Biglol008:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, pls I need your advice. I’m married 28 years, no children yet. Newly wedded, I have a problem. I don’t last long on bed. I cum very quickly and it takes a long time like 4 hours for me to get another erection and most times it’s not very hard like my first erection.

I was told the nitric oxide in my body is low. Pls I need help. How do I boost my nitric oxide in my body or if there are any supplements let me buy.

I’m afraid if I don’t do anything now my wife might eventually cheat in the future. I no longer have my morning erection like some guys do. I have exercise, did ginger, garlic, bitter Kola nothing seems to be working.

What can I do to remedy my situation. Pls no talk of hospital health wise I’m very okay. No diabetics or anything no infection pls help me so I can save my marriage and my myself.
A lot of your problem is psychological.

The main person you need to discuss this with is your wife, so she can work with you to calm down and take your time.

In the meantime, you have to find other ways to please her in the mean time. While you are gaining your confidence in the other room.
Politics › Re: No Force Can Stop Your Swearing In, We’ll Support You – Ohanaeze To Tinubu by TheGift: 2:33pm On Apr 29, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Sense is getting to some people by fire by force.
You negotiate for power, you make concessions where necessary, you don't create nsogbu nsogbu to get it.
You are speaking from a tribalistic, not a nationalistic perspective, which is what is keeping this country backward.
Politics › Re: No Force Can Stop Your Swearing In, We’ll Support You – Ohanaeze To Tinubu by TheGift: 2:31pm On Apr 29, 2023
hdaveyork:
Daily Post
No force? Not even the force of justice?
Family › Re: How Do You Handle Rumors About Yourself? Share Tips by TheGift: 2:24pm On Apr 29, 2023
First of all, how do you hear all these rumors?

Why do you care so much about what people say about you?

Why would you assault someone for asking you to show him the way?

What is the fire that you are lighting which may be bringing the smoke of rumors?

I think your main issue is that you are too caught up in yourself , and care so much about what people think about you. Hence you are always looking out to hear what people may have to say, and even when they are not saying something , you still hear what you expect them to say. You make assumptions, and jump to conclusions about people's motivations.

You slapped that guy just because you could, why didn't you slap your neighbors wife for confronting you and your maritally disrespectful bet?

And those girls, How did you know they were raising their polo if you were not looking in their direction? And why didn't you go to slap them?

Fact is, you are seeing the world , not as it is, but as you are.
Romance › Re: Men, Why Do You Find It Hard To Post Your Girlfriend On Social Media? by TheGift: 8:19pm On Apr 28, 2023
justyhere:
Most men hate this. Why?
This question is not for Men it is for boys, Men dont have time for such unnecessary and childish, boyfriend and-girlfriend, social-media displays of affection. cheesy
Politics › Re: Meet Tunde Rahman, The Unseen Voice Behind Tinubu by TheGift: 6:38pm On Apr 28, 2023
oikirodah:
Tunde Rahman: The Unseen Voice Behind Tinubu's Incoming Administration


Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah is the Chairman and CEO of Bush Radio Academy.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/tunde-rahman-the-unseen-voice-behind-tinubus-incoming-administration/

Source iReporteronline.
I scored Tinubu's comms less than average. They were mostly always reacting rather than control the narrative.

If #TundeRahman wants to take responsibility for that less than stellar communications, He is free to be my guest.

Bottom line, a compromised INEC , (not anyone else) irresponsibly and incompetently handed the win to Tinubu on a self entitled platter of fading gold.
Career › Re: I Am Approaching 40 And Am Scared My Dreams Are Not Realistic by TheGift: 3:10pm On Apr 28, 2023
greatopec:
Good day Nairalanders
I will be 40 on Oct 19 this year and I am scared the kind of life I have always desired may not be
achievable. Let me list these things that worries me so that you can probably advise me or assist me in achieving any of them.
1) By 40 I had wished I will be living in my house with cars in my garage
Current situation- I am a salary earner who eagerly waits for the salary to drop before my family can eat conveniently every month.
2)I love cars and driving. Was thinking of getting a good car for Uber business.
Current situation- I have not been able to gather enough money to buy a car for Uber or personal use.
3)Seeking greener pasture abroad.
Current situation- I have not been able to have enough disposable income to even get a passport to start with in the first place.
4)Self development. I had interest in programming so I decided to learn coding and all that. I started with free code camp and also this thread by iyenimofe on nairaland has been so helpful https://www.nairaland.com/1383359/learn-web-design-live-nairaland/6#17571611
The issue I have progressing is that of enough data subscription to watch more tutorials.
5)Acquisition of at least Masters.
I have a passion for learning and self development but I struggled to have my HND with distinction. Gathering enough funds to start my masters program has been an uphill task.

Little about my background
I am an HND graduate
I have a sister who am responsible for also.
I have a wife and two kids.
I work 8-5weekdays
The advise that I have to give from experience as a 40+ year old entrepreneur , husband and father and executive coach is not one that can be contained here. And I will still need to tease out some things to help you find your answers.

I can help you explore options over a couple of one hour sessions, AT NO COST. If you are interested , send me an in mail, and we can set it up.

All the best.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi’s Petition Against Tinubu Is An Effort In Futility – Ned Nwoko by TheGift: 9:46am On Apr 28, 2023
Oga keep kwayet. It is not over until it is over.
Romance › Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by TheGift: 9:38am On Apr 28, 2023
One of the causes of this is extreme sexual harassment laws. Especially in countries like Canada where a compliment can be interpreted as harassment. Even their own white women suffer it, not to talk of immigrants.
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Civilian Presidents Of Nigeria In Military Uniforms by TheGift: 8:29am On Apr 28, 2023
I am struggling to imagine the frail, old and sickly Tinubu in any of these uniforms.
Romance › Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by TheGift: 5:41pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why thishuh??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.
I don't understand
Should you cancel the wedding? Do you want to marry a gay Man who has been lying to you and just wants to marry you to cover his real affections? Whatever your answer is, the opposite of that is the answer to your original question.

Should you confront HIm? If you want to continue with the marriage , fooishly,then of course you should confront HIm, except you want to be living a lie in the marriage along with your pretend husband.

You are confused? You want to Run Mad? No you are not confused, because you have just found the truth. You are seeing much clearly than you ever have before. it is your emotions , influencing your mind that is making you feel so confused.

What you need to do is start laughing, laugh and keep laughing until you see the joy in what has just happened, you have just been saved from a loveless and joy less marriage, which would have brought you more misery than you think you are feeling now. Now breathe in, then breather out, breathe in, out.... Rejoice. And again I say rejoice. You will have all this behind you in a few months time. God bless.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Doesn't Want To Debate Ahead Of The 2024 US Presidential Election by TheGift: 12:25am On Apr 26, 2023
nlfpmod:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.yahoo.com/amphtml/trump-suggests-hell-skip-gop-194632600.html
Trump behaving like Criminal and entitled Nigerian Politicians who say it is not necessary to debate the real issues, so people can hear from the horses mouth.

Democracy indeed.
Family › Re: Should I Get My Brother's Wife Arrested, After His Demise? by TheGift: 9:55pm On Apr 25, 2023
dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.

He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.

I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us (in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well.

This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.

I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.

Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40 days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.

Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

Modified
Have you even spared a thought that the Woman is grieving? Your brother made His choice on How he wanted to live his life but you want to blame the Wife.

You have not even sat down with Her to see where she is mentally and emotionally but you are already taking about arresting.

I hope it is not grief that is affecting your capacity to process this. Please calm down and take time to grieve.

Trust that if there is any shady act or will surely be revealed. Don't go and demonize someone who is innocent.

It is well.
Christianity Etc › Re: "Escobar And Osama Bin Laden To Rule A Nation" - David Ibiyomie (Video) by TheGift: 7:48am On Apr 25, 2023
helinues:
Devil incarnation pastor
Why because He doesn't support your drug related President select and terrorist related VP- select?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Already Serving Igbo ‘bread Soaked In Water’ — Nwodo by TheGift: 7:45am On Apr 25, 2023
spiralwedge:
Typically, ipobs use the tactic of “i am not Igbo” or even change their name to respond emotionally like you did.

Hahahahaha we know una well well now.

The only position the SE deserves in this government is that of an official photographer.
You left all the truths I said to grasp unto the most flimsy thing you could, because you cannot deal with the truth of your tribalistic nature. Because you cannot accept defeat.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Already Serving Igbo ‘bread Soaked In Water’ — Nwodo by TheGift: 10:14pm On Apr 24, 2023
seunmsg:
Asiwaju will not be gaslighted into making undue concession to any region: definitely not a region that has refused to move on and accept defeat.
Continue tribalizing and regionalizing the issue .
Only an ostrich will deceive themselves into thinking that the rejection of Tinubu is a tribal issue , when it is very clear that he came in through a very flawed process, that if he had any integrity even he would reject.

I hope you will not advise your children to accept defeat when they have strong reason to believe they have been cheated and when the law allows them to take their grievance to court, like Tinubu did many times before.

If that is what you will advise your children, then you might as well curse them to a life of failure.

P.S. I am not Igbo, so find another insult other than IPOB if that is how you decide to respond. Thanks in advance.
Romance › Re: Lady Introduces Her New Boyfriend To Her Husband & Boyfriend (pics/video) by TheGift: 2:23pm On Apr 24, 2023
officialwdhtv:
Lady introduces her new boyfriend to her husband & boyfriend shocked cheesy

She seems to be in some kind of weird relationship.

Take a listen!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwpyVuzhbbU

Source:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CrZcjLchqI4/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
If this is not really good acting for the ratings, then those guys either gay , bisexual or the very perfect definition of SIMPs!
Family › Re: Dog: I Have The Most Unlikely Rival In My Boyfriends House by TheGift: 12:16pm On Apr 22, 2023
Somehow, I don't believe this story, especially parts like where you suggested he kills the dog.

If it is true however, how do you propose to a Man whom you claim to love, that He should kill something he loves?

You sound like the type that likes to change the their partner to what and who they want, instead of letting them be- as long as they are not being evil and wicked .

You sound like the type that will try and cut him off from friends and family, just because you don't like them, without caring about his own mental and emotional health.

If I were dating you and you asked me to kill my dog, that relationship would be formally over on 48 hours or less. No hard feelings, I would just know that you are DEFINITELY NOT the one.
Phones › Re: 13 Year-old American Boy Dead After Trying Deadly Tiktok “benadryl Challenge” by TheGift: 9:35pm On Apr 20, 2023
Benwallt:
I don't have problem with good sons who don't indulge in lethal escapes. Any son or sons that will make the world a dangerous place deserve to go out early.
Ok. Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Appoints Onanuga, Marwa, 11 Others Into Inauguration Committee by TheGift: 5:32pm On Apr 20, 2023
yinkus6750:
From where is the President Elect nominating and doing his write ups?
For how many weeks now, he hasn't been in the country.
Hope his resting before swearing in, so that he won't have any reason to leave the country in his first six months in office ?
Obasanjo had already warned us. Tinubu will be ruling from outside Nigeria, where he will mostly be receiving treatment. All we will be seeing are Pictures of Him and statements of "the 'President' said, the 'President' said", but we will hardly see Or Hear the "president" say.

I pray He is wrong , but it looks like he may be right
Politics › Re: Tinubu Appoints Onanuga, Marwa, 11 Others Into Inauguration Committee by TheGift: 5:29pm On Apr 20, 2023
hdaveyork:
President-elect, Tinubu appoints Onanuga, Marwa, 11 others into Presidential InaugurationC’ttee



President-elect, Tinubu appoints Onanuga, Marwa, 11 others into Presidential Inauguration
C’ttee
Alleged Drug Baron appoints wife of drug busting Boss to committee?
Crime › Re: UK Father & Son Jailed For Killing Wife's Lover Who Was Hiding Inside Wardrobe by TheGift: 5:04am On Apr 20, 2023
Youbinoni:
Can you blame them?
Yes I can, they were so blinded by their rage they foolishly killed someone who had called the. Police in front of a witness. Not one of them was sensible enough to calm the other one down. Their eyes will be clear now that they have years to think about that moment of madness.
Culture › Re: Video Of Olu Of Warri Playing Basketball by TheGift: 4:54am On Apr 20, 2023
Flight90:
@op angry
News don finish for Nigeria huh

Next thing you'll post, is the Olu of warri swimming 🏊‍♂️ 😒
Even the news headline is fake; He wasn't "play-ING" basketball, he just made a basket with the ball, that's all.
Phones › Re: 13 Year-old American Boy Dead After Trying Deadly Tiktok “benadryl Challenge” by TheGift: 3:49am On Apr 20, 2023
Benwallt:
You think you are alone in this world I guess. The training you give to your child is 20% and the ones he learns out there is 80%. Better pressure dey out there. There is a thing line between sanity and insanity
All I spoke about was my own responsibility as a Father. Plus research shows that kids, especially boys who lack such fatherly and manly guidance early, have a higher tendency to tilt toward insanity.

Anyway, lest we digress My main point is that : you don't have to wish someone dead so that the world MAY be better for your own. There are even murderers who later repented and saved many lives.

Focus on being a good example to your future son(s) and daughter(s), and leave someone else's sons life to God. Ok?
Crime › Re: UK Father & Son Jailed For Killing Wife's Lover Who Was Hiding Inside Wardrobe by TheGift: 8:40pm On Apr 19, 2023
InkredibleHulk:
https://uk.news.yahoo.com/father-son-murder-wife-partner-wardrobe-143935222.html
This is Why we want to keep our emotions in check. Even the defense of provocation is not enough vindication to keep them from incarceration.

Anger is like a flame. If unchecked , anger is like a flame mixed with fuel. The Angrier one is in emotion, the calmer one needs to try and be in action.

Now they all face the consequences. And to the one who paid the Paramount price for p***y - #RIP ... May the good Lord have mercy.

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