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Politics › Re: Abuja Residents File A Law Suit To Stop Tinubu’s Swearing In On May 29 by TheGift: 11:47am On May 13, 2023
Chikwes:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/05/breaking-fresh-suit-seeks-to-stop-tinubus-swearing-in-on-may-29/amp/
In a country where justice prevailed, this would have worked but there seems no justice in Nigeria, yet. But there is divine judgment, and it will surely come.
Politics › Re: Business Man To Induce Child Birth And Name Son Asiwaju On May 29th by TheGift: 11:44am On May 13, 2023
oikirodah:
Anambra State Business Man To Induce Child Birth And Name Son Asiwaju On May 29th 



Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah is the Chairman and CEO of Bush radio Academy.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/anambra-state-business-man-to-induce-child-birth-and-name-son-asiwaju-on-may-29th/

Source iReporteronline.
May 29th is my Sons birthday, I will be too busy having fun with Him, family, and friends, I will not even have a second to spare for watching the "inauguration".
Politics › Re: What The Hausa People Like About The Igbos (Video) by TheGift: 7:39am On May 13, 2023
Politics › Re: What The Hausa People Like About The Igbos (Video) by TheGift: 5:28pm On May 12, 2023
khalling2008:
Northern will never like anything from igbo.
Is it prostitutes from their women they want to copy or

Drugs crime, because most of the youth in northern state have affected by the drugs the ibo transported to their region or

The kidnapping of almajiri children to the south east and converted them to Christianity or

Selling of counterfeit products
Or which one?
Please share a link to one story about kidnapping of almajiri to convert to Christianity. Just one , please.
Politics › Re: Lamidi Apapa Takes Over As The "Authentic Chairman" Of Labour Party (Video) by TheGift: 5:04pm On May 12, 2023
Ola9ja23:
Never mind the IPOB
Ahmadu Bello had said it all about IPOB


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_odAy4rVz8
You people are pushing the archaic tribalistic narratives that can plunge this nation into crises. And when a stone is thrown into the Market you don't know who it is going to land on.
Politics › Re: Court Ruling On NBC Can’t Stand – Information Ministry by TheGift: 3:15pm On May 12, 2023
treesun:
https://punchng.com/court-ruling-on-nbc-cant-stand-information-ministry/
It is still the same courts, that the NBC will appeal to, and it is still the supreme court that will give the final interpretation. NBC has become so draconian that news media are not reporting on other things that are out there with evidence from other media. I foresee a very tyrannical NBC under a Tinubu presidency, especially if Lai is there because the opposition against Tinubu is not going to end IF he is finally inaugurated.
Family › Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Sister? by TheGift: 12:40pm On May 12, 2023
RoyalBlu:
It's been over three weeks now I lost my younger sister to death. I'm still finding it really difficult to get myself together.

The pain of losing her so untimely has shaken me to my roots. The tears won't stop coming.

I've been told to try and move on and be strong. But howhuh embarassed
So sorry to hear. Loss is a painful thing that all Humans must go through.

I wasn't sure how to say what I wanted to say, but I found some excerpts, please see below;

“The pain has a role to play. It will clean something, refresh something, awaken something. Many people, their true spiritual life blossomed out of tragedy and pain. Mooji

"Mourning the loss of a close friend or relative takes time, but research tells us that it can also be the catalyst for a renewed sense of meaning that offers purpose and direction to life.

Grieving individuals may find it helpful to use some of the following strategies to help them process and come to terms with loss:

Talk about the death of your loved one with friends or colleagues in order to help you understand what happened and remember your friend or family member. Avoidance can lead to isolation and will disrupt the healing process with your support systems.

Accept your feelings. You may experience a wide range of emotions from sadness, anger or even exhaustion.

All of these feelings are normal and it’s important to recognize when you are feeling this way. If you feel stuck or overwhelmed by these emotions, it may be helpful to talk with a licensed psychologist or other mental health professional who can help you cope with your feelings and find ways to get back on track.


Take care of yourself and your family. Eating healthy foods, exercising and getting plenty of sleep can help your physical and emotional health. The grieving process can take a toll on one’s body. Make sure you check in with your loved ones and that they are taking the necessary healthy steps to maintain their health.

Reach out and help others dealing with the loss. Spending time with loved ones of the deceased can help everyone cope. Whether it’s sharing stories or listening to your loved one’s favorite music, these small efforts can make a big difference to some. Helping others has the added benefit of making you feel better as well.

Remember and celebrate the lives of your loved ones. Anniversaries of a lost loved one can be a difficult time for friends and family, but it can also be a time for remembrance and honoring them. It may be that you decide to collect donations to a favorite charity of the deceased, passing on a family name to a baby or planting a garden in memory.

What you choose is up to you, as long as it allows you to honor that unique relationship in a way that feels right to you."

I wish you the very best on this journey, you will come out stronger and better on the other side. Amen.
Celebrities › Re: Bashir, El-Rufai’s Son Mocks Falz For Doing Surgery Abroad (Photo) by TheGift:
Greattie08:
Is Bashir a Govt official? Stop HYPOCRISY now be it stop you...
What kind of foolish and illogical argument is this? How are you comparing Bashir and Falz, when you should be comparing Falz "the activist" with the politicians that Falz is carrying out His activism against (like Bashir's Father) who failed to fix hospitals or pay doctors?

You need to learn how to make logical arguments, my friend.
Celebrities › Re: Bashir, El-Rufai’s Son Mocks Falz For Doing Surgery Abroad (Photo) by TheGift: 11:07am On May 12, 2023
Saga16:
Falz deserves to be mocked.

grin
You and Bashir El-Rufai should be mocked, because if APC and His Father had done thier Job, Nigerian Doctors would not have fled the country in droves, and He may not have needed to go abroad. The joke is on you.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What's The Most Insensitive Question(s) A Recruiter Has Ever Asked You? by TheGift: 5:52pm On May 11, 2023
[quote author=QuinModah post=123070014][/quote]Many recruiters come to recruitment with an air of superiority. Meanwhile, they may not be able to talk to some of those candidates eye to eye on a very good day. Your job as a recruiter is to find the person's fitness (or otherwise) for the role. Not to make them feel small or uncomfortable, or begin to act as a counselor for their personal affairs. It is highly unprofessional.
Politics › Re: President-Elect Tinubu Departs Nigeria For Europe On Working Visit by TheGift: 6:03pm On May 10, 2023
ipobarecriminals:
U sure go Enjoy President Tinubu govt. If he nor perform to expectations, we go support another candidate. Till then, believe in Tinubu cool
I pray so. And thanks for being hopeful and open minded.
Romance › Re: My Experience At A Ghanaian Beach by TheGift: 5:54pm On May 10, 2023
webdevprof:
For real... And we get the guts to back it up, while ur own people rely on old tribalistic tales.

If you price some Yoruba men you go pay. Na so be life. ✌🏾
Lol, you don't even know where I am from and you are talking about my own people. It makes you sound stupid.

Meanwhile, "E le nu" was not meant as a compliment. Rather people from my south south part of the country tend to see you guys as noise makers, always threatening and making mouth ( Ma gba e leti, ma gba e l'oju) with no real action.
Family › Re: I Have Impregnated Another Girl Against The One I Love. What Should I Do Now? by TheGift: 5:46pm On May 10, 2023
dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for
Take responsibility for your actions and for your child. But you must not marry the mother of your child just cos you impregnated Her. But remember she remains the mother of your child.
Politics › Re: President-Elect Tinubu Departs Nigeria For Europe On Working Visit by TheGift: 5:43pm On May 10, 2023
ipobarecriminals:
grin The Pigs back home will continue to cry
Continue. Like the consequences of Tinubu's health issues and other inconsistencies will only be felt by those you call "pigs".
Politics › Re: President-Elect Tinubu Departs Nigeria For Europe On Working Visit by TheGift: 5:41pm On May 10, 2023
nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/fkeyamo/status/1656297748973645824
Working Visit outside Nigeria. Very funny. They should continue fooling themselves. How long will Tinubu hide from Nigerians?
Family › Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by TheGift:
victorVIC1:
I have a male kid that is about 3 years old and I recently observed that a particular kid in the compound that is 2 months older than him always attempt to bully him at sight.

The few times this have happened in my presence, I restrained my son from retaliating cos the boy in question is autistic. Though my wife also informed me, there was a day my son fought back and the boy stopped his bullying attempt for a while afterwards.

This morning my son was about to leave for school. Immediately he came out of the apartment, the boy ran towards him and hit him. Once more, I stopped my son from hitting him back but this time his mum (my neighbour) experienced the scenario and only made a remark to the boy to stop looking for trouble. I felt she made the remark just to create an impression that she was concerned.

I've been feeling so uneasy about this since morning and this is obviously a bullying case and I'm subtly training my kid to tolerate it. Hence, I've concluded that the next time such will happen, I will ask my boy to fight back.

Just to have your opinion on this matter, is fighting back the best approach in this situation putting into consideration the health condition of the bully ?
What's the alternative? Ask your kid to take a beating.

Well, I don't know about fighting , but I think it is ideal to train your kids to stand up from themselves and never back down, even from a bigger bully. Because even if they lose the fight, they can keep their self respect. And the Bully will not try them again.

Focus on teaching your kids self defense and immobilizing skills. They don't necessarily have to fight back. But they should never run away in fear of their peers. This is how they build self confidence.

If the bully is an autistic kid then it's a special case and the above may not apply. However your kid should learn how to operate out of empathy and not hate or fear.

You on the other hand need to talk to that kids mother; not as a fight or complaint but as one parent to another. Ask how she deals with it and she thinks your kid can deal with it.

All the best.
Romance › Re: My Experience At A Ghanaian Beach by TheGift: 3:13pm On May 10, 2023
webdevprof:
Next time, don't allow such things to slide. Someone tried to drown you because of a woman, you should have at least snapped his pics & report to the police.

I don't know your tribe, but as Yoruba man wey I be, I no go allow person like that go. Like I said earlier, even if na 1-2 punch, I must burst him mouth that day, make everybody gather ontop the matter judge am.

Next time, he won't try such with Nigerians...
As a Yoruba Man? Ok now, like your people say "E le nu"
Politics › Re: INEC, APC, Bola Tinubu Footdrag Over Atiku's Request For Live Proceedings by TheGift: 6:20pm On May 09, 2023
ItooWorWor:
We urge the court to permit the televising of the proceedings, especially at this critical moment in the nation,” Mr Uche pleaded.

Nonsense request.
And what is Nonsensical about it? Are you scared?
Crime › Re: 67-Year-Old Russian Mum Hired Hitman To Kill Her Children Over Inheritance by TheGift: 4:36pm On May 09, 2023
Karlovych:
embarassed It seems the yamlegger spirit got hold of the woman, she needs deliverance. Spits!
The way you people throw tribal slurs, without thinking of the larger negative impact that such generalizations can have. Continue, that is how Rwanda started, and they are still recovering till today.
Business › Re: Femi Otedola: Tony Elumelu Has Backstabbed Me Many Times - Premium Times by TheGift: 12:51pm On May 09, 2023
Kellie069:
Could this be true? Mr Tony said so many nice thing about Ote$. He even called him his brother and partner . He even went ahead to reveal that he follows just him and his wife on IG .
So that He can get more information on how to backstab Ote$.
Family › Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by TheGift: 4:46pm On May 08, 2023
IkeIgboNile:
This is the first topic i have created since i joined this forum.
For a while now, my mind has been restless, i haven't spoken to my father since i left his house on January 5 2023. We had an argument and i left some days later. I wasn't angry when i left, i just wanted to give him space and find my own way as a man. Though I'm his first born son and his exact replica but we are so different and share very different views.
Some days ago, i called him and was very angry at me and ended the call before i could say anything and he has refused to pick up my calls since then.
I really don't understand why he's angry at me or why he's not taking my calls but i have decided to stop calling him and let him be.

Please any positive advise,will be greatly appreciated.
Every Man gets to this point, where He needs to assert Himself as His own Man in the eyes of His Father. It is not always frictionless.

You have made your point. Good thing you said you are not angry. Now you need to Go and see Him face to face. Find out why He is angry without having any agenda of His own. Whatever the issue is , let him know you feel sorry that He feels that way. And take responsibility for any thing that you May have done or not done.

You and your Father must not see eye to eye on everything , in order for you to be at peace him.

The longer you wait, the harder it will become. Don't let it get to six months. Don't let it become too late.
Foreign Affairs › Re: 199: There Have Been More Mass Shootings In The US In 2023 by TheGift: 2:24pm On May 08, 2023
lhordspy:
5Months Into 2023, 199 Mass Shooting Recorded Already In US. Projected 720

In total, so far in 2023, 14,672 people have died due to gun violence, including more than 8,000 people through suicide by gun, as well as more than 6,000 who were the victims of homicide, murder, and unintentional shootings.

The Figures Are Shocking

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12056371/amp/


SKY NEWS

https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.sky.com/story/amp/americas-10-most-deadly-mass-shootings-of-2023-12875292

Mynd44 nlfpmod
Going by last year's statistics , I predicted that his year would be the worst. But even
I am shocked as we are not even half way through the year yet.
Family › Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by TheGift: 2:22pm On May 08, 2023
eepeepook:
Let’s pause talking about waist beads for once.

This is a topic which affects many Nigerians. Funny enough, I’ve never seen it posted here. I know very well some members have experienced it.

How will you cope with discovering your father had a secret family? I can imagine the rage and betrayal I’ll go through from such revelation. Many learned of it after the death of their fathers. Some accept the new family while few reject them completely.

What will you do? Has it happened to you? Do you know anyone who’s faced the situation?
Well, as far as His kids are concerned, the same blood flows through your veins, and the same natural rights should accrue to them as with any other legitimate child of His. Besides , they did not have a say in the matter. Love always conquers all.
Career › Re: 5 Top Soft Skills Employers Look Out For Today. by TheGift: 8:08am On May 06, 2023
Recruitetech:
5 Top soft skills employers look out for Today.

Every employer wants you to deliver value, and these are some of the soft skills needed to bring out the value in you.

1. Communication skills
2. Team work.
3. Positive Attitude.
4. Adaptability.
5. Critical Thinking and Problem-Solving. .
These are the top soft skills employers have been looking for forever , not just today.

They apply not only to work, but also play and life with friends and family.
Politics › Re: 20 UK Properties Linked To Tinubu & His Associates - Premium Times by TheGift: 3:30pm On May 05, 2023
EKONGKING:
Go to court and seize it, all this slander won't work .
Elections are over.

Meanwhile India main opposition leader and son and grandson of 3 prime ministers and Scion of one of world leading political families have sent to 2 years for defamation and character assassination, he lost his house and his M.P seat .
When Premium Times leaked Obi's private conversation did you call it slander?

Go and check the meaning of "Slander" in a Law Dictionary, first, before you come and post about it.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerians Will Employ A Chef & Turn Him Into Nanny, Gateman, Others For N17,500 by TheGift: 3:25pm On May 05, 2023
benjackugo:
Nigerians Will Employ A Chef And Turn Him Into Nanny, Gateman For N17,500 - BBNaija’s Tochi

Big Brother Naija star, Tochi, has called out Nigerians who overwork their domestic staff, IGBERETV reports.

In a post shared on his Instastories, Tochi stated that a Nigerian will employ a chef and use him or her for other domestic activities while paying the person a static salary.

His post read;



https://igberetvnews.com/1444368/nigerians-will-employ-chef-turn-nanny-gateman-n17500-bbnaijas-tochi/
Anyone who collects 17k naira is not a "Chef". Just a hungry cook that is desperate for work. Or a desperate job seeker willing to do anything for work, including cooking, and not because it is their core skill.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russian & Ukrainian Politicians Fight During Summit In Turkey (Video) by TheGift: 11:43am On May 05, 2023
WriterNig:
In your little mind the war started on Feb 24 2022? Russia is the aggressor right?

What if i told you the war was started by Ukraine and their western backers. I have old articles to prove it.

If you don't have deep knowledge about something It's best you don't comment at all
What about the older articles before this old one ?

All we know is that this current Ukraine war was crudely and miscalculatedly started by Russia . They could have at least waited for A more opportune time, but for this one, the blame is all on Putin and He has only succeeded in weakening His position and driving more of His Neighbour's into joining NATO.

Even their strongest ally China is reaching out to Ukraine. The war is obviously not making sense any more.
Family › Re: My Husband Hates Me For Giving Birth To Three Girls – Housewife Tells Court by TheGift: 10:46pm On May 03, 2023
ijustdey:
https://thenationonlineng.net/my-husband-hates-me-for-giving-birth-to-three-girls-housewife-tells-court/
She should inform Her Husband that it is whatever the Man gives Her that the Woman would incubate. In simple English; it is the Man that determines the Sex.

So if anyone should be beaten for what they cannot control, it is the Man.

But he deserves mercy because he is suffering from low self esteem that is driven by ignorance and/or an undue influence of ignorant societal expectations. All of this made worse by a complete lack of understanding the purpose of marriage, which is less about conception and more about companion-ship.

Marry someone that you don't mind growing old with, even if you don't have children. ( If it is about children , you don't need marriage to have them)
Politics › Re: Bloomberg Posted The Seyi Tinubu Property Story Across All Their Platforms by TheGift: 1:22pm On May 03, 2023
Frank688915:
Baba you dey talk rubbish, who is saint among all contestants, by the way we voted for competency, Tinubu already prove that, not the package obi that was coursed several times by his anambra brothers during his tenure but hating for Tinubu from you religious bigot have blind most to see.
Which competence has Tinubu proved? Which developmental investment has Tinubu ever made? I am waiting please.
Politics › Re: Bloomberg Posted The Seyi Tinubu Property Story Across All Their Platforms by TheGift: 1:21pm On May 03, 2023
Timmi:
Is it a crime for a company to purchase property?
Is it a crime for someone to own a company?
Or is it because the company that bought the property has someone named Seyi Tinubu working in the company?

But it becomes news because the person happens to be Tinubu’s child.
And does it matter that the property was bought in 2007?

But because Bloomberg journalist that is sympathetic to the ObiZombies posted the transaction that happened in 2017 in 2023, it becomes news to the pull-me-down-syndrome of the wailers and the ObiZombies.

There is a lack of common sense and decency with these set of people.
You forgot to talk about the part where they said the property was linked to fraud.( Why is Tinubu always linked to fraud? ) please talk about that part, we are waiting.
Politics › Re: Bloomberg Posted The Seyi Tinubu Property Story Across All Their Platforms by TheGift: 1:19pm On May 03, 2023
Frank688915:
una go cry tire, may 29 is approaching...
Is that all you are going to say to the news. Is Bloomberg a Nigerian or a Nigerian company that is wailing?

You are not even willing to think about the implication of Tinubu's son having 11 million to buy a house linked to fraud? Or you don't know that the impact of such looting of our commonwealth will not select between the wailers and hailers?

Please come up with a more reasonable and thinking response to the allegations that this evasive one.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Breaks Silence On UK Ordeal, Apapa & Lai Mohammed's Statement by TheGift: 1:06pm On May 02, 2023
donself9:
Why not also show us a credible link that shows Peter Obi was indeed impersonated

its close to a month, and no one has a clue who impersonated Obi or for what purpose ? for a country like Uk does that add up
It is He who alleges that must prove. I have not made any claims here, so try something else, while you are trying to evade the question.

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