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Why couldn't you call the police or what stopped you from picking up the phone and dialing their number?

Congratulations to him and his beautiful wife.

Myob

Just skating by...

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This NL will not injure somebody with laughter. It seems your post is a serious one but your writeup is just hilarious. I don't have any advice for you. I may be back to advice you once I stop laughing 😅😁😁😅🤣

6 kids? I rarely see people with 4 kids here, let alone 6, but in Nigeria y'all just have kids like something else. And most of these people having kids anyhow cannot take care of them, smh.

Do what you think it's best for you.

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Last Saturday of the year. Thank You, Jesus 🙏

FatherCHRISTMAS:
I doubt anyone would run away for 20 years without looking back

Read my posts again. Reading comprehension is important.

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Lmao, Asian and white women wear wigs and attachments. The fact that you think they don't is laughable. Some of them even do wig reviews on YouTube.

May he rest in the bosom of the Lord. Amen

Congratulations to him.

ThaFirstLady:
Imagine! Mtcheww. You'd be amazed that this man might not be taking care of her to package herself and she might be struggling managing with him.

Right. What is stopping him from giving her money or whatever she needs with regards to her "improving her appearance?". He calls this woman his fiancée. He should be able to polish her to his liking.

Smh. This is why I frown upon pre-marital sex. God knew what He was doing when He advised against it.

After 6-years and having a kid with her without marriage, you want to chase after someone new (because that's likely what it is). Ladies need to choose better.

Omg, how sickening, sending photos of his private parts to a 14-year old and planning to meet her the next day for sex. I just love the no-nonsense woman interrogating him. She said "That's not sex but rape, because she's under 16". I guess he forgot the UK isn't Nigeria where men can get away with being paedophiles and rapists. What a sicko.

People just need to go out and vote next November to make sure he doesn't win again.

From that your photo and from other photos of you that you've posted on NL that I can recall, you're neither skinny nor fat, but your weight is good. If you gain any more, then you will be fat. This mentality in Nigeria that being fat = being healthy is quite absurd.

Using suicide to threaten people is not cool.

Well, the money is meant for the child and not the husband, therefore he has no right to "demand" it. I reckon he wants to pocket it or use it for his own interests. The money should remain with the mother of the child whom it was sent to; she should decide what should be done with it.

Eeya. My condolences.

He just went to chill with Jesus for some time. You're going to see him again. May he rest in the bossom of the Lord. Amen.

May his soul rest in eternal peace. Amen

And despite him telling you that, you want to go back to him? A broken home in which you're raising your kids by yourself but in a healthy, sane environment that's conducive to their wellbeing is better than an abuse, unhealthy home in which your lives are at risk. It's best you continue moving forward and not look back. This is not a man you should go back to.

As for you fending for your kids yourself, why don't you just file for divorce in order to get child support from him? Based on your other threads that I just read, you mentioned you were paying for everything when living together anyway, so it's no surprise he's not giving you a dime now to take care of them. You picked the wrong man to have kids with, dang. Just face front and keep moving forward. I wish you the best.

Newborn27:

We lived together for and he left the week we ought to be 10yrs...this whole drama started in 2021 and we've been living apart ...I have sense... it's my belief and emotions that's making me look stupid.


My mentor said we were childish at initial stage when the drama began until he left the kids and I.....my mentor never for once agree I go back to him cos he already saw everything I've been and going through....he kept encouraging me to move on and see strength in my weakness


When he came around in August...I was severally scolded by my mentor... family members and friends for being stupid again.


My kids are growing well.... especially my 9yrs+ boy whom had the first hand experience of everything.....I just don't want to raise them in a broken home.... they're doing well and God is helping us.

I hope to be strong going forward.....every other person sees strength in me while I feel otherwise.



I pay our rent.. kids tuition...my tuition...daily upkeep and utilities.... it's just absurd how he never cared about it all...was the 10yrs of living together a fraud? Am I being used all along? These and many more were the questions I do ask myself.


When I try telling him how the kids are asking about him... he'd say he's been living fine without us and would continue to be...those words hurts.

Xosh:
Lalasticlala is still very much around.
I love snooping in on this thread to view beautiful and salivating dishes from our wonderful chefs.

Unfortunately a certain omooba969 with his thousands of monickers spoilt this beautiful thread

Hopefully we're not going to see his monicker for a very long time.
And I'll continually get his other monickers Banned starting with tranquility1234,KanUse and the rest

Has he and his other monikers been banned? I'm so tired of coming here and seeing his posts.

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These comments are hilarious. 😁😁😅😅

BlueRayDick:
Sorry , I got tired of the trolls and those who engage them here …. I zoned out .

They've really ruined this place by the constant and intentional chaos they come in here to cause. That must be why beautifulhearted Descarado no longer posts either. This thread isn't the same without some of you good peeps in it.

She was wrong to have slapped you twice (where did she get the audacity to be slapping you?) and I understand that you were patient enough with her abuse and provocation but got to the point in which you could no longer handle them and did what you did. That said, you should've left the scene or ask her to leave before things got out of hand. I don't understand why you're living together when you're not yet married anyway. This serves as a precedent to what's to come if you marry this person, therefore you need to end this relationship because you don't want to end up killing each other someday.

How much is rice that you cannot buy for your own mom and hers? Is rice that expensive in Nigeria? Christmas is once a year; you should be able to buy them something.