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Smh

What is disgraceful, disappointing and appalling there?
These adjectives ought to describe you, along with DISGUSTING, which is what you are if you're judging this woman on her eulogy to her late husband. It's not your place to judge whatever she wrote on there. I read the comments on that thread and was utterly disgusted and you're just as disgusting for opening this thread to continue talking rubbish. Nigerians and misplaced priorities; no wonder the country is messed up. Leave her alone!

13 is a sensitive age. If she's acting out, it's because she's not happy. At 13, she's going through lots of hormonal changes (e.g. puberty), so that alone can cause behavioral changes. Besides physiological factors, environmental factors (home and school) must be contributing to her unhappiness. How is her school life: is she being teased or bullied? How is her home life: do you treat her differently than her siblings (e.g. favoritism)?, how is her relationship with her stepmom?, how about her mom - does she keep in touch with her?

Everyone is shouting send her back to Nigeria, but don't do that, as you're going to create more disruption in her life. Try and get her into therapy/counseling and have her pour her mind using the above questions, preferably via a trained professional (e.g. Psychologist, Therapist). With the right help, she will change.

How horrible

Take heart, m'am.

May his soul rest in peace. Amen

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, COCOCANDY. 🎊🎈🎂

Faithfulness= N300
Loyalty= N200
Romantic = N200
Hygiene= N200

Eeya

Happy 1st birthday to your three little ones. God bless them, IJN. Amen.

She couldn't take the child to the hospital to get her proper treatment and now she doesn't want to take her to a public cemetary or her father's home to bury her properly? She must be a very useless somebody with her nonchalantness. She has no business burying the child in your compound, so of course you shouldn't allow it.

Her family (parents, siblings, etc), the child's father or the father's family (his parents, siblings, etc), none of them can help her with taking the body to the appropriate burial site? Are they even aware that the child is deceased? If they come looking for the child, you would have some explaining to do on why you allowed her to bury the child in your compound. You don't bury someone in secret, so better ask her to involve these people now and then let them sort it out by taking the body to the appropriate burial location, but allowing her to bury the child in your compound should be a no-no. That she had the audacity to ask that and that you yourself are considering it is baffling.

Lol

Happy birthday to your son. I wish him many more wonderful years to come. He will achieve all of his dreams, IJN. Amen!

Re: second photo with the other lil' kids: They're all so adorable. It looks like the lil' girl at the front lost her left shoe? She's only wearing one shoe, lol. How cute.

Happy birthday, big boy!

Awesome!

NOETHNICITY:
Of course not, I am not a fool. I cannot agree with him.

So you agree with his statement or what is your point? It's only in Nigeria that religions and religious denominations must be turned into unnecessary competition.

NOETHNICITY:
Whether you like it or not, Christianity today (particularly in Nigeria) is a competition.

I have seen a 2 churches in same building (same building has a total of 4 churches) fighting over someone coming in for ‘worship’ (I don’t believe there is anything spiritually devine in Christianity). One of the ushers was insisting that the guy had previously attended service their church upstairs, while the other one insisted that the guy was coming into their own church before the guy upstairs hijacked him.
I’m not a Christian but it was so embarrassing

Bow to who na? A Pastor shouldn't be talking carelessly like this, not in a country like Nigeria where religion has created enough division and chaos. This church will soon turn into a cult.

She should learn to keep this private. The world does not need to know all these.

Dang. From 7m to 3m? You gave him a good deal, hence it was your loss and his gain. One would think he would play fair thereafter but like the typical Nigerian, he used to opportunity to go gangster and roughen the whole thing up in your eyes, attempting to claim a car that's not his. He's no different from a thief. You gotta be smarter next time! Futhermore, if the car's this great, you shouldn't have been so quick to sell it, at least not for a price that wasn't up to its worth. You also shouldn't have accepted the payment in installments; you were already selling it at a much lower price and if he couldn't pay in full upfront, you shouldn't have released the car to him. Lastly, next time, know the type of person you're doing business with; if they're of poor character and ethics, take your business elsewhere.

Missowombo:
Well, it may be something close to this. I spent 7million Naira for the purchase of that car and was to sell at only 3m. The car is neat, elegant, commands so much stare and respect wherever I drive to. I sparingly drove the vehicle as I was trying to conserve fuel.

Submit what car keys and documents to him? He has a lot of audacity making such demands, not to mention hijacking the car after you've returned his money. Next time, you need to think things like this through before proceeding and you should also document every transaction and with signatures just so it wouldn't be a case of 'He said, she said'.

Missowombo:
I was also searching for a replacement at this time hoping to use the money realized from the sales to get my preferred ride. My preferred ride prices were shockingly high such that even if I doubled the price I gave to my neighbour it will still not be enough to buy the new ride.

Does that mean you sold it to him for a cheap price? No wonder he doesn't want to let it go. He got a nice car and for a cheap price (because you just wanted to hurridly make money from it) - a deal he wouldn't have been able to get elsewhere. That was simply poor business on your part.

Just 1. Maximum 2, if I'm super hungry. But I won't eat more than that in one sitting; I'm not trying to turn into a whale.

My schools are on there.

Omg

How long have you two been dating?

Awww. He must've been a wonderful human and it shows in the way he was celebrated. May his soul rest in eternal peace. Amen

Lols

Kc3000:
Can Nigerian lawyers equally practice in the same capacity in the UK? Just asking, because our folks in government sabi mumu.

Is it everytime they want to be changing coaches? The man led them to this point. He should be retained. I'm sure he will examine his mistakes and do better next time.

What do you argue about and who starts the arguments? It seems you left out important details for people to get a clear picture of your situation. Unless your husband is an unreasonable man or he's tired of the marriage, I doubt he would ask you to leave just like that, and it's odd that his brother/your BIL would co-sign with him.

Helicopters show no mercy when they crash. For there to have been five crashes last year, he/they should've taken the hint and stop getting on that helicopter, or just get on a plane and fly first class. It's not by force to use helicopter, smh. I know they're faster than planes but your lives are more important than the speed at which you will get to your destination.

May their souls rest in the bosom of the Lord. Amen

So the brother fought you and bit you, causing you to bleed, and you also took a bottle to break his head? All these over what na? You already paid the dowry, and you went back to her village (three more times) to pay again just to make her family (namely her troublesome father and brother) happy but they gave you nothing but wahala each time. Your village people who followed you there to support you really tried for you, following you there two more times after the initial insulting visit only to be met with insults and wahala again.

Based on what you wrote about your wife coming to your place of work to insult you, going out on Mondays and coming back on Fridays, leaving the kids for you, then she's no different from her family. It seems you didn't know her or her family before jumping into the marriage. You said you met in 2010 and it was soon after meeting that you agreed to marrying her. You kinda have to do your due diligence before marrying someone. Anyways, you've been at this for 13-years and counting. Before they give you stroke or kill you before your time, it might be best to walk away from this troublesome marriage and family, and co-parent/take care of your kids financially from afar.

This is so sad. I wonder what could've happened, like was the weather a factor (e.g. fog)? We've had several foggy mornings here; I wonder if it's the same there. Or mechanical failure? Or Tired Pilot? Anyways, I know they will investigate, if they've not already begun investigating. I hope he had a will in place and his remaining kids will be taken care of. I don't want to hear of greedy family members wanting to take over this man's money and properties, leaving the kids with peanuts.

What a tragic event. May his soul and all the departed souls (e.g. his wife and son) on that helicopter rest in peace.

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