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For the sake of your children's wellbeing, health and mental health, please leave. Based on your post, they're already being badly affected by their father's habits, so please leave that place and go give them a healthier, saner upbringing elsewhere.

Ok, *continues eating sushi and drinking blueberry juice*.

In a developed country like this there're no issues with the economy, at least not to the point where I've to worry about how many kids to have. There're even financial perks from the gov't when you've kids. That said, I only want one or two kids.

How can you say the house you're living in can easily be yours? That is your mother's house, not yours. Get away from there.

From your post, you also have a wife a kids, so all of you are living there and inconveniencing the woman. Shame on you.

Wrong thread.

osuolale95:
You said it right, but I didn’t see it as intentionally. Grandma is old, and he is the only child of our grandma and who knows it is time for him to return home

You said he came to "pick up two shirts and he said he is coming" and never returned home since then. That sounds like someone who knew what he was doing. Was he going through anything at the time that you knew of? Any mental illness? In any case, did y'all go to the police to report him as a missing person? Did you put up posters with your contact numbers for people to get in touch with y'all if they spotted him? Did you put his pictures up on social media? Or you're now just trying to find him 20-years later? Because these are actions you should've taken immediately because someone might've seen him somewhere not long after and that could've helped with locating him.

Anyways, I pray he's still alive and well, IJN. In your previous post, you said he's your grandma's only son but here you're saying he's her only child. Does grandma have other kids? I understand it must be tough either way not seeing her son all these years and not knowing what has happened to him. If he's still alive, I pray for God to lead him home soon, IJN. Keep up the faith and do your best to cheer up grandma.

Are you sure you didn't cheat on her before? Or maybe she saw something on the phone - do you chat with other women? If I tell you the number of married Nigerian men who message me on FB, you will be sick, but I don't waste time before blocking them. The way these married men chase after single women is really pathetic.

osuolale95:
The last time we saw him, he just came home pick up two shirts and he said he is coming. That was the last time we saw him

It sounds like this was an intentional disappearance then, meaning he went away intentionally and most likely does not want to return home. It's either he's still alive and will never return home (why he chose to leave in the first place isn't something anyone can answer), or will someday return (although if 20-years have gone by, the likelihood of him returning are next to nil), OR he is no longer on earth.

If not for Nairaland, I wouldn't know anything about Nigeria. Some of you corrupting this place should not ruin it for the rest of us, abeg.

Can someone explain what exactly happened? I read something about abuse reports. People on NL are abusive, for sure, and I can see how things must've gotten outta hand. I hope Seun will finally do something about that, otherwise he may lose his website, because what happened will definitely happen again if changes are not made.

Did he just up and leave, or what do you mean by you've been looking for him? Perhaps something has happened to him and he's no longer alive? If he's alive, does he want to be found? It's not uncommon for people to disappear and create a new life for themselves, hence that could be the case, that is, if he's still alive.

That's right!!! 👏👏👏

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Thou shalt not use the name of the Lord thy God in vain. ~ Exodus 20:7

Did you date appropriately [no sex, no rushing into the marriage because of pregnancy] before marrying him? Because if you dated properly, you would've gotten to know him well, along with this unnamed addiction that was likely there before the marriage and determine whether you two were compatible before moving forward into the marriage.

Don't put anything in the envelope. You're not his atm and not obligated to be giving him money at his requests.

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So they should join and go lose their lives too or what the heck is he telling them?

Iyabo Ojo has tried for a lot of people. Nigerians are just an ungrateful bunch. Naira Marley or whatever his name is will sure lose if he attempts suing.

That awesome. Congratulations

Why are some men in the thread saying the woman cheated? OP clearly said they parted because his mom didn't like her but y'all are making up stories up there.

'I'm sorry'. It doesn't take much to say those 3 words, but when you're begging someone to say them, then iunno.

He cheated on you with two women but somehow flipped the script on you to blame you? Make that make sense. Girl, you should've done the breaking up. You need to up your standards and self-worth.

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Wow. May her soul rest in peace. She needs to have a whole street named after her.

The first fish is so pretty. What is the name?

Enjoy

Wow, that is pathetic if they've no free wifi. I can't imagine being at Airports with no free wifi. Before you even step into an Airport here, the wifi page will automatically come on your phone and tell you to sign in.

That's because you're yet to meet the right woman. Keep looking.

This year, hmmm. The way my God came through in several ways. I'm filled with gratitude. Jesus reigns. 🙏

If I'm making for myself, between one to two. I put lots of stuff in them (shrimps, salmon, one whole onion, garlic, peppers, etc) that are filling, so no need to make more than that. If I'm making for others, then yes, I'll make more.