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RomanceRe: I Regret Not Making My Marriage Work, And Now My Husband Is Happily Remarried by thinkmoney(m): 5:40pm On Aug 14, 2023
squash47:
Congratulations to him.
A cooked up piece to scare women into submission
PoliticsRe: Obi Recounts Last Week's Activities, Assures Nigerians Of His Commitment... by thinkmoney(m): 5:35pm On Aug 14, 2023
Taylor90:
Low key I’m very happy Obi was robbed by INEC

Imagine it was Obi that damaged Nigeria and it’s economy half of what this urine device has done

APC supporters would have acted like if it was Tinubu the economy would have been better than USA

It’s good that the rubbish they voted in is the one doing this colossal damage
Kinda
NYSCRe: How Is Life In Kaduna? by thinkmoney(m): 2:12pm On Aug 14, 2023
Revolution2022:
I dey tells you.Dont let anyone deceived you that it is safe.Most of the killings are not reported.Just watch where you move to.
Ask this terrible reporter where he has been to in Kaduna.
Kaduna is safe dear. It is the southern Christian rural places (villages in the bushes) that have occasions of attacks ones in a while. Generally however, Kaduna is very safe and lively
PoliticsRe: 62% Of Nigerians See Country Moving Forward Under Tinubu - CMC Survey by thinkmoney(m): 9:46am On Aug 14, 2023
PoliticsRe: 62% Of Nigerians See Country Moving Forward Under Tinubu - CMC Survey by thinkmoney(m): 8:51am On Aug 14, 2023
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Child’s Dad by thinkmoney(m): 2:00pm On Aug 13, 2023
Babe1994:
Hi

I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



Thank you .

Nlfpmod front page please

Thanks
I will give u my advice from my very balanced Bible knowledge.
The real red flag I see that u should have allowed to be sorted out is the 3addictions he has. See he has were you run to to seek succor- That’s he can attempt to deal temporarily with his worries by drinking and smoking and losing himself in that dangerous world, but you do not have that luxury it seems. You see his smoking and drinking might be the way he attempts to escape his reality. That looks like the reason he can do without a proper communication with him. He has is troubles but instead of discussing it with u he get lost in those his dangerous world.
I will advice separation for sometime for u guys to get your act together.
Ask him to show desire for you and the relationship by working on his addition and paying your bride price. Tell him u will be way but might not be able to wait for him for too long.
But then I tell u not to rush into another relationship because u most likely will fall into a wrong hand because of your present state of mind. And that will further scar you and destroy your character.
I tell u is possible u still love him u don’t just feel valued enough. I suspect u will miss him when u stay away.
On your part too, international reach out to his familY for wholesome and supportive relationship. Be intentional ahoutit and see how it goes. You may even arrange to move to the house of one of his family.
PoliticsRe: Drone Pictures Of Senator Dino Melaye's Awareness Campaign In Kaba by thinkmoney(m): 8:32am On Aug 12, 2023
9jahotblog:
Check out the pictures of incoming Governor of Kogi State, Senator Dino Melaye of Pdp in kaba lg in Kogi west senatorial district. It was a massive turnout of the Pdp governorship candidate yesterday. Senator Dino Melaye is a goal. Check the pictures below.
It’s impressive. It’s clear you are one of his campaign machine.
I want anybody other than who that extremely violent Yahaya nominates. I however will keep shouting about this one particular concern; will Yahaya allow all this people come out? Yahaya use all means... he is a shameless desperado that uses state apparatus and even helicopters to disenfranchise voters. All this good outings won’t amount to anything if you people are only banking on police and federal government to provide security. Or you people hope naively that people will stay and and protect their votes in the face of guns.

Make provisions to curtail this prospect
PoliticsIt’s Not Niger We Should Fight And Kill But Some Other People by thinkmoney(op): 8:24am On Aug 12, 2023
Tinubu is not entirely the architect of our present hardship. There are a set of people both elderly and young that led us into this mess, this people will have to explain exhaustively to God and their conscience. I will quote a friend; “prior to 2019, it was already clear Buhari was a failure. But some of you decided to reinforce that failure. You supported him when it absolutely didn't make common sense. The absolute truth is; this pain, this struggle of today is not Tinubu's making, it's a direct consequence of Buhari's economic failures. You voted Buhari again and he won. And you peppered us who didn't support him. Now we're all being peppered.”- Senen Isaac Iyorkaa
IT IS YOU PEOPLE THAT DISREGARDED BUHARIS FAILURE AND VOTED FOR HIM AGAIN FOR WHATEVER EVIL REASON(s) THAT HAVE LED US HERE.

ITS NOT NIGER THAT WE SHOULD GO TO WAR AGAINST AND KILL, IT’S THIS SET OF *LOWLIVES.*

GOD WILL JUDGE UNA (EXCEPT IT WASN’T CLEAR TO HONEST OBSERVERS BY 2019 THAT BUHARI WAS A FAILURE).
PropertiesRe: A Yoruba Developer, Stephen Akintayo, Buys Land For Real Estate In South-East by thinkmoney(m): 3:49pm On Aug 11, 2023
EmekaMD:
https://www.facebook.com/100044542624764/posts/pfbid0ok1jixdKH91gSYCzYpwR4NutWfWoE15AxQif3LzrsERhv4MYRGQcVvHer6SYXGc9l/
APC is the biggest lying machine the world as ever known. It brainwashes people.
God punish all APC supporters and their deceitful character
TravelRe: Reckless Driver Crushes Family Of Five To Death In Imo by thinkmoney(m): 3:44pm On Aug 11, 2023
Creamypie:
The driver should be killed immediately
Animal
PoliticsRe: PDP Will Reclaim Kogi – Senator Dino Melaye by thinkmoney(m): 12:06pm On Aug 11, 2023
9jahotblog:
Kogi State Pdp are one indivisible. Indefatigable incoming governor, Senator Dino Melaye and his great campaign team are working tirelessly round the clock in defeating Yahaya bello and his clueless tactics of using thugs to disrupt the Pdp strongholds in all the 3 senatorial district in Kogi State. Yahaya bello and his stooge Ododo will be heavily disgrace and shamed in hearing the results of the poll from all the 21 LG in Kogi State. It’s 14 LG in Pdp bag 💼 on November 11th governorship poll. By the Special Grace of Almighty God, indefatigable Senator Dino Melaye wins the governorship election 🗳. The electorates are fully ready to defend their votes, the electorates are fully ready to stand by their votes. Pdp will win massively in November 11th governorship election. It’s dino everywhere you go now in Kogi State.
Electorate are never ready to defend anything. You guys guys should make smart preparations for that
PoliticsRe: PDP Will Reclaim Kogi – Senator Dino Melaye by thinkmoney(m): 8:34am On Aug 11, 2023
paymentvoucher:
I hope Kogi people are seeing what's happening in Osun state (Nepotism)

Dino Melaye's own will be worse!
lipsrsealed
What is happening under APC in Kogi is what then? A governor leaving the sit for his cousin from the same tribe. Can u people sometimes even pretend to be honest
PoliticsRe: PDP Will Reclaim Kogi – Senator Dino Melaye by thinkmoney(m): 8:32am On Aug 11, 2023
9jahotblog:
https://leadership.ng/pdp-will-reclaim-kogi-melaye/
Dino, u are a preferable candidate than that APC Dodo. You should however by now know APC grand tactics. Don’t be naive like Gbadebo... prepare and form a strategy to counter the serious violence APC will deploy
PoliticsRe: Gbadebo Rhodes-vivour To Tinubu: Do Not Drag Us To War by thinkmoney(m): 6:50am On Aug 11, 2023
IconicR:
This Omo ale still Dy town kikikiki I like how we chased him into oblivion 🤣🤣🤣 he wanted to come and eat in the same plate with his fathers and refused to consult the mothers before daring to take such bold action
As one of the legitimate child I hope you are seeing something to eat oh... abi are all the eating for your fathers?
PoliticsRe: The War For Africa by thinkmoney(op): 9:06pm On Aug 10, 2023
adebayo987:
Bros calm down. E never reach like that. But no matter what, coup is not the solution to our problems. Go and check the economic index of the nations with military leaders in Africa, guy na power hungry men do the coups. No vision! And na serious looting them dey do. Zero scholarship to their citizens. Look at China, despite being a powerful country sends 100k students to UK every year for studies with the aim that they will all be entrepreneurs and some would work in their Government sectors. That's how to develop a nation. You can't do coup and sit without improving knowledge. Infrastructure is part of development but you need the right brains to maintain, nurture and care for it, otherwise, it will grow dust and wither away, wasting your investments. Russia has seen how serious the West are over that Niger issue and they've just mind their business. Wagner Group was making audio utterances. They won't show up and if they do, the West will help ECOWAS sooner. I support ECOWAS to help restore democracy in Niger Republic.
Coup is shit. It beget government that turns out to be worse than what they depose.
My point however is that, the window to dislodge the junta in an easy and less complicated way has long slammed shut. They are grounded now. They enjoy the sentiments of the general public. ECOWAS should have intervened with the first 48hours.
Now there are too many possible complications. WAGNER I tell you won’t sit still too. It’s reputation as an alternative is at risk. War is business now. WAGNER will look for how to help the Junta. Mali and Burkina Faso too will have to do something so has to keep their hold on their government. Worse, this may start having tribal coloration that may even involve people from Northern Nigeria itself
PoliticsThe War For Africa by thinkmoney(op): 7:36pm On Aug 10, 2023
Listen now. If all my writings can be reread you will see that I write like I see the future.
I wrote once that Tinubu as President will be easily controlled by the west because he has a lot of dirty secret with them. Tinubus presidency is threat to our sovereignty.
Nigeria and ECOWAS do not have anything to lose ‘immediately’ with the coup in Niger, but the west especially France does. Niger is their last bastion in the Sahel region.
ECOWAS invasion of Niger now is being pushed by the west (any knowledgeable analyst will see this). They can do it themselves with the bases and troops they have in Niger, and they definitely would if ECOWAS doesn’t, but it won’t be good for optics considering their recent adventure in Africa.
Things could really go wrong because those military men will keep fighting even after they have been dislodged from Niamey. It’s an existential fight for them. I wrote recently that they may even see no other choice than to form alliances with several terrorist groups.
Mali and Burkina Faso too will feel threatened. Pandora box could be opened.


YOU BROUGHT US HERE APC SUPPORTERS. THE NORTHERNERS THAT EFFECTIVELY MADE TINUBU PRESIDENT LED US HERE AND THEY ARE THE ONES AT THE FOREFRONT THAT WILL FEEL THE HEAT MORE.

Left to only Nigeria, this war has become less desirable as even Northern elders have voiced their disapproval of it. But Tinubu just have to impress the west.
PoliticsRe: Group Commends Akpabio For Disclosing Senators' Recess Allowance On Live TV by thinkmoney(m): 4:11pm On Aug 10, 2023
DropsMic:
They don’t.. They are just typical blacks defending and singing the praises of their slave master in exchange for peanuts.
Many don’t even get any peanut. They are just mentally sick
PoliticsRe: Group Commends Akpabio For Disclosing Senators' Recess Allowance On Live TV by thinkmoney(m): 4:10pm On Aug 10, 2023
IconicR:
He was just being transparent but trust Nigerians to come for his head because of their natural hatred for successful men and women.
You people are a disgrace to human beings. I wonder how some of u choose to use ur brain.
There should have been a way people who do not use there brains are turned to monkeys and then replaced by a monkey that turns to human.
How do u guys just find a way to support rubbish. And it’s not that u gain anything oh, rather this men use all of us
CrimeRe: Fisayo Soyombo Exposes Baby Factory In The South-East, 'Buys' Baby For ₦2M by thinkmoney(m): 5:39pm On Aug 09, 2023
ahnie:
The bullets wey go rain for this thread eeh....I cover my isoko head with helmet.


O ye blackbelt fighters....the battleground gate yaff bn opened,get thy swords n armour cheesy cheesy

Nlfp.mod...ready o,food wee soon done
Tribalism. U were expecting tribal bashing to give ur small pin a hard on but God shame U
PoliticsRe: Subsidy Removal Will Reduce Carbon Dioxide Emissions - Shettima by thinkmoney(m): 4:24pm On Aug 09, 2023
Ikaeniyan0:
Shettima is right. Cars on the street of Lagos have reduce. You can drive from ipaja to Oshodi, oshodi to Victoria island, in less than 50 minute since the subsidy removal. It was not possible before the removal of subsidy.
it’s a sign of hardship. It means people purchasing power have greatly reduced. It means people are not able to buy feud again.
It’s like locking thousands people in prison and saying it’s a good thing that they can’t use their cars again and pollute environment.
You have similar head to Shetima. Why do APC people think the same way
PoliticsRe: Subsidy Removal Will Reduce Carbon Dioxide Emissions - Shettima by thinkmoney(m): 4:22pm On Aug 09, 2023
adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Subsidy-removal-will-reduce-carbon-dioxide-emissions-says Shettima
The mumus u guys voted for, trying to justify the fact that thousands of people can no longer drive their cars because of the harsh economy condition.
Typical of APC. They will find reason to defend every rubbish.
PoliticsRe: Federal Govt Starts Distribution Of Palliatives To States by thinkmoney(m): 8:53pm On Aug 07, 2023
blamingthedevil:
https://twitter.com/HaleeAbatcha/status/1688590403962912772
Waste?
It’s not an effective way to reach people at all.

This people are so dump... so short of ideas
TravelRe: I'm Based In Lagos, This Is Where I Go When I Say I'm Going To The Village. by thinkmoney(m): 3:55am On Aug 05, 2023
Workch:
The picture below is a drone picture of where my family house is located in Ibeku, Umuahia.
We came to Lagos to do business, it does not mean that we go back to trees when we say we are going to the village.
You are my brother. I am from ameke ibeku
TravelRe: Memoirs From Chile by thinkmoney(m): 4:58pm On Aug 04, 2023
tensazangetsu20:
God has finally done it for me grin. 3 years worth of work came to fruition and I was able to japa to Chile tongue tongue tongue. Sharing some pics from my trip and my everyday life on this thread. This is for those who think that south america is hell. Theres a lot of amazing countries in the world. You need to research and figure out what works for you. My flight was from Lagos to doha to Brazil and then finally to Chile. I didn't really start taking any pics until I got into Chile. I am sure you can find thousands of pictures about Brazil, Qatar or Lagos online but hardly anyone has posted anything about Chile.

The first pic is me In the plane crossing the Andes mountains. The light in the distance is the city of santiago.

Second is the airport in concepcion.

Third is my Uber ride from the airport to my Airbnb
Big congrats bro
SportsRe: D'tigress: Nigeria To Face Senegal In Final Of 2023 Women's Afrobasket Final by thinkmoney(m): 4:32pm On Aug 04, 2023
tundetech4:
Nigeria D'Tigress to face Senegal in final of 2023 Women's Afrobasket final

The D'Tigress senior women's basketball team from Nigeria has advanced to the 2023 Women's Afrobasket championship final.

On Thursday, August 3, 2023, at the BK Arena against the hosts Rwanda, D'Tigress won easily 79-48.

D'Tigress and Senegal Women's Afrobasket final
Senegal defeated Mali on Thursday, 75-65, to secure the final spot in the 2023 FIBA Women's AfroBasket Finals.

Despite being outrebounded, they were still busier on their end, having 33 boards and put up a tough fight in defense.

Additionally, they took advantage of Mali's errors to score 17 points and to win needed 13 big bench points

Nigeria and Senegal will square off in a rematch of the 2017 and 2019 Finals.

D'Tigress on final
Speaking after the game, D'Tigress center Pallas Kunaiyi-Akpanah said, "I feel relieved honored. The team that won two years ago was a phenomenal team.

"But I think this team as well can fill those shoes. Under the leadership of coach Rena, we are in a good spot to repeat that win.”


Newly appointed D'Tigress Head Coach Rena Wakama added, "There's no secret. But they should be empowered. I believed in them.

"And I put a lot of confidence. And here we are doing amazing things. Teamwork and confidence in them, and we see the results." -

D'Tigress takes on Senegal on Saturday, August 5, 2023 for a chance at a fourth straight title.

Source: Pulse Sports Nigeria

https://www.pulsesports.ng/basketball/story/dtigress-nigeria-to-face-senegal-in-final-of-2023-womens-afrobasket-final-2023080406035586961
Congrats

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