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Wawelexy:
Allow your poor niece breef.... If you stop her from watching it, then she will get in the real act... Nothing can make her stop it now, if you block her from the router, she would purchase data with her money, if you expose her and start monitoring her, she will wait till midnight when everyone is asleep, or better still go into the bathroom to do her thing...

Since you have blocked her from the router, don't kill her self esteem by letting her know you are aware of her secret, allow her use her data, Xvideo and XNXX will reset her brain when she keeps using her food/transport money for subscription every two days.. when the time comes, she will forget about it...

One thing I discovered about porn addiction is joblessness, boredom and being alone, once you get yourself busy, it stops or drastically reduces.

90% of people viewing this thread have once been addicted, or still addicted to porn. Infact this thread will trigger some people to watch it tonight .. like the false prophet use to say; This I have seen

People sabi give rubbish advice here.
Majority of Nigerians brains are suspect.
My friend she is a kid and in a loving way approach her. Assure her you won’t discuss the issue with anybody and tell her the huge disadvantage of pornography.
One disadvantage is that it gives an unrealistic picture of sex, then the young person that have built an idea on pornography wouldn’t know how really to handle relationship. Another thing is that she may compare her body with that of the pornstars and feel she is inadequate. She may also want to try out many outrageous sexual fallacy and end up injuring herself or feeling inadequate if she can’t perform them.
Pornography too is addictive like drugs. The fact you got away from it doesn’t mean others too will. For example, I did drugs while growing and it wasn’t hard for me to stop the vice. But then you know it’s not that way for many others.
Since she is close to you and she is a minor, do something to help her

Nwodosis:
Why can't the government hunt for Simon Ekpa abi na Ekperima the way they hunted for Nnamdi Kanu?

Those Nordic countries harbor criminals. They are not good allies when it comes to arresting criminals. That’s the same problem one of them had with Turkey

ukaface:
Yeah I am, I get your point

I am concerned
So what’s the way forward??

You can leave it at just being concerned. I just want you to know that we should change the orientation we are developing that somebody’s life isn’t our business. We are a community and we are interdependent if we like it or not. We breathe the same air.
Moreover, like me you can take it beyond just being concerned and write to enlighten people. Other people of means that understand these things the way I do even help with or set up rehabs for drug victims.

ukaface:
Okay I don hear
I am concerned

Lolz... you are funny.
Love and light my friend.

You should think about the way I analyzed it.
A driver that takes drugs for example, is a threat for me and u. We should really be concerned

ukaface:
Don’t get me wrong
I’m not after the bad of others, I help when I have the means to, I try my best to look out for others. I don’t wish bad on anyone.

But, you want me to be bothered over a man /a father of two over his usage of drugs?? Hell no! I can’t get bothered over the wrong choices of people, a choice to which you know the consequence? He decided to get high on drugs and you want that to be my business?? Abeg ooo

The said mad man and the school child can be my business because obviously the mad man has got mental issues which caused the life of a child, that I can never wish on anyone and it’s quite obvious the school child didn’t make the choice of being chased by a mad man. I feel sorry for the family and I feel it’s an unfortunate incident.

The least we should do my brother is to be concerned. We must be concerned even though we may not be able to do much about the bad choices of others.
Just imagine Olamide has a small pistol and in a club after he has become stoned he shoots somebody u know because his inhibition has lowered because of drugs? That’s how others bad choices can unwittingly rob off on us

jaeyking:
Hmmm,

Since the aim for the donation was for the ill person, I feel everything should be given to them not the specified amount for the treatment

So what if the money realized was less than a 100k, would the pastor had added money or would the family reject it

The family should just accept it

Now

Was the pastor greedy I can't say
Are the family ungrateful I can't judge

Leave matter for God

My brother you dissected it well especially with the example you gave when you asked what the pastor would have done if the money was lower than what the people requested.
The pastor is greedy

Odogwuzack:
Nothing like best of them all bros.

Na same award.

I heard that. They were all awarded but it’s like in scores she is the very top

renderme:
Peter Obi had earlier congratulated a Diana Award winner Ms Onyinye Omenugha on his twitter page with the following message:

I congratulate and rejoice with Miss Onyinye Omenugha @OOmenugha, a 24-year-old Nigerian who just won the prestigious Diana Award, usually conferred on outstanding young persons in the United Kingdom, and around the globe.


This was noted in this post on nairaland front page: https://www.nairaland.com/7759567/onyinye-omenuga-peter-obi-congratulates

He was however confronted by a Nigerian @official_isaaco on why he would only congratulate a Nigerian of Igbo origin when there were other Nigerians that won the same prestigious award.


He then recanted and congratulated all the Nigerians awarded the Diana Award.

d urge them to continue to contribute to a better Nigeria. -PO [/b]

Source: https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1678736772849627138

The best attribute or character of a leader is when he is “re-adjustable “. This guy listens and re-adjust. He do not in anyway claim to be perfect. But importantly, he listens and many at times readjust.
Besides, I learnt the first girl he congratulated was the best of them all

FreeStuffsNG:
This is the Best Time to invest in Lagos and the neighbouring SW states!

This is the best time to invest in Yorubaland if you don't hate and resent your Yoruba hosts. The Yoruba and Yorubaland will bless you, your family and your investments!

Invest in Lagos today with a good patriotic heart and not with a heart full of hatred and bigotry against your host so you will not lose everything you bring to Yorubaland.

God bless Lagos state and may God bless Nigeria for ever!
Check my signature for free stuffs!

You are a tribalist and APC zombie.
Igbos that I very much know you are directing your rubbish advice at do not have any hatred for Yoruba other than the way any tribe naturally feel about another tribe. In fact, if you study the biological makeup’s and historical relationships (which u never learned at school), between tribes, you will know that Igbos and Yoruba are more related and even intermarry more that what occurs between Yoruba and Hausas.
It your backward party APC that brought up your false narrative and has been trying to force it on us like it’s the reality. Before APC especially during PDP period we do not hear about this kind of rivalry you wicked people are trumpeting now

TinubuShet:
The thing be say I do not want to give her the phone sef cos this girl never post me once and she Dey post other Guys and her argument be say , good boyfriend scarce make her friend no come snatch me that’s y she Dey hide me , imagine

Just give her bro and forget about it. Watch out further if her character persist then you must act.
But know that you shouldn’t collect back whatever you have given anybody no matter what may come.
And have u guys been dating for sometime?

ukaface:
Wetin concern me
I feel no awareness about drugs should be over emphasised
If person wan die from use of drugs make e die
It’s not my life
I Dey try to survive, why will I Fvck about celebrities life. If olamide wan die make he die na

We are each other’s businesses. A madman pursued and strangled a secondary school student about a month ago.
You see how the state of the madman affected the young boys family? We should look out for each other. There is nothing like “do you”, we should always have consideration for other people.
It’s the selfish culture in the west that is fast eroding social values

Xenry:
Dear women, at the end, what men want is peace of mind. Your nyash or breast won't matter eventually.
Logan Paul proposed to his best friend today, and as you can see, he does not care about boobs or breasts.
All that matter at the end is peace of mind.

Culture varies... whites do not so much put much importance on big breast and big yansh. They mostly think slim ladies are the most beautiful

DatNiggaDaz:
Abeg somebody with EAGLE eyes or even with BAT eyes should carefully or carelessly read what is written on the two Banners

This are " Tinubu will favour me & my family" illiterates picked up fröm the streets calling themselves Coalition of Civil Societies Organisationen & " parities..... Lol

Abeg when did parties in Nigeria become parities " . The people at the secretariat will be laughing their asses off.

Nigeria is now a huge Theater mismanaged by Circus clowns who are drug dealers.

What a shame

Tinubu people sabi disgrace themselves. Illiterates mostly. See as they spell party as parities

Chelsea desperately in need of a leader on the football pitch.
Reece James looks like the one that has all the qualities now. And hopefully he stays fit.

@ReeceJames
our next captain 💂🏾‍♂️💪🏿💙
@ChelseaFC

elonize:
how can I make a topic of mine headlines in nairaland

I haven’t managed that as well

elonize:
bravo bravo..omili crango...Garcia's...😍😍😍😍😍.
D guy isn't a frnd of mine o..he's sm1 I was discussing dis Catholic tin with.
I read dis n I belle full😍😍😍.
Wen u said moses religion was ethno...I den remembered d walls of Jericho wer dat prostitute dat was saved,joined d Israelite n bcame a Christian

Thank you so much. I am glad you found my piece helpful . And the harlot in Jericho is a fine example that that you remembered really

Lovilla:
Thats good of her.
Ladies have to consider things before breaking up with ur man.
Those items he bought for u is from his hard earned money.

They have become hers. Those guys there are robbing her of her properties

Tob456:
I have a 7 months old daughter her mother is an orphan, she is the eldest of 7.

We broke up when she was pregnant because we had a disagreement about her siblings living arrangements.

She wanted her 4 sisters to stay with us after the wedding and I only two of them to stay with us. The problem is seeing my daughter growing in a bad environment away from me makes me feel so bad.

Whenever I visit her I feel so bad leaving her behind that I don't sleep well thinking about her all night.

I also doesn't like the idea of having kids with different mothers.

For my daughter's sake I want to get back with her mother for us to raise her together in the same house. But getting back with her means that I should also allow her 4 siblings to stay with us after the wedding.

I am doing this for my daughter's sake but I don't know if I am making a wise decision.

What do you guys think should I get back with her or forget about her and concentrate only on my daughter.

Please help

If they no leave with una dey go die?
Arrange one room somewhere else for all of them then

Foolishness kills.
I had long seen the problem Nnamdi Kanu will cause and I have long denounced him.
Now mad people are on the loose in the east. Monday sit at home doesn’t satisfy them anymore, now they want weeks of sitting at home. Who can cage back-in this dogs.
Many easterners were then praising and defending Kanu. But I looked at his character and I observed he was;
-very temperamental
-Egoistic
-He had the Nazi type of ideology of Igbo infallibility and supremacy and
-he promotes and was very prone to violence
Then I knew he can’t bring about any good. I was even sure that if Biafra is actualized under him he will become a vicious dictator (something that is alien to the Igbos).

He is my kinsman, in fact a prince from my very great and proud clan of Ibeku, but I denounced him anyways.
Now look at the demon he has brought to the once peaceful southeast? Ekpa, his disciple has gone roque and there is no more center command controlling many of the IPOB networks of bandits. It’s a free for all. You can just have a local riffle and kidnap three young girls in your locality and take them to the bush to do with them whatever you like.

How do I know these bad men. It’s simple;
-I have read a lot about bad men in history, their style and what they caused.
-I look at their characters and use the Bible provided concrete formula of “by their fruits you shall know them” to analyze and dissect them.
-I eschew emotions and sentiments of all forms be it tribal and/or religious and keep a clear head.

Who is going to come and save the southeast from itself!?🤲🏿😭

Akwamkpuruamu:
That is polygamy because you marry one after the other. You caught the first rat and kept inside. Now went out to catch the second rat.

You know we are just both trying to give meaning to the parable. All human proverbs aren’t perfect.
However the proverb talks about the attempt at catching not keeping. So let’s not go pass there.
Trying to CATCH a rat I will like to interpret to mean dealing with a wife. It is easier when it’s just one. But trying to catch two at a time is polygamy and it’s dealing or relationship and marriage to two women at a time.
In another way, trying to catch two rats one after the other is two marriages ... one after the other. I want to imagine it like it’s not polygamy but going after another rat when due to some circumstances the other marriage is not available again

CondenseMilk:
Just catch the first rat, keep it in your house and go after the second rat.

Then that’s not polygamy. That’s one marriage after another one. Chasing at the same time is polygamy

elonize:
ok.have u closed now?

I have responded to u na

Afamed:
Nothing for Eluup in the sharing formula.

Your problem is
I repeat your problem is
I repeat your problem is
I repeat again that your problem is that you don’t have the state of mind and stamina to read well before commenting. You just jump and vomit whatever.
It’s a mental sickness and you need help.
This is why you make many bad decisions.
Ara e o bale
Because from that least I saw a senator from Abigail and it was clearly written LP after his name

elonize:
just a question, y is d Catholics always claiming Christianity came frm dem..
N wen I mentioned to sm1 here dat,Christianity has been in existence, I mentioned Noah n co.he said dey r Jewish n dats their way. E even went to research n brought it out to me n in d definition of Jew..dey said dey r ethnoreligious group.
I den ask d Catholic guy if e saw dat line n neida of us were wrong or right..
E was still arguing it..plz wen dey say ethno religious,wat does it mean?

Christianity didn’t come from catholic.
When we understand the Bible we will see clearly that Christianity is a religion that had its start from the very early beginning.
This religion is based on the Bible and the Bible made us know that humans had direct relationship with God in the beginning. They had laws guiding them and they were happy. There was the prospect of this happiness continuing forever.
But then human defaulted and the direct relationship with God ended. They started suffering the opposite of things they should enjoy.
God almost immediately developed a plan on how to restore this relationship and the happy state of humans.
Then there came a time that maybe because of the unfavorable worsening conditions, people started calling on the name of God. We can imagine they started praying, treating their neighbors well and sacrificing all sort of things from their properties of livestock and plants just in an attempt to curry Gods favor. “There was also born to Seth a son, and he named him Eʹnosh. At that time people began calling on the name of Yahweh.” Genesis 4:26. This is a stage of religion... a continuation of human attempt at relationship with God.
In the aforementioned period, it was the conscience of people (which hasn’t become as bad as it is now) that was regulating all they were doing. Adam too that related directly with God was alive most of this time to most likely tell stories of the reality and power of God. Enoch too preached around this time.
Then God revealed himself to Abraham after the flood. He went on with the practice of making sacrifices to appease God. He even gave a tithe to a priest-king at Gods instruction. Still in this time, people were generally guided by their conscience.
The Bible based religion took a formal form when God after some thousands of years gave Moses some laws, rituals and codes to guide a set of people. They started practicing what we know today as Judaism (Judaism as a term and religion today though is very different from the religion and code of conduct God revealed to Moses).
This new stage of relationship with God was part of a phase of human relationship with God, it will soon metamorphosis and develop into another phase.
The Religion of Moses continued too for some thousands of years. This religion we have come to know was basically in many aspect a kind of blueprint or raw data to a religion that will be Christianity. Example, aspects like sacrificing of lamps in the religion of Moses was a pointer to the future when Jesus will be sacrificed.
Moses religion was an “ethnoreligion“ as it was a religion that was basically known to be practiced by a particular tribe which is Israelites. To practice this kind of religion one will in some ways nationalize and become Israelite.
Jesus like Moses then came and gave many rules and guidelines to ways we can better relate with God. He based this rules on the prior revealed rules of Moses. He however pointed that many of the practices in the time of Moses were like a sample and pointer to what he was teaching. Hence many of Jesus guidelines though precipitated on Moses laws were a more developed version of it. Example, Jesus now showed that it’s not just a limited set of people that can worship God in a delineated geographically environment but that it’s all people from everywhere in the world that can relate with God by the guidelines Jesus revealed. Hence, Christianity which is a further developed form of Moses religion went beyond ethnicity and became a global religion. It’s not an “ethnoreligion”.
This phase of relationship with God was later termed Christianity after Jesus CHRIST. (Like the former phase was called Moses religion). We are presently in that phase of relationship.
Catholicism too didn’t start like a formal name. It’s was another way some Christians started recognizing themselves. It meant universal religion. And it’s because Christians about a 100years after Jesus were in many places of the world.
Later this catholic as a term became not just another way some Christians were identifying themselves but also a way they started using to differentiate themselves from other Christians. This is because some sad conditions started springing up shortly after Jesus death. Christians started dividing into sects. Some followed more Paul, others thought themselves as Apollo’s followers, while some think Peter was the sole authority. Later there were those that called themselves ‘the church’, some universal (catholic) church and some Arian’s.
Out of these groups, it was catholic that gained political influence and then recognition. Then many emperors converted to catholic version of Christianity. In the year 380 or there about, Emperor Theodosios 1 proclaimed catholic version of Christianity the state religion. All this while even till today, other sects were available in different forms and with varying doctrines.

I hope with my long history and explanation I have given you a better knowledge to understand and even explain to somebody like that your friend in the future.
I must point out to you though, that Catholics from almost when it became a state religion have deviated from the teachings of the Bible just like Judaism we know today do not really conform to the religion of Moses.

Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

You have started having problems guy. Soapy is destroying your mental health.
You will soon discover that’s it’s not only the girl that doesn’t freak you anymore but that in fact other girls too do not freak you. Soapy is replacing them. I bet you are even doing it even now that you have a girl.
QUIT NOW!!!! Before it damages you totally
Example, I can never do soapy and come. My mind is conditioned to get satisfaction only from ladies. Soapy do not make me come

labake1:
One thing home training will never make do you?


Home training will never make me insult or curse anybody for any reason

Abortion

elonize:
just a question, y is d Catholics always claiming Christianity came frm dem..
N wen I mentioned to sm1 here dat,Christianity has been in existence, I mentioned Noah n co.he said dey r Jewish n dats their way. E even went to research n brought it out to me n in d definition of Jew..dey said dey r ethnoreligious group.
I den ask d Catholic guy if e saw dat line n neida of us were wrong or right..
E was still arguing it..plz wen dey say ethno religious,wat does it mean?

I think I have a good answer to this through Bible and history. I will only be able to answer after work please. But I will definitely respond today

elonize:
sorry for d guy na..u 1 kill am😁😁

The guy pressure me small jare

RoadMozart:
Them don show you shege

Shege promax

#NigeriaPolice, please I want to report to you the only terrorist group in the southwest.They are easily recognizable with their faded yellow uniform and they call themselves #LASTMA.This bandits are terrorizing lagosians daily with impunity.😭🤲🏿. #SOS! EDAKUN

jaybenugo:
Popular Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh, has left her fans worried after she shared a cryptic post on her Instagram stories on Sunday, July 2nd, IGBERETV reports.

In the post, the mother of one asked her followers to remind her kids of how much she loves them if she passes away unexpectedly



https://instagram.com/stories/tontolet/3138081497616095179?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=NjZiM2M3MzIxNA==

Drugs induced mental fatigue and anxiety.
She has a hollow life that material things can’t fill