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Tracey121:
There is this guy I dated back then, we have been in and out of r/s and last time I saw him we agreed that we will never see each other again, he had a kid and the mother of his kid has been a problem, keep in mind that the kid was conceived while I was in his life and born and I didn’t know that until he was 1 year old, so after hearing that I have been a fool for this long I broke up with him and it was for good and yesterday he came in crying saying that the mother of his child broke his heart and he wants me back, my question was “R u here bcoz the mother of ur child disappointed u or what” and the answer was simple yes, so from the above I have realized that he doesn’t love me but he just need some1 to keep him company until the mother of his child come into her senses, so now the question is how do I answer him, according to the story of him and the mother he is been hurt big time and I don’t want to hurt him again, Im not a heart breaker, I used to love him but Im not sure now and I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t know if those last feelings are for pity or what, if it were u what wud u do? Take him back or just kick his a$$ to the curb, he broke my heart so much that it has been a mission to let anybody in,

Remember yesterday my BF broke up with me on FB and when I get home my ex-bf was there begging me, how convenient of him and now Im so confused, I don’t know what to do I asked him to give me sometime coz I have a lot going on mind right now and since I was hurt I didn’t wana do anything I will live to regret, part of me wanted to throw myself in his arms just to comfort myself at the same time I was scared he might read too much from that, how to u combine crying and grieving hearts in the same place?

So after hearing his reply to your question, your still confused?

I really don't get it. . .Are you really gonna open up old wounds. . .that are in the process of healing. . .and get them hurting again/even more?

lekzey:
there is agirl that have feeling for me but i turn her down.Actualy i like this girl,but i dont want to go for her because i have a girl friend,but now me and my girl are no more.
I use to call this girl and we use to talk[b] but now she dont pick my call again.[/b]I WANT THIS GIRLS NOW

So where does the presumption come in?

[quote author=ice_man link=topic=294937.msg4166426#msg4166426 date=1247237595]Hi nairalanders. I have the most beautiful relationship goin with this really really beautiful girl. We have been datin since 07 and iv bn d envy of my friends. My prob is that she is not so intelligent,  Both generally and book-wise. And she is.nt eager to develop herself. What can i do. I really care about her.[/quote]and look who's pointing fingers. . .talk of those in glass houses not throwing stones!

The husband also cries. . . *****Long yawn*****

Just when I thought I had seen it all on NL. . .then this Mehnnn you gat too much idle time on your hands!

Now I wonder why dis dude is even given the attention, its obvious he's just using this to get some . . .if you ain't ready to spit it out. . .then shift aside n stop wasting cyberspace!

davidylan:
the grass isn't greener on the other side. Leave him now because of money and you may regret it . . . those who will splurge on you may not be 1/4th what your present dude is to you.

True!

Gal. . .if he's all the things you stated. . .then I really do not see why your complaining. . .at least you understand his situation. . .and he feels bad about it. . . . . .Its left to you to either help him out or decide not to do so. . . but you should understand one thing. . .that no situation lasts forever. . .yes your a medical student and the feeling of superiority seems to be enveloping you. . .but do not allow pride eat u up. . .because you do not know what he might turn out to be tomm. . .

But if I were you. . .I wouldn't leave him because of something as trivial as this. . .such "good" men are hard to come by. . .and when you get one. . .you stick with him. . .

Instead. . .of leaving him. . .explain the situation to him. . .that you can't keep using up your student loans on him . . . and encourage him to seek ways to increase his income. . .We live in a world where more avenues have been created to make money. . .

Nikky23. . .If I were you I would just ignore that dude. . .obviously. . .you should know that all his looking for is some cheap attention and is not worth the sneeze!  

rhufffryda:
uhn??

Joblessness is really a curse.

I'm telling Yah!

Pls do you have a job. . .or are you that bored?

Well personally I feel the whole generalization of "dogs being better than men" or "dogs being better than women" is totally uncalled for. .  .


if you keep meeting the wrong set of men/women that would warrant you to compare them to dogs. . .then it only says one thing about you as a person(birds of the same feathers flock together). . .so plssss step up your game. . .and quit whining here. . .

xynerio:
We just met each other, I cant just rush into telling her my mind. I just need the step to take before letting the cat out of the bag. I cant let another guy take this one from me. @ thonislim am through with sending stupid threads so if u dont have solution just go play 4 shit

At least your admitting that most of your threads have been stupid!

See some mgbekes coming on here to feel attractive. . . Oh gosh. . .lmao. . .   

Honestly are you the only one with all the woman problems? Or are you simply that pathetic. . .that you start stupid threads?

Sometimes you can't force people to learn. . .you allow them make their own mistakes and learn. . .just move on. . .if your great guy. . .and this is the only reason she decided to break up with you. . .then she doesn't truly deserve you. . .so move on man. . .the one truly meant for you would come along just when the time is right.

thatz if i've not found him already

Check how long I've been on NL Mr. . .and yes am lonely. . .in yah dreamz. . .lmao. . .

. . .what a jobless m*f*!

Nice. . .must have been mad fun. . but wait a min whatchu you even feeling like now?

I've learnt that what you don't know won't hurt you. . .and nothing is hidden under the sun. . .the truth definitely reveals itself at the right moment!

Daiisy:
why do i compare myself 2 pple a lot? like i'm not satified. from a-z, head 2 toe. i just want to b able to have high confidence and still b proud, i feel i would never have d best things in life even if i'm not wearing gucci belt and another is wearing one, i don"t want to feel bad if another person has long hair and i dont have, i dont want to feel bad also and im not looking bad myself so why the low self esteem like evry other person is better dan me.

Sorry girl but ama be blunt with yah. . .You greedy if you keep comparing what you have with what others have!

Start to fall passionately in love with yourself. . .and when I'm talking of falling passionately in love with yourself. . .am not referring to pampering yourself(Visiting the spa, having a new wardrobe, going for a makeover etc)

I'm talking of falling in love with your innerself. . .what are those things that your passionate about? What are your dream, aspirations that you wanna achieve? . . .Am talking of things that improves you intellectually and spiritually. . .things that contribute to you as a positive individual. . .


Also learn to have what is called "Self content" because with this comes confidence. . .and once you are confident in who you are. . . then you won't have any issues of comparing yourself with others!

None. . .once broken. . .stays broken!

Long yawn. . .geezz when would some of you douch bags learn that. . .it didn't work out the first time. . .it ain't working out again. . .I wouldn't be stupid to clog the doorway to a future potential great guy with some ex bla bla bla shit!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]lwkmd

Why do people harp on this no speak, no write good English when they themselves are guilty? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]What does her being not academically wise got to do with keeping male friends and them asking her out? [/color]

Abi ohh. . . . .Mchewwwww. . . .

Hell yeah. . .ain't hooking up with a dude I can't stand being close too. . .there got to be that chemistry also. . .

Nope. . .Infact an attractive guy is more appealing. . .

The dude needs a reality check. . .Drop him like its hot!

alfchye:
You are a crazy idiot.The marriage would be once, so allow her take her time to plan it.You will always have her and if it bothers you join her in the activity.I bet you it will be fun.

Word. .

.I know you feel neglected. . .but you got to understand its her day. . .and every bride wants it to be perfect. . .so please exercise patience with her. . .

Mehnnn. . .no be small thing ohh. . .you go fear wedding nah!

TheSeeker:
Mr. Nollywood blockbuster!

I'm telling you. . .the dude tire person!