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LOng yawnnnnnnnnn. . .Haven't we heard this before? Stale News dude!

I would also be mad if I were in her position. . .but apologizing to her mum. . .is like? Hello you ain't in a relationship with her mum but with her. . .

But all said. . .If you love her as much as you've said. . .and apologizing to her mum is the solution to winning her love back. . .then you had better act fast brother!

I believe a girl won't just dump you without a valid reason for doing so. . .


You must have given her the impression or incidences must have contributed to her thoughts. . .

Now you have got to weigh your options very well. . .

Do you dump this dude you love just because he isn't financially buoyant and go for a richer guy. . .or do you stick with him and help him through this developing stage. . .and reap the fruits later?

and you mentioned how are you sure he won't leave you if he becomes financially buoyant?

Well as much as I won't encourage you to stick around too long especially if he hasn't got prospectives. . .I would also ask you to stick with him if you know your heart truly wants to be with him,he loves you sincerely and is a hardworking individual who aspires to be successful. . .

Sometimes dear you have to take a chance on love. . .and if it works out. . .then good for you. . .if it doesn't, then life goes on. . .

Definitely doing so. . .lolzzz. . .

Excuse me

Yes Westlife. . .I dedicated the song to Him. . .cus when I listen to the song. . .Its Him I think of. . . The lyrics are so true. . .

You've always been there for me. . .You've listened to me patiently pour out my heart to you when I've been in my worst moments. . .even when I was being my usual stubborn self. . .you've patiently looked on. . .You've patiently waited and understood me. . . I could go on and on. . .All I can say is Thanks for showing me what true love means. . .

you'll always have a special place in my heart. . .

"You Raise Me Up"

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up,  To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up,  To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up,  To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up,  To more than I can be.

You raise me up,  To more than I can be.

boobsy:
I dated a guy i loved so much and actually thought of settling down with him only to realised he was a bad boy. He made a pass at my younger sis, cheated and infected me with STD on many occasions.

When i met this guy, he had no job, was putting up with a friend in AJ City(NO offence to anyone living there). His elder sis was like a friend and sister to me.She asked me to help her younger brother(my ex) get a job in my coy. I'm the Admin Manager and in charge of resume shortlisting and interview coordinating. After i got him a job in the coy i worked, we became friends. One day on his way home from work he was robbed and brutally beaten by armed robbers (my coy is in the aviation industry). I saw him few days later and really felt for him. This incident made me closer to him as in felt for his condition. About two months later he asked me out, actually he is not my type but there was just something about him and i tot of giving him a try.

After a month in our relationship, i fell in love with him and asked him to move in with me since I live in a 3bedroom flat alone and he was quatting in a shabby BQ with a friend ( i know i made a stupid mistake but when yu are in love evrything makes sense). I was paying the bills, our feeding, and other expenses with a cheerful heart cox i felt since he started working newly he needed to save his money. I didn't know i was making a big mistake by doing all this. I became his chauffeur,cook and his bingo in bed.Though he is ten years my senior, i was doing very well for myself.After about 6 weeks i realised i was infected with STD, i confronted him but he denied. I treated myself and of course him with my money. During this period an ex-girlfriend called him in the middle of the night and told him she was having his baby. I went mad but he told me it happened before our relationship begins. Of course it made perfect sense to me since the lady claimed to be four months pregnant. I believed him and didn;t make any issue out of it since it happened before we started dating. After this, the infection reoccured again and again, I couldn't take it no more. One day he received a call from his friend in AJ and said he had to go cos the guy was in trouble. I didn't believe him so after he had left for about 30mins, i followed him. I've never been the type of woman keeping tabs on her man but i just couldn';t stop feeling he was up to no good. Alas! when i got there i caught him red-handed on another woman and without a condom ( the door was in a bad shape and gave me easy access to the room). I felt like killing him cos i loved him so much. I know it sounds stupid but i forgave him and took him back. Afterall, love preaches forgiveness. Our relationship changed though, i couldn't trust him again and wouldn't let him make love to me without protection. He didn't like this so i suggested we should call the relationship off but he wouldn't hear that.
Again, he cheated (another lady sent him a txt message asking him for some money he promised her) the message is quoted here "after u do finish, u no go pay" Again he said it was a big mistake which happened two days ago. I couldn't take it no more, i called the relationship off, throw him out of my house and had an abortion (found out i was pregnant). Though he begged but i just couldn't take him back. I realised i was a bigg fool, spening my money on him and planning his life for him while he was busy spending his money on other girls.

After a while my younger sis told me he made a pass at her but she just couldn't tell me. I know am a very pretty lady and good in bed but i believe a player is never satisfy. I never denied him antime he asked me for sex.His sisters and friends tot he was so lucky to have me. The point is he claimed to love and will never stop loving me but i really doubt that, If that is love then i don't want to love.

After him, i realised i stop liking guys. I masturbate alot and bad enough can't forget our love making. It was soooooooooooooo good. I want to love again but am soooo scared. I think am beginning to feel attraction towads women. I need help.

Kill those thoughts cus it ain't gonna solve matters!

Tyson Beckford and Shemar Moore. . .now that's some hot sweet chocloate there! 

I feel peeps who do stuff like that have got issues. , like we are not married. . .so why should you just show up at my place unannounced?

whitelexi:
If i remember correctly, u probably said this line like 5 times yesterday alone - what keeps dragging u back to say the same thing??
Face it girlie, u cant help yourself.
I'd advice u beat it cos there's nothing to see here, it aint happening

Oh so you took note 

Well yes I said that because I decided to let everything slide. ,  but you kept on coming back for some more ass whooping. so ama keep delivering them to yah. . .
. . .Like I said before twinny pinny. . .I really don't give 2 f**ks. . .am out to have my fun! 

as for the highlighted part. . .dream on dude. . .because it surely ain't happening! 

whitelexi:
I think u still misunderstand me still
All I'm trying to say is we need some boundaries - its not right that u chase me all over NL looking for fight every other day, thats just childish.
You told all those lies, levied all those accusations, didnt give any evidence. . .  and now i've decided to just swallow it and continue life, u run after me again. I just want some quiet time alone, pls

Chase you? When would you stop living in you deluded world? 

And you know whatever I said out there wasn't a lie. . .but being who you are. . .***shrugs** am not surprised you would deny it. . but feel happy the thread was deleted. . . hhmmmm

Anywayz!!!!!!!!!

Now look ere little twinny pinny. . . am not a trouble maker. . .I dnt look for trouble till when it looks for me. . .and even when it looks for me. . .I ignore it till my patience limit is maxed out. . .and like I said before I have had it with your nonsense and lies! You had your fun for the past months spreading lies and shit. . .now am just out to have my own fun. . .and whether you think its childish or not. . .you should have known by now that your opinion means no shit to me. . .

This would be the last time I would reply you. . .but I still stand by my word that if you post one more single lie or trash. . .ama 

joyce j:
I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few months ago and about three weeks later a meet a great guy who helped me through the break up. Few weeks later we stated dating. I love and care about him but i know deep withing me that i am still in love with my ex. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cry

Kill that love girl . . .it didn't work out the first time. . .what makes you think its gonna work out the second time?

Your with a great dude now. . .and you still wanna go back to some loser, like do some of you peeps think  

Andyjoy:
Hi Landers
I hear/see people say/write that it is wrong for one to read his/her spouse's text messages and mails. I need to know what is wrong wt dt cos i hv my baby's password and at any given time i scroll thru his text msg and vice versa. How can we boast we love and trust each other if we keep our mails and text messages secret.

Pls i need to get ur views concerning dis matter.

One love

Honestly. . .there are certain things I don't disturb myself about now. . .like wanting to have his password. . .or go through his phone . . .

If you keep trying to do this. . .you would just be putting yourself through stress. . .and life is too short for me to be worrying over such trivialities. . .

You take each relationship as it comes. . .if its meant to be it will be. . .if it isn't then am sorry there's nothing you can do to change that!

Pls where did you get this conclusion from?

pongwa:
they love guys who v cars, a fat bank account and all the flashy things of life, does this make them gold diggers?

It depends on the lady's motive and too what lengths she would go to snag herself a rich dude. . .there are some lazy women whose sole aim in life is to string for themselves a rich dude without contributing anything to their own well being or development. . .these sort of women I can't stand!

Now speaking from my own perspective. . .I know where I came from. . .I know where I am today. . . and I know where am going tomm. . .if you ain't got no prospectives then I ain't messing with you. . .simple!  

She's a Bitch! Simple as that! But its the dudes I pity the most because they have got no idea what they got themselves into!

because after the wedding they think its all over. . .But. . .they don't realize it just begun!

Its also applicable to all those fat pot bellied married men. . .

whitelexi:
Oh no, not again plsssssssssssssssssssssssss.

Damn!

Well am your new horror story. . .ama keep terrorizing you. . .till you learn how to keep me out of your shit talk. . .like I said before in the locked thread. . . I'm so down for your shit this time around! 

Tit tat!

whitelexi:
[b]I for one, would ask that the threads remain locked and bolted and left to rot in nairaland's threadlist hell!  [/b]Those threads were setup with one mission in mind: Destroy whitelexi - tell lies against him, bash him, drive him away from NL! cos quite frankly, a brother's candid opinions were offensive to a sample of the female population [including male biatches] who felt he was way too blunt about his opinions and ideas. But i will not leave nl, i derive some level of entertainment from it while doing an incredibly boring job

I respect your individual views and opinions about my character, but whitelexi was setup to be controvertial, that is my online identity and i use it how i please - if u dont like the way i post, i implore u to avoid me and i will do same.  I will admit to what i've done, but lies told against whitelexi are lies told against me, and i will use everything at my disposal to prove that i'm innocent in such areas. Unfortunately, i understand i will be banned for posting such material and that is not what i want.

   . . .How won't you. . .thought you said you weren't bothered? Saved by the moderators again right? Well count your ass lucky. . .cus If I hear one more shit you said about me. . .that ain't true. . .well. . .lets just say. . .  hhhmmm. . .

whitelexi:
If u want to eat with the devil, u use a long spoon
Its not good to throw stones when u live in a glass house

Sauron and Pataki don run, thonia follow them ja, now emerald sef don tear race, e be like this conspiracy big pass wetin i imagine ohhh

Honestly are you really this stupid? I feel so embarrassed for you myself!  

Now look here prick. . .I opened that thread for you to confirm the rubbish you said. . .since you decided to deny it. . .I decided to let it go like I was told to by a number of people. . .But its obvious you love my name so much that you can't simply post a comment without mentioning it. . .If you want to start up something again! Hmmmmm. . . This time around lets just say. . .am so f**king prepared for your bullshit!  

illusion2:
You're obviously a juvenile,I apologise to all NLders  for joining issues with. . . . . . . . .  . .should have known better.

Your entire approach to being dumped & all speaks for itself. Goodbye.

I'll only respond to the grand dyke,if & when (s)he returns.

Long Yawn. . . Really?

Ok. . .if you say so. . .whatever. . .  

I would repeat myself again. . .whether you think its dry or not. . .your opinion means no shit to me. . .

SO quit trying so hard to get some attention!

illusion2:
Look at this dyke looking for a fight. . . . . you want to prove you're 'man enough' abi? Well i no get ur time.

i don't know when u became Thonia's mouthpiece, . . . . . . . . . or are u her new found love?

Don't you think its high time you go for your next therapy session?

whitelexi:
NL has now turned into a blackmail zone but no wahala, na my cross and i go carry am - u dont become a man overnight.
The problem with this is once u start, u cant stop cos they wont let u, and so its better not to start at all.

All your words are so full of shit, now u call me mgbeke when ur very self called me hot for 2.5yrs - u were not blind then and so its clear u r just hurt and lying.

I hit a spot there didn't I? awwwww


Don't you just wish? LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!! 

whitelexi:
dude, i'm telling u that its all calculated. Thats the only way they can stack rubbish up to hold me down. I dont womanize, i dont even go clubbing like that, I dont travel every weekend, i have a job that takes me to places outside london for meetings and training so i do travel during the week days sometimes, but i can assure u all this talk is out of jealousy and envy. . .  Most of them are: T[b]honiaslim did it cos people were saying i was hot and she couldn't bear to look on, [/b]Agielove/babycool did it cos she couldn't stand people saying the same thing. . . Its crazy the extent a woman will go to hurt a man's progress. . .

LMFAO!!!!      Hot Ke? 

Anyways its ok for an mgbeke to feel funky! 

Nah dnt think so. . .it would be too complicated!

Puhleaseee dump him joo. . .He never remembered He wants to marry you till afta he saw all that!

illusion2:
Tho' we're all criticizing 'lexi,d fact remains that you haven't supplied any proof of your allegations. . . . so how can we conclude he's a liar?
On behalf of all NLders we are happy to learn you're now in love again. ^{We hope its not another web-based romance however} 

One love 

I won't even bother tryna point out any proof to you. . .cus your opinion makes no difference to me. . .

but if the highlighted part was intended as an attack. . .you would have to try better! 

I can't also stand guys who sag!


But a guy on a tux or coporate attire is so. . .