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loveslife:
She's only 29. We haven't brought in our father yet because he has not stated clearly what his intentions are only giving hints. This sister of mine has always been attracted to mature men. She even confided in me that she even as a young gal of 29 she can't marry a guy of 35. This i think is very weird. But then am being very careful not tell her that in order not to seem judgemental. I decided to sample people's opinion bf discussing this thoroughly with her. I need to sound convincing and logical enough.thanks.

I know a lady like your sister but I guess she acquired that preference from dating married older men in the university.

Mindfulness:
You call this man and kids baggage, to her it may turn out to be a blessing.

I want to believe you are being sarcastic.

For a young girl who has never been married and has no child,why would your sister want all that baggage?
The man is probably almost twice her age so what was the attraction?

To put it simply.it's just not worth it.

herald9:
What's the correlation between medical profession and body building?

Me thinks a doctor should be soft-lookoing and approachable.

If this one commot clothes for hospital, all the patients fit stand up tear race

Why e go commot cloth for hospital?You know he has to be in a shirt and tie and a ward coat at work so his body is barely visible.

It's a passion for him,not that body-building has anything to do with medicine.

Icaretoo:
Do da always have to put dere hands almost by the waist for the packs or the muscles to show

Its a No for me all d same

Putting the hands that way flexes the muscles.

Ammy5565:
Hi mamas,
Please has any RH negative mama here had to deal with carrying a preggy after a possible iso immunization due to an earlier missed miscarriage? How did u go about it nd how was it managed? Will appreciate ur responses. Thanks.


Cc kaffy4bill,thorpido,soonest,alphahandmaiden,zaynie,liftedhands,helovesme,ozycy,feddy27,sugah.
Kindly help me cc any mama that might be of help or who is a med practitioner in nigeria.

You need to be given a Rhesus immunoglobulin shot(RhoGHAM) but it's effective within 72hrs of the miscarriage.Failure to get the treatment puts future pregnancies at risk of another miscarriage.

Why did the woman agree that finances should be shared '50/50'?Can house work also be shared '50/50'?
She agreed with the man's proposal because she let feminism get the better of her.
In marriage,couples complement each other.There can never be 50/50 contributions in all aspects in a home.

addiction12:
thanks to everyone for your contributions, I really appreciate all ur advise and encouragement. today after we d morning devotion, I asked him why he didn't tell me that he watched porn and he wanted to walk away but I persuaded him to sit back. I told him I was d one who invited him to Abuja and it was me he had been chatting with all this while, he looked at at me and say You! and I said yes. hum! he apologized and told me to collect his phone and I should give him another mobile phone that does not support internet browsing. I ask him y and he told me he can do away with any immoral chats or porn as long as he doesn't surf the net. he asked me to go on a vacation with him for few weeks so as to work on him. he told me he is ready to change if am ready to help him, from there I realized my husband has being trying so hard to fight his addiction because I remember he once deactivated his Facebook account and gave his phone to his younger sister. I also apologized for hiding my identity from him and I really cried this morning and also happy. we are both taking a leave and going on vacation by the end of the month. once again I say thank you all for your support.

This is good.His willingness to change is the key.

hopeless28:
I'm not seeking for any attention, only needs to find a faceless forum like this to pour out my heavy hearts


No money to take care of my ages mother
No job
Business crumpling due to recession
I can hardly feed once in a day
The only best friend which I have who happens to be my fiancee withdrawing from me



I'm finished


I just need the courage to drink this poison and die fast without any doctor being able to revive me back to life

If you take your life and leave your aged mother behind,don't you think that is worse than the present condition?
If your present business isn't working,try your hand on another.Be ready to get your hands dirty because it might be menial jobs you have to turn to but do something.

You have been listening to the wrong people,it's time to listen to the right words.
There is a gift in you. But you have not discovered it.There's someone who can benefit from that gift.
To take your life is to deny others of that gift.

It's not right.You have just been newly married,can't he give you guys some space?

Understanding get levels o.

Op,it can't except you are willing to hold off child- bearing for a few years and even at that you will need to be very prudent.
I'll advise you hold off the marriage and try to improve your finances first.

Ideally Christians shouldn't have a divorce.

They are Olumbians though they call themselves Christians.

Admin401:
I stopped reading here, the most negative article i've ever read.
Into the garbage can.....

You missed the point here.

Tragic.
It's important that day care workers are very sensitive to their environment.You just must carry a 'child-consciousness' everywhere............before you open a door or close it,before you sit etc.
That bean bag obviously shouldn't be in a day care room.

What qualifications do you have?Have you tried to improve on it or acquire new skills to bring in more Income for yourself?
If your wife earns just N30,000 per month and you really don't earn much yourself,I think it might be better to explore what you could make out there in Britain.
I'll advise you keep persuading your wife to give it a trial but it all depends on her and what she desires.

EMriss:
Thanks but m scared now

it's not that bad but you need to be careful all the same

I'm afraid your hubby is the one that has to compromise here.The wedding involves families and you're not just the one having an occasion,they are too.It doesn't have to be a loud wedding but it'll surely involve families and friends.
I guess he's shy and probably an introvert.It's once in a lifetime(hopefully) so he should deal with it.If he's thinking of evil people,he should take charge through prayers.

They want to shame the woman.They could have done it for the man too.

EMriss:
Serious dont knw yet o..but i wll get some things if am able cus i know m willing

Have an ID with you especially if you plan to cross the border.Just be careful with your movements like sekundosekundo advised.

ikbnice:
Wit only me rocking shinnin scalp amidst my colleagues. u call that swag?

Some people wear a skin cut naturally.Banky W and Tuface became bald early and it hasn't stopped them achieving what they want.
Baldness is hereditary so you can't do much about it.

What do you plan to do around there?

If i were you,i'll not worry too much about it.Just rock it.

His problem is that he is a masturbation addict!Masturbating excessively and for a long period of time delays ejaculation and makes it difficult to ejaculate normally with a woman.

He is to stop masturbation completely.

Performance enhancing drugs and alcohol are other causes.

Always a sad event anytime it happens.

tearoses:
LOL
Sometimes he says things and I just cringe
He needs someone cool and mature to deal with him
The girl is in Lagos - 30's
The guy is in the UK - 40's

I think a girl that is more mature(mid 30s) will understand him better.I've got 2 matured single guys but they are in America sha.

Kimoni:
Doctors?

Yes,some too.

tearoses:
Oga Thorpido, I get one girl and I get one boy I dey matchmake o
Unfortunately they are not suited to each other or I would have swapped them
If you have any people looking let me know
The boy is hard work sha o! Make I talk true now.
He is a lovely guy but has been single for too long and is rather set in his ways
The girl is a very nice girl.

That's the problem with many guys who have been single for too long.They really don't value girls that much again.
Well i have a single banker lady if he might be interested.Where's the girl's location?

ColdHardTruth:
sure professor

how about the below

2 Timothy 3 King James Version (KJV)
This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;

you have to like the that verse saying a lot of things without saying anything

those things were already happening even before the days of Jesus Christ

I'm sure you will agree it's not in the same proportion as we see now.

How confused can you get?
Well the scripture must be fulfilled................there must be a falling way first(2 Thess 2:3).
Many will turn back.

Mad men who rape underage children when there are a lot of matured women they can toast.
There should be more severe penalties for rape,that's only what will curb the madness.