Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 2016 And 2017 Graduates How Have You Been Coping? by Tickles001(m): 10:14am On May 26, 2021 |
AAbuja: Did you graduate in 2016? How have you been coping?
After all these years all I can point at is a teaching job I Engaged in Fetching 15k a month. I quit tho after innumerable nonsense and pathetic experiences.
I feel like I am not doing enough. I feel like I am not trying enough. When I look at my dad and see his Grey hair, I feel like I have failed him because I am still eating his food bought with monthly pension. I am still sleeping and waking up under his roof at over 30years old.
As a child, I remembered the week when I was to enter Jss1, dad took me to a boutique and bought me a very fine white canvass. Now over the years I can't even afford to buy him a shoe. The last time I bought him anything was 2017 during my NYSC.
I feel I have failed not only him but a lot of people that hoped in me to become something reasonable. Laundry sef no work, always in the shop regretting my entire journey. Maybe I should have waited and studied another course or maybe I should have just chosen and engaged in a trade with with my 100 level tuition 
I just regret everything. Under the hot sun, People will see me walking from one company to another establishment with my credentials. Most times i have to Beg for money just to move from one place to another online. The situation is that terrible I have asked myself what I am doing wrong but I apply to jobs everyday. Or maybe I am afraid of starting a family on 15k salary just like most of my colleagues back in university. We do meet and they tell me how I am delaying in starting a family, and then goes ahead to tell me how poor their teaching salaries are and how they have had to depend on friends and family. But me I have no one to fall on.
A times I feel really sad and end up praying for those unemployed graduates going through the same phase I am phase I am passing through. Even though you don't know me, I pray for you 2016 ~ 2017 remains the worst year to graduate. I graduated 2016 and this is how I've been coping. After NYSC I took up a part-time teaching job for 2k per day. I come twice a week. That's about 16k pet month. I loved the job as it gave me time for other stuff. I followed the advice of some people who thought I should leave the teaching job and go for something that can give me career growth as an engineer. I left the teaching and joined a production/construction company. In an instant, all my freedom was stripped from me as I was literally working round the clock and round the week and I was payed as little as 15k, and a small apartment. With promise of 50k and a car as things progress. I couldn't trade my freedom for anything. I had to quit after a year. They already bought me a Nissan Micra, hoping to give me the keys but I had to resign the same day. I felt so relieved being free again. About seven months after. I passed the front of a company and was impressed by the way they situated the office building with a garden. Coincidentally, they was a post that they're hiring. I casually applied and was hired. The pay was 50k for the start and a promise of and increase within 6months if I perform. This time, my position in the maintenance department was even more time demanding than my former job. I didn't even get any chance to be viewing the gardens that attracted me, as I spent most of my time attending to the heavy machinery. I had to quit after 2months so I could be free again. Lastly, I decided that jobs are not for me as often require you mortgage you freedom. I stayed broke for like 3months before my freelance endeavors picked up and could pay my bills. It's been like 2yrs I didn't work for anyone, nor sell anything. I just stay in my house or anywhere I want to be and work from there. It hasn't been easy, but it was worth it. Most people thought I was being lazy for not staying in jobs. Earning average of $500 per I earn more than most of them today. My advice: Break out, become a deviant and a non-conformist. Do things that will move you forward not minding what people think or say. |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tickles001(m): 5:33pm On May 25, 2021 |
This is sad but funny
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Business To Business › Re: How To Make $1000+ Each Month Online by Tickles001(m): 12:20pm On May 23, 2021 |
HeliosHay: It happens sometimes....if your books aren't violating any of the terms required to be enlisted for expanded distribution then, simply re-enrol them. My books are not violating anything. But I still can't get them listed beyond US and UK. But they were listed in every market during and after publishing. I guess Amazon made some changes I'm yet to understand. I can't even sell on US and Canada, I can only choose one. Same thing with UK and other European countries. I'm working on a new book. I'm very convinced it will sell well only if I lunch and market it the right way. I would like some tips from you concerning marketing and publicizing a new book. |
Business To Business › Re: How To Make $1000+ Each Month Online by Tickles001(m): 12:49pm On May 22, 2021 |
HeliosHay: I edit in word and upload in .doc or .docx (occassionally do epub). Abandoned my kdp dashboard for about 3months. I got back to work today and just discovered a few things have changed. My books on expanded distribution have been delisted from other markets except the US and UK markets.  Who else is experiencing this and what's the way out?
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Business › Re: Making Regular Income Publishing Amazon Kindle Ebooks by Tickles001(m): 12:46pm On May 22, 2021 |
Abandoned my kdp dashboard for about 3months. I got back to work today and just discovered a few things have changed. My books on expanded distribution have been delisted from other markets except the US and UK markets.  Who else is experiencing this and what's the way out? @helioshay @eliok
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Romance › Re: Why Are Black American Ladies Viewed As Animals? by Tickles001(m): 6:35pm On May 18, 2021 |
khiaa: Lies. How is that a lie? When almost everyone develops a common opinion about something. There is certainly something wrong.  |
Romance › Re: Why Are Black American Ladies Viewed As Animals? by Tickles001(m): 3:58pm On May 18, 2021 |
mamagee3: [color=deeppink]Hi all, why are black American ladies/girls seen as animals and hated?[/color] There's a saying that "People don't regard you for what you are, but for what you appear to be." It may be that the black woman you speak of do behaving like animals? |
Romance › Re: Ladies Will You Start Life With Me In This Condition? by Tickles001(m): 3:54pm On May 18, 2021 |
MiztaPepperoni: Abeg if I tell you ladies say I never get work, I no go school but I be hustler and I get potentials, you go agree marry me?
If I carry you come my caban and e be like the picture I attach so, you go agree to start life with me for that caban? It depends on your age. If you are up to 25, your chances are slim. If you are above 30, your chances are almost zero. Sad but true |
Romance › Re: Am I The Stupid Person?? by Tickles001(m): 3:41pm On May 18, 2021 |
Maybe you can talk to his close friend to help you pass the message. Make him understand he's straining you emotionally, and you're close to breaking point. If he doesn't change afterwards, then break up and see if he'll comes back and willing to come to terms. |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 7:26pm On May 17, 2021 |
anuoreangel: What your shoes size 42 ~ 45 depending on the shoe. You know how she sizes can vary |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 6:56pm On May 17, 2021 |
anuoreangel: Nike Air jordon
5 pairs above 10,000
Less than 5 pairs 10,500
1 pair 11,000
Size 41-45
07013050882 Nationwide delivery available I like this shoe but I can't be certain of the size to pick. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Of 7 Years Left Me For Someone Who Got Her A Job by Tickles001(m): 8:22pm On May 16, 2021 |
larryking540: the lady has long had the intention of moving on but got the opportunity to do so ,,, most people we see around are hungry fellows (man or woman) so it's best we tread careful ,,, The bolded must be true. The reason most relationships are now kinda pay as you go. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Of 7 Years Left Me For Someone Who Got Her A Job by Tickles001(m): 1:39pm On May 16, 2021 |
doggedfighter: Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk. Trusting
humans is a risk. Not gender restricted. Don't generalize.
Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.
Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.
We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.
Even YOU !
Life's hard ,baby.
Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head. Survival? I think this a more of a case of betrayal and insensitivity. Are you saying it's okay for one to do anything to a supposed soulmate, because they're desperate to survive? |
Romance › Re: Redpill Shit! Fvck It! Women Aren't Objects, They Are Humans! by Tickles001(m): 1:27pm On May 16, 2021 |
I think the op misunderstood the red pill. The red pill is not about hate for any gender. The red pill doesn't make you hate women, in fact it makes you enjoy women more. |
Romance › Re: Women Don't Deserve Love... But by Tickles001(m): 11:06am On May 16, 2021 |
Intergender relationship has gone to the dogs. Sad but true. |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Tickles001(m): 3:56pm On May 13, 2021 |
Tickles001: $50 BUSD AVAILABLE
080. 366 five 7383 SOLD |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Tickles001(m): 3:08pm On May 13, 2021*. Modified: 3:56pm On May 13, 2021 |
$50 BUSD AVAILABLE
080. 366 five 7383 |
Gaming › Re: Pc Games For Sale by Tickles001(m): 9:01am On Apr 22, 2021 |
How much for someone collecting plenty |
Gaming › Re: Garnet PC Games For Delivery All Over Nigeria (N200 Upwards) by Tickles001(m): 6:11pm On Apr 17, 2021 |
Really wanted to get bulk games from you, but you no talk well.  |
Agriculture › Re: Nairaland Farmers Contact Details by Tickles001(m): 8:39am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Who knows where and how I can get farm land in South East or any where in Delta State?Please, quote me if you know.  |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 11:31am On Apr 06, 2021 |
nonny400: Drop your number 080. 366 five 7383 |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 7:22pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Tickles001: EliteBook 8570p for sale. Core i7, and Nvidia graphic card.
Asking price: 65k Still available. Location is asaba |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 8:54am On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 5:56pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
jeff1607: Size of Hdd,
Size and ful name of the graphics card
Processor speed HDD: 500Gb Speed: 2.70GHz Check below image for graphics
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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tickles001(m): 11:29am On Mar 31, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tickles001(m): 11:14am On Mar 31, 2021 |
Ilekokonit: The man is saying the truth. Its exactly the same in the UK which is the single parent capital of Europe where the Government incentivizes and rewards single mothers with financial benefits plus a cut of the mans salary even after he has been kicked out of the house and out of his children's lives. With the way things are going I see Nigeria and east Africa becoming worse at it within the next 15yrs. Women are really going to end the world if the men don't come to their senses and soon enough. |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 11:08am On Mar 31, 2021 |
Charlot: Your contact 080. 366 five 7383 |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 10:50pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Tickles001(m): 10:48pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
[quote author=nabiz post=100347216][/quote]No |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tickles001(m): 5:33pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Regex: Who is that guy and how do I follow him? His name is ubi Franklin and that video is from Instagram. So, I suppose you can find and follow him on insta. |