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Bighead95:
Hmmmm sometimes make we no dey blame man for beating his wife ooo because women dey provoke person like mad .....


But violence is never the solution at worst make we divorce

My thoughts too. How can one beat his soul mate simply because she declined to lend him money.
I feel there's something more that's wrong with the family.
Now he's a murderer and she's dead. Where's the gain now.

Kimjongun:
One thing normal women fear most is an husband that beats, in fact they fear it more than anything else

No. What they fear most is a broke husband. They'd rather cry in a mansion than smile in a one bedroom and palour apartment.
But I completely condemn beating a human being to death. It just doesn't pass for me.

NwaAmaikpe:




You won't understand the husband's plight if you've never been at the financial mercy of your wife.

I can only imagine the frustration of the husband calling up his wife in front of a debtor with the phone on speaker to ask for a soft loan and then have her rain all the abuses in the world on him.

I won't be shocked too if it wasn't him who took her from obscurity to the financially comfortable level of having a 2k to spare.
That's exactly what these women brought from Nigeria to come study Nursing in the US do.

It doesn't justify him beating her to death but why did God tell us that wives are helpmates when 70% of them would never help out financially in the home even if they could?

This is a lesson to all gold-digging men. The only submissive wife is the broke wife.
Who born Mama Ramotu to talk to me anyhow when she knows that she can not buy Sanitary pad without me.

Never allow your wife get richer than you, because the shrewd treachery and bad mouth of a rich wife can make a broke husband do what this man has just done.

They're coming for your head.

Most men make money to make women comfortable, but most women make money to assume power to mistreat their partner.
I'm not married, but I observe the married ones

CaveAdullam:
DAY 179, REDPILL 2021

Don't become what a woman want you to become. Don't allow yourself metamorphose into her desires. Allowing her to mould you according to her taste buds and discretion is tantamount to your downfall.

Mould yourself according to your apex value, top priorities and real life purposes.

The only way life can be sweet between you and a woman is when you as a man is happy, then she can be happy also.

If you fail to be happy and channel all sense of purpose towards her direction, you will become waned, and at the end she abandons you for a lively man.

Be careful and always make yourself happy.

False: happy wife, happy life.

True: happy man, happy life, then, happy woman.

Authority: be your sculptor.

A shipload of redemption message is packed in this. Let he that have ears, hear and also practice.

zolajpower:
The guy is a Nigerian who is based in California he sends" containers " home every month .

Yeah. You don't have a problem then. Your goods will pass with his, and he'll handle all the logistics the way he's been doing.
Did he request money from you other than the money to buy the goods

zolajpower:
Sorry is it at the port or outside the port ?
Because I'm expecting a consignment soon and the agent sending it said all the charges has paid for . Mine is just to pick up

Since you are using an agent your case my be different.

Hassanmaye:
OK thanks but where do you think I can buy iPhone with low price Lagos? I reside in kaduna

Offerup and eBay are good places to get good deals, but it might require a pick up agent.
There are other good sites depending on what you want to buy, so you can Google them and do your research.
The two I mentioned are the ones I've used.

Hassanmaye:
If for example I buy a phone on aliexpress it will cost more before it reach me sir? I want to buy iPhone from aliexpress I saw that its cheap

I don't think it will affect you if you're buying from AliExpress, especially if you are not buying in large volumes.
Though I doubt you can get iPhones that cheap from there, to compete with those that buy from offerup and the likes.

zolajpower:
You mean delay for payment?

Delays in releasing the imported goods.

zolajpower:
How do you mean bro? share .... because I want to go into it very soon

I'm not into it, but my friend that tried said that customs showed her pepper.
Delays and charges she said.

Number 2 has always been a goal, but customs will not allow you reap the fruit of your labour.

barule:
Neatly used Lg home theater 110k
Ikotun Lagos
Whtsap 08081333882

See as the thing they call me. Will you take 55k. I can come pick this Sunday

Dalil8:
The female is future satan

She's never getting out of prison, that is for sure.

Who told you.
As we speak. A lot of rich sissies that call themselves men are already planning how to be her "knight in shining armor". They'll go any length to save her with hopes that she'll become loyal to them.
Most new generation (simps), can't stand the suffering of a guilty fine woman.

Freelancing will only work for you if you can do the following: be very consistent at it, be patient, lower your expectations as you start, keep updating your knowledge and skill on the chosen path.
I'm talking from experience.

Smashspesh:
You published in colored not black & white paperback, I guess.

I can't really remember, because it's an old book. But I believe it's in black and white.

Who knows how to resolve this? My books on expanded distribution are not available on most market places. It has not been this way before. Noticed it about a month ago.

Who knows how to resolve this? My books on expanded distribution are not available on most market places. It has not been this way before. Noticed it about a month ago.

Who knows how to resolve this? My books on expanded distribution are not available on most market places. It has not been this way before. Noticed it about a month ago.

OnlyDeCapPlease:
1000% correct!

3000%

Cindy222:
Tell me, what are you thinking??

I think he is just being kind....

Being kind? Surely, you know deep within you that this is not kindness like we know it.
You being an embodiment of two gender, I believe you already know what he's doing.

I'm waiting for you to reveal more about you kind.
I have a chimera suspect to investigate

Pusyiter:
True talk bro...but I think it should not be all about the MAN but the WOMAN. Women should be treated like eggs.....

Is it that you didn't read the title of the post, or you just want to show off your loyalty to the female folk?

Krismas:
U are not a Chimera. U will not understand

Are you always this generous to chimeras, or there's something particular about this one?

Krismas:
I was admiring you true. 1. U survived in conditions he didn’t 2. U choose to preserve him within u, so his memory will not be forgotten 3. He will be remembered as long as u live. U’re amazing. If I told u I have N20k for u for being 1dafully made. Hw will u react? If u do not consider It merger, reply with ur bank, acct and name. Though i already know u’re Ene Monteze Onazi. Tanks

..hmm. praises and offering. Is this mere generosity, or am I missing something?
I don't want to say what I'm thinking. But this your level of admiration is looking like worshipping to me, or what do I know sef

Abba114:
redpill has caused me my 5year old friends with benefits relationship.since i came across redpill on nairaland my girl has been complaining that im no longer the person she knew before, she said im being selfish and arrogant she started drawing away from me i noticed it. today we were chatting on whatsapp i complained to her that she is taking time to reply my messages and threatened to block her if she continue like this GBAM she blocked me after seeing the message. I THOUGHT I WASNT BEING A SIMP. guys i need advice can i just call her and apologise or leave her alone for few days. dont come here nd tell me to leave her because im a redpiller im still in need of the free pussy i get from her

You shouldn't have gone all red with her since it's a long time relationship. In the case of a beneficial long time friendship, it's best to use the knowledge to hold your position. Trying to switch from blue to red mode with her will ultimately end the friendship.

You can only switch smoothly if you happen to be among the top 5 within her reach.

Redpill works best when you start with it from the beginning.

As it stands. The situation has become tricky.
If I'm the one, I'll call her. Not to apologise, but to debate the inappropriateness of her action and register my disappointment.
After the debate, I'll invite her over for more physical talks then I'll try seal it with mind-blowing sex.

This will give you the chance to continue the friendship, or be the one to walk away if she's no longer worth it.

Cryptodegen:
Hopefully this is the end of the occult man, although am suspecting this is all a charade, he might show up one day and say he has risen from the dead and start telling tales of heavenly bliss...Hopefully he's really dead

This same thing crossed my mind when I heard he's dead.

Kiaso:
Panda (a Bear) is kind and gentle

Check well.
I read somewhere that a Panda can get more aggressive than the Nile crocodile.

Buy one million units of BTC

This his behavior cannot and should be associated with redpill in anyway. The op simple doesn't understand what the redpill teaches, reason for the caption.
Redpill doesn't teach bitterness, but rather it separates one from it

AAbuja:
Did you graduate in 2016? How have you been coping?

After all these years all I can point at is a teaching job I Engaged in Fetching 15k a month. I quit tho after innumerable nonsense and pathetic experiences.


I feel like I am not doing enough. I feel like I am not trying enough. When I look at my dad and see his Grey hair, I feel like I have failed him because I am still eating his food bought with monthly pension. I am still sleeping and waking up under his roof at over 30years old.

As a child, I remembered the week when I was to enter Jss1, dad took me to a boutique and bought me a very fine white canvass. Now over the years I can't even afford to buy him a shoe. The last time I bought him anything was 2017 during my NYSC.

I feel I have failed not only him but a lot of people that hoped in me to become something reasonable. Laundry sef no work, always in the shop regretting my entire journey. Maybe I should have waited and studied another course or maybe I should have just chosen and engaged in a trade with with my 100 level tuition

I just regret everything. Under the hot sun, People will see me walking from one company to another establishment with my credentials. Most times i have to Beg for money just to move from one place to another online. The situation is that terrible

I have asked myself what I am doing wrong but I apply to jobs everyday. Or maybe I am afraid of starting a family on 15k salary just like most of my colleagues back in university. We do meet and they tell me how I am delaying in starting a family, and then goes ahead to tell me how poor their teaching salaries are and how they have had to depend on friends and family. But me I have no one to fall on.

A times I feel really sad and end up praying for those unemployed graduates going through the same phase I am phase I am passing through. Even though you don't know me, I pray for you

2016 ~ 2017 remains the worst year to graduate. I graduated 2016 and this is how I've been coping.

After NYSC I took up a part-time teaching job for 2k per day. I come twice a week. That's about 16k pet month. I loved the job as it gave me time for other stuff.

I followed the advice of some people who thought I should leave the teaching job and go for something that can give me career growth as an engineer. I left the teaching and joined a production/construction company. In an instant, all my freedom was stripped from me as I was literally working round the clock and round the week and I was payed as little as 15k, and a small apartment. With promise of 50k and a car as things progress.

I couldn't trade my freedom for anything. I had to quit after a year. They already bought me a Nissan Micra, hoping to give me the keys but I had to resign the same day. I felt so relieved being free again.

About seven months after. I passed the front of a company and was impressed by the way they situated the office building with a garden. Coincidentally, they was a post that they're hiring. I casually applied and was hired. The pay was 50k for the start and a promise of and increase within 6months if I perform. This time, my position in the maintenance department was even more time demanding than my former job.
I didn't even get any chance to be viewing the gardens that attracted me, as I spent most of my time attending to the heavy machinery.
I had to quit after 2months so I could be free again.

Lastly, I decided that jobs are not for me as often require you mortgage you freedom. I stayed broke for like 3months before my freelance endeavors picked up and could pay my bills.

It's been like 2yrs I didn't work for anyone, nor sell anything. I just stay in my house or anywhere I want to be and work from there. It hasn't been easy, but it was worth it. Most people thought I was being lazy for not staying in jobs. Earning average of $500 per I earn more than most of them today.

My advice: Break out, become a deviant and a non-conformist. Do things that will move you forward not minding what people think or say.

This is sad but funny