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tchidi:


Taofeek, Area, Zico.... and 'One short woman not more than 20yrs'.

Since they didn't wear masks, all the security cameras feed should be looked into.

But Wait o!! Naija police go hide for grammar school ehkwa? . Only to resurface with over 10 cars nde? Issokay! God is our refuge.

If the banks do not have CCTV CAMERAS to capture the image of the robbers, then they have to be held responsible. I knew that the policemen would have ran away. Though I am happy no live was lost, but the psychological trauma from this kind of experience cannot be underestimated. The victims need to be helped

Just thinking does anyone have an idea the amount of money the robbers will be able to cart away from this kind of operation. And I imagine the policemen in the police station opposite the scene of the robbery would have ran away using the station backdoor while changing their clothes on the run during the robbery.

Am 100% sure the shopkeeper lost 1000 only

You don't have any problem of choice. Leaving Islam is not negotiable, please it should not even cross your mind. The only decision you have to make now is whether you want to be in a polygamous marriage. But I can tell you there are a lot of polygamous marriages in which there is more love and happiness compared to the so called monogamous marriage. And to even think you are contemplating leaving Islam saddens me. You want to turn your back on the greatest blessing God has bestowed on you. Pray to Allah to make you firm, guide you and make you taste the sweetness of Islam. Being and dieing as a Muslim is be the best thing that will ever happen to a any human being including you.

KanwuliaJara:
In pursuit of unhappiness PART 1!
Intense craving as a prerequisite for marriage?
When BLACK people dream, it is always a NIGHTMARE!

So FUNNY, Where did you pull that quote from.

Before you reply just know that a lot of Nigerian women have slept with their bosses to advance their careers, and the husband end up spending the paycheck with her. So is it not better to do it for a 900,000 job instead. If you don't have any problem marrying a non-virgin then you don't have cause for complaints. The issue is fornication, which will never be right not who she slept with or why she did it.

MRBrownJ:
how much does he have saved at the moment?!

Yes how much have you saved? What are your other expenses? Are you married? However from my perspective I like a comfortable accommodation and 2 and half months of your salary is not too much.

I forgot, You have to tell her to relax, because she is anticipating the the pain she may be tightening her V. Muscle, she must relaxand take a deep breath, And whatever she does pls don't get angry or be frustrated Encourage her all the way.

Congratulations Man, Patience, Patience and Patience is all you need. You are already on the right track. You will have to communicate with her and let her know that there will be some pain. You have to arouse her alot before trying to go in(pre-intimacy for at least 15 minutes). Make sure you use lubrication. Now this is where you have to be patient, You don't have to complete the penetration at once, Go in until she can't bear the pain again, then withdraw, you can try again a day or two days later, don't be in hurry with every trial her body will loosen up a bit. You have the rest of your lives to enjoy each other. And when you are at it remind her how much you love her and care for her. Good luck and welcome to the married club. Pls no one should quote me I plan to take down this post later. The advice is for married men only.

Who cares about this wife beater, Sandra na you I pity Next

bukatyne:
We need to understand the dynamics first.

He might not be comfortable with divulging more information, You don't want to bring all your family history to Nairaland. He must have learnt somethings from advices given him so far.

OP Your post is too vague. Like most have said it all depends on your standard of living but 20%of your salary is not too much if you don't spend another 100,000 paying Dstv bill, fueling gen, buying recharge card, buying drinks, Aso Ebi e.t.c. What I mean is that if she doesn't ask for any other money for the whole month after giving her 100,000. And please don't resent your wife for not working. because if this is the underlying reason even if she spend 40,000 you will still have complaints. You are the man, It is the responsibility of the man to provide for his family, And who says she is not working? She is working to raise you kids instead of allowing a stranger to to do it. I don't want to assume but I guess there is more to this than what your post alludes to. Appreciate your Wife.

I just saw this thread today and I read every post. OP I think you have a good life and you should not let people take away you happiness. Yours is a happy marriage from all indications, you will be surprised at the number of so called monogamous marriages in which there are more than 2 people in it, devoid of love, understanding, happiness, trust, repeat, even mercy. Your husband has been a perfect husband from all what you have said. Please disabuse yourself of the notion of ever leaving him. All your focus now should be about giving birth to a wonderful baby and raising the baby with your husband with love and affection. I am appalled that some people will seat in the comfort of their homes and be advising a woman to leave her husband and destroy her home (YES YOU HAVE A HOME) when there is no cogent reason, but giving lame excuse about polygamy, Where in the Bible is polygamy prohibited, Abraham the father of faith married more than one wife. Monogamy was only brought into Christianity as part of roman culture. May God guide you aright.

bashbabe2:
What are you saying. I was not brought up in a polygamous home. But my religion allows it in as much it's done within the rules and he can be just. If he fear he cannot be just then should only marry one to avoid falling into error.

It's better to have a polygamous home than adulterous husband. This is a grevious sin in which most men are involved in today.
Your beliefs might not make you see sense in polygamy but what you should not do is discourage or condemn people in it. Live your life and let her live hers.

Well Said I am actually waiting for @babeosisi reply

Thank You. I think spousal rape is reprehensible , although it might be difficult to draw a line on what constitute rape when couples are concerned. I Will really like to know Christianity stance on this, It is clear forcing your wife is forbidden in Islam, if not the husband would not have to sleep angry if there is the option of forcing her(from the hadith you quoted). By the way what is the solution to this. It is more common than we care to admit.

But lecturing has its own perks, for instance the working hours are really flexible, it is one of the few government jobs where you really enjoy what you do(I love imparting knowledge), Not tedious and boring, there is respect from all and sundry, you do not have to be at the top to have access to travel grants and travel overseas. And considering the employment situation in Nigeria it is a really good job.

handsometokunbo:
South west or you meant Nigeria as whole

Most likely the whole of Nigeria but I am sure of south West except maybe Lagos

The post is correct as far as I know(and I should know) However that is the Base salary, there are other allowances such as housing allowance, but at the end of the day An Assistant lecturer, with Master degree and on a PhD programme, will earn about 130,000 monthly. I know this might not be much to some people but this just illustrates how poor public service pay is in Nigeria.A Typical Civil Servant in most Southwest states will not make up to 130,000 after working for up to 20 years. That's were corruption in the civil service comes in. Most civil servant survive by stealing government money. To be continued

@CzarChris You do have a point. But it is expected of the lecturers show high level of maturity and integrity and resist such overtures. Academics the world over, represent the highest level of intellectual capacity of a society. Nevertheless, overwhelming majority of cases are being instigated by the lecturers, and the extent to which some of them denigrate themselves to achieve their aim is odious and loathsome. A 30 year old may be easily pardoned but not a 64 year old debauched lecturer.

@themodernman. I will not join issues with you further. It is clear to everyone we aren't of the same class.

themodernman:
Ofcourse you can't even need me cos I'm not gay & I don't swing both ways

Feel free to carry cocaine to Indonesia when I start lecturing, who knows it might even be your daughter that'll be chasing me about....lol

When you start lecturing? Don't be silly I just told you will never succeed. Let me repeat it again so that you may comprehend, YOU WILL NEVER SUCCEED IN YOUR QUEST TO BECOME A LECTURER BECAUSE OF YOUR BAD INTENTION. WE DON'T NEED PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN OUR PROFESSION. Not everyone on Nairaland is a jobless lowlife like you.

Although I have but I know a friend who lost a substantial amount of money to this trick. Fake coughing and pretending to be sick while leaning over you should send you into red alert. It is their modus operandi.

themodernman:
The no1 isn't a lie...I know of chiks dat spanked their exams coz they've dropped their asses for some good spanking. These chiks party hard 2ruout school..luckily some guyz were close to dse chiks so they always do well with the chiks...na one of the reason I wan go do my Masters make me too turn lecturer...chai those babes go hear am...sweet tight p***y of a 16year old curvy busty girl...na me go first taste am

You will never succeed in your quest to become a lecturer by God's grace. We don't need people like you.

youngalex:
Don't think Men value marriage like women,I for one am not interested in Marriage but am compelled to do it 1) For Kids 2) To fulfill family and societal expectations...So most men my age are more interested in making money than marriage

Well said. I am surprised nobody has mentioned the factor responsible for high numbers of unmarried older ladies (It is fact a lot of ladies can't find husband). It is simply free sex and fornication , why would a typical 25 to 30 year old want to marry when he can satisfy himself with a variety of women, when he is ready to marry him simply look for a young lady leaving women in his age group in limbo. To a lesser extent this also happens to these women, The urge to satisfy their sexual desire should be one of the major reasons to want marriage, but they were sleeping around when they were ripe and in prime position for marriage. You can't eat your cake and have it. Sex is only meant for marriage

I am appalled that some are still complaining about the length of the post. For Goodness sake it takes about 5 minutes to read, Short attention span is really the bane of Nigerians, especially youths.
This is one of the most thoughtful post ever on Nairaland, The concept of unconditional love is a mirage. The correct thing to say is: LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM, (and that is your condition) not LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM NOT.

I think is high time someone gave DSTV some competition. Startimes might not be really competing with DSTV yet but it is positioning itself to do so. A lot of people who normally subscribe to the cheaper bouquet of DSTV have already abandoned DSTV for STARTIMES. What killed HITV was that they didn't have content and costumer base to cater for those that were not really interested in football. The business was based solely on premership right and losing the right killed HITV. But Startimes is already establishing a market space for itself, Therefore the next logical step is to bid for Premiership and Champions League right when the next round of bidding starts and send DSTV to the doldrums for good.

Very good and useful thread

March 22
FCMB
210.10/$
MASTER CARD

Is the phone still available, I am willimg to pay 25,000

Tochi4life:
17k

I am interested what is the full spec

Lstar4real:
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Shipping - $14
Commission - $3
Total cost - $132.72 - #25, 216

THANKS. How many days will it take for it to land.

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Please how much to Ibadan and how many days will it take to land