₦airaland Forum

Amarabae:
I want to talk to some souls here who are facing or just faced one of the bitter realities of love.
Rejection can be very painful to some people who are emotionally fragile ,
everybody wants to be loved, it's psychological.
You love somebody, you have a deep crush on the person,
You think about him or her all the time,
You flip through their social media timeline to monitor them,
You dream of a relationship with the person,
The person is your fantasy,
Your crush
You later summoned courage to make a move and you received an attitude laden rejection,
"you are not his or her type "
The person will tell you that through attitude and boom you start feeling bad about your self.
Listen to me,
.
Never try to fit in where you can at highest be tolerated, look for a place where you are valued.
Stop wallowing in low self esteem and inferiority complex,
he or she does not like you but there are many out there who are secretly dreaming to date you.
You got to move on and smile
Stop acting so desperate for a person who don't like you to have a change of heart, you belittle yourself doing that,
Your destiny is not tied to that person, move on.
Get those fantasy about him or her off your mind and pre occupy it with productive things.
People are out there in the street hustling for money and you want to waste time killing yourself over a rejection?
Let them go.
There are many "fishes" in the river, you will catch one that will love you for who you are,
Someone that will love your imperfections,
Some who will love you but don't know why they love you so deeply
They will love that saggy breasts,
Those flat behind
Those dark skin
That crooked voice
That your k-leg
That your height
Those pot belly
Etc
They will love everything about you,
Never keep your head low over a rejection, look into the mirror and say hi to that beautiful being inside the mirror
Remember your crush may be crushing on the person crushing on you.
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Oriaku loves you all
Happy weekend

Consider reading this:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Matchmaker more like. Itibolibo

Hi.

Are you really from Awka-Etiti or Imo?

Regds.

Amarabae:
so women don't hustle?
What about those widows that are hustling to feed and train their children?

Is that an exception or the norm?

Bethel4Life:
So says d coward that didn't defect......

edit*****
*****

pls can i take a Roll call of those that didn't read this long epistle??
Or am i d only one??

I read every single word up there and I can very confidently assure you my dear, that he is not in the least way, a coward.

SamuelAnyawu:
I Stopped subscribing my DSTV Compact because i spend two weeks in Borno Villages (Damasak,Dikwa,Monguno,Rann,Pulka and Damboa Rooving) and only spend just two weeks in Maiduguri.


No be person tell me to switch to my Hard Drive Movies

This man. Are you with FHI?

I heard NGOs are the new rave in Borno now. How true?

Zico5:
I hope so but getting fixed game is very rare. some of those campaigning for it are fraudsters. All hope is not lost though. God is on our side.

Sure!

Zico5:
Yea, how I also wished he was legit. my hope was dashed. I couldn't think straight since I have learnt the truth. But would have been worst if I have committed to it. I read through the link u gave me yesterday and I'm greatly convinced about the guy that he is a fraudster.

Felt the same disappointment. I'd already structured how I could make N9m in 4 weeks.

I guess we'll just have to keep our eyes and ears open. Hopefully, another genuine one might just pop up.

Zico5:
Yes u are very right. the comments are edited before they are posted on-line. I was suspicious of this but some of the comments and the free games he talked about convince me alot. I have even rallied two of my friends to read through and they are very convinced that it's legit. U save a soul bro. is that how I would have lost almost 200k? Thanks so much.

You're welcome.

Warn your friends though. But if they are insistent, I'm curious to learn from their experience. I really wished that the guy was legit. Believe me. His odds are crazy. Until I decided to sniff around.

Zico5:
My God, is that how my hard-earned money should have gone? I am 1000℅ convinced if not that you hinted me now. I read through and the level of this fraud is amazing. I'm very sure that the person behind this is a Nigerian cos I got the link from Nairaland. Did u see anyone that has subscribed for this before and scammed or u are acting on your intuition.

The person that made that reddit post was scammed by him. Another commenter was also scammed.

Zico5:
Thanks dude, the site is too good to be true. I sent mail to him bringing the price down from $350 to $150. He waited for few hours then ask whether I want bitcoin or skrill as mean of payment. U might not know how much u saved me but I'm thankful. we cannot totally rule him out though. let's wait for his free game and prove him wrong totally.

He'll edit his post if his free prediction turns out to be wrong. Then block all dissenting comments.

That's why all comments on the blog are first moderated by him before they can appear for others to read.

Zico5:
Yes o bro. I just got the site and I have been thinking on what to do. pls how genuine are they and I don't know if u have tried them before. I don't mind combining with somebody just to do the business together. The money is on the high side.

Please hold and do not subscribe yet.

Go through this link:

https://www.reddit.com/r/fixedmatches/comments/90cn2t/anyone_tried_this_out_is_he_a_scammer/

I almost committed myself. Was a bit convinced but decided to dig deeper a bit.

Gaga admin's format is extremely convincing.

Zico5:
Pls bro, how can I open and fund skrill account here in Nigeria. I couldn't make any headway since I have been trying to fund bet365 account. pls I urgently need ur help on this

Are you a gaga subscriber?

HeWrites:
Civil society group which tracks government spending, TrackaNG shared these photos of a dilapidated primary school in Enugu state despite the alleged allocation of N30million for construction of new classrooms.

The group wrote;
"We tracked the construction of a blk of 3 classrooms with VIP toilet and furniture at community primary school IhuneKwagu Akpugoni Akamu west LGA, Enugu Senatorial District, Enugu state for N30m. This project has not been implemented as the pupils sit on the bare floor to learn"

https://www.torimill.co/news/9071/deplorable-state-of-a-school-in-enugu-despite-allocation-of-n30m-for-new-classrooms.html

Psychotic illiterate reporting!

Since when did a St Jude's Catholic school qualify for direct Government spending?

P.S. The sign board says Nkanu West LGA. They still went ahead to type Akamu West LGA. Did they even go there? How's one supposed to take their reporting serious?

chewbacca:
I would advice you to deposit and withdraw through Skrill.. it’s fast within 1-3 hrs, bank withdrawal can take days.
As for verification, you don’t have a problem with ID and bank statement.

Hi. I registered with Skrill to run my bet365 (deposit and withdrawals).

Final stage, what currency am I supposed to select? USD or NGN?

SamuelAnyawu:
They earn well especially in most housing sales deals....

So cold here in Maiduguri....

Senator Samuel Anyanwu for Governor Imo 2019

What are you doing in Maiduguri?

inoki247:
Dem don come again with dere twitter lies and Instagram lies... is time twitter and instagram program Lie Detector for dere site and application....

Could be true.

I was once given the responsibility of shortlisting applicants for a junior level position. Among the CVs shortlisted, I called the number of one of the applicants to notify him of the interview date. He couldn't hear me properly as he was in a bus. When I tried to introduce myself, he hung up on me. I dialled back, he picked, cut me off before I could say anything and asked me to call him back later. I'd say in a rude tone.

It happens bro.

chansmokers:
I am from anambra south senatorial district and I am talking from experience. Bianca Ojukwu is a wawa woman despite her marriage to the great ikemba. Most people from my district are still at loggerheads with her late father C.C Onoh. The greatest mistake Apga will make is to field her as a candidate.

Since when did Ngwo become wawa?

1. Chrome
2. Snaptube
3. Blockfolio
4. VLC

sonsomegrigbo:
The usual angry Igbo man

Igbo amaka...

Another trait of blind APC supporters: stark illiteracy.

You didn't read the thread title, did you?

Nackzy:
Seeing those beautiful women gives me Joy
I love seeing beautiful girls, in Nigeria u can see them in Uniport, Nekede, Imsu, Uniuyo, Unical pls add ur own

CSU, Zenith Bank PLC, Theirtama Branch.

safarigirl:
I hope sexual satisfaction can save this marriage since men are purportedly more interested in sex than values. I wonder how many marriages great sex has saved

Whatever it is a man desires in his wife sexually, he can get it if he teaches her. Even the freaks in bed, na pesin teach them. Nobody was born a freak in the bed, abi?

A lot of marriages have been saved by great sex dear. A lot.

It's not just sexual satisfaction.

The need for satisfaction comes in various forms. It could be assurance of a full stomach whenever he comes home, assurance of a clean home, an understanding and supportive wife, need for children andd of course great sex.

The needs vary and they could be mutually exclusive.

A man might become obsessed with being successful in business or career, to the detriment of family at home. Wife may begin to complain about neglect.

A man might be the homely kind, always trying to show love and receive same from the wife, wile not being too well-to-do. Wife may still complain.

But in the few years that I've roamed Nigeria's part of Earth, I've still come to realise that sex plays a great great role in cementing marriages. I'm very sure of that. Believe me, no matter how faithful a man may be, if the wife leaves him to be constantly dissatisfied sexually, there is a great chance that he will seek relief outside. Conversely, if he receives "sufficiently" (the term is relative) from the wife, it'll be difficult (not impossible) for him to cheat on her.


P.S. I don't think every wife can be taught great sex by the hubby. If she decides to be stuck up, she'll be stuck up and remain so.

emeijeh:
And so?!

I have just one song for her...


Omo na mental case!
START_TO DEY CRAZE

Funny you remember that song.

Both singers are actually from the same state. Abia.

edidiongmichael:
To stop all these killings, vote me as the next president

What's your action plan on stopping the killings if voted in as President?

Mitsurugi:
This scenario reminds me of KNOCK-KNOCK a thriller film featuring Keanu Reeves. If you watch that movie and what those two she-devils did you'll never accept two sexy women into your crib again. No matter the lure of their hips! Shege!

Have got the movie saved in my phone.

Benita27:
Those SARS guys know the kind of citizens they harass on the streets. And oga, why would you keep your wife's nudes on your phone even if you're the only one that has access to it?

I've encountered SARS several times along my work-home route. Can't recall having a bad experience from them.

I think it's one's appearance that probably ticks them off.

yarimo:
IPOB and drugs are like 5 and 6

Wrong bro.

It's aboki and drugs are like 5 and 6.

Sadly, I'm in group 4.

Life's boring.

clevvermind:
I have made cool money from my under 12.5 corners. Betting on wins is frustrating.

There was a time that strategy worked for me. Also failed me when I increased my stake. Haven't tried again in a while.

You did this during WC matches?

yhungbrowhne:
what shpuld i do

maka go jump inside lagoon too

At least 2 games cut.

pyyxxaro:
Pls permit me to blame Buhari and Super Eagles for this




I said Pls oh

Your plea is accepted.

Carry on!