Maks27:
She’s a girl I love very much but our relationship hasn’t gone real far . She told me this of recent with evidence for me to know it’s real and true
What do I do?
She said I shouldn’t hurt her that things will go well for me
I need advice from Matured Nairalanders on this matter


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Beremx:
Seun Osewa, it's high time you brought back the 'CANCEL' icon so that comment like this is trashed.
See nonsense pesin dey talk?

kehnderson:
Hello good members of the group. I hope this message finds you well. My friend has been exploring opportunities in the civil service, and I've heard that having the support of well-connected individuals (not just merit) can be beneficial. Given the network and experience of some members here, I was wondering if any kind hearted might have any link to politicians (or the likes) or advice or guidance on navigating this process. He's frustrated so, he'd greatly value your insights and appreciate any assistance you could provide.

Ojb194616:
I have been married for two years now.
However there's this man I told my wife to stop communicating with, a former colleague, friend or so.
Not like i caught them cheating. I only did not like the way they communicated before we got married, as I stumbled on their chat while she was single.
But she assured me, he was just a friend, and swore there was nothing more.


However, we are almost in the second year of marriage, cutting communication seem really difficult.

Presently, my wife archived their chat on WhatsApp after we quarreled seriously on the same issue.

Anytime the conversations comes up she denies not communicating anymore with him, not knowing I have her logged in on my laptop.

Sometimes she agrees and promise to stop.

From thier conversations, nothing seem bad.
However, I am just worried why my wife can't let him go.

bobonla:

How do u know? If she was having anal sex with another man. It would have been easy for me to have penile entry

bobonla:

Stuff is. I find it very difficult to penetrete the ass

Jambula:
Pls I will need mature answers,as my woman is also on Nairaland..
Is it natural after like 3 days we didn't had se.x,she came back and became wider?
It has happened before and she said it was because she was about seeing her period,now she has finished seeing her period and this is happening again,note that the private part got closed before,I am worried because we are suppose to get married before March next year.

Is it natural?

Mysteriousworld:
A younger brother of mine saw a message on his finances phone.
She sent a message to a guy on instagram, telling him she likes his lips, so tempting.
Now shes claiming its not a big deal, that she doesn't even know the guy, that hes just an instagram model...(its true she doesnt know him,and have never met him).
But my brother doesnt feel good about it, he asked for my advice, and i decided to put it here for him to see himself.

Pls is this a red flag... Or not much of a big deal. The wedding is in February.

omoabu:
I need advice on this:

I am a young lady in my late 20s, just married an elderly man in his late 40s, delivered a set of twins about 3 months ago and since then no sex.

Anytime I try to make advance to the man he gives excuses of been tired and recently give excuses of been diabetic.

I wants to request from my husband to buy me vibrator or what can I do?

Please advice 😉😉

smalldivk111:
Please your thoughts are needed….. there is a 15 year old girl crushing on me and I have talked with her we are about to do the do but I’m just having a retrospect about the whole thing


Should I continue?

SenecaTheYonger:


Length don’t really matter with wide puss, only how fat your penis is that matters.

6 is okay if you’re thick. But she’s had thicker partners than you. Sorry.

Lyrics269:
Most men in Nigeria are coded bisexuals who always cry about women and deceive girls but end up pleasuring themselves with men.
Never trust a nigerian man, they have sex with anything under skirt and trouser.
Most of your boyfriends are gays and bisexuals in disguise using you
Bobrisky and co are being patronized by some of your fathers and boyfriends.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

iTroll:

As usual and as I expected from your gender, you said complete and total rubbish
Instagram and tiktok have decayed your brain
Don't worry, continue
Na Shiloh you go land lass lass

Boondocxs:
I’ve noticed that men don’t freely “dash” money to young babes anymore
No more freebies anymore
They are now doing sex for money
Before I know of men that will give 10-100k for dash because I’m a fine babe
But now with all the sweet talking all you’ll get is 2-5k
Ahh it’s worrisome oh
President tinubu should stop making things difficult for our men
I’m still a young babe. I need to be babied

Broke men should stay off I’m not talking to you

thesicilian:


The bolded part clearly shows that what stopped you from having sex with your minor student was the fear of getting caught and going to jail. It was not morals. The fact that you would even consider having sex with your own student shows gross deficiency in the morals department.

Openlife:

OpenLife Nigeria reports that a federal high court, sitting in Ikoyi, Lagos state, south west Nigeria, has adjourned the trial of a 40 years old Clinical Sexologist Marriage counselor,Cecilia May Agu to February 7,2024.
The Clinical Sexologist is alleged to have committed computer related forgery and computer related fraud.
Cecilia May Agu and others at large were alleged to have swindled a web designer, Babatunde Oyebode to the tune of N275Million and $1,358,305
According to Nine count amended charge filed before the court against the woman,by Police prosecuting counsel, Barrister Samuel E.Iredia from Police/ prosecution section Zone 2 Police command Onikan Lagos,it was allegedly stated that Cecilia May Agu female and others now at large, on the 20th day of February, 2023 at 28B, Babatunde Ajose, Admiralty Way Lekki Phase 1, Lagos State, within Lagos Judicial Division of the Federal High Court, did conspire to commit felony to wit: Computer Related Forgery and Computer Related Fraud and thereby committed and offence punishable under section 27 (a) and (b) of the Cybercrime (Prohibition Prevention) Acts, 2015
Cecilia May Agu female and others now at large, on same date, place and time, in the aforementioned Judicial Division, did inputs, alters, delete or suppresses any data resulting authentic data, with the intention that such authentic data will be considered as if it were authentic or genuine, regardless of whether or not such data is directly readable or intelligible and thereby committed an offence punishable under section 13 of the Cybercrime (Prohibition Prevention) Acts, 2015.
The defendant and others now at large, on same date, place and time, without authority and with intent to defraud was alleged to have sent electronic message and misrepresent herself to Mr. Babatunde Oyebode that she will help him to verify, validate and authenticate Instagram pages of his clients, which she did not and defrauded him the sum of N275,000,000.and thereby committed an offence punishable under section 14 (1),(2) and (3) of the cybercrime (prohibition Prevention)Acts,2015.

Apart from charging her for obtainning by false pretense, Cecilia May Agu was also charged for stealing N275 Million and $1,358,305 USD from Babatunde Oyebode on the pretence that she was going to help him verify, validate and authenticate Instagram pages of his clients, a representation she knew to be false, and thereby committed an offence punishable under section 1(a) (b) (2) and section 11 (1) and (2) of the Advance Fee Fraud and Other Fraud Related Offences Acts 2006.
Cecilia May Agu female and others now at large, on same date, place were alleged to have stolen the sum $1,358,305 USD (One Million, Three Hundred and Fifty - Eight Thousand, Three Hundred and Five USD), property of Mr. Babatunde Oyebode, and thereby committed an offence punishable under section 390 of the Criminal Code Laws of Nigeria 2006
Cecilia May Agu who was arraigned before the court sometime this year is currently on bail.