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APC are like Republican,they will never concede defeat

I kno.my sister will never lack clothing. He is a professional fashion designer,he will use banana leave to sow bra for her.

Their wedding,their choice. If a stripper gets married and decide to invite her colleague for the occasion, fine.

Let us not judge anyone here. Dancers are paid. The difference is they choose to dance while putting on little or no clothing.

Be a lady they said’

‘Don’t show your skin, don’t show your thighs. Cover up! Leave something to imagination.

Loosen up. Show some skin. Look sexy. Look hot!

Don’t be provocative. YOU ARE ASKING FOR IT!

You are too dressed up

You are too dressed down.

‘You are asking for it’ statement caught my attention. Its either your red lipstick was too red, or your skirt was too short, or your cleavage was too wide. Or worse… your boobs were too big!


Huddah cosmetics
Stop with the makeup you slut, why are you trying to deceive and trick our men and sons.

Cover up! You are so vain.

Who said you are pretty? Don’t be conceited.

Be humble. Being comfortable in your skin just makes you a hoe.

Be a lady. But at the back of your mind know that whatever you do, the society will judge you, SLUT.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/15/the-ordeal-of-a-woman/

Psychological test

Fear of uncertainty
Fear of violence
Fear of teaming up with ipob ,Ipob may outsmart them

Before civil war,

Chidren born in the 1980s do this. As a hobby .indomie generation will not understand

blazepascal:
please whats the cause of someone being an homosexual, because im sure God didnt create anyone to be gay or lesbian.

There are so many reasons. Few are biological while the rest are societal conditioning. A Catholics seminary where there are only guys, no girl to show love to. They learn to divert their urge to the available guy. The same is applicable for prisons,unisex school and places where we sapeerate gender. Read more
https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/

Browsing in toilet

Children should be made to do things out of duty in the beginning.As they grow up, duty should be gradually replaced by love. Love is a better teacher than obligation.  Duty is mechanical and externally motivated by a sence of obligation . Love makes it easier. Love transform responsibility to joy. A sence of  duty warmed by a love for humanity creates the best result.

I have seen a girl  reject suitor so they can take care their aging parents. While the act is commendable,It should be done out of love and not out of society expectation so she doesn’t regret it taking care of aged parent should be done from the bottom of her heart and not as a debt she owes you.  

The factory worker who constantly looks at the clock for it to be five o click to drop his tools work out of duty and not out of love .  Such a man will have lots of regret when he finally retires. Christianity is one religion built out of love rather than a sence of duty. God love the world that he gave his son……He did not owe the world. No one would punnish him for non compliance.To  be a great teacher, begin by loving children. To be a great auto-mechanic, begin by loving automobile. Parents show love to your children. Children show love to parents
https://tobechispeaks./2015/03/11/apart-from-paying-your-school-fees-and-providing-shelter-what-other-impacts-did-your-father-had-in-your-life/

Mental health test.
Some people can pretend ,when they get married you Kno they are not married

I wish them well

Entitlement mentality

Alpha women

I no dey call person for phone.

But I dey message am day and night.

This has nothing to do with women. Any individual can act like this

What if you eat human meat,but no b u kill am

But Casablanca can come to hin

I love Kumuyi ability to admit his wrong

Tell them to pray for us

Religion can be a destructive habit

He may be bad but he foundedca Noble course

Some churches hold service on hotels

Is this good or bad news

We're they prophesing because they were virgin

Do all virgin prophesy

If you want to be a virgin ,do so,
If you want to be a slut, do so


Animals live their true identity

Not chained by the expectation of society

Eat when hungry

Mate when Hot


Without feeling ashamed

No clergy to place blame

A New born child is a sinner

So says a book that praises murderers

The gods created us nude

Yet unclothedness is a taboo it makes no sense

But we do not want to look different

So we put on a covering

And betray our true feeling.

We hide our true self

And show our false self

We tell children not to cheat

We are no different from hypocrite


Stop the pretence

Break the fence

Speak your unpopular opinion

Though it may conflict with established institution

Be yourself in the face of death

Your killers will oneday loose their breath

It is better to say your mind

Than to live a lie

How will someone else accept you

When you cannot love you

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/07/dirty-miracle/

Reading the Bible

Follow your conscience and experience

Pastor Daddy Freeze, he is Authentic.he speaks what he believes even though controversial

To make heaven on Earth,the first step is to loosen our grip on all we think. Let go of your opinion, morality, deeply held belief. All these make up the false self. To be born again is to scrape off the false self , the society- taught way of thinking and open oneself to a new one. By dying to our old self, we let go of all previous teaching we have ever received. A born again person experience a change in perspective. It seems his values is turned upside down. He takes on a new personality and mindset. He leaves old friends. The world around him no longer make sence. Things you used to enjoy no longer serve you. You tend to spend more time alone.


Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/18/to-doubt-is-not-a-sin/

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