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Onyeagocha Chidinma
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Said it on a previous thread, saying it again:

TB Joshua and his back-dated 'prophecies'. Rubbish.

Dokintaoge: That reminds me, i have this question to ask great NLs. Pls is it advisable for a lady to learn piano, is there any benefit to that? I'm asking cos i'm learning piano presently but i'm somehow discouraged now and i'm about to quit. Please need your candid advice. No insult.

And how does your s€x (male or female) affect your playing the piano? Whether you're discouraged or not is a human thing, not a female thing.

What I play: Piano.
What I'd like to play: Violin and bass guitar.

souldust: instead make you ask wetin the ship fit do first of all, you don dey dey skeptical already. Doubters will doubt anyway

We doubt, with good reason.

ememonl: http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/headlines/118146-nigerian-fake-pastors-and-church-businesses-exposed-video.html

Follow the above link and see the documentary done by a foriegn journalist about sign fireman, before you make another comment.

So 'Sign Fireman' has a yellow Hummer 4x4 and moves in a convoy of other yellow cars... And people throw so much money at his feet in his revival that it has to be taken away in dustbins...

People are gullible.

Jenams: Until IBO people reduce ЂΞ cost of gettin married τ̅o their daughters, rape cases will continue τ̅o emanate frm ∂α region. Cause & effects theory.

Isn't this a silly comment.

@Stagger: Please. Is it today the story broke? Abi because na 'man of God'.

'Slow-a$$ dude, talking about going back to the 'good decent girlfriend' like she's been waiting around for him all this time. Why are you coming here to complain? Marry your high-maintenance chick jare- step up and make that money for her to spend.'

Oops, old post.

What did I say on the last TB thread? It's only after the event has occured that news of his 'prophecy' comes out. Back-dated prophecies. Rubbish.

I really don't know why people are getting sticks up their a$$es, about what other people stick up their a$$es. Is it your body? Are they chyking you? Live and let live, please.

^ Someone drank the Kool-Aid.

TB Joshua and his back-dated prophecies. It's always after the plane has crashed, or the person has died, or the football game is over that one hears about his prediction of the crash/death/scores.
It's working for him though, look how many sheep he's deceiving.

SimonAndal: @OP, you'll die and go to hell! Seriously! The devil will wear you for prom, and Castiel won't be there to drag our arse outta hell!

Cas is awesome. That is all.

Duh.

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]No i can't. It makes no sense whatsoever to remain friends with someone who discombobulated your emotions, auctioned it, and eventually sold it. An ex is an ex. Remove the old, and make way for the new. I won't hate her, but i won't pick up the phone to call and find out about her whereabouts. I'll only communicate with her when we meet accidentally at an event or any random place. . . Meeting her would never be premeditated.

She's not the only one that can make me happy, why would i allow her make me miserable by remembering our past everytime i see her as just a friend? Life goes on gaddammit! [/color][/quote]Exactly.

9jafreak: [size=16pt]
3. Perhaps the real challenge is how to separate 'God' ('The One') from Organized Religion.

Sadly that day may not come in our era.[/size]

Absolutely. Organized religion does more harm than good to the concept of God. More punitive than progressive, as Callotti said.

PStylish: @All
Walking away is NOT ok.
But if you have no other choice than that, then be ready to remain single (no sex) till your spouse (ex) dies. That is what the Bible says.
Or are we not Christians again?
Didn't you marry in the church?
How can you marry in a church and decide to violate the Christian manual for marriage?
Didn't you attend marriage counselling prior to your wedding?
Is your husband not supposed to be born again? Didn't you allow prevent your Pastor from drilling your would be husband to ascertain his level of seriousness and love for you?
Didn't you shun your parents' and family members' wise counsel as regards your would be hubby? Didn't you snub your family by going ahead with a 'registry' marriage attended by 4 friends when it became glaring that you family wouldn't support you marrying that man?
Didn't you rise to his defence whenever his character flaws were discussed?
Don't you really love him from your heart?
Were you not blinded by love?
Didn't you give him your pride/body before your wedding day against Christians norms?
Didn't you get pregnant before your marriage?
This is why many women will hang on.

2 words come to mind here:

1. Sadist - one who takes pleasure inflicting pain on people. Usually male. A sadist is not a sad person.

2. Masochist - one who takes pleasure in being punished (manhandled) for wrongdoing. Usually female.
Now imagine what will happen if a sadist (man) marries a masochist (woman)

And to all you women feeling like you can do away with your hubbies like trash at any time, t, I say its because you donot really love them.
I have come to realise that a woman''s love for a man comes naturally. You don't have to do anything to earn it.It's either she loves you or she doesn't.Chikena.
A woman will rather die than leave a man she really loves naturally. Its that bad.

None of those things you so kindly listed is an excuse for abuse.
As for dying instead of leaving, read a newspaper sometime- that's what happens. I suppose that's what you're advocating. God save women.

lastpage: Just like people who have destroyed their own marriage are NOT IN A POSITION to offer advice on what a blissful marriage feels like, right?
Just using your logic o!
I am happy that the evil "association members" are "kind enough" to cull some of the "statements" of people who really know this two (I dont know them and never heard of them) from LI's blog. From the account of people who had stayed under the same roof with them, people who have worked with the husband (including that one who says "everybody in the office dislikes Ken), one can still read a "good report" about he husband!

Only just strange that the "old husband-less brigade" are only interested in condemning ALL MEN!
It is wrong to say all women are beasts just like it is wrong to say Men are Monsters, just because you cant handle yours naah!

Why are these bitches ex-wives focusing on the negative innuendos written by the sister who signed her sister's "death-warrant" (knowing that she was not supposed to undergo surgery, especially in a Naija hospital! LKWMD) while ignoring the "positive comments" by those who really knew them and have no "hidden interest" in this matter? Does that not portray them as vengeful women who have made it their lot in life to be man-haters?

Truth is bitter. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. Dont blame someone else for your failure, blame yourself!
*Why are they not mentioning that Ogo has a serious medical condition that caused her death, coupled with bad medical advice?
*Why are they not interested in the fact that the husband tried everything humanly he could do, to get his wife's ailment treated?
*Why are they not interested in the fact that the man loved his daughter? (Like all men, they are usually close to their daughters that Mothers could get jealous at times, l have one and l know this,; but the wicked sister writing this E-mail painted a wicked picture that they would rather believe!)
*Why is it that it is usually women who have destroyed and lost their own marriage that are always overly critical of our husbands? Why do they want to encourage others to join them?
*Since we are not a witness to what happened, we can only rely on "stories" we read but is it not a good evidence of an "evil heart" if anyone chose to accept a story that vilifies the husband while pretending and condemning those that show the husband in good light? Why cant people be "fair to all concerned" in a public issue like this? Do we not know the effect on the children as well?

Now, tell me, in specific sentences, THE CRIMES OF THIS HUSBAND THAT RESULTED DIRECTLY IN THE DEATH OF HIS WIFE.
Thank God you agreed he did not strangle her, at least we can start from there. He is no saint (I suspect he is one of those men that carry babes; too much money, sick wife, big-boy lifestyle, e.t.c) but IS HE A MURDERER as portrayed by his wife's sister?

Lastpage.

BTW: My husband does not humble himself before me, he does not need to as l treat him like a king that he really is, but he treats me with love and kindness and treasures his marriage, as much as l do. We do have differences as l pointed out earlier but will l rush and throw my marriage into the bin like those ones up there, at the slightest sign of "serious differences between us", God forbid.
I will let him finish his "shakara and gra-gra" first, "without adding fire to the frying pan", then l will call him to the table and tell him my mind, "frankly but without disrespecting or hurting his manly ego".
By the time l finish with him, even he will agree that it is 'woman that bore man' and he would have no other option than to see his error; done properly, he would have no choice than to apologize with a promise of proper behavior!
That is marriage for you: its like a sea trip; sometimes quiet, sometimes swift, some times blissful, sometimes stormy!

We must understand that it is fruitless for a wife to engage in a "war of muscles" with your husband, use what is called "bedroom diplomacy" and all women must (should have) learnt it! But then, like beget likes, daughter of 'single mother', who go teach am, wetin she go teach her daughter if not what she has practiced?

If you're going to be all sanctimonious about it, then don't misquote people. I've read the whole thread and nobody said 'all men are monsters'. In fact, I believe one of the ladies commenting said she left an abuser and is now remarried to a better man.

TB = tuberculosis. Sorry.

And anyone who believes that they've been cured of any disease without adequate confirmation is a fool.

[quote author=e-herbal]some tins happen cause they're meant to. it Was how they were meant to go.[/quote]How they were meant to go, my eye. Even if I'm supposed to die tomorrow, I'm pretty sure I'm not 'meant to go' by falling into a well/reservoir.

jamace: Suicide can not be done in a bathtub or lake of less than 1 meter deep. It was obvious the man was killed. It is a case of pure murder. Period.

I watched a documentary about unusual deaths- a man accidentally drowned in a bowl of drinking water meant for his dog. It's not the size of the water body, it's how much of it gets into the lungs.

Logical progression- from spiritual husband to spiritual pregnancy. What's next, spiritual naming ceremony?

omega25red: why does your cousin care if this woman is using her? why does she care if she talks to her or not?

life rule number 15 when someone is bullshyting you and you call them out on their bullshyt, their reaction is their own business and not yours. If she had the courage to react to the slavery this woman was trying to put her under then she should have to courage to not feel bad about it

Life rule number 15? Now I'm curious. How many rules are there? What are they? Perhaps you could open a thread on the subject...

ArQueBusieR: Sounds like prostitution.

Yup.

My dreams, when I have them, are quite life-like, but I've never dreamt about any of the above. If you have dreamt about more than one of those, you might want to evaluate yourself.

DTMFA (dump the m*****f***** already), call the police. Easy.

Ogamgil: Do not criticize a fellow christian or judge them you criticize the law and judge it. If u judge d law, them u are no longer one who obeys the law, but one who judges it. GOD is the only lawgiver and judge. He alone can save and destroy. WHO do You think you are to judge someone else. James4 11-12. He who is holy should caste the first stone. Touch not my anointed and lay my prophet on harm. All this are written in d bible its better my Fellow christians 2 adhere 2 his word.

Oh yes, the 'touch not my anointed...' verse. Classic.

mojounited: Other schedules of the committee include ensuring effective monitoring and supervision of the feeding system to make sure there was quality in the food chain and feeding processes adequate feed as well as checkmate possible attempts at pilfering food items.

So you employ people to make sure that other people don't steal your food. Okay o. They wouldn't steal food if they weren't hungry.