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Ugaboy:
. This OP English...I have to read twice in between lines.

before I could Understand.

Nairaland Mods are just pushing substandard content to front page this days...cus of traffics.

Nah you dey read faster than your brain lol!

Nothing wrong with the English

Clout chaser. Nah so you hot reach?

NEXT TOPIC PLEASE!

Thelannister:
Noted

But don’t subscribe to leaving the cash in my bank, there must be something I can purchase in crypto

Nah wah for you ooo

Why not wait for like a month or two?

Thelannister:
How much longer can I wait sir?


Can I purchase usd at the moment then ?

The analysis is based on the 46000 threshold.

Bitcoin may not get to 46k before it Climbs but if it crashes to 46k then the drop will continue.

So just relax and leave your money in the bank for now. Or do something else with it

When Bitcoin crashes then you can buy back.

Watch out for an impending crash of cryptos and know when to buy back for insane profits.





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXXDVF4ngAw

Thelannister:
Every one is talking about crypto, but only few knows how it’s works or run.

I have an extra 500K that I want to use to invest in crypto.

These are my questions and concern, I’m
Contemplating btw buying USD dollar worth of 500k and keep or purchase bitcoin worth of same amount.
Now this my worries, btc rate dropped recently, which means this is the best time to purchase, pls how do I purchase bitcoin at a cheaper rate.

Another worries is, I don’t not trust blockchain wallets anymore, which other wallet can you suggest I keep my crypto’s. About 3months ago, I sent someone $120 worth of bitcoin to someone else block chain, till today it’s no where to be traced, since that day, I lost my trust for all these wallets.

If I’m to purchase USD with naira and keep how do
I go about it ?? I really and strongly believe in few months to come both usd dollar and btc will raise largely due to some future news that will rock the world.

Someone should just put me through


And if you are selling btc at a cheaper rate inbox me ASAP to dialogue, for south west connect only pls

WhatsApp on profile

Don't invest yet..

Watch out for an impending crash of cryptos and know when to buy back for insane profits.





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXXDVF4ngAw

Watch out for an impending crash of cryptos and know when to buy back for insane profits.





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXXDVF4ngAw

molybdenum0012:
Awww... You be my senior bros then. Respect sir.
The point I am trying to make is at the bolded. If you marry your spec, you will still meet another great lady that will enter your eyes. It will take discipline, commitment and fear of God not to cheat these days if opportunity presents itself. ..

You will even see a man that cheats on his wife with lady not so attractive compare to his wife oo. Maybe the saying that African men are polygamous by nature is actually true.

Regardless of whether they marry their spec or not, most men will still cheat on their wives if they have the opportunity. That is if they are so sure their wives will never find out or destroy their marriage later.

Like you said, most men cheat for fun. This may be because they are used to frolicking with different women prior to marriage..So to curtail such habit may be hard even in marriage.

I think women should up their game in the bedroom.

See no be just by outward beauty. Just like a guy can have a big schlong and yet not use it well, some ladies can be very hot but have no sex skills.

If a lady knows how to handle her husband well in the bedroom, staying faithful to her will come naturally. Trust me on this cos cheating starts with fantasising and when a lady leaves you with nothing to fantasise about then you will just see yourself staying put.

And let me give married ladies this free advise...

1. Learn how to suck your husband dck.....99.9% of men will die to have a good dck scker and i mean good sucking like a pro.
2. Screw him like a LovePeddler as in proper ashawo and not like one decent boring sis mary.
3. Adore him and tell him how sweet he is....respect him and learn how to cook three out of his best meals.
4. Don't monitor him.
5. Be financially independent.

That's all, he is all yours till death even if he cheats, he will always run back to you.

DEMZEE:
Men are designed to be promiscuous that is why we want quantity and we are after variety. U can't fight ur biological makeup dude.

Beauty is vain and will always diminish as every year passes even ladies know this.

Even guys diminish so what is the big deal. Don't get me wrong...guys cheat for the fun of it but if i ever want to be with another lady i get a concubine...simple. I think it is stupid to cheat on a lady when you can simply get another lady as a permanent option.

Why should i indulge in adultery when i can simply marry another lady or even marry as many as i want and enjoy a sinless orgy if needs be? and talking about getting another lady, ii dont need to do any big wedding...i simply get any young lady with body to die for, pay her parents her bride price and get one small apartment for her ...that's all, no long thing. Go to states like Benue, rivers state, akwa ibom and several other states and see extremely hot young ladies praying for a man to just marry them and their parents will package her for you if you are ready to marry and train her...you don't need to worry your head with these so called sophisticated oversabi ladies that may ruin you with their crazy demands.

molybdenum0012:
Big fat lie.. Spec ko. Spec ni. Anybody wey go chest go cheat irrespective of whether he married his spec or not.. Cheating is wey beyond that. It is personal discipline bro, not about being with spec or not..

You won't understand, I know. Maybe few years to come

Which few years? im over 40 so anything i write as regards relationship is from experience.

I did not say he won't cheat but he MAY find it difficult cos he has his specs and im not talking about guys who are possessed with the spirit of philandering but regular disciplined guy. With my spec, i won't even think of cheating let alone do it especially if the lady now knows how to handle me in the bedroom then its over. I die there.

if she is getting older i will go for liposuction and boobs augmentation to still give her that sweet looks.

Guy this cheating thing nah mindset o. Just that it is what it is, guys cheat just for the fun of it.

DEMZEE:
God forbid

Even women will never deal with single fathers. It baffles me wen I see guys who willing wanna b cuckold nawa ooo.

Omo beta male simps dey oo

It is in Naija that single mums are stigmatized but outside naija they are the real deal and guys actually prefer them to single ladies without kids cos in most cases, they are calmer, more mature, emotionally strong and dependable but for me you must be very hot to be considered and i can't do more than a mother of one.

However, if the lady is the type who is still very much entangled with the baby daddy then i won't get involved.

falcon01:
well
1. Davidos Voice is Not good
2. His Songs don't make sense same as 90% Nigerian songs
3. He is a rich kid who got all the tools to succeed in life

As far as i am concerned, Davido is my number one, the champion.

His songs are for this part of the world. Asides very few burna boy songs i find cool like onyeka and Anybody, most of Bboy songs no just be am but then everyman to his choice.

Doortun:
Someone woke up.

Single mothers are not marriage materials. The baby father is probably one alpha that will be occasionally topping her up.

Single mother is a no no.

Single mothers are actually the real deal if you find a very hot cool mature one that has no baby daddy drama.

HappyCanadian:
Hey Guys,

I created this thread to thank and update you guys how my strong closeness with the single mother ended after receiving advice here....
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6477303/how-leave-single-mother-without

Before I start I want to correct the negative impression a lot of you had thinking I was chatting with her in Nigeria> FYI me and her live in the same city in Canada but I met her through a popular dating site.

So after the brilliant advice from the previous thread which I remained grateful to everyone that contributed. I messaged her two days later on Instagram to come let's talk. She arrived at my apartment and called to tell me that she was trapped in the snow mud with her car and I had to come out and labor that night in a wicked cold weather to make sure I brought out her car which I did and she went gaga the more heaping all kinds of romantic praises on me . Later on, we started discussing and I told her respectfully that I needed time to think through our friendship as I wasn't ready for something serious/relationship which she is gunning for, since I noticed she became too obsessed and close with me that a day does not pass without her thinking about me or messaging. As I talked to her she remained quiet of course I knew she was disappointed and didn't look happy cause that was not what she expected. Then after, I jokingly told her a family friend saw her photo on my WhatsApp (false) and became interested in knowing her she was quiet and kept listening till I finished and then one hour later she said she was going.

When she got home she wrote me that she has seen I needed my space and time and that she would move on with her life but saying she doesn't like the idea of telling her about someone else when it was me she had feelings for.. which I apologized.

Since then she became quiet kinda saying I friend zoned her though I didn't, hardly writes me and does not think of visiting me or whatsoever. But I recently called her to "extend an olive branch" since she wasn't cool about my friend I told her, and she was rather interested in knowing why I called her to appear saying she thought I would define what we are or ask her for a relationship having known for months and all that which I maintained my stand . At the end, she mentioned everything I said boils down to her distancing herself from me so I will have my time and do my thing. Few minutes later she stood up to leave and I walked her down, she entered her car and left.

I felt for her then but I know she is fine now. The thing is that I do not likely see myself settling with her as I have my reasons, plans and spec in a babe.. yes I liked her and we vibe and crack sometimes but I got to be honest with her as was advised here.. again she is so sensitive probably her Canadian lifestyle.

Thankfully its over and we are free.. most importantly I have learnt some lessons but above all I wish her well.
When next I see one I will recall this incident and keep calm

#Respect to the Mods & Nairalanders

You did well bro.

As a guy it is either your spec or die single. I don't believe in all those shitty talks of behaviour over spec. You can get your spec with the type of behaviour you can at least tolerate.

I had that issue too where people were wondering why i was still single despite my good looks bla bla bla but i tried to tell them that i have not found my spec but i was just sounding like a broken record to them.

Any guy who is married to a lady that is not his spec especially physically, will either end up fantasising over his spec for the rest of his marital life or may end up having a side chic that matches his spec. But when you get your spec, it will be very difficult for you to even contemplate cheating on her.

frankdre:
keep consoling yourself there. Go get a husband

I'm a guy so I know what I'm saying.


Infact in most cases, good ladies end up with terrible men.

frankdre:
It seems to be the future for worthless and cheap ladies. Those with values with still get quality husband's to marry. Marriage still favours lots of ladies. That title MRS is bay!

That a lady is valuable is not a sure ticket to get a good husband.

falcon01:
lazy ass B*tch!! can't even work out to burn fat!.

lol! Nah so e easy to burn fat with exercise?

frankdre:
delusional ladies. They have finally accepted BABY MAMA as a title instead of MRS

With the way marriage is turning out to be, baby mama seems to be the future. Strange but true.

Non surgical as how?

It is still a surgery but minimally invasive one.

Philipponzaghi:
When we get Oduduwa Republic, Yorubaland will be Africa Silicon Valley.

God bless every Yoruba and Yoruba well wishers.

Yoruba Lagba!

We have great minds in all tribes but i have to give it to the Yorubas....The most sophisticated, enlightened and educated tribe in Nigeria.

i don't see any big deal here.

Yes Ladies lie but i have seen many beautiful virgins even above that age.

Haylel:
Toks2008, do you still believe in this shit?

Take a look at number 15 and you will catch the drift.

This guy's desperation is appalling.

He will never be our president..

If its not Osinbajo then I will rather vote for a dog than vote him in.


He is a king maker and in yoruba land, a king maker does not clamour to be a king.

The best he could do is to present osinbajo to Nigerians and APC will carry the day else APC is dead on Arrival.

Hmmm

Fire service vehicle currently faulty..

Hospitals will tell you no space, they can't handle it.

May their souls R.I.P

There was a country.

How many times will they waste our resources on this never ending National conference?

Twice they have had it during OBJ and Jonathan regime.

Let them just marry the two together and implement the recommendations they came up with.

DEMZEE:
Peace of mind over spec

Women beauty diminishes with time.

I noticed that most men that are looking for spec because they are thinking with a feminine mindset. Most men have scarcity mindset and so they are as loyal as their options. Men's game is attaining as many women as possible. Women's game is locking down a high value man.
Men want quantity, women want quality that is why women want men who are superior to them in every areas of life (financially,physically etc) but men just want women who are fit, attractive and friendly. Men don't care about a woman's status but women love men who have status because women are attracted to men who other men wanna be and other women wanna Bleep.

At the end, everything nah madness.

A guy goes for peace and whenever he makes love to his peace of mind he wishes he is doing his spec....Abeg this thing just dey complicated.

Me i have always gone for my spec and always ready to tolerate anything asides unfaithfulness. I cant be in bed with my wife and starts imagining i'm doing another lady. That is serious sexual bondage.

Ishilove:
People become case studies and part of the statistics when the choose specs over peace of mind. Of course they will tell you "I can't marry someone I'm not attracted to", but they forget that specs alone cannot sustain a marriage. That face will wrinkle, the ass will become wobbly, the nacks will definitely reduce overtime, but you see that intangible aspect of them that will not be ravaged by the passage of time? That is what will keep the marriage going when all else becomes flabby and wrinkled.

Ishilove you are so very right but you and i know that the heart wants what it wants and this is the inner conflict that makes romance very intriguing.

Even you that wrote that will never ever settle below a certain spec even if your phronesis tells you such man is the right one for you but if we can truly understand that peace of mind is very very important and meticulously choose a partner that we know will give us peace of mind, we will enjoy the best romance ever...BUT THE QUESTION IS...''WILL OUR HEARTS ALLOW US''?

Specs in most cases generate a subliminal peace of mind. It is a mystery.

So For guys Spec but for ladies, Peace of mind cos if you are not your husband's spec, any small mistake you make will most likely be magnified by him but if you are his spec, even if you slap him, he will most likely forgive you.

For a Man to divorce his spec, then the offence go dey very serious but if you are not a man's spec, even farting could trigger a divorce.

America is about the most dangerous country to live in simply because you are never sure if the person next to you will start killing people.

Very sad.

Rozcol:
You are right, most beautiful girls are usually lonely,people assume a lot of things about you from far,some keep a cold face towards you and makes you wonder if you did anything wrong, some just want to show to your face how worthless you are to them and lot more but few are nice you, it's complicated and draining.

Outward beauty is very relative...

Many people confuse pretty face for outward beauty but to me, if you don't have those curves, then forget it no matter how pretty your face may be.

And I'm supposed to believe this.

pocohantas:
Oga Toks, what makes you think it must be Davido that would dump Chioma? Can’t Chioma as a woman get tired of sticking to a palliative prick and “dump” him?

Even Tuface never dumped Annie, despite how much he “loved” her. Davido and Chioma story is nothing on Tuface and Annie, but Anniie left and Tuface came back for her when he was ready to have sense.

2Baba story is way way different from Davido's Annie met 2Baba when he had nothing to his name except a hustling broke guy trying his hands on music, he did not even have any baby mama drama at that time so Annie loved him as a young 17year old.

In the case of CHioma and David it was clear that David was randy and already had billions and baby mama drama before Chioma ventured in.

So the probability that Chioma left is almost nil not even after having a child for him knowing fully well that it is a serious stigma in the Igbo land to be a baby mama.