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Rozcol:
You preach polygamy a lot hmmmm you must be very polygamous in nature,tell me how polygamous you've been so far as a married man?lol

It's not about preaching polygamy but if is about correcting the lies surrounding it.

I am very monagamous at the moment but I won't hesitate to have another lady IF I EVER FEEL LIKE.

One man one woman is white man's lie... Its simply a matter of choice.

Rozcol:
A bad experience is never a good reason and doesn't warrant a guy to suddenly turn promiscuous,any man who turned promiscuous has it hidden in his bone marrows and waiting for an opportunity to unleash his raging hormones.

Yes guys have it in their bone marrow to be "randy" but in the decent world we call it polygamous.

So whilst I don't support promiscuity in anyway, I believe polygamy is better and most polygamous men will have a story attached to their decisions.

Rozcol:
There's nothing as beautiful and candy as a successful decent man.With this statement of his I'm already a fan,may Grammy award locate you wherever you are.Say no to promiscuous life as a man.Shalom

See in most cases, bad guys were once good guys who met one bad girl that turned them into bad guys.

Most casanovas were once faithful to a lady who latter messed up.

Sleeping around makes no sense but I guess he is still too young to see the reality and I pray he does not get involved with one karashika that may bring out the bad side of him.

Does it even make sense to sleep around?

Find your spec and stay put. If she misbehaves then move on and if ta any point in your marriage you strongly feel like having another lady then get one sweet lady as a concubine, pay her bride price and enjoy yourself.

Life is too short abeg. #YOLO

Uncle lalasticlala.

Happy Sunday

Sorry Double thread.

Many times we have heard of Preachers talk about the need to accept Jesus as your lord and saviour in order to avoid hell but today I'm here to let you into some uncommon reasons why you need to embrace Jesus and after you are done reading this, you will definitely agree with me so here we go.

1. Don't be deceived, nobody truly loves you:

I believe you will be wondering if indeed nobody truly loves you but this is the simple truth. If you die today, nobody will follow you to the grave. Your Mum or Dad if still alive will definitely move on with their lives, your kids will move on, that your Girlfriend ,boyfriend, husband or wife that professes how they deeply love and can't live without you will move on faster than you can ever imagine with another person. Your friends and family members will only remember you once in a while and within a space of a week to a month, 99% of those you think love you so much will forget you ever existed.

But the only Person who truly loves you is Jesus so much that he laid down his life to save you and he will never give up on you as long as you have him as your lord and saviour.

2. Nothing that you have worked for or will work in this world is truly yours except your soul.

I believe this is very straightforward. It is ok to make billions whilst on earth, it is cool to be very wealthy and enjoy your life but as you do these you must always have it in mind that all you have, your money, cars, mansions, businesses, everything you have ever worked for in this life actually belong to someone else because you can only enjoy your lot for some time but one day you must leave everything to another person who may even squander everything but one thing that is yours forever is your soul. Your Soul never dies but with Jesus as your lord and saviour, your soul is forever secured and when you die, you care less about what you left behind because eternity with Jesus is over a trillion times more worthy than your earthly treasures.

Solomon said in Ecclesiastes 2:18-19

"I hated all the things I had toiled for under the sun, because I must leave them to the one who comes after me.  And who knows whether that person will be wise or foolish? Yet they will have control over all the fruit of my toil into which I have poured my effort and skill under the sun. This too is meaningless."


3. A pauper on earth with Christ is richer than all the billionaires of the world put together.

A pauper who has Jesus as lord and saviour is richer than all the combined rich men on earth without Jesus. This is very simple. King Solomon in this present day world is worth about $2Trillion which means all the networth of the ten richest men in the world is just about a tithe of his wealth yet he called all the wealth he had Vanity, a chase after the wind.. Because he had the epiphany of salvation which transcends beyond all the wealth in the world..

The bible made us understand that heaven is adorned with mansions made of gold, precious stones and even the streets of paradise are made of pure gold.....Revelation 21 :21 ''The twelve gates were twelve pearls, each gate made of a single pearl. The great street of the city was of gold, as pure as transparent glass.'' Now you need to understand this part for you to have a very clear picture of what we are talking about here...

We are talking about a perfect cubical golden city of unequivocal grandeur that is 1500miles long,1500miles wide and 1500miles high.. This means it will take an average Boeing 747 cruising at 300miles per hour about 15 hours to fly across the length, the breadth and height of this amazing golden city Now think about this...how much in earthly currency do you think will be enough to construct such a city of precious stones, Rear type of gold and Mansions of unequivocal quality?

If you die as a pauper but you have Jesus as lord and saviour, you automatically become extremely wealthy the moment you step your feet in paradise where you have access to mansions of unequivocal splendour, streets of gold and lots more but if you die as a billionaire without Jesus, you automatically lose all your status as you will never have access to paradise.

4. Your life here on earth is too short to enjoy the real life.

Do you know that 1000 years on earth is like a day in heaven? 2Peter 3:8 ‘But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day.'' ....So imagine yourself living on earth for even 100years it means you have only lived for 2hours 4mins in God's eyes but our souls have the ability to live beyond space and time so why not accept Jesus as lord and saviour and experience the phenomenal life, a life of eternity, a life without end and the best part is that you will live forever as royalty in a paradise.

5. You deserve more than the three hypocritical words and 10seconds silence.

One of the most hypocritical words ever written or said to someone is REST IN PEACE...even those who hate you and wish you dead will say and write these words once you are gone...and the minute silence which is actually 10seconds silence will be accorded to you that is if you are important enough to get that at any time...So after these words, what next? they forget you, some rejoice that you are gone and those close to you will start looking at the benefits of your death...But as long as you have Jesus as your lord and saviour, you care less even if the person that killed you wished you a peaceful eternal rest as you are already enjoying your eternal life with Christ in paradise.

6. You will be the one pitying the living when you die in Christ

Often times when people die, the rest of the world weeps and they get so sad because of this but the funny twist is that anyone who dies in Christ is in a better place, a place where there is no sorrow, weeping, pain, poverty, bad governance, unemployment .....and if those who die in Christ could communicate with those weeping on earth, they would gladly tell them to save their tears and in fact, they will be the ones to pity those who are still on this sinful, dangerous and wicked world.

It pays to have Jesus as your lord and saviour so the question is....''Will you accept him this moment?'' If Yes just read the words below out wherever you are on the surface of the earth and you will be saved.

''LORD JESUS, I COME TO YOU THIS MOMENT AND I ACCEPT THAT I AM A SINNER. I ACCEPT YOU AS MY LORD AND SAVIOUR,CLEANSE ME FROM ALL MY SINS. THANK YOU JESUS FOR SAVING ME.''

If you read these words out i say Congratulations. Your name is now written in the book of life. Don't ever give up your salvation because Jesus will never give up on you.

GOD BLESS.

Kingcalls:
Princess should also b arrested for child endangerment.... this is a definite set up...Princess must have told the girl what to do... this ijesha guys legal team need to hire professional lip reader.... its certain than Princess and ijesha fell out bitterly and she manipulativly crawled her way back to his life to set him up...

Dint be surprised that the girl was telling him how she will 4k him and she is no longer a baby and that led to him putting his hands on his head and clapping and screaming in surprise.... a good lawyer will let him off the hook

This is the twist bro..

Even if you lured by an "underage", it is not an excuse.

Hard pill to swallow but it is what it is.

Another twist to the whole thing is this.

If a 14year old lady lures and makes out with a 16year old boy, the case will be treated differently.

pekisdgee:
the bible says train up a child the way he should grow... base on what i saw baba ijesha never rape her... the girl was even ready for it... The girl needs to be flog she even went closer to him....the girl don dey shine congo bfr... baba ijesha never force her... No case on this matter.

See unfortunately, it is what it is

Child molestation it is and he has to answer for it.

If it is just about this video I would have kinda overlooked it but he is not meeting the girl for the first time,... HE HAS BEEN MOLESTING HER FROM AGE 7.

unfortunately we can't prove that but this one that the world has seen is enough to nail him.

But away from all these.. I want to ask this question...

Who pegged the age of maturity at 18?

Is 18 truly the right age?

Scientists have done their studies to understand that the right age of maturity is about 25 years whilst some quarters believe that once a lady starts menstruating, she is biologically mature.

In Islam I think a lady can be married at 14 and the discrepancy surrounding this matter is never ending.

Many of the men reading this have at a time committed statutory rape and they went away with it cos they were not found out and when I say statutory I mean a case where a man is unaware that the lady is below 18 or perhaps the lady lied to them.

I have seen many 14year olds that I'm even scared to approach cos they are way way bigger than me in stature and there are even 12 year olds that are already exposed to sex and will even train an adult man how to make love.

So what is the point? The world only follows a laid down rule or law without questioning.

In my opinion, pegging 18years as age 9f maturity is unrealistic cos maturity is multifaceted. Biological maturity begins when a guy starts producing sperm and a lady starts menstruating while mental maturity may not take place until mid 20s.

But as I wrote, the world only follows laid down rules like a sheeple.

viyon02:
Good innovation, he is a good product and good thinking.

I still prefer Osinbajo to Adeshina but he is not a bad idea.

Thablownmindset:
and how are the kids unfortunate for been born of Vado? God isn't that harsh, that's because if the kids were hell doomed for their Dad's choice then only the righteous will beget children's
don't be Naive and don't forget just maybe the kids are the ones God is gonna use to change his life so who are you to pass Judgement? wish your eyes are opened to the fact that Children's are Blessings then you will stop been hateful

Which one be vado again.

Congrats bro.

OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

Guy you no get problem o.. Infact you have hit jackpot.

All the advise she will give you will be in your favour.. Stick to her and love her with all your heart.. Laslas you will be glad you did.

fasho01:
How do these photos help redirect focus to positive things

Preacher practice what you preach

It is the norm now for ladies to post baseless pics and just attach whatever post comes to their heads whether it makes sense or not.

okomile:
Release him on bail

Charge him to court for judgement.

Media judgement na wah oooo

We shall rise again in zoogeria

Media judgement can be so annoying and demeaning..

You will be shocked to know that most people condemning him had done even worse things and even up till now we are not sure he did what he is accused of.

A viral video showed him begging but whoever released that video should also leak the one caught on cctv where he was molesting the said girl.

I'm not rooting for him in any way but I'm just pragmatic towards issues.

I'm not exonerating him but if it is a bailable offence then let him be bailed.

What he did was crazy but I just hate it when people condemn another person as if they are perfect.

Let justice prevail.

Some Ladies lack manners walahi.

Or wait o... Could it be what I'm thinking?

Could she be acting up as a result of you ignoring her without making any sexual overtures?

Anyways, whichever way, she lacks manners.

rotimioluwamuyi:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

All these evil ladies.

Why not tell her yourself that she should always dress decently? Guy be careful o cos to fall dey very easy.

davonlee:
https://www.nairaland.com/6521047/ive-been-diagnosed-stage-1

I went to a private hospital today for a more comprehensive diagnosis. I was told that from the symptoms I'm exhibiting and test results as well, it's best I undergo partial colectomy, because the cancer has grown deep into the layers of my colon wall, but not outside the colon wall yet. My family, as well as you guys have been of immense help, and I really appreciate all your advice. I'll be updating y'all on my progress. Never in my life did I ever think that this would happen to me. Sincerely, it feels like a dream to me. Thanks everyone.

It is well with you in Jesus name. AMEN.

None

Anytime I read about ladies getting scammed after the guy promises them marriage I kinda wonder.

Is marriage a do or die thing for ladies?

Yeye

Campaign after election.

Hardvance:
Those dudes that shot one short sci fi flick right?

GOD bless you, Nah dem.

With just smart phones, these guys made insanely high standard action flick.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z4dfVgFsjQc

There is this other group of talented guys in naija.

I forgot their name.

DSC7:
If you re dating one you can tell and if ask they will feel reluctant to open up but if they see that their secrets are safe with you, they will tell you... But u must not cheat or jilt them......

All these ogbanje thing tire me cos its like almost every lady is tagged ogbanje

DSC7:
Finally i am just tired of Dating Ogbanje girls.....


Ordinary babes are hardly attracted to me....



Once I set my eyes on an Ogbanje babe or she happens to see me first then forget it... many things would have gone down before we even start discussing way forward....


How do i stop getting attracted to Ogbanje girls?....


Share your experience........


Lalasticlala........

How do you know they are ogbanje

davonlee:
For about 1-2 months, I've been experiencing rectal discharge (a lump above my anus which brings out bloody mucur), constant weakness and pain in my abdominal area. Initially, I thought it was a disease called Hemorrhoids, because the symptoms are exactly the same, and I never imagined this could happen to me. Two nights ago, my stool was filled with dark red blood; so I had to quickly inform my parents. They advised I go for a full scale test. To cut the story short, I've been diagnosed with stage 1 colon cancer. I really need your prayers.

You have nothing to worry about.. Its stage one so you have a very good chance of surviving it of you seek the right medical attention.

miketayo:
Fast food destroys ur body too

Exactly my point.

When a habit becomes too much, it can destroy you...

Self servicing is a healthy habit some prole indulge in for medical reasons especially when they are single and at risk of having health issues as a result of lack of sex...

However if you indulge in sservice too much it becomes a destructive habit to you mentally and psychologically...

Same with eating and several other sinless acts that could be taken too far.

Smoking is not a sin in anyway but when you start smoking harmful substances then you have crossed the line.

essenjack:
Please I need a spiritual/Biblical answer to this question, cos in a society like ours, most Christians tends to judge and condemn smokers.
I smoke (only Marijuana) for obvious reason(s) known to me.

You are not sinning bro as long as your marijuaja is taken for a good purpose n the quantity you smoke does not destroy your organs

But the problem is that many people easily cross the line from smoking moderately to heavy smoking.

Smoking is a habit and a dangerous one but not a sin.

Nevertheless, because it destroys your body which is God's temple, we may call it a sinful habit but if you smoke a substance that does not destroy your body then you are good.

Crazy

Foodqueen:
Na waoh!

If u cannot beat them, join them.

Festus and Eedris are both greedy people.

All of una de form activist, once una de d government, things go get worse and una go sidon de look.

You Just wrote what's on my mind.